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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Help me understand my boyfriend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, well i've been with this guy for nearly 9 months now, and it's the most serious relationship ether of us has ever had. We've both had kinda rough childhoods tbh I've just gotten over a really rough time in my life, and for the first time i'm genuinly happy. Now our r... (364 words)

I hate being smothered by love, I feel crazy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - please help me im very confused. i just broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years. hes still crazy in love with me but thing is i feel smothered by love. and now this other guy who i've only properly met a week ago but who i've sort of known for a few months has told me he's been ... (235 words)

How can I leave him after 23 years? Hes making my life hell!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in a realtionship for 23 years, we have a 15 year old daughter. We are not married, that is not the issue. The issue is, we get no respect, I am constantly getting yelled at like I am a verbal punching bag by both my daughter and her dad, ( obviously she picked it up from ... (282 words)

Should I leave my violent ex for this angel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (?) age 36-40 - I just dnt knw what to do.Ok i have been goin out with my boyfried for almst 5yrs i love him he is nt that much a lovimg guy bt he tries,he has a temper problem,we disagree mostly,he hit me once and never repeated again bt he kinda takes me fogranted i love him i believ he ... (194 words)

I found Big brested porn on the pc. Should I be bothered about having smaller breasts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance and I have been living together for a while and he never openly showed much interest in porn before and I liked that. I went out of town and when I came back our computer was completely messed up with viruses. I checked the history and found 3 days worth of porn and ... (104 words)

I need your help moving on from my heartbreak. I can't keep it together anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I Had been in a relationship with this really nice lad for 4 months. about a week ago he went onto my facebook account and read some emails i had been sended another lad. He accused me of cheating on him with this other lad, although i would never dream of that. We talked about ... (239 words)

Can my girlfriend be pregnant because of this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - me and my gf were fooling around one week ago. She is a virgin, i just rubbed my penis over her vegina for a minute. I didn't ejaculate. And last time i ejaculated was 3 days before this days. she's having non stop cramps 4 days ago (3 days after the incident). Can she be ... (58 words)

15, Full time carer and doing my GCSE. I just can't stay strong

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey ... im a 15 year old girl .. im finding it really hard .. so many poeple say im reli strong ... but i dont think i am .. i wna no wat people think .. im only 15 and im a carer i look after my mum all the time (who has skin cancer) ... and im in my final year at school ... (161 words)

How can I move to a safe place for my two children?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ive got somewhat of a different question to ask...i 18 and have 2 kids as my other question started out but i want to move out ive been trying to find a place for almost 6 months now and its very complicated ive even tried to get into manitoba housing but was told that i dont ... (275 words)

Is our relationship a recipe for disaster?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

13 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship for over two years with a girl who recently said she needs some space to think about things and to think about if she can be romantically attatched to me again. She admittedly believes that we had an incredible sex life and I agree. She also ... (445 words)

I would love to go to her party...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I'm sure everyone has been through something like this, so i'm hoping your experience can help me out here :) Okay, so there's this girl who I quite like and she is having a birthday party soon. Quite a few of my friends are invited, but im not :( I really ... (138 words)

What can I use for sexual pleasure?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 and I'm not allowed to have a sex toy, so what else can I use around the house to get sexual pleasure?... (25 words)

How to stay in contact with an ex and maintain that bond and friendship if he has suddenly shut down?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a bit of a dilemma and really confused on how to deal with this guy I really like but is unavailable. I know I can never really be with him or have a serious relationship but I don't want to lose him entirely either and am struggling to at least keep a friendship but he ... (998 words)

She wants me to live with her on the other side of the world but I'm not ready to leave my friends and family... help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (F) - I have a huge problem. Its getting me down, and Ive no idea what to do. Ive been with this woman in a long distance relationship since last november, before this she lived in the uk. She moved to the other side of the world, but because we love each other so much we decided ... (205 words)

My boyfriend seems so selfish and only cares about himself! It's making me ask myself... should I stay or go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - In short, I've been with my boyfriend for just over five years now. We were due to get married at the end of march this year, but I called off the wedding because it didn't feel right and he banned my brother from the wedding. My family don't particularly like him but my ... (286 words)

My ex-boyfriend is very jealous and intimidates my male friends, what can I do to get him to overcome this trait?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend and I dated from November until Febuary. We broke up, but I guess you can say we never really 'broke up' We still loved eachother, and we have been on and off since then. In April, I had finally had enough of all of the drama, the fighting, etc and I called... (268 words)

Must make a choice between my ex-boyfriend or my friend of 3 months, what;s your suggestion?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, so there's two guys i'm involved with. the first is my ex-boyfriend rob who i just recently broke up with. the second is my friend adam who i've been friends with for about 3 months now. me and rob broke up not even a week ago, and we still both love each other. he told me ... (202 words)

How do you know when your in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (?) age 51-59 - How do you know when you are officially in a relationship? I'm new at this dating thing and don't quite understand. Is there a "talk" that you have so it's known as exclusive? Do I ask this question or wait for him to bring it up? If have been seeing someone for a couple of ... (75 words)

I cheated, she met another man, should we stay together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My gal was a virgin when i met her and unfortunately i was too. I say unfortunately coz i had a fuck buddy sometime after i met her. After i broke up that really had a toll on her and i made up after realisin i made a mistake, about 3weeks after we made up she went alone on ... (318 words)

Did the poem scare him off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Feel a bit silly asking this at my age - 43 - but I started seeing a new man about a month ago. Although we've only been out three times he has been texting me a lot in between and so it feels like we've been out more. He is in the process of getting a divorce and his children ... (423 words)

How do I move on when I'm not financially ready?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

13 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - ok so, ive been with my spouse for about 8 years, were not married and its not your fairytale relationship, about 6 months ago, i caught her cheating on me with a coworker, we worked thru it, but the love was lost to me, ive never felt the same and feel like the main reason im ... (215 words)

How do you let go of a first love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you let go of your 1st love? I can't seem to fully do it. I love my boyfriend now, and i want to be with him always, but i can't let go of the past. My first love was my best friend, and i find it hard that he's going to a different college and even though we don't sp... (165 words)

Even when I go out with other guys I still think of him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (F) age 41-50 - I don't know how to move on. This is a bit of a long boring story (sorry), I have fancied this guy at work for about 2 years, he always seemed interested but when we arranged to go out he cancelled at the last minute with no explinaion, anyway after about three months we ... (376 words)

I'm confussed about my sexuality

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - hi im a 14 year old guy and im confused about my sexuality. im straight i really like girls..but i also have bi-sexual tendencies..i think im attracted to guys too..does that make me bi or gay?... and also i like girls alot..but the whole vagina thing seems odd and kinda gr... (81 words)

Found pictures of ex girlfriend in his things

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi guys. me and my boyfriend love each other to death and about 2 weeks ago he moved in with me. while cleaning up i found pics of a girl, which i guess that was his ex girlfriend bcuz ive seen a pic that they were kissing. i know i was not suppose to look through his things ... (110 words)

In love but not happy, happy but in love???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a huge problem. I am still inlove with my ex, yet i am madly in love with my current gf. My ex and I have been together for over two years, she had and affair so I got fed up and started seeing my gf, I didn't tell her i was still in a relationship with my ex, but ... (297 words)

Am I stupid for being jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hello. I have been dating a guy for about a year and we agreed that we would be exclusive. I have many male friends who I've known for 10+ years. And, he has many female friends who he has known for a very long time. We are both fine with this. However, a few months ago ... (257 words)

Molested by my father's friend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm calling out for help here. I am a 17 yr old girl. I live with my dad, my mom died a couple of years ago. My dad drinks alot and sometimes he hits me, I cant talk to him about anything, but I need to approach him about something that happened to me a few days ago. We had a ... (129 words)

The father says he wants to be involved with the baby, but makes no effort

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, Well I have a beautiful 7 month old baby boy named Alexander He wasn't planned, his father wanted me to have an abortion and because i couldnt we ended up breaking up... I always said to him that if wanted to walk away he could.... But he said he wanted to be a part of ... (330 words)

Missed the pill on weds, unprotected sex on fri, could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im a bit worried, wonder if anyone can help - if you miss a pill (combined pill) on the wednesday, then have unprotected sex on the friday what are the chances of the pill failing to work?... (37 words)

It's been 2 years, yet everytime I see her picture I get upset. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - It's been almost 2 years to the day that my first love broke things off with me. For the past couple of months I feel like I've been able to get on with things without too many problems. I had a bit of a wobble several weeks ago when I actually cried for her. I can't believe ... (210 words)

Is my ex likely to still have feelings or is she just being polite?

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13 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - A year and half ago, I broke up with my girlfriend whom I dated throughout undergraduate and for nearly a year after. At the time I couldn’t grasp why we broke up and was guilty of all the stereotypical recently dumped mistakes. Looking back I can see that it was mainly my ... (362 words)

Why is my gf acting so strange?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hello dear readers:) i'm at my first year at the university i was dating a girl for 4 months, we've been even leaving together for a month, because her parents took a long vacation.And some days ago , she practically doesn't talk to me, even doesn't respond to text messages. I ... (129 words)

I miss my ex so much!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex broke up with me about 4 weeks ago saying that his feelings had changed for me, i was devastated and he knew i was. and i told myself i needed to stay strong and keep going and id be okay. But deep down i love him deeply and miss him so much, and i hurt so much and i kn... (125 words)

I just am at a crossroads with my feelings - what do you advise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - 2 months ago my huband went to afternoon shifts at work. He then began being gone all the time before and after work. He said that he was out drinking with the buddies. I was okay with that because I never wanted him to feel tha he had to be at home al the time. He had called ... (159 words)

Guys, are erection (or lack of) cases like this common?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My guy has had sex with only one girl before me. Lately he claims he can nolonger get erections for other girls other than me. Yeah, he realised that coz he has tried to cheat on me severally :-( While am happy he cant erect for others am worried that either he's lyin that he ... (147 words)

How can I stop my friend coming between me and my gf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5636 days ago

13 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a girlfriend which we’ve been together for some months now, and till now every thing seems to be just going fine. She is sweet, mature and fun; she’s the girl I’ve been looking in my life. But I do have a problem and I really would appreciate your advice. I have got a ... (318 words)

Isn't it wrong for a guy to tell a girl that his feelings for her are merely physical?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy whom i really like actualy love. I've known him for almost a year now. am sooo attracted to him. like his the only guy on my mind.his the type of guy am searching for.to the point where am not giving a chance to any guys because his the only guy that i want. ... (462 words)

Should I forget about him or offer him a shoulder to cry on if she cheats again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - for the past few months i have had a crush on a boy that i know. we used to be friend and he even said that he liked me as more than a friend but a month ago one of my mates asked him out and he said yes. ever since they started going out, he hasn't spoke to me as much and ... (197 words)

Told my teacher-crush that I wouldn't meet him, and now regret it

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in love with my teacher for years, he is perfect. he asked me to meet up and iv said no.. im regretting it so bad - i dont know why i said no, i was scared i guess that my crush was actully becoming real. now im never going to see him again. Im so depressed i dont... (72 words)

Husband angry with me over a rape

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - ive been maried for 5yrs,we had a serious problem me and my husband, i kept him for a year that i have been raped,and seriously, i had baby from that thing that wasnt my fault, nobody understands me, and saying that hiding is seriously a fault to my husband, it just happened ... (80 words)

How do I let go of someone that I love with my all heart dispite all the hurt he has put me through?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! Need some advice: How do i let go of someone that i love with my all heart dispite all the hurtt he has put me through? Some people in my shoes will get over a cheating boyfriend but i still find a place in my heart to forgive him. Is there something wrong wi... (75 words)

Straight, but find vaginas kinda off-putting

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i feel odd saying this, but i have noticed im the only on i know who has such strange emotions. i am straight, i fancy girls and not boys, that is clear. but i only seem to be turned on by one sexual act-blowjobs. and for some reason i think that vaginas are rather off ... (90 words)

I love her yet I hate her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

13 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - well now. here I am again. I have been on here a couple of times. it started wit a girl I fell in love with and we became a lot more than just friends. I've bent over backwards for this girl and then some. I want nothing more than to make her happy. then she started seeing ... (279 words)

Is my wife having an affair with her boss?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

13 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have been married for fifteen years now. In the 12th year of the marriage, she told me after an heated exchange in the view of her sister and brother, that I had no respect for her so we should get separated. After a few months she explained that she had r... (477 words)

Should I have a summer fling with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - After receiving some very helpful advice in a previous question and also getting a very nice reality check, I now need to know how to make sure I don't get involved again with my ex who was talking about getting back together this Summer. See the second time we broke up, it was ... (209 words)

Is he playing games?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (?) age 30-35 - hi, erm well firstly this lad... he's not a bad lad in the slightest really. but back in february i got one of my friends to ask him out and he said no i am not ready for a relationship (he has had other girlfriends before though) i on the otherhand have had no boyfriend ... (228 words)

I'm falling for this guy hard but he's 8 years younger than me...what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Wow I'm so unlucky i really like this guy and just found out today he's 8yrs younger (I guessed he would just be 5 yrs younger)..I think he already knew I was older cuz I think he asked my so called friend about me, and I think she just told him without him asking her that I'm ... (306 words)

My bf is always slagging women off!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This all started a while ago, me and my boyfriend have been together for 11 months and I used to be able to just ignore it but now it's getting ridiculous. My boyfriend has had a bad past with girlfriends, cheating, stealing, using etc and he has this disgusting point... (178 words)

How can I move on completely?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

13 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my ex girlfriend about 6 months ago. I'm 25 now and she is 21. I went out with her for almost 3 years. Our first two years was the best time on my life, we were so romantic and so on. We have so much in common and I loved her so much and im sure she did too. But ... (321 words)

Sex with my ex-fiance...

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13 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently broke up with my Fiance, we had been together for 5 years. I was mostly mutual, we are both mature and know in our hearts that we are not right for one other. We lost our virginity to each other in the first year of us dating- I wanted to wait until marriage, but I ... (205 words)

Lost my virginity to my brothers friend, who has a gf and I'm starting to get attached to him...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Ok well I'm 18 and the guy im secretly seeing is 22. Yes we have sex and what not but the problem is he has a girlfriend. Oh i lost my v card to him and he's my brothers close friend. but obviously no one knows that me and him are messing around especially not his girlfriend or ... (92 words)

I cant make up my mind!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I can't make up my mind!!! I dated this guy for 4 years, nothing happened, we talked about marriage apparently only when he was drunk and feeling emotional. Anyways. I lost my job, he offered me one and now I am working for him making barely 15 bucks an hr. So, there is this ... (613 words)

My husband kept pressuring me for sex when I was depressed

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My mom recently died and so I been a bit depress lately. I stopped wanting to do anything sexual with my husband. He was really annoyed by it. He still kept pressuring me. Anyway he come home really wasted and he come behind me and played with my breasts (something I don't ... (90 words)

Not sure I should commit to any one of these guys

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hello everyone! I'm caught in an odd situation--I broke up with my best friend/boyfriend a month ago. I loved him so much. Bad breakup. Long story. I was heartbroken (please don't tell me that because I'm 15 it's not love... I've heard it before). 2 days later, a friend ... (274 words)

If we keep spending time together will it change his mind about a relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I still like my ex boyfriend, and i know now that he doesnt want to date me. When we talked about it, his exact words were "i dont want any relationships, i just wanna fuck." Do you think if we kept sending time together that he would change his mind? ... (50 words)

I'm doing something I think is important, but my g/f is afraid for me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 almost 19 and I'm signing up for the Army, I believe there is a great career in the Army and I think it will be rewarding to do, helping people all over the world. But my girlfriend is very worried and at one point she cried. I really want to do this, I don't want to not ... (84 words)

Should I confront him about how I think he's being dishonest with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex-boyfriend and I broke up around March last year when he moved away. I went and visited him a couple of times and we had sex but we never used condoms. Recently, we got back together again. We're doing long distance. However I couldn't help but notice that last year before ... (446 words)

How do I break the hold he seems to have on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age - Hi, everyone! I need all of your insights and encouragement to walk away from a bad situation. And I really need to know what this guy wants from me. He's been pursuing me now off and on for over a year, and the dummy that I am keep allowing myself to get sucked into his ... (172 words)

Can men get the Gardasil vaccination?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Can men have the Gardasil injection that protects against HPV. Im asking this because I have a genital wart and I want to protect any future partners from contracting warts from me. If the vaccine is available to men they wont have to worry about it as Gardasil protects against ... (58 words)

I see the girl my ex cheated with everywhere

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so the girl my husband cheated on me with is every where i go.. i am no longer with him she is and she acts so childish. she makes her self obviouse to me like to rub it in or something. she had a baby from him so everytime she sees me she starts to get loud and talk to ... (218 words)

Can sex with an alcoholic hurt an unborn baby?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 12 weeks pregant can I have sex with my alcoholic boyfriend and it not harm my baby?... (19 words)

Should I tell him what's bugging me?

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13 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I dont know what to do. I have been dating this guy for 4 months and things seem a little weird now. we used to talk everyday and last week we never talked at all then he texted me and asked if he did anything to make me mad he thought I was mad at him. He is very shy around me ... (171 words)

So lonely my heart hurts.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 21 year old female, I have style, class, intelligence and am always warm to others. But I am so alone my heart literally hurts. I moved around allot in my high school years and ended up being home schooled. I have no real friends outside of work, and up to last October I ... (172 words)

I love a woman and a man - help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married to two men (one died and one divorce) and have 3 grown children. About 10 years ago I met a woman (confirmed lesbian) and fell in love. We have lived together ever since. However, due to physical circumstances on her part, we have not had sex for about 5 ... (166 words)

I like to smell my boxer the morning after I've jerked off

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

13 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - when i pleasure myself in my bed at night i always let it come out into my boxxers, then fall asleep, it dry's over night. But in the morning i cant help but take them off and smell where the cum has dried and where my penis has been alnight, it arouses me highly, could this ... (60 words)

Lesbian, but turned on by straight porn...is this normal??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2453 days ago

13 June 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Ok, hi people! I've been having some trouble trying to understand something, so thort you guys could help!?! i'll try keep this short, and i hope im not to explicit, or too confusing. Basically i know im gay, and have known like forever. But the thing is i dont rea... (422 words)

Clingy & upset boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my bf a week ago. I'm really over it, but I want to be his friend when we're both ready for it. 2 days after we broke up, his grandfather died. Being a bit of a loner, he has no-one to talk to except me. I don't really want to talk tohim, but feel horrible if... (125 words)

Should I call her? Or just write a note?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Well, I gave this girl I like two notes, she didn't respond to any of them, and then I started shouting "DEVIN I LOVE YOU!" in hallways, and she told a teacher 'cause kids were teasing her about it and she was really upset. I feel really bad about it, and the teacher said to ... (176 words)

Overthinking or obsession??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Thanks for reading because I know this may seem like a typical highschool drama, but I really am worried that my boy paranoia will continue... I always overthink. Not just like, "Oh my god, does he like me?" Overthink but, "Does he hate me, is he just trying to make me ... (174 words)

Am I wrong for wanting to finalize things or should I give him another chance?

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13 June 2009 (F)

age - Married 27yrs, together for 29yrs. I have been unhappy for many years. Not because he is bad, just because I think I married him for the wrong reasons. I recently moved out because I finally decided life is too short to be unhappy. Now, I'm wondering if I am doing the right ... (136 words)

How could he not know that I wanted to see him?

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13 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing this guy for a couple of weeks now. Thought it was going really well. Talk to him every night on phone and meet up with him when we both can as we live 2 hours away and both have kids. Last night we had planned for him to come over to my place for dinner... (265 words)

This boy likes me but I don't like him..want things to stay friendly

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13 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so my mom .... Well our family has another set of family friends if you know what i mean well anyways there are four people in this family one mom one dad a boy about 11 and a boy about my age. Coincidentally my best friend is cousins with theses boys and she and them are ... (183 words)

His facebook activitie worry, irritate and annoy me!

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13 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My guy has dumped me uncountable times even on facebook (blah blah ended their relationship) He flirts with almost every gal, and some of them have a crush on him. He inboxes his ex fuck buddy that his loins burn for her and he misses her, he even asked for sex and has met her ... (221 words)

I haven't had a relationship in ten years

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13 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Man, I haven't been with a women in ten years. I've moved to house to house at least three times in those ten years. I spend most of my time looking for full time work; and hanging with friends; but no girlfriend or Women. I'm African American and live in a mixed community; but ... (147 words)

He says I should feel lucky to have known him!

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13 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My guy friend was talking to me friendly today after hes been ignoring me for weeks. He says that I'm lucky to have known him for a year. Yeah right I hate him ignoring me and yet I should feel lucky to have known him. He's big headed physically and mentally. How can you deal ... (70 words)

What is so attractive about the bad boys?

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13 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm perplexed at the number of women who tell me they want a man who is nice to them, but in reality, the men they are attracted to and form relationships with are "bad boys." Then they spend their time complaining about how the bad boy behaves and treats them, but something ... (130 words)

Taking the b/c pill Yaz and staining alot

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13 June 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hello all. Well, I have began taking the pill recently (Yaz). Its my 15th day today.. and to be honest.. I have been staining alot. constantly. Everyday. Is this normal? I have read that spotting is.. but it has been constantly and I am traveling with my bf soon and it will be ... (74 words)

My husband doesn't love me anymore and it hurts so much

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13 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi,there everyone. I am in so much agony and pain. My heart truly aches, I never thought that was actually possible, but it does. I have been married for almost 22 years. We have two teenagers and one five year old. About 8 months ago, my husband tells me that he is ... (346 words)

If my parents find out that I have a boyfriend they will freak!

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13 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Please someone help, I am in so much trouble, And I hope I can get the answer in the next couple of days... Okay, I'm 14. You know how most teens like to hide their relationship from their parents? Well I'm one of them, and if my parents find out that I have a boyfriend they... (298 words)