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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm not attracted to my balding husband

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a similar situation except I'm actually married to the balding guy. We knew each other for eight years before we married and he actually showed signs of balding the year he popped the question. It was not much hair loss and I thought to myself that it should not matter ... (436 words)

If we can't be friends, then I must let him go

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is related to this question, http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-is-not-looking-for-a-relationship-but.html if you want a bit more backround. We lost touch, with busy lives, and I was a bit sad that I lost someone who potentially we could be good friends with. An... (347 words)

We're great friends, but fear our friendship will fade when I graduate

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm not looking to seduce my teacher, nor do i believe i am in love with him. but he has been a wonderful friend this past year for me (as well as my teacher). he has given me advice, talked to me about problems, etc. along with our regular fun chats. i fear that will all fa... (79 words)

He doesn't want to go away together now, should I just step back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello aunts I have been seeing someone I have known forever for the past 3 months. He and I get on fabulously well, have fun and the best loving times together - I am smitten. He split up with his ex a year ago after she cheated numerous times. He says she is vindictive and ... (289 words)

How can I get my neighbor to like me more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well i just got over my ex a few days ago thanks to my amazing friends who are here for me...well anyway my neighbor that lives across the street from me and has lived there ever since i have moved in...ive been spending time getting to know her and i was wondering if anyone ... (70 words)

I don't love my future wife what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

19 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hallo, Actually I am sharing this personal matter after getting much frustration. Before 5 years i got engaged with a girl. I stayed engaged with her for 5 months. but during those five months i thought that i was engaged too early and so i was not able to live freely my l... (395 words)

She only sees me when there isn't a man in the picture!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

- I have a very good friend, sue, who Ive known for years now and I would call her one of my best friends. She is in a relationship with a guy and they have a child together. But their relationship is quite rocky and they are always splitting up and getting back together. The ... (265 words)

How do you kick a dysfunctional relationship to the curb?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you kick a disfunctional relationship to the curb, without ever going back? My and my boyfriend constantly have problems.. and nobody wants us to be together. Truth be told, I don't know why I love him, but I know something is keeping me hanging on.. I feel l... (93 words)

My co worker embarrassed me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - One time I envited my co worker to my vacant apartment which I was not residing on for months. I decided to stop by with her to pick up a bill to pay. She decides to use the bathroom. Honestly i did not know that the toilet bowl was dirty. She went ahead and told me that she ... (160 words)

I just don't think he's the one

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my friend have been friends for near over two years. and he told me recently that he loved me and thought we were ment to be together but we live in different countrys he doesnt work enough for us to be able to see each other more than twice a year. and i do care for him ... (121 words)

What do I do with this pain?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my heart is a mesh and my soul is darkenned. Many times I feel hopeless in this world. I have a child who is the only one that keeps me going. But the light that my child gives me is easily tarnished by his father. A man who abandoned my child and seldom remembers the child ... (159 words)

I have no rights from the abuse from my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex husband and I don't get along. We have a child together. He has a court ordered visitation order. He does not use this order. The child is an absentee in his life. However, he decides to call on my time whenever he seems to remember. It bothers me. I feel that he should ... (287 words)

I don't think I love him so why do I feel this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a friend that I have had sex with more than a few times. Sleep in the same bed. There was a time that we told each other we were in love but things have since changed he now sees other girls I havnt done so yet so I sometimes get upset I don't think I love him so why do ... (95 words)

He's married, we're cheating..I work for him..what a mess!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi im in such a dilemma i really could do with some advice.I'm 26 and i have been having an affair with a married man for the last 9 months the worst part is i work with him part time. I'm his dental assistant, also all my family know him quite well as he treats them and well ... (737 words)

FWB..I think he has feelings for me, but is trying to hide it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hey aunts, i have this guy who i grew up with and we never liked each other for anything else but friends when we were growing up...well long story short we've been having sex...we agreed to just be FWB and to not catch any feelings for one another... well i'll have to say... (161 words)

I have feelings for this older boy...would it work or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think i have feelings for this older boy but he has a girlfriend which he says he doesn't like her because she stalks him and he feels more comfortable around me but lately when i try to call him he doesn't answer and i feel so hurt. i really want to tell him how i feel ... (87 words)

After everything I have done for her, she still misses her ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, new here. For the past 5 months i have been going through a divorce with my wife and met a woman going through a divorce as well. Her ex really hurt her and attacked her one night, something she never expected which ended their relationship. He ended up going to jail... (388 words)

My friend has a guy friend, who beats her up, cuts her, what can we do about this, she doesn't want to tell parents?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm seriously worried about my friend, she was in what she thought was a non-commital relationship with someone. And then dumped him. He gave her a black eye. Yesterday, he met her while she was walking her dog and punched her and used a razor to cut her arms. nothing serious ... (115 words)

Took drugs and sleeping pills , was very abusive to her, not the first time, can I save this relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

19 June 2009 (M) age 41-50 - Hey, I'm wondering if you guys could help me out with something. I met this girl about a year ago. We started out as fwbs, but I decided I liked her more than that, like I thought I could fall in love with her, so we became a couple, but then she started to annoy me a little, ... (1639 words)

Does my ex questioning me, mean he still likes me or what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so me and my ex talk, hes with my ex best friend! but i still love him. so about 15 minutes ago i called him becasue when he called i was in the shower. so his cousin was there and he told my ex to describe me and my ex said shes white and shes big. i have major iss... (242 words)

Should I still try to be her friend, after I broke her trust, or just move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) age 30-35 - my best friend and i always trusted eachother. however i broke that trust and revealed a big secret of hers to someone else. she found that i revealed her secret, i realised my mistake and apologised. she said that she was angry with me and considering our friendship. she ... (207 words)

I work at night, need my sleep, husband loud while I'm trying to sleep, what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have to work really at night so I sleep during the day. Well my husband (of 6 months) has horrible habit of being very loud and getting drunk with his annoying friends at our house. When I tell him to keep it down (nicely), he tells me I'm being a drama queen or I'm ruining ... (106 words)

I am white , my boyfriend is black, my family doesn't like it,, how do I change their attitude?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i am confused i have a black boyfriend and i am white and my whole family dont like it and his family dont really care i dont know what to do ive been with him for almost 6 months. what can i do to make my family understand skin color dont matter?... (52 words)

If he has a girlfriend, I don't want to be used, how or do I try to find out for sure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I really need some advice on trying to figure this guy at work out. It's a bit of a long story but I would appreciate your views/comments. Thank you. Well me and this guy have worked in the same building for about two years but not in the same department or area... (413 words)

We have constantly had unprotected sex, could I be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend we been dating for awhile and we hardly use protection. we been having unprotected sex for 3 months but he neva cum inside me and we both know that we clear of STDs. i had my last period 28th may and its been atleast 3weeks and my breast started to hurt ... (80 words)

My sister wins contests all the time, broke up with my boyfriend, how do I feel better about things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I'm feeling very low. I broke up with my boyfriend last night. I feel very insecure about myself, especially since I've always been told I'm ugly. And now I feel stupid. My sister and I both participated in an essay contest. And she won! She always WINS! And I always come up ... (281 words)

I have anxiety problems, past relationship problems, it's hurting my current love, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi all. I need some serious help. My bf is having a hard time dealing with me because I become needy at times. I've had some hard relationships, and I tried to explain this to him, that I become needy due to all the problems in my past. Inside I always feel like I need ... (198 words)

We decided to have a little space, but keep in touch, he seems to be drifting away, what shoud I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now. The past 8 months we've spent working together on a cruise ship so it's been pretty full-on. We agreed to a 2-3week break before I would fly out to see him (he lives in another country about 3 hour away). We discussed h... (493 words)

I am so in love with her, all I want to do is see her, how can I get over this obsession?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - if any one out there can help me i be well happy about this I am worryed about loseing my self i am in love with this really nice and sweet girl but the thing is i am that in love with her all i wont to do is just see her not do any thing else not go out with my other m8s or a... (125 words)

My mom is on a course set for destruction..please how can I help her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im sorry that this isnt a relationship question. but i need some sort of advice, i already know my mum needs some serious help but there is nothing she will do! im now 17, but when i was 3, my mum and dad had been together for 11 years, they were together from high school, and ... (1029 words)

Is there anyone who can interpret this dream for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - this is a weird dream i had that nobody or any website can tell me what it means so i turned to the wonderful cupids. my husband and i got into a little fight last night and when i went to bed i had a dream were i was on this tour bus with some really cute guy (no idead who he ... (148 words)

He's interested in a relationship, but I am reluctant, should I go with the flow?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello :) I'm hoping you can help me with this situation. A guy (who i'd known from school, but we rarely spoke) and myself have been seeing each other. We've only met up on 2 occasions, in addition to texting each other alot and chatting online. The first time didn't go s... (577 words)

My boyfriend mentions other girls he finds sexy, should I be concerned?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, me and my boyfriend have what i believe to be a good relationship of over a year and a half. Exept for one thing.... Well, we were talking, and i cant really remember how it came about but he told me he thinks Gemma Atkinson is 'fit as fuck'. This really bothered ... (288 words)

Her honest has me concerned..is she setting me up for the breakup?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi people, I came here because I need a few opinions on something I'm going through right now. My current GF of almost a year (JULY 1st) has said that if she finds somebody she's more interested in, she'd let me know before she does anything stupid, because she's not a chea... (233 words)

New boyfriend still in touch with his ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I met this lovely guy about 2 months ago...things were going really well, he was very attentive, always wanting to see me, call me etc. I noticed a few weeks ago that things quietened down a little and he didnt call so much but we have both been busy so didn't think too ... (475 words)

He wants oral sex every day and is going on porn sites

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 40 years old with and have 2 grown children. I have been in a relationship for 6+ years now and was actually proposed to a few months ago. Things have really been going great.... until lately, I have recently become unemployed, to which my fiancee's reaction was to just ... (264 words)

One night of sex, now I'm pregnant and he doesn't respond

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My bestfriend and I have been friends for years, since we were babies. Our families know each other really well. On the night my bestfriend was leaving to move to the other side of the country I told him I loved him and had done for many years. He didn't say it back but kiss... (201 words)

B/f has issues being verbally affectionate

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, I’ve been dating my boyfriend for five months now, he's amazing and everything has been doing well until now. In the beginning he was verbose, funny, and charismatic and had no issues giving me compliments. I’ll be honest; I’m a bit needy and love confirmation. Now, he ... (226 words)

I don't know what is going on with my body

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - please reply asap, i dont no whats going on with my body im on the pill and i messed it up big time last month anyway i had my period like normal not to heavy not to light and normal 5 day length, i started my next packet of pills like normal, my period stopped like it supposed ... (111 words)

Could I really still be pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay Im desparate Ive searched all over the net and I can not find the reason to having the dreams that I Have I keep dreaming about breastfeeding a baby girl and the thing is I missed 2 periods and thought I was pregnant until I started to bleed a month after missing the 2 I ... (86 words)

What's the best way for a shy guy to approach a gal at work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a crush on a girl at work and I'm 100% certain she has a crush on me. This has been going on for ages now, I catch her staring at me in the canteen then she looks away; her department collegues also give me looks as if to say.. "what are you waiting for ask her out." I ... (309 words)

Is it time to leave if you watch porn, even if your wife is willing to make love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age - is it normal for married men to watch love making videos on the internet? espeically when they don't make love to their wifes that offten. even if the wife is willing to make love. would you say it is time to leave them? troubled,... (48 words)

I'm sore down below and scared

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I have only had sex once, in my life. That was unprotected sex. I took the plan B pill the day of, and used a pregnancy three weeks later, I am not pregnant. I had sex about 35 days ago, and since then have not had any sexual stimuli on the day this happened. Last night I... (220 words)

Everything's falling apart. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am getting to a really bad point in my life where i just feel like completely breaking down. I feel as though noone ever wants to listen to me, like yesterday for instance i was trying to help my boyfriend and his friend out and they just talked over me like they didnt give a ... (320 words)

Living together is a nightmare! I feel too young to be bogged down with all this

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically this is a rant and a rave about my boyfriend cos hes pissing me off lately. I'm 19 years old and never lived away from home until three months ago when i moved in with my boyfriend. It was a totally irrational decision and wasnt thought out right at all. I wasnt ... (507 words)

I told him to take some time to reflect and mend. Was it the right thing to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been seeing a man for 4 months after he asked me out and we truly get on amazing. He has lots of issues with his ex (they split a year ago) and he has had a rough time since it ended as they have young children together. He admits his head is in a pickle but also says he ... (137 words)

Is this a light period? Or could it be pregnancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, i'm new on here and would be grateful if you could give me advice or anyone who have experienced similar problems. I'm 21 in a relationship and have been ttc for nearly 1 year now! My last period was 15.05.09 with a cycle of 28 days! I had sex around ovulation... (186 words)

Ever since we moved in with a friend, he doesn't seem to want to be around me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now. When we lived together by ourselves it was amazing. He made me feel like i was the most important thing in the world to him. He told me goodbye everymorning and kissed me on my forehead, he came home and wanted to ... (157 words)

Ex wants back in, but I have feelings for my girlfriend I can't ignore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I had a relationship with my Ex for a total of four years, two of which we lived together after having a baby. We broke up rather angrily/violently and she even filed for child support which I now pay monthly. I tried to get us back together earlier on but She insisted on ... (125 words)

How do I leave this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I went out with this guy for like 3 months then one day I was like "hey do you have a myspace?" And he told me "ya but I'm never on so you dont need to add me." So I thought oh ok then nevermind. Well one day I was on myspace and I was soo bored so I thought hmm I'm gonna look ... (321 words)

Do I choose the one I love or my friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok sooo I am now 17 and im with a boy who's 18. I really do Belive I'm really seriously in love with this guy we've known each other for two years and we just got together. Lately he's been bringing up marriage and sex. He told me that he's going to marry me when he has enough ... (205 words)

Emotions...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - When I laugh or smile it's because most girls I talk with laugh or smile too, what is the reason for that? Certain times when a funny statement is being made unless I laugh or smile before they do same. Certain times they wouldn't want to but once I do they do the same. W... (77 words)

The guy I have a crush on...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know whether the guy is noticing me or he is just turning a blind eye. Here is my story: we attend the same classes by the way we are third year students at the noth west university Mafikeng cumpas, whenever I see this guy I can't consentrate. It's hard for me because ... (170 words)

I know more happened than my friend and girlfriend are letting on. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well ok i confronted my friend and my girlfriend about a situation i posted earlier... they told me they talked on the phone but just on a friendship level.. nothing above... and they didnt even talk much... but i asked her have i ever called and she was on the phone with him ... (348 words)

What does my lover mean by these words?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age - I would like some help please, I am having an affair with a married man and have been for many years. So please no "you shouldn't be doing this" comments thanks. We have a strange relationship and neither of us can say goodbye to it but it has me wondering a lot about things. ... (167 words)

What can I do to stop sex from becoming a power struggle?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a very pressing problem in my relationship. Up to now I've been trying to ignore it since I feel concentrating on it too much will just make it worse, and I think my boyfriend is completely denying it, but I would really appreciate some advice about how to communicate ... (915 words)

I don't know whether to keep this baby or not... any advice gratefully received.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hiya, right ok on the 24th of april this year i had a miscarriage afterward we used condoms as a form of protection (I'm virtually married and we are very happy and have two children already). On the 6th of may we had sex but the condom broke, I went for the morning after pill ... (195 words)

Does he want me back? Please help...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - After a year of dating, my boyfriend broke up with me. I tried to get him back in the first few weeks. Then I completely backed off. Slowly I started hearing from him. maybe once a week. then twice a week. now, we talk about 5x a week. We both initiate contact. We dont talk ... (167 words)

Crazy about my kid's teacher!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in my mid thirties, I have a young child who goes to school, and am absolutely crazy about the teacher there. I am bi married, she is also married and believe she has children. I try so hard to get her out of my head that its impossible. There is something there,... (129 words)

My boyfriend's mates don't make any effort.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel very frustrated cos I cant seem to feel accepted by my boyfriend's mates. He has one group of mates and goes drinking with them most weekends. I go along lots but usually they are too drunk by the time I get there and barely acknowledge me. I spoke to my boyfriend about ... (144 words)

Why don't men get it?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Why dont men understand? If men were the ones who had the babies and their bodies stretched and scarred how would they feel if their women were masturbating over buffed men 20 years younger than them...? I still don't get how men seem to think they can justify porn when ... (112 words)

Mood swings are ruining my relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hello, i need some advice please, i am ruining my relationship with my boyfriend with my mood swings. i always take things the wrong way even when i know hes only joking. if i txt him a few times and have no reply i start txting him stuff like why are you ignoring me? what hav... (289 words)

I would like to stop thinking or feeling anything about him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have finally quit any attempt to be in touch with the man i used to date last year. I don't call him any more to talk only if i want to discuss a practical matter with him. So i rarely call him. He used to call me once after a lot of time, now he also rarely calls me. I have ... (192 words)

Why the midnight texts about unrelated issues?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

19 June 2009 (?) age 41-50 - Can anyone pls help me try to figure this out? My ex who I broke up with just a couple of months ago is starting to send me texts again. Two weeks ago, I texted and tried to call him but never got a reply. The purpose of contacting him was for us to exchange some stuff we st... (287 words)

I'd like to know how he feels but don't want to be pushy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I initiated contact with a guy online and we've so far exchanged lenghty messages. I must admit that I have been driving the conversation a bit more than him by asking questions about which we both then talk. He does ask things but isn't very pro-active so to say. It's only... (304 words)

Obsessed with 14 year old girl

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, how would you describe this? 20 year old literally thinks about girl 24/7 heart starts to pound very fast when girl signs in online/offline looks at picture of girl (that she sent) for minutes on end constantly goes back to message box to re-read messages ... (116 words)

How can I make conversation with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am going into sophomore year and like a girl, we talked casually in one class but nothing big. She talked to me for like 20 minutes then doesn't answer my ims. She was laughing and making jokes then stopped talking. For the past 2 days she hasn't said anything. Can you give ... (69 words)

He says "the devil made him do it"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i work full time and I really don't get see to my boyfriend (of 2 years) very often. When I went to a birthday party with him on my very few day offs. Well he said needed make a phone call which took half an hour. I got worried and looking for him. Long story short I found the ... (163 words)

Should I do another test?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - soooo Ive missed my period and is prob about 5 weeks pregnant,and took a pregnacy test but its was a cheap one around about £3. It came out negative,but to make it postivie,there had to be a line in the cirle and a line the the square,but I got a line in the circle and a then l... (92 words)

Boyfriend broke up saying he only felt for me like a "close friend"

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19 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I were together for six weeks, everything seemed to be going just fine. We had fun together, enjoyed spending time with one another. He even planned a surprise afternoon for us. Wouldn't tell me where we were going and spent a week teasing me about... (260 words)

Tell her I love her and she should leave him? Or wait 10 years?

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19 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have an ex who is also my best friend, its been this way for three years now. I have seen her boyfriends come and go, given her advice on which one's were losers and which one's might be good for her-little did she know that all that time, I myself was the one in love with ... (333 words)

I want to watch my g/f have sex with someone else

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19 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - hi,i have this fantasy that excites me wanting to watch my girl fuck someone while i watch!we have talked about it and i think she agrees to my fantasy.but has never happened!she just teases me that i just wait. how do i convince her that we go do it? please give me some ... (57 words)

He lost his daughter and I am afraid to tell him that I'm pregnant

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19 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for a couple of months now. We have been having sex with me on birth control, but Im pregnant. I dont know How to tell him as he lost his daughter a couple of weeks ago and as you can imagine is a bit of a mess at the minute and has alot on his ... (179 words)

I just feel like there is someone else out there for me

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19 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my girlfriend for almost two years now. we recently got "engaged" on christmas eve of last year. i'm gonne start off by saying we're both not perfect in anyway shape or form. when we first got together she instantly told me about all her past boyfriends and ... (862 words)

How can our marriage be saved now that I've found out about his mistress?

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19 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello I am in my early 40s. One year ago, my husband told me that he didnt love me anymore and that he had been unhappy in our marriage for the last year. He said I didnt support him or love him they way he wanted. I was in total shock - I knew we had drifted but I had no i... (945 words)

I don't believe in love or dating. What's your opinion?

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19 June 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - All my friends are dating and I get the feeling they don't want me around. But for some reason I don't beleve in love or dating or anything like that. I know it might sound pitiful but I've never dated and I don't know where to start. My problem is that if I started dating I ... (69 words)

I'm afraid that once he sees my stretchmarks he won't want me anymore

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19 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and i know each other for 2 yrs and been dating for 8 months.Im ready for sex but im ashamed of my body.I have stretch marks everywhere arms stomach breast and hips.I got them when my body started to develope. I feel really ashamed bcuz when we were jus friends the girls ... (72 words)

I hate having sex. I would be happy if I wasn't touched at all!

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19 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for 3 years and before that were together for 5 years. I hate having sex. Sex to me is painful, a waste of time, and unfulfilling. Basically the only reason I do it lately is to make my husband happy (and we don't do it very often). I have ... (432 words)

Am I in denial about my feelings?

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19 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Heres the story: my husband of 7 years left me 5 months ago for another woman. We have two kids together. It wasnt a happy relationship anyway and I was hurt about how he went about things but I was also relieved it was finally over. I have been using this time to heal ... (200 words)

Can a woman only get pregnant on her fertile days?

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19 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is is true that a woman can only get pregnant on her fertile days? ... (14 words)

If I lose 30-40 pounds..will these huge breasts of mine..shrink a bit?

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19 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm too embarrassed to talk to anyone I know about it, but I really feel self conscious about this... my chest size has been bothering me for a long time. Big, sloppy breasts are NOT sexy... and I feel matronly and look obese. It's no fun looking in the mirror and seeing a ... (249 words)

He has scratches on his penis..is it caused from my braces, during oral sex?

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19 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i had sex like a two weeks ago and i gave him oral sex, the day after he had scratches on his penis, not to mention that i have braces, so he healed from that accident, but the day before last we had sex again and i did not give him oral sex but today he ... (113 words)

He's driving me nuts with his constant questions about my past work fling!

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19 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, my boyfriend of almost two years broke up with me about a year ago. After a couple months of not talking, he decides he wants back in my life as a friend at first. So we start talking and i revealed the fact that i had "gotten together" with a boy at my work. He ... (178 words)

I'm pregnant with bad heartburn and sore breasts..any ideas to alleviate the discomfort?

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19 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - now six months pregnant and im at the stage where you cant get off the couch without a fork lift lol.... i already have one child but this pregnancy has been completely different and alot sorer!!! im in constant pain with heartburn and my breasts being majorly sore...ive... (102 words)

My wife sends 60 texts a day to this old friend...isn't that a bit much??

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19 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I know there are other answers of similar variety, but I want to include my details to see what others may think. First off, my wife had a crush on this guy when she was in high school. I guess she tried to be with him, but he gave her the "I only like you as a friend and ... (523 words)

We broke up and I'm so lost! Help!

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19 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So about a week and a half ago my girl friend of 3 yr decided she wants space and needs time to think about what she want. she said it was a break/break up. she says she dosnt know if she still wants to be with me and she dosnt know how long it will be till she knows. i was ... (219 words)

Married co-worker confessed his love for me...should I go for it?

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19 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been working with someone for the past 4 years and recently he told me he was in love with me. I always thought we were close but I never knew he had these feelings. Now that he has confessed to me. Only one problem...He is married and so am I. He wants to have a sexual ... (129 words)

Married for 14 yrs, is it normal to have other women and men in our bedroom

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19 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear cupid, I have been married for 14 yrs now and I am still very attracted to my husband. Before i met him i didn't care if i had sex or not. It was no big deal. After having sex with him, I realized what i was missing, Its been great ever since,. He also taught me s... (223 words)

He won't leave! So how do I break it off with this abusive, jealous boyfriend?

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19 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my friend has been together for ten months, and he always think I am cheating on him. He is always accusing me of something that I do not do, and he always want to be abusive, How do I break up with him, he stays with me and he will not leave.... (54 words)

Summer vacations going to suck for me

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19 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Aunties, My girlfriend of 7 months (Yes, i'll keep saying this) has been contemplating breaking up with me over for the summer and has openly admitted it to my face. This breaks my heart so much, but I understand why. She's used to freedom and having fun while I work and hav... (138 words)

I used to last just 5 minutes now I last for hours?

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19 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been sneaking into my house my while my mom isnt home for some seriously hot sex. When I first met her, I wouldnt last for more then 5 minutes, but find myself lasting almost 1-2 HOURS! This isnt right, she's had multiple orgasms while i'm still ... (104 words)

G/f threw me out because I laughed when her bikini top got pulled off

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19 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend (of 2 years) is really mad at me for not covering her up at a pool party when my friend pulled off her bikini top and all I did was laugh and well me and my friend (we were both pretty drunk at the time) played monkey in the middle with her. When her friend had to ... (128 words)

She dumped me but she keeps asking if I'm dating someone?

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19 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi my exGF dumped me two months ago to go back to her exBF of two years ago.we only lasted like 8 months, sometimes we see online and she starts talking and everytime we do she asks me if I'm dating someone, sometimes I tell her I do and sometimes I'm not. One day I told her I ... (107 words)

She says I love you to me, but it just doesn't feel the same

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19 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so I have been dating a girl for 4 years. We broke up because she wanted space and than start seeing someone else. After she told me that i stopped talking to her. We were broken up for about 7 months. Not sure how long she was with this other guy. Anyway after i stopped ... (219 words)

He cheated! Is he worth a second chance?

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19 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, My boyfriend and i have been together for over 5 1/2 years. We have a 10 month old daughter and another 1 on the way. I am 6 months pregnant. My grandfather passed away so my daughter and i went overseas for the funeral service for 2 weeks, my boyfriend asked if we can ... (449 words)

Having trouble with my mom, not sure what to do

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19 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i need a little advice.My mom is very Bi-Polar(not actually diagnosed).She is always upset about something or shes happy one minute then shes cursing and yelling another.For example:we have a bishon frise(puppy) and he is locked up all day because we all go to school or ... (357 words)

Breakup has left me feeling bitter and bruised

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19 June 2009 (F) age 30-35 - What can I do? I just broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years. He was my first boyfriend. We had our issues, he was jealous of my past, and I became increasingly insecure, I don't know why. Lately I'd become a bit "bitter" as he said and he said I was too serious and not too fun. ... (239 words)

I have a crush on this actor--help me understand what he may think of me?

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19 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met an actor, who i have a crush on, after a show I saw him in. We are the same age. Me and my friend went for a drink with him afterwards. Some of the other cast members were in the pub too, but most of them left before he did. At one point,he was turned towards me and put ... (399 words)

Husband has been seeing another woman for 1/2 the time we've been married

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19 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, My husband and I recently celebrated (and I use the term loosely) our 7th anniversary. Through the miracle of texting, I found out my husband has been seeing another woman for about half the time we've been married. He says he never had sex with her, but she shar... (133 words)