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writes:i need to know why my ex is not talking to me for some reason. because last month we had an argument but then i aplogised and she forgave me and said she would give me one more chance. once we had our argument she deleted me from msn but didnt block me and i asked her and she replied that i was getting on her nerves. but when we forgave eachother we started talking again like good friends. but days later i found that she blocked me on msn and i have tryed to add her as friend on facebook 5 times but still wont accept the friend request. i honestly dont understand why she is blocking me out of her life even though she told me that she would give me another chance. could she be trying to get over me or does she not really want to be my friend. will she ever talk to me again. please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2011): The fact is that your ex would be more interested in you if you actually blocked her. See how that works. She did not accept you as friend but she can still see your profile. If you truly want to burn her; BLOCK her. It is called doing a ONE UP. It is harsh but it will make her want you more. Look at the effect she is having on you.... I REST MY CASE
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (17 November 2009):
 5 times? FIVE times? Seriously? Are you rereading your own letter? Do you get that you are crowding the girl and that you are ACTUALLY broken up?
Stalking her isn't going to improve her opinion of you. Seriously. You need to chill out and give her some space and some time. If it is meant to be, you guys will get back together, and if it isn't written in the stars, then chasing after her and trying to contact her repeatedly isn't going to help...
And there actually is a point where it's annoying, and after that, it starts to get Creepy. DON'T let it go that far.
If I were in your shoes, I would want to salvage my pride a little and step away from the plate. You have to know when to give it up and call it quits.
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reader, PeanutButter  +, writes (17 November 2009):
 p.s. I actually deleted my ex from facebook, msn and myspace because it was just too much to see him and the things he was doing and who he was doing them with etc. Not because I wanted to be with him, but because it was just another string keeping us attached and I wanted a clean break. So, maybe she's trying to tell you something, i don't know.
Good luck xxxx
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reader, PeanutButter +, writes (17 November 2009):
It might just be easier for her to have a separate place she can be (albeit online) where she can have her space from you reguardless of whether you're getting along OK or not.
Give her the space that she has created for herself and wait for her to invite you back in.
It might be that this is a sign of things to come. Perhaps it is time to consider moving on, for your own sake?
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reader, whattodoabouther +, writes (17 November 2009):
Brother she is your ex girlfriend. If it has been a recent break up she will need time to get things right in her head for a while. Ex's dont go to being friends in a heart beat. Give her time. Yes it can be annoying because she is sending you suttle clues like "I am blocking you because I don't want to know anything about you right now." But lets be honest....how many ex's can become friends again? It is water under the bridge and you might as well accept that. Life goes on. Been there. Done that. Take care.
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