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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I need your opinions on this one. Am I too old for her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

22 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am new to this site and won't ordinarily ask for advice from strangers, but I need some prospective. I am 39 and I recently met a young woman who I think is very special. She is only 20 but has an intelligence, wit and courage that is far beyond her years. When I first saw ... (291 words)

Why does my friend act this way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have a question to do with homophobia. My flatmate and I have been living together for a while now. She has known that I have dated women since before I moved in. The problem is that no matter how much I explain to her that I don't and will never lke her in that way she ... (195 words)

I need a woman who wants me, not one who just needs me...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

22 June 2009 (M)

age - I'm in my mid-forties and am feeling really down. My wife totally went off sex fifteen years ago when our children were born. She likes me to massage her feet or her arms, but that's it. She's quite honest with me about her dislike for sex, and at least that's something - ... (174 words)

Sex - disappointed, hurt, jealous...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a female and have a strange issue in my relationship with my boyfriend. It appears that I am extremely jealous of him in the sex department. I'm becoming increasingly jealous and resentful, to the point where I cry about it all of the time. I have never orgasmed by ... (271 words)

Since he didn't try to hold my hand or anything should I assume he isn't interested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I met someone on Facebook. We have mutual friends and both go to the same college. We started talking a lot online and eventually it led to him asking for my number. He flirted with me a little through text and we exchanged questions about each other's lives. And.. after a ... (310 words)

Is there a way for us to successfully be together again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my ex, but we haven't seen each other in a year, we sometimes keep in contact, and most recently he has contacted me to reminisce about old times. He said if we were ever in the same city we should meet up. Recently my friend saw him in my hometown, and the next day, ... (217 words)

I feel alone, my family have literally abandoned me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hey .. can u help me.? I'm getting more depressed. My sister is always out and doesnt never want to do anything with me any more. she is 18 and we have always been close. I am always home alone on my own an have nothing to do.. i have to sometimes cook myself, eat my d... (267 words)

How can I ever love again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How can I ever love again? I gave my heart to him, all of it, without reservation or concern for my own well-being. I spent two years with him and shared my very soul. For a time, he gave me love in return. But, then, he became cold and distant and took another lover. He p... (139 words)

I don't feel a massive spark when I'm with him, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a guy friend who told me he fancies me, but I didn't feel anything back because I was "in love" with a guy for a year who treated me awfully so I was blinded by this loser Now I'm seeing things more clearly.. although the guy friend who confessed he fancied me a yea... (170 words)

Should I text him like my friend says?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I went on a school trip last week and got to know this guy who i hadn't ever really talked to, who also went. by the end of the trip we were always together, we pretty much fell for each other. anyways we got back yesterday (sunday) and today at school he ignored me. when i ... (119 words)

At what point is sex expected?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Lately I have come into contact with many people who believe that sex is expected after the 3rd date. Since, I have asked some of my friends and other people I know and 3 seems to be the magic number. In some cases, people said they would not have sex before the 3rd date but ... (96 words)

My boyfriend is moving 2 hours away, I'm clingy and needy... Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - HI! okay so my bf of a year and some days is moving away at the end of this month because he cant find a job so he's moving back home with his parents which is bout 2hours away, and idk what to do? I live with my mom still cuz i dont hava job yet either? Im a very clingy/needy ... (94 words)

Help! What should I do? I really like this girl but don't want be burned again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I would like to get some feedback on this one.. 3 months back I met this girl. We met for drinks and it was all fun.. From the beginning she insisted that we would be casual. For me this was all good. I was badly burned before so being 'friends with favours' sounded ... (573 words)

I finally figured it out. I am melancholic!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

22 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Yes. After all those years of suffering and headbanging, I got it - this is who I am. This is not exactly a question although it would be nice if it can develop a life of it's own. It's just that today it hit me and I had to share with someone. Last week I asked a girl out... (502 words)

Romeo and Juliette. Forbidden love, help.

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22 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have known each other since I was born. We are two years apart. Lately everyone has been stressed. My BFs mom died and his dad got fired. We helped each other through it. If anything it brought us closer! We were talking one day when his dad barged over to us ... (118 words)

Psychologist trouble

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am having serious depression and anxiety issues. I have started being a nag to my husband. I misinterpret everything everyone does around me and am very negative. In short I figure am losing it. I called help from the church. The psychologist who came home kept telling ... (102 words)

Why is he nervous and not as nice to me when she is around and very interested when she is not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

- Thank you in advance to those who take the time to read and answer my question. I work with a guy who I like and I think he likes me too. Due to the fact that I am just out of a long term relationship though, I am in no hurry to get involved again. There is a woman I work with ... (230 words)

How do I confront her about her escapades with her ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

22 June 2009 (M)

age - I am newly separated after 27 years of marriage. I met a wonderful woman through a dating service and have been with her for eight months. She was married for 17 years and had a kinky sexual relationship with her ex. I have no problem with that. He did abuse her though and that ... (177 words)

In bed...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi.. I need some advice please.. I have been in a relationship for almost 2 months. We have good time together, trying to get to know each other better. He is a nice guy, sensitive, serious, we have many things in common. In bed i don't know, he acts like it only for him, for ... (249 words)

Am I sexually needy?

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22 June 2009 (F) age - I'm sexually needy. I feel very upset because my husband has no desire for sex. It is like this at the last 5 years. I don't know why, and I might never know. I was searching for answers, for years, but now I have no more energy to look for answers . We heard about some rea... (186 words)

Help! How do I know if he's "the one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 10 months and 10 days. How do I know if he's the right one for me or if he loves me? ... (30 words)

I'm afraid to have sex because I think I'll die! HELP ME!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So just yesterday I was in the shower with my boyfriend and we were about to do the "deed" and I started feeling light headed so I was going to get out, than my vision started going black and I couldn't see, and I felt nauseated, so I sat down in the shower, it was scary!! I ... (117 words)

Love or Lust? It's Confusing.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in my mid 20's. Me and my girlfriend "V" have been going out for almost 5 years. I love her with all my heart. we're pretty serious, and it's generally accepted by everyone we're going to be married. we talk about it. as soon as we both get our lives/careers straight, we'd ... (328 words)

I need tips on how to flirt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey :) Okay so there is this boy who I really like, and I think I may be in love with him :S He is probably my best guy friend, but the problem is he thinks I am immature and "stupid" - I know he still is extremely fond of me, but how do I prove him wrong? Yes, I am fairly..... (169 words)

What do women really want when they ask for space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I wanted to find out what to do as I have been dating a seperated woman for about 1 year and 8 months. She had been seperated for about a year and a half when I met her and she had only been out on 2-3 dates before me. Right away we hit it off and I had asked her after about a ... (739 words)

I want a younger girl, but all I attract is older women!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I'm a 28 year old guy. I like younger girls between 18 and 25 but all I attract are her moms!! women who are like 35, 40 45 and older. Most of them are divorced and with kids. Some of them looking for a father to their kids, and I don't think i'm ready for that. I don't ... (137 words)

I really love him and want to give myself to him, but I'm worried it's never going to happen.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have tried to have sex 3 different times but it never seems to happen as we plan, we're both virgins and 18. I've gone on the pill after the first time he couldn't get the condom on, and he didn't want me to risk us getting pregnant. The second time, he... (130 words)

How should my friend answer him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - This boy I went out with last year started talking to me a again a couple of months ago when I started going out with this other guy. He had a girlfriend at the time, but he seemed kind of jealous that I had a new boyfriend and kept asking me about him. He broke up with his ... (285 words)

I really want it to work this time... any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

22 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating a girl since last November. Only ever met her once and haven't seen her since dating in November. Been on and off to say the least, meeting for the first time this weekend. We're going to cinema to basically make out lmao. I dunno what to do:( plus we were ... (100 words)

How do I convince him to stop using her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this problem, I like this really cool guy, he is really nice cool and sweet and he is my friend so I got to know him really well. Here is my problem he has a girlfriend. I don't mind that and all but I found and I saw and heard that he was using his girlfriend. I know ... (103 words)

Problems with my foreskin...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

22 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I'm 14 and my foreskin only retracts very slightly, you can't even really see the head of the penis. I've read about all of the techniques of fixing this, but I'm worried about doing them because I think I can see a vein or something stuck inside the penis. It would be ... (63 words)

I'm seeing her on the side...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

22 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm seeing this girl who has a BF. We've talked many times that she's not leaving him and I'm not in any rush and I'm just having fun. We have had sex about 3 different times and every time is amazing. She is an awesome girl and we click like no one before. Just the more I ... (107 words)

Opinions on age differences

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it okay for a 18 year old guy to date a 31 year old woman?... (16 words)

Was he trying to fob me off with his excuse?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've had a couple of dates with a wonderful man, the trouble is we met through a dating site, and left me wondering if he was also contacting other women, I got very drunk Saturday and he called me on the phone where I began ranting and raving about this, (I don't remember a ... (118 words)

I need to forget about him, but I can't...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey So it has been almost year since me and my ex broke up. It was due to his family issues (me not being same religion,wanted to get married,while his father was against it ... etc). We loved each other, I know that. Anyway .. he is with another woman since the break up... (310 words)

Infatuated with someone on the telly!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I like someone very much off the telly, she is so beautiful and every time I see her I get butterflies in my stomach, she isn't famous, she just reads news type things on a channel and used to sell things on another. I don't know if I love her or not because I don't know what ... (100 words)

A couple of sex questions, mostly for the guys!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a few questions for the guys. I have a boyfriend and we are very much in love and I have some questions about things he does. My first question, while we are kissing he opens his eyes every once in a while? Can anybody let me know if thats a bad thing or just something ... (140 words)

Why did they call me "bi "in front of everyone?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - sorry to all bisexuals... i am a teenager at highschool and have been having some problems and it has been upsetting me. it all started in a normal pe lesson and this girl *Chloe* came up to me and asked me if i was bisexual, i was just about to say "no" when my "friend" intu... (161 words)

She's stolen my thunder! How do I tell her to stop going on about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Please please help, this is a bit of a long story. I haev a friend, z, and we're very close. last year she moved away to egypt. we have kept in touch. well, for a very long time, ever since i was really little, i have always been into graphic designing (photoshop, ba... (178 words)

Is there a possibility I still want to be with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ready here I go... I was with my ex for 6 years we had 3 kids and eventually got married. we got married in 2007. I met my fiance in december of last year. we just got engaged 2 weeks ago. I love him very much. there is nothing i don't love about him. we have so much in common ... (194 words)

Not sure how to approach a girl I like for a date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so here's my problem i met this girl at a carnival she's a cheerleader so she was working the dunk booth and i stayed there almost the intire day talking to her and afterwards we went for a walk. I found out she's a senior in high school and i'm a sophmore so i'm only 15 ... (128 words)

Is this girl I met online really busy, or is she ignoring me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all, OK so last week I started talking to a girl who goes to my college and lives near me, on Myspace. We exchanged screenames and chatted on AIM several times. I felt like we hit it off very well, our conversations went both ways, she was giving me long answers to my qu... (444 words)

I'm concerned about my girlfriends sexual past, we broke up. Have I done the right thing?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

22 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently broke up with my girl because of things she has disclosed to me about her sexual past. I know that may sound immature but it wasnt just the fact that I had thoughts of the guys she told me about her having sex with. The situation was that she and I were at one of... (235 words)

When will my periods return to normal after I stop taking the pill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, this isn't really a relationship question (although you could say that birth control is part of a relationship) I know you aren't doctors, but anyone with experiences it would be great if you could put them on here...anyway to the point, I had a contraceptive implant for ... (123 words)

His family keep inviting his ex-wife to family gatherings, what can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in a tough situation. My boyfriend is divorced but his family keeps inviting his ex wife to family functions even though he has asked them not to. She also invites them to her family functions and they accept. Last December his parents spent both Christmas and New Year... (301 words)

He has serious trust issues, how can I help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age - I have known my fiance for a couple of years but have only been together for about a year. He wants to get married, however, he is very stingy and everything has to be about him. I am open about everything including my bank account however, he will not let me know how much... (221 words)

How should I handle seeing my ex-boyfriend again, he will be visiting me soon?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age - Help My boyfriend is coming around on friday for his car tax that arrived, we broke up six months ago after a 11 years he left me for another women. he never stopped texting me since he left and the texts have got much heavier over the last two weeks i never texted him he done ... (181 words)

Not sure of my feelings for him or what to do about it?

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22 June 2009 (F)

age - Hello: I finally went out on a date with a man I've been corresponding to via online (where we met) After a terrible breakup with my (cheater,liar) this guy has been calling me, sending me beautiful texts, and ecards. We finally met, I was nervous I haven't been alone with som... (501 words)

Do I love this girl off tv?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i like someone very much off the telly she is so beautiful and everytime i see her i get butterflies in my stomach i don't know if i love her or not because i don't know what love feels like. i added her as a friend on facebook and she added me back but she has a boyfriend what ... (79 words)

What is the difference between a committment phobic or someone afraid to be hurt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Can someone please tell me the difference between a true commitment phobic man and one that is just a bit emotional and afraid of being hurt in a relationship since he once was. Help don't want to waste anymore time.... (41 words)

I've never had a sex drive, what can I do?

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22 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I became sexually active at 16, I had a long term boyfriend for 4 years until I was 20. Since then I have obviously had boyfriends, but I've NEVER had a sex drive, it's just something I do because I should. I never feel horny, only during foreplay after it's initiated. I ne... (91 words)

Why do I always have to do everything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) age 36-40 - my bf and i have been together for almost 3 years now and we get along well and have a lot in common, but i am so frustrated because i have to do practically all the work when it comes to going out and socializing. if i dont suggest we go out or do something we'll just end up ... (133 words)

My internet lover has been a liar from the beginning

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hiya I have a question for you I met a guy online (as so many of us do) When i finally met him the first thing was the picture was not of him. He had put another face on of a handsome guy as he himself is not at all attractive. Looks are not imporant to me and he did sa... (243 words)

Sex is painful, he's too big, it's killing our relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend 6 months. Yet we've never fully had sex. He's on the large side penis wise, but I've had boyfriends with large penises before and it's never been this much of a problem. It just really, really hurts! When he first goes to enter me, it's so painf... (158 words)

I feel like my friend's not interested

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've got a good friend whose been away for ten days without being in touch with me until she returned, even though I sent her a text wishing that she was having a good time there. I wasn't too impressed with this and felt even worse when my Mum and her boyfriend kept asking me ... (233 words)

About to become a senior...and scared!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I'm about to be a senior. Although my junior year wasn't horrible. In some parts it was pretty tough. I DID do my best though. Applying for college (art college) will be right around the corner and I'm getting so anxious... Scared my work and grades won't be good enough. ... (98 words)

We split up and I've become promiscuous, why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Me and my ex split up after 5 years. The reason for the split was because he cheated and was physically abusive, at the time of the spilt i was 21 he was 27. It was not an amicable split due to finance and our property, but we finally sold that in october. Anyway....17 mon... (182 words)

My boyfriend first had sex at 8, is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i were having a conversation on our sexual past, what age we lost our virginity at etc. He told me that he started putting his penis in girls as young as 7 or 8 and actually took a girl into his room at 8 and tried full blown sex but obviously he wasnt able to ... (162 words)

Is my ex toying with my emotions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my partner of 5years in January 2009. We have a 3yr old daughter together. Our relationship was good to begin with but within the first year it had begun to show major cracks. He was constantly out at the pub or arranging to meet up with his friends, we did ... (251 words)

I've devastated my fiance by leaving him, it's hurting me too

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I am in some need of help here, and any advice is greatly appreciated.. I posted on here recently about how I had cancelled my wedding to my fiance who I have been with for 3 years and that I was considering leaving him because I feel we just want different things in life ... (556 words)

Can you name some good places to meet nice, decent, cute down to earth girls??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, Can you give me some good places to meet nice decent girls? Nightclubs, Bars and Pubs Do not count!! the last couple GF's I've had I met in bars and they turned out to be big headaches and I was told I've been looking in the "wrong places" so I want your opinions. ... (54 words)

My boyfriend's 7 year old daughter still sleeps in his bed

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 30 years old, living with my 38 year old boyfriend and his 7 year old daughter. She still sleeps in his bed sometimes, and for this reason I have to sleep in my own bed, in my own room, while living with my boyfriend. I feel like he is not making room for me in his life ... (633 words)

Been together 4 years, no mention of love, now we're breaking up, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 4 years and best friend and colleague are breaking off. We never fought as such... we may disagree but not fights. Our colleagues/family members dont know anything about our relationship. We meet, date, everything like a couple.. .call each other bf/gf. But ... (471 words)

I'm feeling jealous and insecure, he's cheated before

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner does a course involving a lot of women and very few male collegues (nursing) he goes twice a week, and they have all started going out to dinner together (well a group of 5 or 6 of them). I have started feeling a bit of green eyed monster, i struggle with my self ... (238 words)

Was I his rebound girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I contacted my ex boyfriend who recently had a terrible breakup with his girlfriend who he had after me. He broke up with me because of her and they were togetehr for about 7 months. I have always wanted to get back together with him - we were together for three years before he ... (230 words)

Does "just good friends" always mean just that for a woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

22 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Okay – I have been out of the dating thing for at least 2 years and was a bit rusty but started seeing a girl (she is 39 and I am 42) recently. We had an instant amazing connection - and still do! First four or five dates were very casual and we had great fun together. So we ... (531 words)

If a guy calls a girl "babe", is it meant in a derogotary way?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

- If a guy calls a girl "babe", is it meant in a derogatory way? I ask this becuase the following quote is found from the following website: http://organizations.rockbridge.net/projecthorizon/signsofabuser.htm "18. Disrespect for Women in General. Ridicules and insults w... (127 words)

It's okay for him to be flirty with girls...but guys can't even say hello to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

- My bf makes me feel guilty and gets jealous if another guy just talks to me. So, to save his feelings, if a guy talks to me, I try to not really say much, hoping he will get the idea. But my bf still gets jealous and makes comments like "you're mine! not his!! you are mine.". ... (316 words)

Should I add her on Facebook and see if her personality matches her great looks?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3662 days ago

22 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - so, i go round my friends and goes on facebook and says "hey look at this girl, shes really fit" etc etc. and she looks amazing .. i cant really explain totally, but i find her very attractive but .. she lives along way away so i cant like go to talk to her at school or ... (121 words)

I don't know why my boyfriend dumped me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I really really really need advice. I am so confused and hurt:( My boyfriend and I were together for six months, and it was such an amazing relationship..I genuinely cannot put it into words properly. We met in college and after a while it got to the stage where he was ... (316 words)

Worried he will hurt me again, so now my guard is constantly up

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22 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i was sort of in a relationship with this lad.. we both knew we were exclusive althought neither of us had said it.. and he went to meet up with this girl that he later ditched me for after we had a bit of a fall out. He got into a relationship with her.. and i got back with my ... (196 words)

Is the guy for me right under my nose?

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22 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hiiii oki.... well there is a guy i've known since primary school! in highschool we never talked much and him and his "mates" used to sort of pick on me and stuff nothing major just still pants stuff. anyways... years on we still talk and occasionally hang out. in highschool ... (310 words)

What does it feel like to love a man?

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22 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im a closet lesbian, nobody knows im gay... im just wondering, how does it feel like to love a MAN? it's kinda sad that i can't appreciate them. even though i have had a few guys who went crazy over me and did a lot of really sweet stuff.. but im not moved or happy. not at all. ... (121 words)

I kissed him while I was drunk...

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22 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I feel really stupipd for even having to ask this, but I guess I just need the reassurance. I came out as gay about 18 months ago, and have truly never looked back, I'd never had feelings for a guy and was just overly relieved about being able to be open about it. Then, a ... (121 words)

First date go on a ghost walk?

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22 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've just started chatting to this girl who seems to like me and I like her. This may sound a strange thing to do on a first meeting, but would it be acceptable if I asked her on a ghost walk? If not, what do you think and where would readers take their would-be partners... (57 words)

I'm 13, he's 14 and I want to take things alot slower!

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22 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been chatting to my mates old boy mate online for a while now, we've met a few times but the last time we met he suggested we went back to his to watch a few movies. I wasn't alone it was me and my mate with him and his mate. When we got to his we went to his room and ... (156 words)

Seems like she wants me around when she wants some!

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22 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi im currently at uni and in a long term ish relationship, i have my holidays at the moment and have been spending alot more time with my girlfriend. i see her at least 3 times a week as oppose to every oher weekend when im studying. The problem is recently i have... (266 words)

How do you know the difference between just a booty call vs someone who has feelings for you?

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22 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi all, my question is this.... How do you know when someone is coming to you, booty call iv heard it called lol with just getting what they can from you or just scared and have feelings for you and unsure i hope iv worded this right its took me 3 days to think about it thanks ... (59 words)

I just want friendship, its not the right time for anything else!

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22 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i chatted wid this guy who after the 3rd chat told me that he loved me very dearly. i'm 17 and he's 29; its not my age to get involved in anything such as this, i've to focus in my studies and have lots moreto do in life. i just wanna make him my friend but don't know how to ... (66 words)

Why can I have great sex in the affair but not my marriage?

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22 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I started an affair 8 months ago with a woman not to much younger than me. From the beginning our sex has been the best I have ever experienced. I actually am able to have a great erection with her and actually every time we make love I last quite long with her. I have ne... (116 words)

Sister was incredibly cruel to me but has good life! Where's the justic?

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22 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, The issue which I am going to write at times discourages me a lot. I have a big sister with whom I was never in good terms. Now she is married and I share no relationship with her at all, I did not even attend her marriage. Since I was small child, she never s... (287 words)

This feeling of being "left behind" is getting me down

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22 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like I have no life. Sure, I have my family, I have friends, I have a boyfriend.. but it seems that everybody's got their own thing going already and I'm left feeling lifeless. I don't know why I feel this way.. I don't want to feel this way. I don't want to be the o... (440 words)

He says if I don't sleep with him, he won't help with our children

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22 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - heres the story: about 5 months ago my live-in boyfriend of 5 years left me. He instantly had a gf (which leads me to believe he was seeing her before the break up, altho he denies it) anyway, we keep in touch bc we have to, as we have children together. NOW that other girl ... (217 words)

If he wants to get back with me, why is he being so inattentive?

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22 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 21 years old and nine and half months ago my boyfriend of four years decided to leave me because he thought we fought a lot.I admit we used to argue over small issues but I never thought he would make this a reason to break up with me.I was devastated and begged him to ... (189 words)

Did one little argument bring about the end of our relationship?

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22 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid i have a problem. what does it mean when he wants to end everything because "i cant get close to anyone in a relationship because i find one little thing that drives me crazy and i completely explode i really am probably the worst boyfriend ever." and "your better ... (305 words)

Could I be in love with a gay wrestler?

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22 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a student at a university and I'm unusually perplexed about this guy. I met him at my friend's birthday party and we just hit it off; we were drinking buddies the whole night: shots, beer... you name it. We also ended up putting our arms around each other and talking in ... (357 words)

Am I falling for him?

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22 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i am 14 and my best friend is 15 and a guy. we r really close. about a year and a half ago i started having feelings for him. we have joked around about how people always think we are "together". but i was always hope he would think more into what the people said.i think i ... (116 words)

The problem is - she is married and has 2 kids!

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22 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, i don't know what to do?! I'm 24 year old guy and i have fallen in love with 29 year old woman. She loves me too. We are dating for more than 2 month. But the problem is she is married and she has 2 kids. Her hubby is a conductor, she says he comes home once a week so we ... (87 words)

This can't be love, so why cant I let go?

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22 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a very unhealthy relationship with my boyfriend. We have currently been on and off for about 8 months. We've dated prior to this as well. We constantly break up and get back together. I make excuses for his out of control behavior and I back him up to my family and fr... (272 words)

What should I tell him to do when he's in the shower?

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22 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend wants me to text him things to do while hes in the shower to get him hard. i dont know wat to say. does anyone know wat i should tell him to do? he likes them really detailed!... (40 words)

Why does porn upset me so much?

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22 June 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Why is porn such a big deal to us women? It's a big deal for me, but I don't even get why! I know I don't like my partner watching it, but I mean, it's just pictures and videos, so why can't I get past it? Why is it so upsetting? I know some women don't care, but a lot do and I ... (85 words)

Her violence is escalating -- I'm afraid for her if I leave

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22 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello all, I've been dating a girl for about 18 months now and need some advice. She is a really amazing person and I love her very much but recently things with her have gone out of control. She is a very emotional person and is prone to frequent mood swings. Recently ... (356 words)

My parents don't care for him and I'm starting to be bugged by this too..What to do?

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22 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my guy for 8 months and this has been the first relationship for both of us...despite the fact that he and i are having a long distance relationship and seeing each other for only once a month, everything has been great. but the thing is my parents dont like ... (138 words)

Handjob question...What do I do when IT happens?

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22 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend has agreed to give me a handjob. The only problem is, as everyone knows, guys ejaculate. Do I tell her to stop when that happens cause I feal like its rude making her have to clean up herself. I know its a weird question, but felt like it's an important one.... (53 words)

I am really regretting this "open marriage" arrangement!

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22 June 2009 (M)

age - I'm not sure how to begin. Several years ago, my wife and I agreed to an open-marriage. I'm not happy with it at all and feel neglected, and to be honest, I feel less of a husband. She knows how I feel and even has tried to stop several times, but she ends up hooking up ... (94 words)

Not sure, but I think I'm in love with a guy I've barely spoken to...!

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22 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've liked this guy for about 3-4 years. I think I'm in love. Yeah it sounds crazy. When I started liking him, I wasn't even looking for anyone. I thought oh, this will go away like other crushes I've had, but it hasn't. We've barely even spoken. He lives like down the street ... (89 words)

My fiance just dumped me! I'm lost and need advice.

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22 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - The reason I'm in this beacuse my fiance for 6 years just dumped me I'm so lost. I move out the but still talk to him ... (26 words)

My ex is pushing me to have sex...What should I do?

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22 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - so my ex boyfriend who lives down the street seems like he's looking for a more friends with benefits approach with us. and i've never done anything with a guy because i want everything to be special and he tries really hard even when i say no. but i kind of want to, but kinda ... (108 words)

My boyfriends brother is dating a maniac! Should I do something?

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22 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has a brother named *Jack and he has a child with his ex fiancee who left him a little less than a year ago.. Jack started to see a girl recently named *Dianne. My first impression of Dianne was not a very good one, she never looked anyone in the eye while she was ... (323 words)

He's afraid to get married!

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22 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need someone to help me on this. My boyfriend is affraid to get married due to his aunt uncle grandmother dad and cousin all first not lasting. Plz help and tell me what i can do to help him get over that fear.... (45 words)

Does my older brothers friend like me?

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22 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, so my brother has the 2 friends that are absolutly like my brothers. but one of them is really hot. so yesterday we were hanging out and my bro had to leave so my bro's friend and i were hanging out for a little. and we talked about "how not to be used in high school" blah ... (190 words)

I need advice on how to turn them down

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22 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i know a lot of guys who have a big crush on me and thats very flattering but i dont like them back there always flirting with me at school afterschool and even at bazaar's! how do i tell them that i dont like them back because first it was cute but now its real anoying. how ... (69 words)

How do I accept that my girlfriend had a child with a man twice her age

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22 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - How do I accept that my girlfriend had a child with a man twice her age, a senior citizen and now the judge has given a very equal custody - entailing weekly visitation and weekend rights, severly disrupting our ability to have continuity in our relationship and build one with ... (155 words)

Why can't I go through with a potentially rewarding one night stand?

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22 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a university student recently out of a two year relationship and have since found that after meeting girls on nights out and kissing I am not in the mood for sex when we get to the bedroom and I have to turn them down. I am happy being single but want some fun too. I think ... (102 words)

I need some advice on getting guys to approach me

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22 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice on getting guys to approach me. Guys look at me all the time but I never get approached. I don’t want to sound too vain but sometimes they turn their heads in the street to look at me. As for none of these guys approaching me, I think this is probably because ... (443 words)

IShould look for him again or should I just move on?

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22 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Id just finish my High School last week and I'm pretty sure that I'm never goin to to see my secret crush which turns out to be my first true love. No one knows that I like him except me because im not out. We are not close in school and we only say hi and how are you. He... (196 words)

How do you know if you should stay with a relationship if you're having doubts?

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22 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I guess my question is this: How do you know if you should stay with a relationship if you're having doubts? I'm feeling really confused. Sometimes I get this feeling that I'm just with my boyfriend because it's comfortable. Sometimes I think I just feel like this because we'... (670 words)

How could he love me and still be on dating sites?

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22 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I just reunited with my ex. We broke up for about a month, during that month it was a back and forth deal, he would text me missing me terribly and vice versa. I can't say what my status is with him right now. He's been on dating sites while we were apart and is still on them ... (132 words)

I am 19 I have been seeing my boss since I was 17

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22 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 19 i have been seeing my boss since i was 17..the first time he kissed me i stopped it and said you have a fiance he said sorry but done it again and it led to something else i told him i love him he said it straight he wont leave his wife but we atill wanr each other ... ... (74 words)

My neighbor will finally settle down but with MY daughter!

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22 June 2009 (F)

age - I apologize in advance for this is a rather long message. I'm a forty-six year old, married mother of four adults. My family and I moved to this area eleven years ago when my youngest child was eight years old. Our next-door neighbor was twenty-four at the time of our arri... (731 words)

It sucks to feel like an outsider wherever you go, and to feel like you don't truly belong anywhere...

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22 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This is going to sound a bit bizarre if you can't relate to it, but I can't help it. I posted something similar, but perhaps I didn't word it very well, and it didn't come out the way I meant it to. There are people who are transgender, who are born the "wrong" gender..... (684 words)

I'm scared that she is just lonely and needs someone to fill the time...

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22 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Where to start, ok. Long story short i became very close to a bartender at my regular bar and things went from there. Im a very flirtacious lesbian, i am of the "dominate" persuasion so its very apparent that i am gay. i flirt alot of females str8 or gay and dont usually think ... (526 words)

Should I go to the baby shower?

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22 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My baby was born at 35 weeks and even though I got to take him home right away, they said to keep adults away for a month and children away for 3. My husband's mom is throughing a baby shower for my son, but he will only be 2 weeks old by then and I made it clear to her that no ... (137 words)

She flirts in front of my crush !

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22 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My friend has been with her boyfriend for five years, she flirts with a lot of guys and to her bf she just pretends that the flirting is coming from a one way street, I just met her not for too long, I can see that she is very manipulative towards her bf..well I don't care too ... (200 words)

I feel like moving away from all friends I've known and starting a life with her!

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22 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I dunno what the hell to do. Me and my friends girlfriend have liked eachother for well over a year now and no one knows. Wev spoken about it in the past and brushed it to one side because it would be to messy and we dont want to hurt anyone. Its now got out of contro... (560 words)

Does he have feelings after losing his virginity to me?

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22 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So,this other guy from my group- he's a total computer geek,but him and i are pretty much best friends,and we slept together a few months ago,and basically he lost his virginity to me.. My question is,for all you guys especially,and girls can feel free to comment,but guys... (146 words)

Sexual Fantasy

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22 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So, i've been sorta CASUALLY dating this guy..and the weird thing is..somehow i get turned on and come when i imagine him in bed with another girl from our group. could someone explain why this turns me on? She is no competition at all..but somehow i find it hot thinking abo... (69 words)

Love him so much but the sex isn't good!

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22 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Well, I've been a relationship with my boyfriend for about two years. When I first met him I was instantly attracted to him, but the first time we had sex it wasn't good. I asked him if he was a virgin and he said no, so I asked him how many partners he had, he said around five ... (133 words)