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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I’ve been having boy troubles! My crush that I have liked for almost 2 years, me and him has been friends. I think that my love for him is slowly fading away. I’m sick of the fact that he doesn’t pretend like he cares about me and I feel hate when I see him. My like for him has always made me cry because he was giving me mixed signals and many say he likes me. I’ve ask it in one of my older questions. His cousin told me that he wouldn’t admit ever to liking me but I’ve been waiting for that one day when he would tell me that he can’t wait any longer to be with me. I don’t know what to do because I want him to ask me and I’ve written to him on how I feel about our friendship and he never answers. I feel like he doesn’t support me or answer my emails or texts, when I got hurt he didn’t ask me if I was alright. I let out my anger on him today because someone told me to slap him and I didn’t think and punched him instead. I didn’t apologize because if he hurt me he wouldn’t apologize. My fairytale of me and him is ending? I don’t feel the same how can I fix this? I know that if I think he’s a jerk that I wouldn’t like him. I just held on to the fact that he liked me because I thought that I would finally have a boyfriend but hes never going to ask me and it hurts me. I will tell him how I feel soon!
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reader, Another_Kapiti  +, writes (18 November 2009):
 After reading your post, I think you know that by the way he treats you he doesn't feel that much for you.
I think you're more scared of never having a boyfriend again to break up with him. Don't sink to his level, you're better than that! He sounds too immature to be in a relationship anyway and you don't need someone like that.
Break it off now and you will meet someone better who will give you the fairytale relationship you deserve. Just bear in mind that no relationship is perfect however, there will be hurdles that you can overcome.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (17 November 2009):
Tell him straight that you fancy him. If he likes that, he'll make it known. If he doens't, then you'll need to move on. the problem is that he may not know that you really like him, or he may be immature and not sure what to do. I don't think you hate him, I think you're more frustrated. You need to tell him straigh to his face that you fancy him.
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