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writes:Hey, I. I had a girlfriend. she was at first the one who wants to be with me. So, I accepted her...at first we're happy to be together. but when time passes, i felt hard to communicate to her. She said she had difficulties in giving out her feels, I tolerate with it. Later on, a friend who is quite close to her, proposed. When she was on a tour to somewhere away....She told me she rejected it. but she starts to feel confused about her feelings for me. I felt terrible. She said she needed time for her to regain her feelings for me. She said she felt alone there and the man is the one who take care of her....she said she almost fall for it..but she thinks of me and rejected. She is now confused.I felt hurt now. She said trust her...she still love me. Does she still love me? Or she's not meant to be mine? Or I'm not special for her anymore?What should I do? I need your help...thanks.... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2009): . feel so terrible and lonely now.... she doesn't dare to look into my eyes....why? is it normal? or what? to normal friends...she can laugh and look at them normally... to me she can't even look into my eyes for 1 second...or even chat nicely...she seems cold..but she says she's trying to be better...and call me to give her some time to change....so?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2009): the same thing happened to me but the friend didnt propose. tell her how you feel about her and say that you will give her time. the last thing you should say but only if you mean it is that however long it takes youll be waiting for her. and no matter what happens tell her that your there for her.I Told my girl the truth that i loved her and that i would wait and stuff then a week later she came back and has loved me more than ever. now were getting married.its like the saying if you love something, set it free, if it returns its yours forever
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reader, relyner +, writes (17 June 2009):
relyner is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI hope all my hardship worth in the end..... .'' um... I'm still in Hobson's choice by now....dono wat to do...
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reader, relyner +, writes (16 June 2009):
relyner is verified as being by the original poster of the questionUm...I've tried to ask. But she kept saying give her some times to think, she said she is very confuse now.
I feel that I should let her alone for some time....is it right?
I feel....." Ouch!! " so hurt in my heart....
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