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writes:I broke up with my bf of almost 2 yrs about 6 months ago.I'm a virgin but recently i ve gotten my self involved with very close 2 sex experiences like i went 2 c my ex recently,we kissed,he touched every part of my body,put his penis bw my clitoris and did the whole movement but there was no penetration.I want 2 stop thiis thing and avoid my ex cos we can't b 2getha anymore.I am a born again christian and this is weighin me down.I also want 2 keep my virginity til i'm married(am i stil one? pls tel me).Ur advice pls.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionU all ve been 1derful,thank u.I ve gotten over d incidence nd i'm more resolved 2 keep myself.Ur answers ve been helpful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2009): Talk to him on the phone. Clear the air.
He obviously wants you, but if your not together then he needs to understand the boundaries.
You can have boyfriends who are not christians it can make the relationship harder, but if he does love you then he will understand, or you could even suggest he comes to church with you. That way you have an audience and can't do anything and he gets to see a different side of you. Maybe you'll convert him.
With the whole christian thing - God understands. We're only human. Jesus died for our sins that means that if we do something wrong, pray about it, confess it to God, try to resolve the situation on a human level and keep praying something good will eventually come out of it (God doesn't work to our time scale). Hope this helps.
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