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writes:So a few years back, a buddy and I got a little liquored up and ended up messing around. We both consider ourselves straight, but we both enjoyed what happened. We never talked about it. Just wasn't ever brought up. Since then, our friendship really didnt seem to change. We spoke and hung out every now and then like usual. About two months ago, he sent me a text (during the day, sober) saying that he wanted to try it again sometime. I said yes. Since then, I havent seen him at all. We flopped a few texts back and forth about cars and stuff, but the issue hasnt been brought up, and it seems like he's avoiding me now.Whats the deal? Why would he say that, then not go through with his own offer? Could it just be that he changed his mind about fooling around and doesnt know how to tell me, or could it be deeper... that he doesnt want things to change, or that he's afraid it could turn serious? His friendship is more important to me than anything, but I get the feeling that things already changed whether we like it or not, so I want to embrace the fun too.
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reader, Kat1235  +, writes (17 November 2009):
It sounds to me that your friend is a bit confused about his feelings, and possibly his sexuality. He needs space to relax and have a think about what to do, so give him space, but make sure he knows your there if he needs to chat.
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