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writes:Anytime my girlfriend of 3 years comes over to my place (we usual go in my room), my brother/roommate likes to walk in on (he picks the lock) me and my girlfriend when we're making love, and splash us with a bucket of water (we're usually in our underwear but not always and I do cover her up). It really doesn't help that my lady has low self-esteem. Like when we first started having sex (she gave me her virgintiy) she wouldn't let me see her breasts, it took me months for her to comfortable with me. Sadly my brother is socially retarded and won't listen to me (or get a girlfriend and a life of his own). Its quite annoying. Any ideas cause I'm getting tempted to beat the shit out of him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2009): For starters get a better lock for your bedroom door, something you can lock from the inside, and wedge a chair under the door handle. His trying to get in may ruin the mood, but not nearly as badly as him doing what he's been doing.
But really, why would you be sharing a place with this guy? I cannot believe your girl has stuck with you this long, particularly with her issues. Straighten your brother out or move out on your own.
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reader, Blondy  +, writes (16 June 2009):
 Go ahead and beat the shit out of him! What the hell is the point of disrupting your love making? I would be so mad, SO MAD if that happened to me! You could threaten to beat him up (or just do that, I think he deserves it) I'm assuming you have told him not to do that and so fair warning isn't really needed to do anything to him now. You could go into his room and pour sour milk on him while he sleeps, squirt mustard in his bed or something else disgusting. Mess with his laundry, collect some used condoms and be imaginative, they're disgusting once they sit and I got back at someone using those (decorate his car with them)...I know thats really gross but hey, I would be really mean if he did that to me.Maybe give him one REALLY firm warning, ask for him to repect your privacy! And if that doesn't work go all out to get the point through to him how annoying this is. If your attacks do nothing but make him attack you more I would say move out, or kick him out, or move in with the girlfriend, do something because I would NOT put up with that more than once. Having sex is intimate and personal and PRIVATE! He has no right to pick the lock and annoy you like that. Tell him all that in a super pissed off voice and if that doesn't work, do whatever you want to him, in my opinion he deserves it. I might be sounding really mean, but I would be total bitch if that happened to me, you are obviously nicer and much more patient than me if you put up with at all, so good for you! Those are just some ideas though...Hope this helps.
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