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writes:I really need some advice. My husband found out that I had a fling with someone else while me were separated. I have apologized and have never down played what I did. I want to know what to do? We do live together now but he is distant. Which I guess is very understandable, but how do I get him back. What I did was the biggest mistake of my life!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2009): part of the problem is he may be angry that you did not tell him when you first got back together so he could make a choice then. Instead he found out (on his own I persume?) after you had been back together and now it is harder for him to make the decision and he resents it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2009): He may just never get over it. A lot of people never do. Im not trying to say its impossible for him to get over it but you need to be prepared for the real possibility that he never will. There isn't much you can do. Be honest with him about it but don't reveal the details unnecessarily. It's a fine line to walk.
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reader, april1116 +, writes (17 November 2009):
 well i think you should let him no there were no real feelings involved and that you are really sorry and that you love him and that you wan to work things out between you to, sit him down and really communicate with him without letting it turn into an argument really tell and show him how you feel.
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