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writes: Me and the guy I am with have been together for a little over a month now. He is a great guy, he makes me feel good about myself, he's ready and willing to do something with his life, and he has a lot of traits I am personally attracted to, he's perfect for me. There is only one problem, sex. He prematurely ejaculates, and he's not as big as I like and am used to. I understand he can't help what was given to him, and he does feel horrible because he knows he can't satisfy "his girl". I don't want to leave him because he has treated me 100% better than any other guy I have been with, but I like sex. I've been researching it online, but it is so scattered. I guess what I am asking is, any suggestions on how to keep him going longer or do any of those "bigger penis" pills work? Anything would be very much appreciated, and nothing could hurt. Thank You!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell thank you to the people that apparently understand where I'm coming from, trying new positions and working on the foreplay could help. Yes I am attracted to him. As for the "fool" comment I did say I did not want to leave him, I understand that it's not just about the sex, I've told him that. I asked this question, I want to find a way to help both of us, his confidence and my sexual needs and I believe you saying that was out of line.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2009): the thing is, besides his penis size, are you physically attracted to him?
i had the perfect boyfriend (was my best friend), which would make a perfect husband, but, no matter how much i tried, i just didnt feel the attraction...
I ended up hurtting him (cause he could feel i was not attracted and he'd think he wasnt good enough...), it didnt work out, and,as a bonus, i lost my best friend.... just hurtting a wonderful man...
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reader, Kat1235  +, writes (17 November 2009):
I think you just have to try different things and see what works for you guys.
Try a lot of foreplay before the intercourse, and try different positions where he might penetrate deeper.
Give the relationship time, as your chemistry grows I'm sure the sex will become a lot more enjoyable.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2009): If youre gonna let penis size get in the way of true love and a wonderful relationship, youre a fool.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (17 November 2009):
 Nope, they do not.And yes, things COULD hurt. Don't swallow drugs sold over the internet.
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