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I just don't want to sit around and wait for him

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Question - (16 June 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 30-35, *orverRed27 writes:

okay so i need help!! there is this boy ive been hooking up with recently. its complicated because ive known him since i was born...his dad is my dads best friend and he is also 22 (actually his 23 bday is today) and im turning 18 in a month. he is a buisness man and also works for my dad as well.

He says he respects me sooo much! If i tell him i dont want to do something, he respects that.One night when i was drunk, he told me that he "didnt want to hook up with a drunk underage girl he cares about", which i really thought it showed he cared. the problem with him is he'll say one thing but act another, and he is basically bipolar ha. one moment he told me we needed a break and then the next day he wanted to hang out and said he had to see me...i dont get it. i havent had sex with him and ive made it clear that im going to lose my virginity to someone i really care about and he says thats fine with him.

tonight i read him his horoscope and he said that him being bipolar and uncommitted is true about him. lately ive really really started to like him but its so hard finding time to hang out b.c. hes a busy guy and it sucks cause i have other people who are interested in me that i want to give a chance but i only want him and dont feel rite doing anything with anyone else. Im going to college at the end of the summmer and i was really just hoping for a good summer fling with just us two and not hookin up with anyone else. Im scared to tell him that i want him and all of him and dont know if i should slowly let him go or what...i want to know his intentions and i tried to ask him tonight but he never replied to my text when i asked him if i could ask a question. ive told him that i like him many times before but i really dont know what to do. i dont want to just sit around and wait for him.helpp!!

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