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anonymous
writes:i was seeing this boy on/off for 2 years, he was my first love...But all he ever done was sleep with other girls, lie and put me down sometimes, but he was still caring and treated me ok i guess. now its been a year and im over him, im now in a relationship with an amazing boy who i have been with for ten months we are very close and we love eachother. he knows im with another boy now but now hes been saying stuff to my close mates about my boyfriend saying "i think her boyfriend has a problem with me". why is he saying stuff like this to my mates? my mates think its because he still cares deep down but im not sure, what do you think?...sometimes he pops up on msn and says "hows you and your boyfriend", i dont understand why he would ask that because hes my ex. i havent seen or spoken to him in a while, but when i bump into him i shake and feel weird things in my stomache does this mean im not truly over him? but then i think to myself i must be over him because i am seriously in love with this over boy hes my everything... i just want to know do you think my ex still cares and why do i shake when i see him?
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reader, Chippy2  +, writes (17 November 2009):
I dont think it means that you 'Love' him still - it could make you so uncomfy that you shake. Or it could be that you shake because subconsciously you remember that he treated you badly but you thought it was 'ok' you guess.
Either way - I think he is doing what he is for his own satisfaction of control - Yes he knows he is upsetting you.
Ignore him - hopefully he will give up or grow up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2009): yes you are still in love with him and still havn't got over him.That is how it is when you are jilted by someone you really loved. I think he knows how you feel and is only playing with your feelings to satisfy his ego.I say severe all contacts with him and avoid him completely and keep in mind he is selfish and cruel.
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