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writes:I have been dating this guy off and on for 2 years. This year has been great. He told me about this girl he had been friends with. He had told her about me when he first started to see me. Anyway he is friends with her whole family. He does not know I know things about this family. They are all just and do stupid stuff. This girl's so called friend is supposed to be sick, she supposely cant work, is on disability and on lots of depression Meds and pain meds. Well I have known that he had been talking to her for some time, he does not know I know and he has lied and said it was someone else he was talking to. This past weekend she called his mobile, he answered when I was with him. He told me it was her she said she felt like she needed to go to the hospital because of her pain, he tells me she is very sick she does nothing but sit at home all day and does not go out for days. She has family that live next door and they dont do anything for her. Well the other day he came to my house he had citty litte in his truck I asked him was that for his son to get the grease out of the drive way. He said no that it was for the girl. Then he goes to tell me that he went to get her trash and she said she needed cat litter. Then he tells me he would like for me to meet her. Well What to do! He said that I would like her. Wrong If she is looking for a pity party I can't help her. Should I meet this girl?? I think she could be trouble. He has told me they have never had sex they are just friends. What should I do... meet her. He says oh you would like her she is so cool. I think what I know that I have been told from a reiliable source is this bitch is a fruit cake and so is the rest of the family. I am an outsider in this community and they are not but I have one great contact person that knows their family and she has told me to be careful around them. What to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2009): I think you should meet her. Especially to find out more about this girl. And if your having thoughts that your boyfriend and this girl might be involved in more than a friendship, you should definitely try to find out more about her... besides you bf, looking into it yourself. And other people might have only seen her and never actually know her or ever spoken to her( so never listen to others if they're judging her by her looks) or by what they hear of her. It might be true but it could also be gossip and rumors. Like they say, "never judge a book by it's cover". Giver her a chance...
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (17 November 2009):
 If your source is reliable and has warned you to be careful around this 'friend' then perhaps you should steer clear, sound like you have it in for her anyhow so why make the situation worse. It all sounds a bit creepy to me!!!
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (17 November 2009):
 Nothing is as reliable as hearing things with your own ears or seeing them with your own eyes.
Make YOUR OWN decision about your boyfriend's friend. You've been with him for a while. Do you not trust his judgement in people?
Give her a chance with an open mind. You might be surprised.
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