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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

2 years together but very little contact

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5434 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my current for almost 2 years after several years of friendship. My issue is that we have very little to no contact..i mean kisses and hugs are it we enter the relationship knowing of each others desires and limitation. I am very sexual and she is not at all. ... (177 words)

He doesn't keep the conversation going in txting...is he interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i have a dilemma, i really like this boy. Im 18 and we have kissed (snogged) eachother twice now ..about 2 months apart..in the same night club. I knew him from my college and ive really started to like him. I somehow gathered the courage to text him and for about an hour ... (238 words)

I am craving love, excitement, attention which I don't get from my wife!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

21 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I are 5 years apart in age and have been married for 8 years, we tried to start a family but it did not work ever since she seems angry the whole time, we argue about the little thing and fight constantly (for a year now). without consulting me on my feelings she ... (232 words)

He's sending out a lot of mixed signals!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I've been speaking to a guy I know on msn for a few months. We go to the same college and he is very good friends with two of my best friends. He decided to add me on msn after we became friends on a school trip last year. Since then, we have spoken a lot online and get ... (244 words)

Hung up and don't know what to do...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a situation with the girl I am in a relationship with. I am 40 and she is 43. Most of the time she is very sweet, has a tone about her that is just so cute to me. But other times she gets in a mood where she just demands that I do things, looks at me like I have to do ... (521 words)

Any ideas what road I should take on this one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

21 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, so i quite like a girl in the year below (year 10) and im in (year11) .... shes really pretty ... but obviously its hard to get to talk to her as im off of school for study leave and my school is an hour and a half away so i cant really just pop in for a day. i asked a ... (125 words)

E Shocked and Heartbroken at being lied to for over 8 months

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. What just happened between my girlfriend and I came as a huge shock, and now I am confused as to what to do. We've been dating for about 9 months now, and she just recently told me that she cheated on me 2 weeks AFTER we started dating. I even met the guy with her ... (556 words)

My life feels like dog dirt

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i really need some advice ive been with my boyfriend 5 years. i have to say for the past 4 years it has been terrible-ive only stayed because i did love him. he has been so distant and cold from me-he has left me in serious financial debt. he never calls-forgets b... (217 words)

I'm making anonymous calls and messages

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been single for a long time and I feel very lonely mainly at night. I am so lonely that I started making anonymous phone calls. I found this number over the internet, of a really hot guy I met once and so I call but don't speak. He doesn't know who I am and started... (96 words)

Who comes first in a marriage, the spouse or the adult children?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3031 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age - Who comes first in a marriage, the spouse or the adult children? I've heard this debated so many times and no one seems to have a clear answer. Being a Christian, I believe the marriage comes first. My husband thinks the children do. I am my husband's second wife and ... (602 words)

My boyfriend and I are fighting a lot because of my guy friend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey people, my problem is that me and my boyfriend have been fighting a whole lot lately with my guy friend because he's always hitting on me and trying to grab me trying to make my boyfriend jealous, sometimes trying to kiss me. Yesterday morning I was with my boyfriend and ... (139 words)

Since I've moved she's been really distant with me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, the issue with my girlfriend is I love her but ever since I moved like far from home, it's like nowadays we have absolutely nothing to talk about, we talk over IM and every time I say something, I usually get replies like she's just either agreeing or disagreeing with what ... (85 words)

Help! I'm having trouble choosing.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing two guys for a few months now. Neither of which knows about each other. One is my ex, which I have been with one and off for 6 years and have even lived with for about 9 months. I broke up with boyfriend 1 and moved out. A few months later I started dating ... (226 words)

Some advice please. Is it too late?

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21 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Some advice please, well its kind of a long story, but there is this boy (my best friends ex to be exact) and once he stopped going out with my friend he told me he had feelings for me. I decided nothing could happen between us becuase of my friend. But as I spoke to him more I ... (114 words)

Should I just leave it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Help - I've been seeing a man for 12 weeks now and things have been fantastic. Texting/calling me all the time how much he likes me, missing me when were apart, and it's been wicked. We're both sociable people and we both have a wide circle of friends and have known each oth... (145 words)

I think I might have ruined our friendship...

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21 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, there's this guy who I met in college, he's doing a very similar course to me so we spend a lot of time together and in September I'll be moving in with him because I didn't get on campus accommodation this year and he offered to help me find a room, and found a house with ... (280 words)

Online Dating Advice for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey! I am relatively new to online dating and just need some advice about the process. I've exchanged messages with this girl for about a week now. We seem to have a lot in common and the back and forth messaging has gone very well so far. Also, we have seen each other's ... (132 words)

Romantic ideas for my boyfriend? please

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im a bit stuck, i've been with my boyfriend for 4 months now and he does cute nice romantic things for me all the time... He sends me lovely texts, rings me till i fall asleep every night, buys me little presents randomly, you know that sort of thing, i want to do somethin... (123 words)

Is there anything guys really enjoy? I want to please him before I go!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, this isn't a life-threatening problem but I'd still appreciate a little help, guys in particular =p My boyfriend and I have been going out for a while now and everything has been going absolutely great. I'm doing a language course in France for five weeks, tomorrow... (117 words)

Should I wait or just let him go

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys well kinda obviously got a relationship prob so ya heres it... So me(17) and my bf(18)dated last summer for about 3 months but sadly had some issues with my mom and decided to end it cuz there was no way of getting her to like him thanks to many "stupid teenage ... (246 words)

Sexual Frustration!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am having problems with my bf sexually and its really getting us down. At the beginning of our relationship he managed to make me cum on a couple of occasions which was really good and he seemed really proud of himself. Then had exams and stuff so i didnt see him for a bi... (171 words)

He says to leave him alone but tells me he likes me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everybody. I need help. I have known this guy since October. I like him but didn't realize how much till all this happened.To make a long story short, I sent him an email I thought he wanted to hear but didn't.It's a long story then sent him another one adding more fuel to ... (144 words)

My grandpa molested me when I was 13!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My grandpa molested me when I was 13. I stayed over at his house all summer because my parents were finishing building a house and moving into it. The abuse started by him tickling me one time after I was tickling my cousins. A minute or so later my grandma walked in and told ... (253 words)

How do I deal with my sexual urges?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a 13-year-old girl, and as I get older, I find myself having sexual urges more and more. I've tried masturbating and I don't really enjoy it. I want to submit to my urges, but, of course, sex isn't even an option because I'm not dating and, more importantly, I'm way too ... (57 words)

I don't like the person I have become now I am seeing a married man

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - HELP ME PLEASE! im 26 seeing a married man for just nearly a yr now and im sooo unhappy, full of guilt, dont like the person i have become and i feel sick when i think of what im doing. I doubt he will ever leave her, she is lovely not a bitch......a bitch doesn't deserve ... (151 words)

Advice on reacing orgasm during sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I would like some advice on how to reach orgasm during sex. I've definitely had orgasms from guys stimulating my clit, however I'm not so sure about actual penetration. I often reach a point during sex where it feels absolutely amazing and I have to scream out and I've even ... (93 words)

Do you think I will ever forget about my fantasies with my cousin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 14 year old female and i think i like/love my cousin who is 18.she is really attractive and nice but we havnt always been best cousins, we hardly even talk and she doesnt live in the same town as me. just last nite i had a dream where she layed her head on my stomach and ... (195 words)

Will we ever be more than just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I am a girl and so is this person I am completely inlove with. I am bi and she says she is straight. I've known her for 2 and a half years but have actually been talking to her for 4 months or so. I told her "I kinda like love you" but that was a bad idea because I didn't ... (257 words)

Was I sexually abused? And if so is it too late to do something about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When I was 10 my 15 year old next door neighbour made me touch his penis. To this day (9 years later) I still have no idea whether this counts as sexual abuse. I hated him because he always treated me like a baby (bouncing me on his knee etc.) but paid very little attention to ... (222 words)

How do I stop my insecurities from ruining our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 months and he is without a doubt the most amazing person I've ever met, he makes me so happy. Unfortunately due to my history of unsuccessful relationships (violence, cheating etc) I am incredibly insecure and I'm worried that my issue... (169 words)

I know my ex-husband well enough to know he is lying to me, why does he do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - It's Father's Day. My daughter is visiting her dad for the summer again. My daughter started talking about a movie she saw two days ago. I asked her who took her and she ignored me. I asked her again, and she would not say. Her dad told her not to tell me. I am upset ... (128 words)

How can I get over my insecurities about the way I look?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Ok, I am an ugly 20 year old (don't tell me I'm beautiful, you haven't even seen me, and I've been told many times by many different people that I am ugly). Men never check me out, etc. It's not lack of confidence because I know beautiful unconfident girls who get a lot of ... (475 words)

Should I pursue my golf tutor? Is he even attracted to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have written a column before, but unfortunatly, no one seemed to answer. I am about to tell you why I'm writing although you probably already know from the heading - that I have strong feelings for my golf tutor (it's NOT a joke, my school has lessons at the golf centre and I ... (465 words)

Why did my boyfriend pinch my nose and make me puff out my cheeks during oral?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Tried oral on my bf for the first time a couple of nights ago. It was going well, but, I started gagging and stuff. He pinched my nose and told me to puff out my cheeks. It was kind of embarrassing. Here I was, with my cheeks puffed out, almost throwing up, and with him ... (132 words)

My cousin is tearing the family apart with her compulsive lies!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My cousin bre is a compulsive liar and is acting up constantly she's been sneaking out at night lying to her mom dating a 23 year old child molseter who raped a 12 year old and the sick part is .. Is that she's fully aware of that fact.. She just got sent away to upstate ... (161 words)

Am I a total idiot for sticking around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this guy for 3 months and everything was great! He kept making references to being together long term and I was right there with him. Then, his pre-teen daughter was coming from overseas to see him for a month. Considering we hadn't been dating long, he said ... (185 words)

How do I sort my life out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help, Im nearly 36, cant afford to buy a house, am taking space from my boyfriend as his head is a mess and he "needs time" to sort himself out, I have no children, live with my brother and feel SUCH a loser. I have to move out of our rented accomodation and... (145 words)

Was this just a one-off occurrence?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now, and so far we have had a perfect relationship until a few days ago. Friday it was my birthday and to make a long story short i told my boyfriend and his friends in our hotel room to be quiet because it was very late and the... (273 words)

Is he taking me for a fool?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Okay, well I have been on and off with my ex-boyfriend for about 5 years now. When we first met and started dating things were really good with us, we were almost inseparable. We have very different personalities, but compatible goals and our differences seemed to compliment ... (626 words)

Is my Mum making this all up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this is sort of relationship i think! well basicly, my mum went to see a clairvoyent a few weeks back, and apparently she told her that one of her daughters is in a long term relationship, which is my sister, she's been with her boyfriend nearly two years.. and that another ... (174 words)

Sexual frustration!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am having problems with my bf sexually and its really getting us down. At the beginning of our relationship he managed to make me come on a couple of occasions which was really good and he seemed really proud of himself. Then had exams and stuff so i didnt see him for a bit. ... (133 words)

I don't want to be the subject of my brother's unhealthy fetish!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This may seem like a weird thing to talk about but i do not understand why my brother is this way. He seems to have an unhealthy obsession or fetish with pregnant women. I few yrs ago i found pictures on his computer of naked pregnant women, and he also had lots of cuttings ... (137 words)

Am I wrong to leave my husband because I cant live without love and affection?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) age - Can you survive in a loveless marriage,just because you have a history together,and raised children together? Am I wrong to wish to leave my security for total insecurity,because I can't live without love and affection? Well,my situation is,that my husband does not look at... (151 words)

Why are men so into you one minute and run away the next?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3418 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need some honest feedback here, especially from the men out there. I seem to have this pattern in my life which completely confounds and confuses me and I really need to find out why it keeps happening. I am beautiful, smart, sexy, kind, open loving woman. My friend... (296 words)

I don't want to have to lie to my parents about seeing my boyfriend anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - long story short, me and adam were best friends. we went out, he became an ass, we broke up. he realized what an asshole he had become, and he changed. he regained my trust and i have been going out with Adam for a few months now this year. We had been really good friends ... (277 words)

I don't know how to control my anger!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been getting really angry lately, and sometimes i just cry for no obvious reason. I have cried often before and i thought that i may be suffering from depression or that i was bipolar, but when i told my mum she just brushed it off and said it was my hormones. Its my ... (189 words)

Am I likely to hear from him again or was he just being polite?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is he interested in me? Will he email me back? I recently met a guy I liked when he was driving a coach taking me on a school trip with some kids (Im a teacher). This was 3 days ago. He flirted a bit but wasnt english so the language was a bit of a problem. I found him very a... (355 words)

Is it right to still be his friend when I wanted something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I confessed to my friend (lets call him mr.gloomy) that I like him because I noticed that he care so much to me and he was able to making a flirt with me. Then an incident that our friend was tripping texted him asking if mr.gloomy likes me he replied, yes! He likes me as a ... (174 words)

Can symptoms of pregnancy start before you miss a period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Last month i had a pregnancy scare, i honestly told myself i was and got used to the idea that i was. Id taken three tests, all of which were negative and a urine sample at the hospital confirmed i wasnt, the day after the hospital my period happened so i realised i wasnt and ... (156 words)

How do I get past the expectation of there being something more there?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

21 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am gay and this will sound like I am really shallow which I'm not, but anyway here goes... honestly! I have started seeing this guy who is awesome in just about every way but the downside is he has a really small penis. We've only sort of fooled around but when I grab it w... (122 words)

I've never had an issue with my body until my boyfriend started making comments about my weight!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 5ft8 and a size 12-14 which ive always thought is pretty normal. My bodies in proportion and ive never really had an issue with it. Until i got with my boyfriend and now am sexually active, i was before but only little flings, ive never been this close to someone and slept ... (256 words)

Why is it yellow?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hai,how r u ? my sperm colour is looking a little yellow shad!(not looking pure white) y its like that and, is it problem for my marriage life?i am bothering about it, please answer me?... (35 words)

Boyfriend, friends, drugs..I can't beat them but I won't join them either!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - A few years ago I used to be really into my drugs, well about as much as any other young person in the uk, my friends were too. However, as we finished uni it got more and more excessive, generally with ecstasy pills, cocaine, weed and binge drinking. I didn't mind so much ... (484 words)

He left me for my friend, so why does he care that I have a new boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so, my ex left me for my friend. we still talk. he messaged me on myspace and he was all cool and stuff but then he saw that my headline says i love you (my bf's name) and he said who is that? i said my bf. then he said b***** i will kick your a** and i thought it was m... (188 words)

Intimidated by g/f's ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i am having a realtionship with my gf for over a year ..the problem is i often feel outweigh by her-ex becoz he was like the popular,gudlooking,rich,... jerk type and im just a 'normal' guy..she is a nice girl and loves me but i cant get over the idea why that she could fa... (104 words)

How can I make a player change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a guy off the enternet,i know he is a player! i have really fallen for this guy. Everone tells me you cant change a player, i want to know how and if he could everchange? What can i do to not be a player anymore andonly want me? Thanks... (51 words)

She's 12 and I have feelings for her

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

21 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so, i went to my friends birthday party yesterday and his sister had a couple of friends round ... there was this girl who just seemed to make something click in my brain and she was pretty funny for her age ... but the only problem (or is it a problem) is that she is 12 ... (88 words)

At my sleepover my friends trashed me as soon as I was out of the room and then left in the middle of the night!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known for a while that something hasn't been right with me and my friends, but I thought it was something small that we could sort out. But then at my sleepover for my birthday I went upstairs and as soon as I had they started bitching really bad about me. They said they ... (147 words)

I want a serious relationship but unsure if she feels the same?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (M)

age - I was widowed last year and have recently met someone else. We agreed it to be as friends but i find myself wanting to be with her more and more. We have planned a short break in a couple of months but have booked separate rooms as she doesnt seem to want a physical realtons... (149 words)

I'm 18, mature and like older women

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm an 18 year old guy, and I am very mature for my age.When someone whom I don't know asks me my age, and I tell them 18, they usually say "wow I thought you were at least 22 or 23".The problem is I always seem to be interested in women who are in the 20-25 age group.Everytime ... (156 words)

Why is dating so hard when you're a plus size woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I hope someone can relate! Ok I'm a plus size woman. I'm 5 ft 7 inches tall and weight around 290. I'm on the plan with my dr to lose weight before I have weight loss surgery.I'm having the lapband done at the end of the year. I've found dating to be very very difficult! I ... (184 words)

I broke up with her and now she is devestated

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - its long ...but will tell you everything about us ...pleae bear with me and read it ...my heartly thanks to all answerers ...i am in a weird situation people ...i dumped this 17 year old girl and she has become quite obsessed about me ....we have had a lot of fun together over ... (701 words)

Is he trying to make me jealous or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5630 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ahhh please help this guy in my class said he liked me he asked me out but we never went out or hung out so i felt weird because he started calling me baby and babe and honestly we never kissed or went on a date so i felt weird.all the time we had the classes after the classe... (306 words)

My g/f dumped me out of nowhere and now she's ignoring my calls

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

21 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and this girl have been dating for about a month.Everything was going great.She really seemed happy and interested in our relationshit...so i though..... all of a sudden one day she sent me a text saying she thinks its best if we just be friends,that she is too busy and ... (299 words)

Should I get my husband's permission to apologize to my ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a condition called delayed PTSD. I started showing symptoms of it with one of my ex's when we were dating.( I think that's when it started, not sure, maybe earlier before we were dating.) Now that I am married and have been for 11 months, I feel bad for how I treated my ... (632 words)

I'm in love with her and she hates my guts

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok my girlfriend cheated on me with this guy she soon broke up with me for but they can't ever see eachother that much because they live far from eahcother and we started to fall in love again while those two were dating now. The thing is, I didn't know she cheated till after ... (233 words)

I'm a guy and I can't have an orgasm!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I find that i cant come to orgasm or cuming when me and my GF either have oral or when she masturbates me. I just cant do it. Its frustrating, like i can make her come in like 1 min, but me it never happens. Any help?... (50 words)

Am I just a rebound? What he's doing is so confusing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I used to work with this guy for almost 3 years and we almost had a thing and then it fell apart. and then my friend started dating him.. we'll call him Carl. They broke up bc she was terrible to him.. but he was really hurt. Carl and I had a huge fight over somethin... (918 words)

I feel like she doesn't love me and I can't trust her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a jelousy problem with my GF, she apparently lost her virginity with some asshole in another town, but she isnt sure, she said she was drunk and she didnt feel like she did when she woke up. Now i feel protective of her, when ever she talks to guys at partys i get pissy ... (77 words)

How long am I expected to be responsible for my childs life!!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) age - Usually how long parents have to feel responisible for their grown up kids life? I started to feel that it will never end, and I love them but I feel I can never have my life back! I know some people want to do this forever, but am I wrong if I want to stop now? What do yo... (63 words)

Would it be in bad taste for me to mail these tickets to her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

21 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My female friend and I have known each other 18 months. We were as close as dating without actually dating and were the best of friends. Three months back we "broke up" after I started an argument at a party with her. She never stopped talking to me (via email) but it hasn't ... (231 words)

What exacly is a fantasy?

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21 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! So, I have been wondering lately: What exactly is a fantasy? Can a fantasy be something that turns you on and you dream or fantasize about but can never actually see yourself doing or participating in? For example, what if a girl has a fantasy about a her receiving a ... (86 words)

I've been promiscious in the past, and now karma has hit me with guilt

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 25. I've been in a relationship since 15 with the same person. We live together for 4 years now. Overall... I have to say the passion and love is there. We're both very confident about that. However, being we started so young (he was 18 now 28) we hit a lot of turmoil ... (231 words)

Sex while on your period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - just a dumb question... Can u have sex while a girl is on her period?... (16 words)

I didn't even get to ask him to be my boyfriend, and now he has disappeared!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay I'm dating a guy He's amazing, always sticking up for me we've liked each other for about a year now, no like commitment though, just kissing and dating here and there. He's scared of commitment i guess. he always says he's not ready for a relationship. And i was... (133 words)

How can I start to like oral sex?

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21 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My problem is that I would really like to like oral sex, but I don't. As far as performing oral sex goes, I have many, many problems. The first and foremost is that it simply feels awkward and demeaning to me. Sure, I've tried to think of it like "his pleasure is tota... (344 words)

What can cause a man lose sexual interest in his wife?

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21 June 2009 (F) age - What can cause a man lose sexual interest in his wife? Is it something very common,or it isn't? Are most marriages going toward no sexual intimacy? Because its hard to know what goes on, if your life is different from others/ So ,what is REAL on this subject?... (52 words)

They cheated at my house! How do I stay out of the middle?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Where do I start? My best friend just revealed to me tonight that she cheated on her husband, at my house, with my husband's best friend. My husband is now worried because his best friend is engaged and the girl he is engaged to has a family with a lot of clout in our town. ... (137 words)

Why would anyone choose their significant other/wife over their own kid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I haven't seen my father in nearly a year. He travels a lot, but lives in the same state as I do. I really want to visit him, and I've told him several times that I would, but he always replies that he's busy, it's not a good time, or that he's going out of town soon. He ... (668 words)

I like him but he's the ex of a good friend of mine. Will I get hurt?

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21 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I like this boy who likes me. We play on the same sand volleyball league and have hung out with each other outside of volleyball. We've kissed, but that's the extent of what we've done. He seems to be a good guy, he's funny, and we get along great. There's a catch - he's the... (228 words)

Should I ask him out now, or wait awhile?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and this guy have been talking everyday, all day we kiss, hold hands, hes told me he really likes me, plus weve been making long term plans, and like 3 days ago he told me that he had gotten drunk[he never drinks and neither do i] and he kept telling me that he feels ba... (181 words)

I don't feel happy with him, but I wont feel happy without him...what to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and boyfriend have been dating for 3 years now. He recently asked for a break but i didnt want to. He wanted to hook up with another girl but come back to me. Just the thought of it made me cry and really upset. I was stupid and told him ok lets take a break but dont ... (492 words)

I feel horribly left out with no Love life and I have everything going for me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

21 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I am a very athletic 17 year old male with a good muscle build and I am a nice guy who know how to get stuff done and will follow orders if they are given but anyways, all of my friends have had sex or are in a romantic relationship with someone else. I feel horribly lef... (135 words)

I feel lost even though I stood my ground

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21 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Previously I've had a hard time moving on over the guy I lost my virginity to and I think I doing pretty well. I decided that I wanted him out of my life, and I erased him completely. Last night, he invited me to a party and I said no, and even though he kept on I stood my ... (98 words)

I need advice to get my feelings across!

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21 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Heyyz well i really like this one guy and ive had a major crush on him for about four years now! I know that seems like a while but im kind of shy around certain guys! My friends always say im stalking him because i know almost everything about him and he knows almost nothing ... (188 words)

I feel alone and I think about her all the time!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

21 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have felt alone a lot lately. I was at a friends house and they told me they had seen an ex-gf of mine and said she was asking about me. I was the one who broke it off with her and it didn't end the best. In the past few weeks I haven't been able to stop thinking about her. I ... (85 words)

My biological clock is ticking and I want to be a father, but no woman!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

21 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi dear cupid I'm a 28 year old and I have this itch of having a child since I feel I'm not gonna get younger. I've never been married but I've had a few relationships with women, and they all seem to end in heartbreak for me after I give 100% to make them work. I have no ... (226 words)

I lost my attraction to my boyfriend and broke it off. Was it a mistake?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Over the last year things in my life have fallen apart. I've been unemployed for the year, had medical issues, and recently broke up with my bf of four years. My bf is a great guy and I do love him, but I have found my attraction to him waning. He has lost his hair, and gone ... (189 words)

He tells me he loves me but I don't FEEL loved by him! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age - Over the past almost 3 years I have had a relationship with a man who had just separated from his wife (now divorced over 1½ years). We had many, many ups and downs; 2 short term break-ups, several short term “take-a-breaks”, and a couple of his attempts to get back with his ... (384 words)

Any ideas for a fun time with friends without staying up all night and drinking?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi yet again. i was wondering if any one had any ideas on what a couple can do together or with friends that DOESNT involve drinking and being up all night partying?! as this seems to be the only thing anyone around me in my life ever does. something that as you can see, i dont ... (65 words)

He tells me he likes me as a 'friend' and a 'sister' then has sex with me....?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What does it mean when an ex tells you "I like you as a friend, a sister and the only college friend I still have around" and then has sex with you? I'm not seeing this person any more. he treated me like crap. He offended me in front of his new fling to then call me two weeks ... (115 words)

I was nosing around on his phone and found something I wasn't expecting! Any ideas?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi again! i recently posted about me and my boyfriend,we have been together for almost a year, but we split up for a month at one point and 2 weeks not that long ago. when we broke up the first time, something happened with him and another girl, i found out and it killed m... (398 words)

What is keeping him from meeting me in person?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am currently talking to a guy that i met from online chatting. after talking to him for about two weeks, i find out that his good friend knows my best friend at the university that my best friend attends. i like this guy's personality and the way he is through the phone but ... (105 words)

Followup : Would it be possible to be friends but still date?

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21 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - refer to http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-kind-of-gift-would-be-fun-and.html At the moment I am not sure she wants more, but though I do, even I have doubts at times. I want to be just be friends for now, but also I want to keep the possibility of a relationship op... (67 words)