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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My husband stopped sex; having erection problems

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16 June 2009 (F)

age - My husband stopped having sex with me. Two years ago. I don't know why/. He is in good health, and only 45. He also does not get an erection ,when tries it sometimes. It's been like this two years now.... He does have night erections. He does not want to talk about it..... (93 words)

She doesn't want me near her house? Why?

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16 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, Ive got a small dilema which I hope some of you people can help me with. I still live with my parents (I know im too old but no jokes please lol) and my girlfriend lives with her Dad. My girlfriend only stayes at her dads 3 nights a week, as the rest of the time is... (461 words)

How do I help her orgasm?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

16 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello! this is my first post here, and I'd really appreciate some help. I've had a hard time getting my girlfriend, whom i love very much, to orgasm. we haven't had intercourse (she's very religious and we aren't anywhere near likely to marry soon) but I've tried stimulatin... (153 words)

Pale skin and dark hair look beautiful to you?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

16 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok this might be a silly question but I really need to figure this out. Summer is here ! I have been tanning for a couple of years but think I should stop because of all the skin cancer issues that it can cause. Plus the money issues i'm having at the moment. The thing is I'm ... (131 words)

Another shot at our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

16 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there here is the email exchange between me and my boyfriend of three months. We have decided to give our relationship a shot, it is long distance and when I asked him he was still seeing someone else, and I am not happy with this kind of arrangement, he admitted and sai... (1402 words)

He and his son has drinking problems and dislikes my sister

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16 June 2009 (F)

age - My husband has a drinking problem. His son, 28, drinks too. I hate when his son comes home because they drink together.Some times I get so angry that I can act really nasty. My husband gets upset because I bring my sister to our house and I am very close with my family. ... (72 words)

Long term or some fun?

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16 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Just to help, I'm 16 going on 17, still have my v-plates, not a single good relationship because I'm terrible with them, I'm not your typical guy.. Anyway I'm sort of seeing someone who I kind of have feelings for but I just don't see us having a secure relationship. I've been... (100 words)

Cuts around my clitoris and discharge

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

16 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I use the depo injectiong as my form of birth control and usually after having the injection for a few day i got a sort of yeast infection [Thick white discharge around the clitoris but not itching] It usually lasted a few days then left. But for the past few months its been ... (220 words)

I need to cheer up but just cant!!

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16 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok ive been trying to find a vent and im out of ideas so let the internet pick at my problem, ok im a 23 year old engineer and I was dating a girl for over a year when we decided we should move in togther. All was good or so I thought I went to work and she was on and off work ... (360 words)

He used the pull-out method and I could be pregnant

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well im 13 years old and my boyfriend is 16 and we had sex without a condom... he pulled out b4 he came but i found out that i can still get pregnat... im really scared... im confused and i dont know wat to do... i dont want to make my boyfriend take care of a baby just cuz of ... (77 words)

He believes the distance is enough a reason to break up, but...

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I practically lived together for a year and a half. He didn't express any unhappiness with me.He moved from Ohio to California for a job and two weeks later broke up with me. He says he still loves me, and he is still attracted to me and he cried the entire ... (75 words)

He is distant from me, yet I want to be with him

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my partner for 6 months, thingz were great then i found out a month into the relasionship that he was still with his ex, we over come that and he split up from her, and things were great for a short while, now i feel that he is rejecting me all the time, he ... (123 words)

I'm confused about what a "ladies' man" means

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

16 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - last weekend i went to a party and met a guy. it started out by us just talking, and by the end of the night we had kissed a few times. we wern't drinking all that much, i was buzzed and he had to drive so he'd only had a few. i've talked to him since then on msn, and he seems ... (258 words)

Awesome new foreplay tricks without intercourse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

16 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi , well i know this guy for like 8 months and i like him so much , in the first 4 months we kissed and every thing the problem is that i feel that our relation ship become boring since i dont wanna have sex with him its just that i want to learn new tricks but without having ... (82 words)

How does he get 11" out of 5 or 6?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

16 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey! this is quite an embarrassing question - its about my b/f - lets call him todd. Right so Todd is always boasting about how big his penis is. ... according to him its around 11 inches. I knew he was being over the top and it wasn't until the other night when he had just ... (141 words)

Can 2 people with such different views/opinions get along?

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. Sorry this is a bit long! I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and things have been great! we are not only in a relationship but recently we seem to have begun a good and deep friendship too. We've started to get much closer. We tell one another all our thoughts... (280 words)

Husband secretly getting ready to bolt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

16 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I found a new passport that my husband received (and hid) yesterday. We have had our problems based upon alcohol and his verbal abuse but he has been adamant about how much he loves me and moving forward with working things out. We misplaced both our passports last year when ... (128 words)

Confused! Guy like me but I never seem to get dates!

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am so confused. I don't know if there is something wrong with me or what. I feel that there must be. I am nearing 25 and I have never had a real relationship. Guys are attracted to me. I am not ugly. I am not skinny, but not fat either. I have lots of physical qualiti... (699 words)

How do I get him to not be afraid of marriage?

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend doesnt or is afriad to get married, because his aunt, uncle, grandmother, cousin and dad's all first marriages didnt work out. And i dont know what to do or say to help him get out of the fear that ours isnt going to be that way or convince him that he cant base ... (90 words)

What's going on with my guy friend?

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - The most unexpexted thing happened today! My guy friend has been acting like I don't exist, well today I knew that my friend had to stay after so I would be stuck with him on the ride home. When I get on the bus he sat in the seat next to me and we talked to each other and ... (226 words)

When should I take a pregnancy test?

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16 June 2009 (?) age 30-35 - so i had unprotected sex 4 days ago and he said he would pull out before he came and he did he came all over me but im still afraid that somehow some could have gotten inside. if you think i could be pregnant how long do i wait before i can take a pregnancy test?... (56 words)

What would you label my sexuality?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

16 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - The last time my boyfriend went down on me in order to cum i had to imagine it was a girl doing it... Ive never been with a girl before but could this mean im bi? I feel bad for my boyfriend... :/... (45 words)

I am infatuated with a 20-year-old virgin.

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this is really weird for me. i am 20 years old; i am the type of girl that has no problem with men whatsoever, i have game, outgoing, flirty, laidback, what most guys want. i met this guy, lets say hes Andy, from my close friend, lets say john. i go to school with john... (410 words)

Girlfriend going through depression..trying to hep her but I don't seem to be!

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16 June 2009 (M)

- things between my girlfriend and I are falling apart. She's going through depression and I've tried all I can to support her. I'll give her space and then she gets mad at me for not talking to her. Then I'll be there to support her and she looks at me as if she wants nothing ... (104 words)

My boyfriend accidentally called me his ex's name

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in a happy lovong relationship with my boyfriend however the other day we were laying in bed together and i was randomly babbling (Something i do often :$) and he called me his Ex's name. I looked horrified and said what :| and he didnt deny it just apologised immediatley ... (123 words)

I'm lost for new friends

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Lately at school I have sometimes been feeling isolated by my friends. It's not all the time, but some days I feel like they don't want to be around me or just find everything I do annoying or stupid, even if they do similar things. They might give me funny looks or give me one ... (290 words)

I am a wretched regretful person

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i feel so wretched. heres my story. in 1999 i started work at a job where i met someone i started dating-it became pretty serious quickly and we got engaged and about a year later got a house together in 2000. around 2001 i met a guy at work and i cant explain it we bec... (336 words)

All the other little things is putting a wedge between us

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for about one and a half years now. There were ups and downs but we mangaed to stay together. He is really nice and caring now after all the arguements. Except that he still dislike some of my guy friends (I've known some of them for years and now I ... (380 words)

Do I stay with a husband I don't trust or go with a man who really hurt?

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I was involved with a man for a short time (just over a month) I had waited 17 years to really give my heart to another man. This man sparked everything inside of me and I fell head over hills in love with him. He (we) talked about moving in with each other and starting our ... (411 words)

Is he being friendly or is he interested?

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So basically I've never met a guy that I've recently started talking to through text. We have mutual friends and go to the same college. Anyways, we started talking on facebook and then he asked for my number. After that we've texted everyday except 2 and it's been going on for ... (384 words)

Condom allergies!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

16 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - well, me and my boyfriend haven't been going out long, but we've both decided that we want to have sex, but there's one slight problem. My boyfrind is allergic to condoms! what can i do to prevent me from getting pregnant ?! HELP A.S.A.P !! [MOD NOTE Posters age is 13]... (56 words)

I'm mind boggled about girls!

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16 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - 1) if a girl meets you for a first time and creates a talk with u.and at the end you said bye to each other does it mean she is interested in you.from then henceforth you became friends and starts behaving friendly to each other. 2) when i laugh or smile it cause most girls i ... (116 words)

I want to put a label on my sexuality

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

16 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay im a 16 year old girl in 10th grade and i know that i like guys but sometimes i get a feeling of attraction to girls and i just dont know if i am bisexual or really what sexuallity i have so i was wondering how you know if you are bisexual because im pretty sure i am but i ... (129 words)

I slept with my ex as she doesn't really like the guy she's with

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16 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I had an argument with my exGF after we had sex. I told her she really didnt love the guy she's going out with now, because she cheated on him. She told me I was nobody and I just laughed and said that wasn't what she was yelling when were doing it. Even though we broke up, ... (83 words)

My dad tries to control my life! I've had it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

16 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i need some advice. i've posted on here about my situation, i'm a student studying nursing, and have been at uni for 9 months. when i started uni i lost my nana and lost all battle to do this course, since then it's slowly gone down hill. i am doing ok at the course, but i want ... (267 words)

I can't stop fancying my girlfriend's best friend

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16 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I cant stop fancying on my girlfriend's bestfriend. I've heard from others recently that she like some other guy. I started to feel sort of jealous. But i know that the other guy is about to start a relationship with another girl. What should i do? I felt like my girlfriend ... (59 words)

I don't think he feels the same way anymore

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont understand this really, it might even be confusing. Im in an LDR. We text eachother because neither of us like to talk on the phone, anyways he responds to me in one word and he makes it seem like he doesnt care. Yeah i understand you cant express your emotions fu... (166 words)

My friend and girlfriend on the phone

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

16 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello all....well me and my girlfriend got into it because of another fight and i told my friend to call her on 3 way so i can hear her voice (She wouldnt pick up she was mad at me)...when they started to talk i noticed how she acted..when he told her something she sounded ... (311 words)

He's off having fun, and I'm stuck at home, pregnant with his baby!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

16 June 2009 (F)

- Me and my partner are expecting a baby that is due in 2 months, we’re both 21. Basically the problem is that he is still going out a lot (5-6 times a week) playing sports and going out, and I have no life! Iv had to move into his parents house 100 miles away from where I ... (354 words)

Is this a case of emotional abuse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

16 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok I'm gonna try to make this brief. Ive been with a man since I was 16, married at 19 now 31. We have kids together. I have always been a stay at home mom for the past 10 years. Ive had some part time jobs on and off but nothing serious. Over the years we have had ALOT of ... (567 words)

Did I give his ego too much of a boost?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

16 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Was this a bad move? I don't think so..but curious about what others think. Ok, so I went to a family wedding without my boyfriend. He had a prior engagement. Anyways, I thought of putting on some sexy lingerie for when I saw him the next day. He always initiates things... (168 words)

Should I tell my wonderful husband all about my troubled past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

16 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 36 and married for 7 years to a wonderful, wonderful man. 2 years into our marriage I slept with another man - it happened twice, a month apart. looking back, a number of things were happening in my life. I had left my country to follow my husband to his; I was unhappy ... (648 words)

I don't love him - what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

16 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and four months. I do not love him, but I care about him alot. I know he loves me, and this hurts him to know this. I feel horrible for feeling this way. I have had bad relationships in the past and I believe this is why I cannot... (97 words)

Why are my cousins ignoring me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

16 June 2009 (F)

age - When my husband and I got married back last September, I invited all my cousins and their families (I have over 30 first cousins). Most all of them sent either gifts or well wishes and a few did attend. However, I have three cousins who are probably closer to me than any of ... (307 words)

Am I being too cold towards him?

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16 June 2009 (F) - Hi, I had met a wonderful guy from internet, we date once, on the whole it was nice, he's a gentle and caring guy, I shall say he is a potential guy that I'm longing for...as I'm a abit shy towards new friend, most of the time he talked and I just listen, he shared with me a... (330 words)

I miss my girlfriend when she is not around me

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2306 days ago

16 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hi guys, this is going to sound really pathettic. but i really miss my girlfriend. we are still together and i see her every weekend, but through the week i just miss her so bad. i feel down and just cant really be bothered with anything else. i love her with all my heart, and ... (218 words)

She consumes every aspect of my life!

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16 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i think im in love,i told the girl that ive fancied for over a year how i felt about her, we've known each other for a while, i enjoy being around her, listening to her, talking to her, just being with her makes me happy. i get that whole feeling of butterflys in my stomach, ... (624 words)

I love her and want commitment, but she doesn't seem to feel the same

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

16 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - So where to begin...I guess five years back when I met this girl I swore would become my wife...She is from Italy and is very beautiful! She likes to flaunt her ass around and attract other guys attention but denies knowing this! Through the five years she has told me to go ... (291 words)

Worried about Swine Flu, looking for reassurance

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, Alright I know it's near enough impossible that I have it but I'm quite worried now. I read the symptoms for swine flu and I have a few of them, now I know it's more than likely a cold or some sort of flu - or it could maybe be my body reacting to stress that I've bee... (117 words)

I cancelled the wedding due to serious doubts, but he is crying and begging..please help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

16 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so I have been with my fiance for 3 years now and everything has been wonderful. Just this past weekend I have cancelled our wedding which was to happen in 3months from now. He is 7 years older then I am and lately I have been feeling distant from our relationship, I have ... (624 words)

I just wanted fun with her, now she loves me...and she has a boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

16 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im 24... not sure if im bi. i love men, but occasionally would have "fun" with women. i dont wish to label myself. a year ago i got to know this woman at a birthday bash, let's call her gwen, she's the gf of one of my male friend.. she's nice, beautiful, smart and classy... (604 words)

Great boyfriend, but I feel like I don't deserve him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

16 June 2009 (F)

- I know this may sound stupid, but its how I feel. I feel like I dont deserve my bf. He is soooo great to me. He is unbelieveably amazing. Ive never had a bf like him before. All my ex bf abused me physically, emotionally and sexually. After a while, I begun to feel like it was ... (265 words)

I can't climax through oral sex and I don't want her to feel like a failure

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

16 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i have this great woman who i have asked to marry me (she said yes). There is just a small problem, she really wants me to climax while she gives me oral sex, I can get right to the edge of no return but cant go over the egde. I have seen a a question like mine on here but the ... (129 words)

Why are my periods suddenly different?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

16 June 2009 (F)

- Hey guys. Just wanting any advice really. I am on Microgynon pill and have been for about 4 years from the age of 17. My periods usually come like clockwork, usually quite heavy and suffer badly from period pains. My last two periods have been totally different though, ... (136 words)

Are there any parents out there with ADHD children? Need some support!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

16 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay I know this isn't a relationship question, and I've already posted this on the parents site, but are there any parents out there with ADHD children? It seems nobody understands what I'm going through and I'd just love to chat to somebody that does! x... (46 words)

My boyfriend is in jail and I slept with my ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

16 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 18 and my boyfriend went to jail and I had sex with my ex boyfriend. He asked me and I told him everything.now he's having a problem trusting me again. What should I do to get him to trust me again ... (45 words)

Threesome? But it could cause some serious problems!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

16 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'll try to make this short, but it's really confusing... I dated Amber in college. The sex was great, but we had nothing else in common, so we had a fuckbuddy deal. During that time she started dating my best friend Blaine. Amber and Blaine got married the next year. ... (505 words)

He's always saying he needs space but this time I think its over

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 4.5 years, we had a rocky start and for most of the years a pattern seemed to follow where we would tell me that he needed some space. I would then give it to him and after a few days we would get back together and things would be great. ... (229 words)

When I have sex with my b/f I often think of other guys!

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16 June 2009 (F) age 36-40 - im 24 year old and i m asian. ive dated my bf for 5 years and i was his first but he was not my first. i love him alot. he told me he had cheated on me before and that was a year ago. i forgave him. last weekend i went to vegas with my friends. we went to the bar and i met ... (154 words)

After saying he wanted to marry me, he then changed his mind and has broken up with me

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I had been going out with my boyfriend for over two years (he is 27 and I am 22). He is the love of my life. We had our ups and downs through the years, but were always there for each other. We started talking about the future gradually and he said I was the one for him.... (719 words)

Did I betray his trust by talking to our friend about things?

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - This guy and I have been chatting via facebook and e-mail for over three months now. We met twice in person and he's friends with my best friend - they work for the same company and spent three months away from home on course together. For the past month or so things have b... (471 words)

I don't want to be his girlfriend because he cheats!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

16 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need an advice about my relationship. I have been in this relationship since Dec 2008. He has certainly been more than just a loving and caring person. He has always loved me like a child and been very tender towards me. But this is the second time I had given him this ... (325 words)

Why are the majority of men bad in bed?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

16 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - If all men supposedly view porn (which seems to be the consensus on this site) and it is supposed to give you hints and tips to spice up your sex life (isn't this what all guys say), then why is it the majority of men are crap in bed. This was a poll taken by me asking all my ... (121 words)

Was he just looking for a friends with benefits from me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

16 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - riight this is quite long and weird. i've been texting this guy we'll call him R well i've been texting R for a few daus he recently found me again on facebook i added him a few years ago on myspace. so anyways we got talking we been texting. so today we were texting he wa... (375 words)

How can I keep this relationship going further?

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Right now i am fighting for my relationship with my boyfriend and making it work. i care soo much about him, a day before our 3rd month he told me he wasnt feeling it anymore and wanted to break up with me. which was 2 weeks ago and i honestly yes do think its my doing, ive ... (177 words)

I just don't want to sit around and wait for him

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i need help!! there is this boy ive been hooking up with recently. its complicated because ive known him since i was born...his dad is my dads best friend and he is also 22 (actually his 23 bday is today) and im turning 18 in a month. he is a buisness man and also works ... (391 words)

What should I write in my crushes year book?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

16 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - okay, so my crush gave me her yearbook to sign, and i'm thinking now could be the chance to let her know how i feel, but what should i write? any ideas? ... (34 words)

Things seem to be falling apart, am I overreacting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

16 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for almost 2 yrs now, and I'm only 21. I love my husband dearly, and I would do anything for him. And there was a time when I knew that he fealt the same way about me. But now, well, I'm just not sure. Things seem to be falling apart around me and I need to ... (778 words)

I don't want to have sex with alot of people!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

16 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently got out of a six year relationship, this guy was the first only person ive ever slept with. Im a single mom of two, now and am trying to move on. I am old fashioned, had my ex been a better man I would've been happy having only 1 sex partner my entire life. Now that ... (185 words)

My ex wants me to be her best friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

16 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - (She's 20 and i'm 19 and she's in SF and i'm in OC) Ok so me and my gf were going out for 1 year and 3 months and we were absolutely happy until she started having doubts for all the wrong reasons and to elaborate the doubts were never real doubts they were just a front for... (173 words)

Does she love me anymore? I feel distance

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16 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I. I had a girlfriend. she was at first the one who wants to be with me. So, I accepted her...at first we're happy to be together. but when time passes, i felt hard to communicate to her. She said she had difficulties in giving out her feels, I tolerate with it. Later on, ... (186 words)

I feel horrible even thinking about him liking someone else

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am his first girlfriend, his first kiss ect. Im 16 he is 21. We've know each other since I was born but I cant help but be jelous of the girls he used to like. He's only like two other girls, They both have boyfriends and he rarely sees them but they are still friends. I know ... (91 words)

WHAT does my ex want?

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16 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Here it is in a nutshell. My ex-girlfriend and I were together for about 1 1/2 years. She broke up with me about 8 years ago, it was not a very pretty breakup. She wanted it 100% and I wanted to keep her 100%. Since the time that we broke up, I found a new girl who I am ... (368 words)

He says he wants us both, I can't trust him

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so here's the deal. I am in a long distance relationship with the guy who is my best friend. I have been with him for over 2 years. I have known him for more than 3 years. About six months ago, he cheated on me. He kissed another girl. I was very upset and we were havi... (628 words)

It hurts when he says nothing after I tell him I love him

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing a guy for just over a year now. He's sweet, he's caring and he's different from any other guy I've dated. I've told him that I love him on numerous occassions but he never says anything back? It didn't bother me at first, but its starting to get me down a l... (113 words)

What made her feelings about me change?

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16 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I been praying to God that I find that girl that is right for me. And on my friends last day of school, he wanted me to come with him to his school, but as much as i didnt want to go i still went, so when we made our first attempt to go into the school it failed, and my friend ... (422 words)

I've realised I married my best friend, not someone I'm attracted to

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 26 and just had my one year anniversary. My husband and I have been together for seven years. I've realized I married my bestfriend and not someone I'm attracted to. We have never had a great sex life and now I feel like I'm really losing out on something. Part of me thinks ... (88 words)

I don't want to disappoint my parents. Do I have to abort my baby?

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am a 2 weeks delayed from now im really afraid that im pregnant since we had sex wd my bf always without protection..my bf said that he will support me whatever happens..the problem is im on my way to my graduation and im on my ojt ryt now,i dnt wnt to dissapoint my ... (64 words)

I don't want to fall for temptation, what should I do?

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my bf of almost 2 yrs about 6 months ago.I'm a virgin but recently i ve gotten my self involved with very close 2 sex experiences like i went 2 c my ex recently,we kissed,he touched every part of my body,put his penis bw my clitoris and did the whole movement ... (103 words)

My girlfriend and sister got into a fight...how to fix this?

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16 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I went to my sister's fiancé's birthday with my girlfriend of 4 years. My sister and girlfriend don't get along that well for reason, They fight until me or her fiance break it up. My sister can't have any kids because she had a eating disorder in high school (she's recovered ... (127 words)

I feel embarrassed we met on a dating website

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16 June 2009 (F)

- Me and my bf met through an internet dating website. I am dreading all the questions that will come from my friends and family when they ask "how did you two meet?". I feel a bit embarrased that thats how we met. People often associate sleezy people and those who are desperate ... (204 words)

How do I ask my cousin out without ruining our relationship?

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16 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i have an eye for my cousin who i have been attracted to for 2 years. she is beautiful and i am 1 year older than her. I dont see her often because she lives 4 hours from me. how do i ask her out without making a fool of myself and ruining our relationship.... (55 words)

What did his early-morning texts mean?

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - There is a guy at work who I am attracted to. We have a great friendship, a mutual connection, and really enjoy each others company. We've drunkenly hooked up once in the past, but it hasn't happened since. He's asked me to take a class with him, and would text me at least ... (264 words)

I have feelings for a 15 year old boy...is this wrong?

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm very confused about something but I'm scared that if I tell someone they'll think a lot less of me, so I'm seeking advice online. I've realized I've developed feelings for a 15 year old child. 3 years ago when I was 18, there was a 15 year boy who was interested in me, b... (594 words)

I broke things off with him, now how do I stick with it?

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend and I have been on and off since November. I realized that this is not healthy for me nor him, and I am really unhappy being with him, but I some how always find my way back to him, and he swoons me with all his, 'i promise i'll change, i'm sorry, i love yo... (221 words)

My ex might want me back, but what about my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

16 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so.. I'm currently in a relationship and have been for 9months, and still feel like I haven't fallen inlove with him or strong feelings for him, in a way I feel I'm being unfair to him because I dont feel the same way as he feels about me. My ex and I have been friends for... (288 words)

Is he not ready for a relationship? Or just not into me?

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, i broke up with my ex about 3 weeks ago. we were good for like 3 months and the he started to act weird, kinda distant. I tried to give him space and didn't hassle him. the weekend before we broke up we had a drunken conversation where he told me that he wants to be my bo... (435 words)

Guys, what does it mean?

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - If a girl is standing somewhere focus on something, not really paying attention, and a guy reaches over her to get something and press his body against her butt. The girl took it as an accident and thought nothing of it. Then he did it again, and she felt something hard ... (130 words)

Insecure myself, and unsure how to deal with a b/f who's into gay porn

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I’ve got a lot on my mind, so I'm just going to spew words all over the page…. I am in love with being in love; I will do anything to make the person I love happy. I’ve had many relationships but I’ve only had 2 serious relationships in my life. One being my first... (685 words)

What do you call a cheater?

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16 June 2009 (M)

age - A few years ago I caught my wife having an affair with a co worker of hers. When I caught her I called her a slut. She became very angry I said that and has not to this day let go of me using that word. Why? Isn't a cheater a slut?... (52 words)

I'm obsessing about her sexual past

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

16 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been together for a little under a year and I find myself obsessing about her sexual past. We are both in our late 20s, so we’ve been through the highschool, college, and post-college freedom experiences. I’m sure that she has skeletons in the closet, ... (258 words)

Help with getting an abortion?

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - please help me to abort dz baby im not yet ready for this ... (15 words)

Is this just a way of keeping me around with no strings?

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i meet the most wounderful guy 8mons ago. we got along great until i had a miscarrage. he became very distant and we started arguing alot. we decided to break up and give ourselves time to think. we didnt change anything. we still were together every wkend he stayed at my house ... (353 words)

Afraid I might be pregnant -- where to get help?

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, here it goes... i had sex a week a..on june 8...and today is june 15..but anywz it was prtoected but im still scared im might be pregnant..i ve been gettin nasuaes and frequent urination, and cramps..and withdrawl...and i did nt get my period its alwyas irregular i never no... (99 words)

Ideas on pleasurable masterbation without a toy?

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been masturbating for a while. Ive been using my hands... but Ive gotten bored of my hands and my mom found my dildo so I cant have any sex toys a around the house. what else can i use to masturbate and gain pleasure?... (46 words)

Without parental consent...WHERE can one get tested?

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Does anyone know where you can get tested for stds without parental consent?... (13 words)

What's the best way to get my ex back?

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What's the best way to get my ex back?? We broke up around the middle of may of this year (2009). Our breakup wasn't tough or dramatic, we just sorta agreed on it (at the time I kinda wanted to break up as well as him). But I'd say less then a week after it happened I realized... (230 words)

My socially-retarded brother invades our privacy

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16 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Anytime my girlfriend of 3 years comes over to my place (we usual go in my room), my brother/roommate likes to walk in on (he picks the lock) me and my girlfriend when we're making love, and splash us with a bucket of water (we're usually in our underwear but not always and I ... (134 words)

My stepbrother is acting really weird around me!

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16 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi,about 9 months ago,my mom married another man since my dad passed away.Well,my stepfather is really nice and he treated me like his own son when we moved into their house.The problem is,its his son,My stepbrother.He's 19(i think) and im nearly 17.He's nice but lately he's ... (132 words)

I let my past hurt our relationship and I want him back!

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Anwar and I met in high school back in 1998-1999. We always had a crush on eachother. We lost contact after high school although I never stopped thinking about him. 9 1/2 years later, I ran into an friend/ old classmate oh his and she gladly gave me his phonenumber. Anwar ... (379 words)

I've said my ex's names during sex and now my husband doesn't trust me

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband and have been married for just over a week. Before we got married i lied about something stupid and ever since we have problems. I never cheated on him nor do i want too. There has been a couple of times that i have said my ex's name during sex or someone elses. I ... (108 words)

Did I really turn him gay or was he gay all along?

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16 June 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I know it's long, but I plan on responding to anyone who responds/offers advice. So I met this guy about 5 months ago and we hit it off great. We became pretty close friends. He was straight, I am gay but not a lot of people know about me. I don't consider myself in the closet ... (839 words)

Heartbroken at 40?

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - this has been going on for months now. at first i must admit i was not interested in him, and, suddenly, i found myself enjoying when he's around. he's 37, i am 41.(it's complicated already without mentioning i am a single mom with preschoolers lol) he seem to be responding to ... (204 words)

I slept with my best friend's ex boyfriend, should I tell her or not?

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I dont know how to say this... but I dont know if i should tell my best friend about i have slept with her ex boyfriend once even i dont remember that night at all. its not like i have feeling for him... my ass! but... my best friend have a new boyfriend, they have been ... (81 words)

Fiance watches porn every day but turns me down for sex

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ello all. My fiance who I've been with for 5 years and counting has been watching porn EVERY day that I'm not home, which can be 7 days a week. But I'm only gone for about 3-4 hrs at a time. We had this issue before and it seemed to go away but now its come back and I'm not ... (300 words)

I'm sleeping with my ex but falling hard for her again

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16 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - HI me and my ex GF dated for about a little over a year, it all came crashing down in April when we broke up over her accusing me of being too controlling and me accusing her of not doing enough. well about a month ago we started talking, and we decided we could sleep together ... (148 words)

Fatigue a sign of pregnancy?

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay here it goes. Recently I lost my virginity friday and I had sex today. I'm young so pregnancy really scares me, mainly because I had a friend become pregnant and I see the struggles she endures as she is young also. I take very high precaution with this, I am on the pill; ... (151 words)

He wants me to squirt but I'm not sure how?

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My fella wants to make me squirt, and im really open to the idea. the only thing is, a fair few times ive been really close, (with the sensation of needing to pee) and tensed up because im scared i will. are there any ways to ensure i wont? iv heard there are certain exercise... (68 words)

My parents are so strict, I feel unsafe in my own home.

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, this is gonna sound silly to allot of people who have the freedom of their lives but this is a big problem for me! I'm 20 years old and I live at home and am in my first year of university. I have a uni home and a family home and my family are amazing nice people but they... (384 words)

I have strong discharge and a smell, what could be causing these "down there" issues?

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, erm, well im 17 years old and ive been sexually active for just over 6 months. ive always used a condom, im on the pill and ive only had one sexual partner, who told me i was his only sexual partner too. recently ive started getting a lot of discharge. ive always had some, ... (169 words)

Always left wanting...

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16 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been married for seven years and have been together for 13. In the beginning, like all young couples, there was plenty of sex. Even leading up to our marriage we still had what I would call a healthy sex life. However it has really been all down hill since. ... (334 words)

Crippling penis insecurity... how can I improve my sex life when I'm working with a thinner dick?

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16 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm not really sure where to start here, so I guess I'll jump right in. I have always experienced severe, crippling insecurities involving the whole 'size' issue... it has really consumed me as of late. Although my length is slightly above average, 6.1-6.9 in. depending ... (922 words)

MEN please give me your opinion. What does "Seeing" someone really mean???

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I finally got the guy I wanted, but I don't know if it's the right nature of relationship I wanted, though the potential is there. We dated about two years back but it was after his ex of two years had dumped him after cheating, so I was sort of a rebound I suppose. We o... (540 words)

Should I date someone by best friend used to like?

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16 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - should I date someone who my best friend really liked years ago but they were not in a relationship, they just messed around?... (23 words)