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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've met this guy at a party and we instantly clicked and hooked up the same night. We've been together for nearly two months since then and everything was really great. He was really sweet and nice to me and things were going great for us and then out of the blue - he texts me and says he's met someone else and wants to break up. I was a complete mess for 3 days and then he instant messaged me and first we talked about random stuff for a few minutes. Then he confessed that the reason he broke up with me wasn't another girl, he was just afraid of commitment. He said he had a long term relationship that ended this summer and that girlfriend cheated on him (I know this is true, a friend told me all about it). He was afraid of getting hurt again, but once he lost me, he realized how much he actually cared. He said he really likes me and cares about me, he's stupid for doing what he did and wants me to take him back.Now I have no idea what to do. A part of me wants to make up with him so badly, because I really care about him; and a part of me doesn't because I don't know what to believe anymore. Maybe he's just leading me on and I'll end up hurt again.Help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2009): personaly I think u should give this guy another chance, Its not like he cheated on you he was very honest in the end and if he missed you then thats clear his really into you!! the insecure problem he has about bein cheated on you will need to work on..
you just got to think if you dont try again will you regret it!? maybe take things really slow this time go on few dates and see if you connect aswell as you did last time :)
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