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writes:last night i went to a club with my sisters.there was this guy i kinda knew he said hi to me and gave him a hug.later on he kept on passing by me and talking to me and everything he would talk his lips were two inches away from mine.then he wanted to meet my sisters and i introduced them to him.he kept telling my sisters that he asked me to dance five times but i always said no.then his friend got in a fight wit some guy and he kept talking about how his friend always starts fights and how lame he was and i was trying to calm him down after all he did drink a little too much.then i decided to go dance wit him through out the dance he kept asking if i was alright i dont know wat that meant and then we went to sit down he kept saying how gorgeous i was. he kept kissing me on the cheek and he did some lip signs that he wanted to kiss me. next thing i know we were kissing then he kept on leaning in i dont know if he liked the kiss or not.the problem is that my friend says his a big player he'll be nice to your face but will diss u behind your back.so i asked him about it and all he said was u believe watever u want to believe.i havent heard from himthe question is was i a hit and run or did he actually have feelings for me? i dont want to be the first to contact him because i dont want to be too much.please help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2009): It's a club you go to get some action, you didn't really know him before so don't judge him but like a club is hardly the place to start a budding romance, so you were probably just a pull of the night.
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reader, Another_Kapiti  +, writes (17 November 2009):
 To be honest he does sound a little bit of a player (I'll use your term!) he's obviously garnered a reputation in the club scene! I wouldn't contact him first, who wants to be another notch on someone's belt?! If he comes to you, perhaps there's more than meets the eye, but please go carefully!On a totally innocent level, his lips may have been so close to yours as I imagine it was quite loud in the club and if you want to talk to someone, you usually have to get up close and personal! If you do arrange to meet up with him, make sure it's a public place so things don't get heated up too soon, make sure he's not just trying to get you into bed, you're worth too much for that!
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