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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is this feeling of loneliness normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think i may just need a little reassurance, i've never been in a long term relationship before but am increasingly wanting one, if that makes sense. i feel like i need more intimacy, i would like someone to cuddle up with and spend more time with. i seem almost desperate for ... (104 words)

Is moving back a mistake?

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 21 and met this guy who was visiting my country over a year and a 1/2 ago. I went to his country and we lived together for about 1 year and I went back to my country about 6 months ago. About 2 months after I went back, he cursed me one night on the phone and told me he ... (249 words)

Beast or lover?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, guys, i need your advice. I've recently been dating a guy and im not sure of his character. He victimised a previous ex girlfriend by hacking into her mobile phone and monitored her messages. He shared intimate details of her to his friends and on the internet. Wrote blogs ... (100 words)

In love with my best friend. How do I stop the madness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - His name is Gary and he is my favorite person and best friend. We were stationed together for a year and we were pretty much inseparable for a while there. We did everything together, and we went through a lot together. At first he was just a friend to me but as I began to ... (454 words)

Guy problems!!!

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay i have a problem - so this guy[#1] and i have been talking and are going to a movie tonight but yesterday I found out that this one guy[#2] that i liked a lot liked me so like all my feelings for guy#1 ive been talking to went like completly away and the guy #2 seemed ... (132 words)

How can I get over the anger and resentment I feel towards my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

7 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Can anyone offer me some help here? I am finding it really difficult to get over the anger and resentment I feel towards my ex. Although it has been nearly a year since we broke up i hold such feelings of bitterness towards her i can't seem to let it go and move on with my ... (169 words)

How to break it off with my girlfriend and find a new lover?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so I'm bi sexual but i like girls a lot more better and am more sexually attracted to women. But, I have a girlfriend who doesnt really intrest me and things aren't working out. I want to find a new girl to be with and one that makes me happy but i can't find any bi ... (73 words)

Why does my boyfriend not cum every time yet can keep an erection?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Why does my boyfriend not come every time but keep an erection? ... (12 words)

I'm 13 and think I've developed a very bad habit!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I Have a small confession. I am only 13 and i was at my friend's party and they started watching adult porn and i really enjoyed it .. i don't know why. Does it mean I'm a lesbian because i like to watch girls have sex???... (48 words)

I'm working with him on Friday, how should I react?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - For the last six weeks I was seeing a guy who had a girlfriend (some of you may have read my previous questions) and now I know how much of a mistake it was but unfortunately I really liked him and kept seeing him. He told me he wanted to break up with her even when we were ... (237 words)

Help! My boyfriend never wants to have sex with me, I've tried EVERYTHING!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

7 June 2009 (?) age 36-40 - Ok, I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, and Im having a really big problem. We never have sex and when we do, its not very good. When we got together, we had amazing sex all the time. Neither of us were virgins but neither of us was THAT experienced. I had more ... (366 words)

What do I do about my ex's text?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Help! My ex bf of three plus years is seeing someone who is nothing like me and wants to be friends. He was I guess seeing her when I was out of town and my mother was dying. My mom died not even a month ago and this new woman drives 40 min each way to be there with him. He t... (204 words)

Too skinny to date?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Yeah, that's it. I'm 24 now and if you look at me, you'd think I stopped developing when I was 14. 6ft and only 135-140 lbs which apparently is a huge turn off for girls. I'm not going to say I've tried everything in order to gain weight, but I have tried a LOT of t... (301 words)

I keep cheating on him when I'm drunk, what should I do?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a relationship with the best boyfriend ever. He would do anything for me and we love each other dearly. He's three years older than me, and works full time, whereas i am a student at university. Truthfully he's my first love, i have never felt so in love with a guy ... (349 words)

How can I change my abusive hubbie without involving the police?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 21 y/o and I have been with john for 5 years we got married 3 mos ago and we have 2 daughters (1yr and almost 2 1/2 y/o) but we had an abusive incident about a year ago he hit me, when i was pregnant he was arrested in jail for 4 days and released, I forgave him about 1 ... (142 words)

My brother needs guidance but I'd rather spend time with my girlfriend, any ideas?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

7 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My mom wants me to spend time with my brother (he's 12) because he uses our sisters (they'll 6 and 9) as punching bags. Hes like this since my dad died 4 years ago and needs an older male influence (im 16) to "guide" him. I rather spend time with my girlfriend then with my ... (66 words)

Why do men not break up with you?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age - You've helped in the past so here we go again. The NAVY man. I send him texts saying its over, then he reels me back in and i fall for it. Then he ignores my texts over and over again and reels me back in again. Today I told him he was a jerk, but in much harsher words and it w... (146 words)

I want to harden the skin on my penis how could I do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to harden the skin on my penis how could i do this? I've heard that surgical spirit is really good at hardening skin would it be okay to put some on a piece of cotton wool and rub it into my penis head?... (48 words)

I am seeing a therapist, but the issue is not resolved.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

7 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Please give me some perspective! I am a 41 year old recently married male. In my younger days, I led a very very wild life. I have had sex with hundreds of women, been with escorts, done threesomes, dated strippers, etc etc. I always was safe and am totally free (te... (290 words)

Was on a "break" and slept with a guy and now I don't know who is the Daddy!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - im 14 and im 19 weeks pregnant everything is ok and everyone knows but the problem is that the baby might not be my boyfriends. he doesn't know that she might not be his and i feel awful he is getting all exited he can't wait. i had sex with this other guy only a few days ... (210 words)

I cheated and now I feel paranoid because I'm deployed overseas

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i am currently deployed overseas, my wife is back in the states. i had problems with being faithful a while back but i completely changed the way i was so it would never happen again. well everytime i call her, she never sounds excited to talk to me and she's always going out ... (109 words)

I want my cake and to eat it, please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have an amazing boyfriend who i feel like without him i wouldnt be able to live. But , im bisexual and only one person in the whole world knows that, my ex girlfriend. When we broke up we promised to be best friends still, but she still has feelings for me and i think i ... (93 words)

Is this a huge breach of trust?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Teacher/inmate relationship. Hi I would like some advice if anyone can help! I am writing about a teacher-student relationship but before I begin - the student(and teacher) are both adults over 21. The student is no longer at the institution where the teacher works but is an ex... (71 words)

He Cheated on me for months & lied about it: Do I end it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 2 years cheated on me and I cannot continue to be with him. Am I doing the right thing by ending it? We fell in love and lived together for several months, but he had to move for job reasons. Ever since that time, we have been long-distance. For the first fe... (244 words)

Just a quick question on premature ejaculation.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

7 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there I just wondered has anyone cured their premature ejaculation? I've been having sex for over 2 years now and cannot last any more than 10 seconds. Thanks everyone... (39 words)

Would I meet girls in bars and night clubs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a fat, balding, bespectacled, virgin, 25 year old guy who is studying and working in a small town in the US. I do think girls sometimes give me looks, and maybe I'm not as ugly as I think myself to be. I honestly don't know. I'm too shy to talk to strange girls an... (107 words)

My mom said things years ago that still bother me -- could she be the one with issues?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - When I was 13 my mom and I got in an arguement and she told me I was so ugly. Her saying that had absolutely nothing to do with what we were arguing about. I actually can't even remember what we were arguing about, but I do remember her telling me that and I still think about ... (135 words)

Is he really just against LDR, or is he not into me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is long, but I really need your help! :) A little back story: So I recently asked my "boyfriend" whether he would consider us to be dating or not. He said not really since school ends in 2 weeks and we won't see each other for 4 months (we're both in universi... (136 words)

Need some help picking a pill

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 4 months and have both been tested for STDs recently (negative tests). We have been using condoms, but I want to try a different method of birth control and was thinking of going on the pill. I was on Yasmin for cycle problems a few ... (195 words)

I want to be his best friend since I can't be anything more than that

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was online around 6 or so years ago ans got talking to a guy we have become great friend, he is separated with kids i am single with 1 child our friendship grow and i started 2 fall in love with him, he says he loves me 2 and i really do belive that he does love me, we live ... (237 words)

Says he lovs me but doesn't show it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - iunno, i have been going with this guy for like 2 months and i used to be best friends. When we started going out he used to be all over me in a good way. but now not so much. We went to the seaside and he completely ignored me, of course i was a bit upset about this and i told ... (184 words)

Did I really know my ex?

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hey all sorry to bother i just wanted some advice. i split with my ex 6 years ago. at the time we both worked at the same place. at the time we had a house together-he took the mortgage in his name as my credit score was weak none the less i stll made the mortgage paymen... (172 words)

In love with an older woman

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 16, gonna be a junior in the fall and im in love with a woman who is 18 and she just graduated. shes lived 2 houses away from me since i was 3 and babysat my little sister when my parents wouldnt trust me. they had no reason not to trust me, they just didnt because they were ... (198 words)

I think I need to break up with him for awhile

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help. I'm so confused that I don't know what to do. I've been with my boyfriend for about three years, we've been through the mill and back. Lately...I just haven't been feeling him. I respect him very much, he is a really good guy, but I don't know if I can handle him ... (272 words)

She feels lost and has dumped me, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi i have been in a relationship for 1year and 8 months and my girlfriend all of a sudden said she wanted to call it of but it wasnt because we wernt working it was because she was lost and didnt no what she wanted to do with her life what do i do?... (54 words)

When I drink, I hit him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i really need help with a problem ,,, me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years ,im 20 hes 25, we have a 10 month old son,, things are usually great between us,,, until we drink ,, its not him really,, mainly when i drink vodka,, i hit him,, ive done it 3 time since ... (172 words)

Is something wrong with me? Do I only want the one I can't get?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I lived with a man for 2 years but it was a re-bound relationship. He is a great man but 15 yrs older, treated me like a queen. We split up and we both had other relationships this was 3 yrs ago. I fell in love with someone else and am not quite over it plus have had much ... (279 words)

Friends don't go out anymore, I feel so trapped!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I am 21 years old and thinking about moving away. most of my friends here dont really go out anymore and I have never felt so alone. The only thing is I live with my grandparents and mum so I would feel awful just leaving them but I am really unhappy here. I feel like I n... (203 words)

Do I just suffer through a broken heart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I met this guy about 9 months ago, and from the beginning he told me he was still in love with his ex, and hoped they would be back together someday, at that time they had been broken up for a little over a year. We decided to be friends, and became very close. We even ... (306 words)

Should I call him? #100

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 30 and just broke up with my bf 5 days ago. We've had several arguments over the 5 months of our relationship and this time, it seemed like we both had enough of arguying and he decided it was best for him to go. He loves me but because we have issues on how quickly our ... (225 words)

He wants me to move in but I won't unless it leads to marriage, help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend was married 10 years ago and got divorced. His wife had lied to him and said she wanted children but she never did. The divorce devastated him due to the lies and she also wiped him out financially. Now he has a great fear of marriage and thinks that every woman ... (143 words)

Why are men pushing for a relationship when I am not ready??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Split up w boyfriend still love him but think he is a commitment phobic or just plain too emotional and afraid since he was hurt. I have dated other guys who I have liked and have explained that I am not ready for a realtionship yet but they just keep on pushing and pushing ... (176 words)

I love my ex and I can't handle another break up, should I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I broke up once and then became friends and it went back into a relationship. Stuff happened again I got jealous which was stupid but things were not resolved so then we split up again. It has now been 2 months and he wants to be friends again and I am sure if we are ... (194 words)

He cheats and lies and stays at her house all the time... how can I get him to be nicer?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Last summer my 22 yr old fiance cheated on me with a 28 yr old whore i say that because she screwed him on a couch with a 4 yr old watching. my fiance and i have a 2 yr old and 5 days after i found out he was cheating i found out i was pregnant again. they started a semi ... (487 words)

Why can't I find a girlfriend? Why do these girls just want me for sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a dilemma...my girlfriend and I broke up about a little over a year ago. After I took awhile to heal I started dating again and have been meeting girls pretty often. Some of them I dislike and am upfront about it, others I like and try to date. The problem is the ones ... (441 words)

I slept with my ex... was he lying to get some action, or was it love like he said?

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - We dated for a solid four months, but were on-and-off for another 2 after that. We ended things on bad terms last time, which was only about two weeks prior to the sex we had last night. We didn't talk until around a week ago, and we acted just like friends. He invited me ... (175 words)

What is a man's true role in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

7 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I had a friend from Iran who once told me that as a man, it was my responsibility to always help women and protect them. At the time, I didn't know how to respond, but I feel that's a bunch of crap, now that I know better. Don't get me wrong, if I'm there when something is ... (129 words)

I'm giving it my all, he's "being cautious." How much time to I give him before I know it's never going to happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 mths, we both had past relationships in which both of us were hurt by previous partners. Neither of us are dragging the past into this relationship, though I feel that I am giving more than receiving. For example, we are both ... (159 words)

Do I have to tell my abusive ex that I am having his baby adopted when it's born?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm not even in my 20s yet and I'm three months pregnant. I told my parents about it and they of course initially freaked out but eventually calmed down. I never told them who the father is, though it's pretty obvious considering they know I've only been with one guy. My ex ... (124 words)

Did I do right by dumping the fiance who was texting his cousin to arrange sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I found racey IM messages between my fiance and his female cousin. They were talking about having sex with each other and planning when etc. I was so upset, I asked him about and he said they were really close and just playing. I told him that playing or not that was per... (115 words)

He's giving it another go with his wife. I've been left behind. What now?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age - I wrote in before but did not give all the facts. Yes, I am married and so is he. Yes, we have been seeing each other for 3 years. He has told me many many times that he loves me and I him. He just told me last week that he told his wife he was not happy. She told him he h... (376 words)

How do I cope with being pregnant at 13?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi i'm 13 years old and i took a home pregnancy test and it came back positive,i had sex for the first time when i was 11 and i really enjoyed it but i didn't think i was going to get pregnant, what should i do? i don't want to have an abortion or give it away. what do i do?... (61 words)

We like each other but my friend likes him first. What can we do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - dear aunt, there is this guy in the hostel i use to stay who is realy nice. first i took him just as a friend and every girl the hostel were crazy about him,even my close friend said she loved him more than any thing.but i did'nt look at him that way may because i am not so i... (293 words)

Parenting question: how to potty train a little girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok my dad wants to get my sister off dipers she was potty trained but with dippers she dosent want underware she wates and holds it and pees her pants if she has to what do we do ... (44 words)

He doesn't show me affection, apart from sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well... Me and my boyfriend have been going for a couple months now, well from like October... And sometimes he`s really sweet and he`s stuck with me when I`ve cheated more than a couple of times. Anyway I`ll get to my point... he never shows any affection... Like we don`t kiss ... (104 words)

Wild crazy drinking spree for him 2 weeks out of the country

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for a year now. We are both in love with each other and are very happy. Everything is perfect, i trust him 100% and we never stop each other from going out with friends or tie each other down, we never get jealous or anything and up to now ... (324 words)

He won't open up to me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i need help like really badly, im doing everything i can to make my boyrfriend be open with me its like he was this amazing perfect guy in the begining and now nothing he wont open upto me he wont talk to me about are relationship he tells me he loves me everynight by text ... (190 words)

Wife has total control of our sex life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

7 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married happily for 10 years. Over the last 3 years my wife has taken control of our sex life. I am definitely become submissive in the bedroom. We dont get BDSM but she always decides when, where and how. She loves this control. Lately she only perfers sex one ... (288 words)

Hes mentally cheating on me with pornography

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age - I have a problem, i am completely and totally against porn, i just cant accept it and i cant accept my boyfriend looking at it. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and he has always known how upset it feel about it, i have tried to understand the concept of it but i just ... (317 words)

Where to go to sow wild oats?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I graduate next year and am inexperienced sexually. I have been saving money to go abroad and see the world. Since I won't be near my hometown anymore, I'm wanting to sow some wild oats, have fun, party, meet some girls. I'm thinking to visit England, Germany, Italy, ... (91 words)

Sex life totally sucks

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband(28) and I(27) have been together for 3 years in the beging we had GREAT sex all the time. Then i got pregnant 4 months into our relashiop and we couldnt have sex due to complactions in the pregnancy. Once i had the baby and we were able to have sex he would pop in ... (148 words)

His wavering views on marriage is now causing a rift between us

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have known my partner for 5 years, we have been living together for a year in a few weeks. He has had a difficult past with relationships and so have I but have made great progress. He has a son to a previous relationship which didnt work out and describes his ex as someone ... (415 words)

Should I move to be with my fiancee while I look for work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - While I was in a long-distance relationship during graduate school, my boyfriend proposed to me. About a month or so later he confessed to buying another house and lying about it to me. This affected what I thought our relationship was (I thought he was my bf and that he would ... (254 words)

Can guys get turned on by someone they are not attracted to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello I have a question about sex. Can men get turned on if they are with someone they are not attracted to? When I kiss my boyfriend , he has his eyes closed and also and when I pleasure him orally he will sometimes close his eyes or look past my head or his eyes wi... (112 words)

Falling in love AFTER the relationship ends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - is it possible to not be in love with someone during a relationship with them and months later once you're just friends fall in love with them? i only ask because my boyfriend and i first broke up because he said he loved me, but only as a really good friend. now that its been ... (97 words)

I'm attracted to younger girls and wonder where it will go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I find myself looking at younger girls from about 8 onwards in a sexual way. This disturbs me. I am 25. I know that I can't do anything. And feel that I will have the strength to avoid doing anything to a girl. But I fear that one day I might weaken to my thoughts. I am ... (110 words)

Her vagina had a fishy kind of smell

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

7 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I was with this prostitute and she started fingering herself on the floor. A strange smell came from her vagina when she was doing this. I don't know if this was the lubricant, or a sign she had a std. The smell was hard to describe. It kinda did smell fishy. But it was more... (133 words)

Boyfriend asks for 6 week break, is it over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, Boyfriend asks for a 6 week break and won't meet to talk about the definition of it or to talk about our feelings. Is it over? Should I date? He says he is much too emotionally sad and is feeling that our relationship doesn't work for him, especially during t... (364 words)

Twins in love can't chose between them!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my best friend and his twin brother both love me.they told me at different times when the other was't around.they both want to know if i love them .i like them both and don't know which one to choose.please help me?i'm so confused.... (43 words)

I don't really like him and hes calling me sweet names

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont get this guy..he asked me out in a acting and modeling class he seemed really shy about it then later that night he texted me saying are we offically together and i said idk ..cuz we never went out so i didnt wanna be together if we never kissed,held hands or ... (157 words)

Did I hurt his ego or he just wants to prolong my agony?

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7 June 2009 (?) age 41-50 - Pls help me anyone. I have broken up with my bf in late april, accepted everything and is willing to move on now. I wrote twice about this break-up before. But something came up lately which makes me confused. For the last two weeks I had started to communicate with... (400 words)

Will we be something in the future?

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - theres this guy in wisconsin and i'm in az so its a far away distance.this guy was intresed in me i can tell people from wisconsin said he talked about me and they said that we're both young so in the future watever happens..happens.a few months ago onlline we flirted a little ... (170 words)

Is he actually interested at all? Should I get him off my mind?

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am definitly confused,please someone help me.a long time ago i went to this party and ive seen this guy there.the next day i went on myspace and wrote the guy a message saying the party was awesome and his a college guy and he said he has seen better.then there was this ... (216 words)

I'm only used to him but he loves me, what should I do?

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I told a guy that I don't love him but he keep saying he'll keep loving me even if I don't do.I asked him to find another girl that might be suitable for him I don't have any feeling toward him he is a friend he said okay we are friends but can't stop I love you to m... (93 words)

Trapped by married woman at work! Help!

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7 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello, Im a 39 yr old man that has a 26 yr old married woman pursuing me at work. We both work in departments that are next to eachother. She is very attractive and has worked for the company for some years and is known as being very flirtatious among all the men that work in ... (273 words)

I like him but he doesn't know I'm pregnant, what should I do?

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im currently 18 weeks pregnant (with my first child =))and i just became "friends" with a guy who i've had a crush on since my crushes began. I mean that seriously and although he doesn't remember the chubby me from that era, he was my first crush ever. What i love (not in the ... (319 words)

2 year break! Should we try it again???

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well where to begin... I started dating a guy 2 years ago lasted about 6 months. He was a great guy but got a job opportunity in canada. Since we lived in florida and I was since in school it was hard to see each other. But we ended up being friends and talking while he's been ... (151 words)

For some reason guys just aren't attracted to me?!

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there so I'm 16 years old and where i live kids started dating and stuff at around seventh grade. I've never kissed a guy,had a boyfriend, held hands with a guy or anything of that sort. For some reason,guys just arent attracted to me. I went to a party and every single one ... (147 words)

My man has no career ambition and lacks confidence!

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my man for 5 years. Originally we got together as he was studying design and i was a designer. We both had that in common which was a BONUS and what really made me think how amazing our relationship was. after he graduated he decided that NO he didnt want to do ... (418 words)

Faking orgasms...how can I fix this?

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, I've made a mistake. I know that part, I just need to know how to fix it: When my boyfriend and I got together, I held out for a long time as far as doing anything sexually. Though we're not having sex yet, we do everything else. The first time I finally let him ... (249 words)

He read my journal and accused me of cheating. Was all this my fault?

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 7 months and I broke up today. Last night, while inside the gas station paying for gas, he stayed in the car and found my journal. He began to read it and found out that I slept with someone in the time between I broke up with my ex and starting a relationship ... (333 words)

Can't feel anything during sex. Am I too wet?

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have this problem with my new boyfriend. We have been having sex and I just can't feel anything and its very frustrating for both of us. It's not his size, he's completely normal, but I think I may be getting too wet or something. Is this normal? BTW, before him I haven't ... (98 words)

Kissed my ex-teacher on the cheek at my graduation, did I make him uncomfortable?

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Yesterday (June 6), I graduated from high school. I had the usual graduation jitters, but what made me more nervous was waiting for the arrival of an ex-teacher of mine. My high school closed down last year, so I had to transfer. I invited him, because it meant a lot t... (330 words)

Do guys clue thier frineds in if they like a girl?

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy that I like and I think he likes me, but we're both shy so we don’t do anything about it. His friends are always staring at me. He has this one friend in particular that I don’t even know. He is always staring at me he looks back at me when I walk behind him. ... (170 words)

What can I do, to feel more secure when talking to adults?

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How can i get better at talking to adults? i always feel so awkward or intimidated... whether it's a teacher, tutor, or a friend's parent. when they start talking to me, i kind of freak. i feel like they're older and wiser and i don't want to sound stupid. and if it's a male, ... (116 words)

Got food poisoning, he found me throwing up, stormed out without giving me the chance to explain ,what do I do?

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I was really mad at my boyfriend (of 2 years) for something he did and I wasn't contacting him in anyway. Well I gave him a house key to my apartment (we're planning to move in together) and he randomly show up with some flowers he brought me. A while ago I got horrible food ... (120 words)

Can't stop thinking about my teacher, but he's leaving

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i'm sixteen and as many people have said on this website, I am in love with my teacher. Well, former teacher now, he's going away to become principal at another school...which of course,tears into my heart everytime i say that, or hear it. I know everyone always says, "Oh, ... (261 words)

Should I tell him I slept with his friend or keep quiet?

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I posted before about wether or not to be with my current boyfriend. And I fell in love and we are/were doing great. My boyfriends best fried is also one of my good friends, we all met a long time ago (like 8 yrs). My boyfriend is suppost to be coming home on the 15th ... (251 words)

We moved in together our sex life is nil, tired of me? What do I do?

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my boyfriend for just over a year. We have recently moved in together. But a couple of months ago our sex life seems to be only every now and again and only when he wants it. When i mention it he says hes tired or he cant be bothered. Has he gone of me?... (58 words)

Told my fiancee I cheated, what can I do to help heal the relationship and regain his trust?

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I finally did it today. I told my fiancé that I cheated. It was 1year 8 months ago. The guilt and agony was just too much. I was having anxiety attacks and nightmares. Like others have said I thought that I could keep it together and never tell. Just suffer though and hold ... (225 words)

Bought a purity ring, not a virgin, was it wrong to buy the ring?

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay. So I am 19 years old and I am finally starting to accept Christ. I have begun studying the bible and attending church. My religion is becoming a major part of my life. But now I come to this problem in my life. I am not a virgin and I have been with 5 people. I know youre ... (159 words)

I am crazy about this guy, he is not into me, don't know what to do, please help?

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i written on here so many times but my problem isnt going away! i go on dates to try and find someone i really like, but i just can't get over this one guy. He is so perfect for me. but i think he thnks hes too good for me, and that he's not that into me. but im heartbroke... (145 words)

Adding some flavoring to our sexual relationship

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7 June 2009 (?) age - What can I do to keep sex interesting between me and and my boyfriend? We're both into romantic things but just cant think of anything. Ideas anyone?... (30 words)

I love her, she is not bi-sexual, is there a good way to tell her?

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm in love with my bestfriend, we grew up together. But i never had the guts to tell her how i felt. We always used to practice making out when we were 9 because we wanted to be experts for the boys. I'm 13 and i really wish we could rewind back then. She has a boyfriend that ... (78 words)

Together for years, she's not happy, wants time to figure things out, how do I help?

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7 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, iv been with this girl for 5 years almost, im 25 and she is 21. Recently she told me i cant communicate very good at all and that she feels distant from me. She told me she thinks we need a break and packed a bagful of cloths and left for her mothers. She said that we ... (205 words)

I like him a lot, he doesn't want sex or a relationship with me, what do I do now?

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been seeing this guy that i like a lot and he is not ready for a relationship so his just having his fun. just when i was ready to have sex with him And he refused me and said "no" he doesn't know why but he just cant do it with me because i am a nice girl and he doesn't ... (109 words)

Have fallen for my best friend, who has a girlfriend, please help me?

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I previously asked a question (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/best-male-friend-has-a-girlfriend-but-i.html) about the situation given here, but it's changed a bit and I kind of needed to ask another question, on the same note. As I've said in my earlier question, my ... (468 words)

17 and never been kissed. What do I do?

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 17 and have never been on a date or had a boyfriend or even had a real kiss. i feel like no guy is ever going to like me. i don't know how to talk to guys so i either don't or try to and sound awkward. i have no clue what i'm doing. i only have a few guy friends at t... (109 words)

Is my vagina abnormal?

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think i have an abnormal vagina. The labia are strangly larger than the rest of my Vagina and sorta hang down a bit. i have always been consious of this but even more so now when a guy described it as overgrown funghi. is it really abnormal and is there anything i can d... (62 words)

Having sex with an ex and making my girlfriend feel special

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - (Mod Note: Questions have been merged.) 1) Ok so me and my ex been wanting to have sex. We already has gone out 3 times already.We wanna go out again but we're not going to the same school, but we do like eachother.I wanna know if im doing wrong. Help? 2) I want to know how ... (72 words)

Love issues..

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, well i've known this guy for almost a year and a half now and i thought everything was going well until he told me that he doesnt want to talk to me anymore because im too young for him in so many ways i really want to be with him but he doesnt, (he doesnt like commitment). ... (76 words)

Blast from the past

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have encountered my ex on the fabulous FB. We have chatted back and forth and complimented each other on wall-to-wall. This is a man that I have never forgotten about and always wondered what happened to him. We were married in our 20's and ... enough said, it did not work ... (228 words)

My scary dreams!

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi.. well im 17, ive been with my boyfriend now for 7 weeks! not long i know.. and we havent slept together. we're both virgins.. he's 20.. but recently ive started having scary dreams, ive had about 6 now. im pregnant in them and im living as if its real life. apart from being ... (109 words)

What to do... I'm in love with my best friend...

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in love with my best friend. He and i work together and we see each other every day including weekends. I know his family very well and he knows mine. I even spent a long weekend with him and his family in Arizona. I feel like I've known him forever! Here is the problem. ... (352 words)

The "horror" of it all!!!

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7 June 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Listening to heavy metal, violent video games and 18 rated movies wont make me a psycho. My mom doesnt think so, i do all of these and i can tell you now, it doesnt do me any harm. How do i convince her that watching apocalypse now wont make me go into school and shoot my ... (67 words)

21 and still a virgin!!!

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7 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi.. im 21 years old and im a male virgin. i have never kissed a girl or had a girlfriend in my life. ive had no sexual encounters what so ever and recently have been feeling very lonely.. more so than normal. i dont find it difficult to socialise and actually have a lot of ... (184 words)

I want to completely wax my vaginal area. Is this wise?

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7 June 2009 (F)

- Female help needed! I want to get rid of my vaginal pubic hair, completely. I really don't want to shave it because I've tried that in the past and it doesn't last long and it's irritating when it's growing back. What I would really love to do is wax the area without having to ... (97 words)

No one likes me... why???

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, im 14 and two years ago I had a bf for the first time. After 3 months I dumped him cuz I felt like I was only with him cuz I were desperate. I havent had a bf since an I feel dead lonely and depressed cuz no one likes me. Can anyone give me any tips on what 2 do or tell me ... (74 words)

My boyfriend has a small pea sized spot on his scrotum. What could it be?

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi = My boyfriend, who's 18 has recently noticed a small, visible, slighty hard (like a pea but smaller),red and pus filled spot on the actual scrotum itself. He says that it isn't sore but he's worried about what it could be, and is scared that it could be serious. We are both... (130 words)

Weight problems...

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm 14 and a few weeks ago I went 2 a frends wedding. I bought a new dress especially for it and I was looking forward to wearing it. I did weigh 11st 5Ib but I managed 2 lose a whole stone so that I wud look better in my outfit. But I put it on on the day and I thort I ... (150 words)

How can I convince my boyfriend I'm not violent or rude now we have broken up?

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7 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has cheated and frustrated me so much but I tolerated a lot of things and I loved him so much until one day he missed four appointments we had, I blew up and started texting insults to him like using the f word, cursing him out, saying things like God would punish ... (146 words)