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Should I take the leap and tell my boyfriend I love him?

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Question - (17 November 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 November 2009)
A female Trinidad and Tobago age 36-40, *eefee stush writes:

after alot of ups and downs in my relationship my bf and i made back up things are going really good but i have a problem telling him how i really feel because i am afraid to get hurt.i am thinking like this if i let him know that i love him he would take advantage of the situation,it's not like him to do it really but i am in a shell.but i love him alot should take the chance and let him know how i really feel or wait until i think the time is right?

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A female reader, Jazzy924 United States +, writes (18 November 2009):

yes i think you should tell him because he might feel the same way and plus iand plus if so he would see that you was brave enough to say it. also i was in the same situation because i didnt wand to ruin it but turns out he said it to me and i felt a big relief and now i cant stop saying it lol i hope this helps.

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A female reader, Kat1235 United Kingdom +, writes (17 November 2009):

I think you should wait a little, make sure the relationship is going strong.

But when the times right tell him, don't hold back. You'll regret it if you do.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (17 November 2009):

It doesn't sound to me like the time is right to say it. You're still having trust issues with him, so rather than say I love you yet, focus on continuing to fix what has happened before. You'll say I love you to him when you can trust him and when you feel secure.

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