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writes:Men: If your girlfriend or wife was suffering from severe depression, would you be more concerned with her state of mind, or getting laid?Furthermore: If the depression was supposedly because your words and actions towards her during the duration of the relationship, how would you show her that she does not need to fear you? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2009): Change cannot come from one person alone.If he does not change his ways leave him and find your own ways.Most of the time we don't realize relationship is not about who wins in the end but how to make THE RELATIONSHIP win.If you still fear him,he is still threatening you with actions or words,time to walk.
Your question seems confused.Please consult a psychiatrist before its too late.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (17 November 2009):
 You do realize that you will get different answers from guys who are mentally healthy, balanced and stable as opposed to guys who are misogynistic, selfish, jealous and abusive, right? The problem is that the latter group isn't particularly motivated to change, nor is it likely that they identify themselves as abusive.
Professional help has been asked for in this situation, I trust? It sure sounds like this couple needs it. Or perhaps, if the abuse continues, the abusee needs to free herself in order to be mentally healthy herself.
Good luck.
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