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Help with getting an abortion?

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Question - (16 June 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 16 June 2009)
A female Philippines age 30-35, *yosa writes:

please help me to abort dz baby im not yet ready for this

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2009):

Seek professional advice. How far into your pregnancy you are? Are you anemic? You will need to go to a clinic and speak to somebody that can examine you and advise you. I am sorry but the internet is not the place for this...we can help you only to a certain point but you need to see someone. Many women have to make this decision daily so don't feel alone or embarrassed. Just go to a doctor and ask. Good luck. I feel for you... I've been there! xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2009):

I liked Meg 2989's answer.

I can't help you, but I just thought I'd put it that if you have an abortion there is also a chance that you will become infertile and never be able to concieve again.

Make sure you get councilling before and after you get the abortion, if you go through with it, because I expect it will be an extremely painful experience and you need to protect you mental health.

Hope everyting works out for the best.

Emivia.

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A female reader, meg2989 United States +, writes (16 June 2009):

meg2989 agony auntI can help you, but you need to know the facts. Ive had an abortion once in my life and its an expirience I wasnt ready for and will never ever repeat again in my life. I had a " pill abortion" I was almost 9 weeks pregnant, just a day short of 9 weeks actually and my baby came out intact in my panties. It was horrible not only was the bleeding excessive, but the baby had eyes a nose ears hands feet a belly and even a mouth. Abortions are painful, not just physcally but emotionally. I can tell you right now I would have rather just had the baby and given it up for adoption. Im not trying to scare you but it takes such a toll, you may even become depressed after. If you have medicare or if you do not have insurance planned parenthood will offer you medicare and it can take care of the cost of an abortion. I reccomend that you go to your own doctor and have your insurance cover it, because I feel that your own doctor can possibly do a better job. Remember that doctors dont typically preform abortions past 12 weeks of pregnancy. I hope the information Ive given you has helped. the planned parenthood website is www.plannedparenthood.org Good luck sweet heart. I hope this is easier on you than it was on me.

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A female reader, dyosa Philippines +, writes (16 June 2009):

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thanks for your advice but i really do need to do this,im still attending class & my family expect so much from,my bf said that he will be there 4 me,but i dnt want to be miserable i have a good future f i am not pregnant at this tym!!im on my ojt right now!!what should i really do??

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A female reader, Hannan Nigeria +, writes (16 June 2009):

I don't know if dis is wat u need but al i can say is pls keep d baby.9 months ll soon b over but if u remove d baby,d memories ll hunt u 4 life.Think about it girl.

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