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writes:Good day49 years old man been married for 21 years. Have three children 15, 18 and 19. My wife and I have made love three times in the last ten years. She won't discuss the problem or seek help. Full stop. I have gotten very down about it at times. Having said all that we get on as great friends. Almost like a very close sister brother relationship. No problems on that level.For the past year I have been seeing an old girlfriend. My first true love scenario. She split from me when we were 18 as she moved to a different part of the country. I never felt out of love with her.She has also has three teenagers and has been married for 23 years. Ironically her husband doesn't show too much love. I dunno what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2009): so you are married and having an affair with a married woman. maybe you have also contributed to the failure of your marriage. i don't think you have ever loved your wife. since you are having sex with your married lover, and she is still having sex with her hb, does this not bother you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes all good points but so hard to take the next step. Whatever that is....But hey thanks Gina.
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