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writes:Hello :)Okay so I recently met a guy and his friends. He has a girlfriend, who is a friend of one of my best friends. Me and the guy talk alot, we're good friends. The other day my best friend told me that his girlfriend told him to stop talking to me. Why? Does she see me as a threat? Apparently he is extremely flirty, but I don't see why he should stop talking to me. I do miss talking to him. If it helps, they are both in the year above me at school. He often puts quotes that I said on facebook or something (I am a very humerous person) so that may have triggered the problem? I don't get why she is angry about it so can you please explain it to me? Also what should I do now? I want to carry on talking to him but I feel like I shouldn't, should I ask him about it? Thanks in advanced!
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reader, Shan25  +, writes (17 November 2009):
The girlfriend has her right to be concern. if you only friends with him then do not get involved in his relationship. if he tells you something about her dnt respond and change the subject. but it sounds like you might like him a little bit be careful because if you can be his little secret then thats you are putting out. you are stronger then that and if you was in a relationship how would you tell about a outside girl taking to your man
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reader, Kat1235 +, writes (17 November 2009):
She will see you as a threat. I've been in a similar situation. A lot of my close friends are male, and girls find that a bit threatening.
She should really trust her boyfriend to be friends with you, you've not done anything wrong. Just take a step back, don't get involved with there relationship. You could end up losing him as a friend.
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