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writes:i need some advice. i've posted on here about my situation, i'm a student studying nursing, and have been at uni for 9 months. when i started uni i lost my nana and lost all battle to do this course, since then it's slowly gone down hill. i am doing ok at the course, but i want to do what i want and not what everyone else wants. i want to join the police, which i am currently in the middle of doing. anyway, my dad is so controlling, everything is what he wants. he calls me thick, threatens to punch me if i am 'cheeky' and generally talks to me like shit. he has always moaned at me to do this. well.. i've had enough and i have told him this repeatedly and stood up to him, which i have never done. anyway tonight he has told me if i don't complete my training i've to get my things and move out, so basically i've to move out next week when i finish uni, and he isn't giving me the money he put away from nanas will - i don't give a damn about that money. he can keep it! if i think i can make my own way in the big bad world i've to get out he says. i am so devastated and saddened that he is doing this to me, just for making the right decisions about my own life. why is he doing this to me? surely i shouldn't carry on with something i am so unhappy with??
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (17 June 2009):
 I'm so sorry for your loss and that your dad is doing this. I don't know why he's being so controlling, but moving out and going your own way is probably the best option for you. I applaud you for following your dreams and doing what's right!
Good luck.
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