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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My 18 year old son is sexually involved with a 13 year old

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hi i'm a concerned parent,my son who was eighteen at the time is sexually involved with a thirteen year old,i only found out a few days ago.she allows him to come by her house when her mother is not home,i told her not to allow him to come by anymore and to stop selling her ... (100 words)

He is terrible, why can't I let him go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy online on a website not for dating. He contacted me first after I posted something about a video he did. He is the same age as me and kind in the same situation. Neither of us had been in a real relationship. I was not looking for anything when I responded to ... (326 words)

He's pressuing me for a baby, but I know I'm too young

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey cupids, ive been with my boyfriend now for just under a year. but recently hes been talking about starting a family together! its scared me a little. we only lost our virginities to each other, about 6 weeks agoo, i mean to be honest, hes 20, hes more mature and probably ... (248 words)

Will this heal on its own, or should he see a doctor?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i was giving my boyfriend a blow job, and must have got a bit carried away, and now he has a sort of.. scab on his mister, like you would get on anywhere on your body after a scratch. he complains its sore but didnt hurt at the time, in fact he didnt notice because he really e... (106 words)

Is she just using me to not be alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in a long distance relationship for 11 months until my girlfriend decided to break up with me permanentely. I say permanentely because she has broken up with me before. She cheated on me, she lied to me, she hurt me like no one else has ever hurt me before. A month af... (154 words)

How do I get my girl to trust me after lying and cheating on her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this girl that i been with for goin on 2 years as of sept 3rd and i made mistakes in my past like cheating and lying and i had recently cheated in april but im really done this time with playin with her i love her and want to be with her how do i prove my love to her and ... (68 words)

I don't want to feel jealous towards my best friend. How do I get over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - *Names changed...* Okay, There is this guy, I saw him at the start of last year, in the sixth form at school, He caught my eye but i didnt have the courage to introduce myself, A few weeks later my best friend starts talking about a guy she has met, in the sixth form whos name ... (540 words)

Is dreaming of marriage a sign of something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need help, last night I had a dream that I married my bf. It was a in a weird gospel church or something. I was wearing a red dress and he was just in like jeans and stuff. My rents where there and so my best friend and people i didn't even know. My best friend is ... (120 words)

Can't see my dad alone, his new wife has to be there

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My parents got divorced 6 years ago when I was in fifth grade and it was hard for me to go through but I made it through, things we're good for the first two years, well as good as they could be. But about two and a half years after the divorce my dad started seeing this woman, ... (297 words)

Had drunken sex but haven't talked about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - OK, men, I need your input. I've been hanging out with this guy for a few months now. A week and a half ago, we got drunk and had sex. The next morning we woke up about 930 or 10. Layed around in bed until about 1. Didn't cuddle or anything. He caught a ride home with my ... (168 words)

I like him but he likes my best friend. What should I do?

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18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well, i i like this guy and he likes my bestfriend , she dont like him, and he likes me to. i liked for the logest time and he has enough of my heart to break it.i have no idea what to do or how to act. help what should i do??... (52 words)

Is it better to be close together in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you think it's better in a relationship for the people to be closer and not far apart? Because I'm in a ldr and we're probably gonna see each other real soon but it's been really hard because we're so far apart so do you think it will be easier when we're together?... (53 words)

Everyone says I'm Beautiful and skinny. I just feel fat and ugly!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is always telling me I'm beautiful to him no matter what. Alot of people I know tell me I'm pretty, beautiful, skinny, etc.. but I can't help but feeling fat and ugly, is there something wrong with me?... (40 words)

My friend fulfils my needs more than he does. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, thanks for reading Basically ive been with my boyfriend for almost 8 years now and im only 25- hes my first and only so far- the thing is i dont think i feel complete- i hear that when your in a relationship you feel complete with that other person...the thi... (117 words)

He said he didn't fancy me as much as her! Is this true?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I have a sex question. I had a messy get together with my boyfriend and his ex was a little upset and tried to stir some trouble. She told me one night how he had had this massive premature ejaculation problem previously (when he was with her), I had never noticed it. She ... (229 words)

Guys..If you have just split with your girlfriend do you miss them when you think of sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (?) age 41-50 - My question goes out to guys most especially but girls' opinion are also welcome. If you've just broken up with your girlfriend, do you miss them when you think of sex? I was watching "the reader" and can't stand watching the sex scenes. I remember my ex and have to embar... (140 words)

Can I do anything to get her love back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

18 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hello to all hope you can help i just broke up from a 2 year relationship i'm 28 and my ex is 54 where do i start she was in a married relationship with someone she no longer loved and we ran away together we fell in love staight away the first year we were together was... (198 words)

I had a dram my wife was engaged in sex with a stranger. What could this mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I dreamed I came home and found my wife in bed on top of another man riding him crazy wild. But rather than becoming angry and violent I found myself hiding from them yet watching and enjoying it. What could this mean and is it common? I would never accept her fucking another ... (150 words)

Help! Can you die from leaving a tampon in to long?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a big problem and I am SO scared. I put a tampon in for my FIRST time yeasterday to go swimming. I went swimming for 2-3 hours. When I got back inside my house I went to my batherroom and I took out the tampon. I didn't bleed much since it was the end but it looked ... (184 words)

Friends with benifits but I feel more for him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - how do you keep a sexual relationship from escalating into more? i will start off by saying that i am involved with a man who i thought was the man of the dreams. i fell in love with him instantly we have been together almost 4 years and we have 2 kids together. in that time he ... (539 words)

I can't tell my parents I'm gay. Should I move far away?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well i´m gay and i cant sum up the courage to tell my parents. what should i do? i could move away, very far away. Or should i just stay single my whole life. i want children though, even if they are adopted. i dont want to live life scared.... (50 words)

I can't orgasm through intercourse!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I find it really hard to orgasm through vaginal intercourse, and by hard i mean practically impossible. I can cum fine through personal masturbation or if my boyfriend goes down on me, its just the actual sex that doesnt make me orgasm. Its not my partner as its been t... (151 words)

I feel stupid talking to my boyfriend..Should I end it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

18 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been going out for almost a year and i love him but it´s weird. We always have ackward silences and when ever we´re together it´s either we´re making out or other things but it never involves like sitting down and talking. i love him and i love him a lot ... (132 words)

Friends are ment to stick you right? Why are they telling me to change?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am a 16 year old girl. I admit that I smoke, I occasionally go out at the weekend and get drunk, and I have taken pills about 3 times in my life (but legal highs). And I have had a few boyfriends. I have, however, never had sex or done illegal drugs or weed or anyth... (649 words)

He got his ex pregnant! Everytime we argue I'm scared he goes to her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner of 4 years cheated on me with his now ex, unfortunately she got pregnant by him. Anyway today I had to go to the doctors as i'm not well and i asked him if he could pick me up from there. We arranged it and all was fine. I came out of the docs and he wasn't there so ... (170 words)

I hope we will get back together. She looks awfull does this mean she misses me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

18 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, after a break of almost two months which she requested we finally broke up (also her choice, i still love her). Anyway 10 days after the break-up i went over to our old place to collect the rest of my stuff and as she lives close-by i decided it may be a good idea to say ... (174 words)

We put a "floor show" on at her wedding.. Is she right to be mad at us?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My sister is mad at me because I put a floor show with my "underdressed" girlfriend (her dress was quite revealing) at her wedding. Me and my girlfriend had way too much to drink and we were all over each other on the dance floor. My sister and her husband kicked us out ... (122 words)

Sex life isn't what it used to be, Hes changed.. What can I do to make it better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 26 year old female. That is very concern about my love life with my true love. My boyfriend does not have sex with me like he use to. we use to have sex all the time but now we only have sex maybe 1 or 2 times a month. I have asked him what is going on and he tells me ... (175 words)

Mom is drinking, wondering if she's going crazy, how to handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - If nothing else, I'd like to use this space to vent. Advice and even just opinions would be fantastic. To begin, I think my mum is going crazy. I remember that the only time my mum used to drink alcohol when I was younger was on Saturday nights and special occasions. But n... (260 words)

Hes annoyingly obsessive! Should I just split from him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so me and my boyfriend are having trouble. he is so obsesive, like annoyingly obsessive. for example he texts me as soon as he wakes up, which is way earlier than i wake up and if i dont reply to his texts he keeps texting and texting and texting until i reply. not only that he ... (201 words)

Should I have sex with him even though we are both going to collage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm pretty much best friends with my boyfriend. We've been "best friends" for more than a year, but we've only been going out for 3 monthes. I really trust him and love him, but i'm not sure if we'll have a future since I'm going off to college in the fall and he'll still be in ... (160 words)

He's very close to his ex, it troubles me, he wants us to all be friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hi, i have posted on here before and got some good replies. i have been with my partner now for nearly a year and i am planning to move in with him as we live 2 hours apart, the problem is that he is best friends with an ex. he split up with his wife a couple of years ago as ... (503 words)

How do I get over her? I can't live without her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

18 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, i'd appreciate anyone's advice that's been in this situation before, or even going through it right now! My ex and I have been broken up around 7 months now, and we've remained really close friends,but the problem is I still have strong feelings for her, even though I'm ... (191 words)

I feel I'm not 100% complete and I'm not sure why

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 21. I've been with him 10 month, and he is completely besotted with me. I love him too. He's every thing i wanted in a guy. He's dark, tall, gorgeous, good personality, fun to be with, sexy etc. I know i love him, but is it possible to love him but ... (136 words)

My wife's dad died she's so upset..I want to help her but I'm not sure how to!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone! Ok i'd like a little advice because i feel so bad not knowing what to do or say. 2 Weeks ago my wifes dad died. The funerals was last week etc and after that she seemed to be alright. Well not alright but she was coping.. I think i was wrong! :( Shes one of th... (437 words)

Will he ever give me a chance to explain?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Just broke up with my 2years boyfriend recently. I am so confused i feel so bad. Ifeel like am to blame for the break up. This how it started since this year my boyfriend changed he even wanted us to break up at one point due to the long distance that we barely saw each other. ... (207 words)

I feel in my gut he's cheating..but have no proof

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i've been with my bf for over 2 years, before me lets just say variety was his spice of life, literally hundreds of women!! he's a lawyer for a major financial company and i know at times he has to go away on business but this time he told me less then 2 days before he had to ... (466 words)

Acne on back & shoulders? Is there something I can take?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have alot of small red spots and bumps on my upper back and shoulders, i dont know what it is but they wont go away. they have been there for atleast a few years and i take showers regularly but they still stay, is it back acne? are there any over the counter products... (67 words)

He loves me but doesn't know if he wants to be with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So this is a long-ish story. I'll try to keep it a summation of events, rather than full-tilt detail. --He asked me for two days of space. He was treating me like crap, being a jerk, I finally said okay. But I had to find somewhere to be when he got home from work. I wa... (446 words)

Is it like, love or lust?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it like, love, or lust? 1. I see this guy and am instantly attracted to him. I fantacize about him kissing me, etc. 2. I get to kinow this guy and realize that we have a lot in common.. even really random things, like favorite ice cream flavors. 3. I get to know him... (160 words)

Running out of time....

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, I will try to make this as short as possible. I have been with my current boyfriend for about 8 years now. There was a period of time that we werent together and I was seeing another guy. This guy( who i will call romeo) was the perfect boyfriend material. He was trustwor... (383 words)

My first telephone call with her....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - first contact. so... ive been msn-instant messaging this girl for about 2 weeks now. she gave me her number and said to call or sms her. so i sms'd her (it was late) - over the next two days, we sent (she sent first, on the first day) (I sent first on the next) a few 'h... (478 words)

My boyfriend was a bit rough with me and now I'm in pain!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend was kinda rough last night when he was fingering me and I've been extremely sore ever since. I think his nails might have scatched me, is there any way to ease the pain? It's honestly so bad Im avoiding even using the washroom as long as I can.... (50 words)

I think he is just using me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been sleeping with this lad for ages now n he always slags me off to his friends but tells me he dosnt meen it n thats what they wanna hear my friends say hes just playing me but hes gorguss n i cant help but go back for more i realy like him but i kno for a fact im the ... (123 words)

I've only been seeing him for 2 months, is it too soon to be in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How can you tell your in love? I'm pretty sure I am but iv only been seeing someone for about 2 months!! Do i tell him??... (26 words)

In love with a girl I barely talk to!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

18 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm pretty sure I'm in love with a girl I barely talk to. I think she's perfect but sometimes I doubt she knows I even exist. I know I should tell her but I've only got a year to do it and even then there's no garuntee that the relationship would actually happen, let alone ... (66 words)

Boyfriend has "been around"

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm stuck I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months but I met him for the first time when I was 14. I love him more than anything but the only problem is, hes got a "record" Lets just say, he's been around. My problem is that I just can't seen to get over the fact that he ... (195 words)

We've never met..should we meet a theme park?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

18 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Is this a bad idea? Recently I met a girl through a dating website. I think we both have a lot of things in common and our friendship has grown over the past few weeks. We arranged to meet up last week, but a couple of nights before hand she got very nervous about the idea a... (260 words)

A woman came to my door telling me she was through seeing him, and he claims he doesn't even know her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Boy Friend trouble....Need help figuring it all out...Is he cheating? OK I have posted before asking questions and I have to add more details. I am currently 28 years with a 9 year old little girl and my boy friend is 48. He has kids himself and he is still married but not livi... (443 words)

If we've been FWB for so long, does it mean something more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How long do you guys think it's normal to have the same 'friend with benefits'? Surely if it goes on too long it must mean something more? ... (28 words)

What makes a woman good in bed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - One for the guys here! just a general question. We all know what meakes a man bad in bed right? Well what defines weather or not a woman is good in bed? It's not that I have any probs in this department but I'm really curious lol. Will be asking my male friends but wanted as ... (63 words)

In love with an up and coming drummer..am I just a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have this friend, i've known of him since 2007. and we only got acquainted this march2009. we started texting each other, chatting, talking on the phone. he is a drummer of this "rising-up" band. so most of the time, i would meet him and hang-out during his gigs. before i got ... (491 words)

I don't want to lose him but he's seeing someone 20 years younger than him yet says he loves me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - "I was with my fiance for 7.5 years, the thing is i was looking for a bit more than bf and gf." In all the time I can only ever spend the night on a saturday night even though I see him nearly every night. this year I wanted to know where we were going as a couple as I still ... (334 words)

I feel so bored and lonely without him, do you think he likes me too?

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18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known this guy for a really long time, more than 10 years, and we've been talking since last year when he managed to get my email address. We chatted online and texted. I'm starting to fall for him and I don't know what to do. He is really nice. I haven't heard of... (213 words)

How to tell my mother-in-law she can't come at my aunt's funeral?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My mother in law is a real tag along. She wants to go everywhere with me and my husband. Tomorrow, we're going to my Aunt's funeral. She's not invited because it's intermediate family only; we couldn't afford to have a public funeral. We're having a small get together afterwar... (113 words)

Should I break up with b/f just because I'm not sure that he is "the one"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im torn between two men, one a boyfriend of 5 years whos great but i just don't think im inlove with him, but hes such a good man and so good to me i don't think its a good idea to give him up! Then another man who im just friends with but we have kissed and slept together, ... (126 words)

Any way to get the friendship back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy,and we were best friends I told him everything and he told me everything, and about a year ago I started getting into drugs and drinking, and he decided I was a bad influence on him and we stopped being friends. Back then I didn't care that much, but now I've ... (78 words)

How to stop slowly talking to the ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - please bear with this and give as many opinions as possible ...how would you slowly stop talking to your ex girlfriend of one year old relationship...i dumped her cuz i am committment phobic but we care for each other a lot and are still friends....she is 17 and i am 21... we ... (351 words)

We like each other but things are awkward!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well i just got from a party where theres this girl that really likes me and i really like her. We show up and things got really akward, its like we didnt know what to say to each cuz all we've done is text each other. Any suggestions on what to do now? Cuz thing r akward sfter ... (60 words)

Itching after anal... Should I see a Doctor?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I tried anal sex for the 2nd time last week and it was protected and everything but now I freaking out that I may have a STD or something. It initially hurt the first day, but have a slight itchy feeling there every now and again but nothing else. Should I go to the doct... (68 words)

Is this age gap (13 years) too big?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19, and have recently fallen for a guy who is 32! He really nice and not pressuring me into anything, in fact it's completely the opposite, everything is on my terms and upto me, so theres no pressure on his side. The truth is, I find guys my own age to immature, and am... (116 words)

Was it all just a lie?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I used to love this girl. It went on for about 2 and a half years. At the time I was blind, and really thought things could work out. I screwed up several times. She was never interested. Her attitude towards me went from trusting to cold hearted- to say the least- she fluctuat... (497 words)

Should I stop appologising for everything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - When ever my partner is upset I apologise to her no mater what, and even if I am not in the wrong because I don't like her being unhappy or upset., but I am starting to feel a lot of resentment that she never returns this. when I talked about this to her she just said that ... (94 words)

Should I leave her be, or remind her of our times together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - So yesterday I wrote of my five years coming to a end with a girl I did wrong in ways but she walked out of my life the night before and so I got my first full 24 hours alone! SUCKED SUCKED...So what do I do try and contact her? it angers me when I'm ignored so I keep trying! ... (97 words)

Should I tell him I kissed another guy when I thought we weren't official?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have just started seeing this guy for just about a month, we weren't official and the other week I kissed a guy. didn't enjoy it as thinking shouldn't do this as seeing other guy. Had discussion with the person I'm seeing and we said we are now exclusive. He mentione... (129 words)

I like them both, am I being fickle? Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay erm, I think I'm falling for my best guy friend, but I still like this other guy. Here's the deal. I met Guy in class, and I liked him since the first day. And then, Best Guy Friend is in this other class. Guy took a long time to make friends with me, like, when the ... (505 words)

Am I wrong for wondering if she'll ever care about her appearance?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

18 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - This autumn will be 6 years married, 7 years in the same relationship and i will be 26. My girl is really good to me, but she is really overweight. I figured eventually she could lose weight, but there's never been any motivation. I've tried being critical, and I've also ... (207 words)

He never includes me in any family functions, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (F)

age - what is the best way to deal with the following problem: I have been dating a man for a long time and for the past year his kids never include me in any family functions or eating out. they just don't like me because i am with their father and therefore he cannot be with ... (150 words)

He was trying to keep us a secret, people found out and now he won't contact me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - Please help me... I have been seeing a guy I have known for years for the past 3 months. He has been out of his marriage for just under a year and they have 2 children. His ex cheated on him on numerous occasions and the love has gone. He asked me out ad we have had such lov... (190 words)

Why did it hurt when I touched myself?

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18 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - im a virgin, and i was fingering and when i started i wasnt wet, then i was touching my clit and it began hurting. then i was still doing it but then i started getting this burning /fire feeling and i kept going. then i got really really wet, and now im done but im still vey ... (65 words)

Breaking up is very hard to do!

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18 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing this guy for about 6 months now. He's great, generous, understanding and always for there for me. I've never met anyone as giving as he is. He's also incredibly busy most the time as a doctor and works long hours. So far we'e made an arrangement to see each ... (309 words)

Taking birth control pills, but worried I'll still get pregnant if he doesn't wear a condom

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18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so, my boyfriend is coming over tomorrow. He and I used to foreplay and sometimes have sex but it all stopped a few months ago when I got on birth control pills. I don't know why but I Just was never in the mood. The thing is, I've been thinking that I do want to have sex ... (199 words)

I'm 16, she's 13...is the age gap too big?

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18 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 16 and there is a girl who is 13 who really, and I mean really! likes me. I know her best friend and she has explained how much this girl likes me. I know she is only 13 but appears very mature for her age. To begin with I liked her just as a friend but recently I have ... (106 words)

My boyfriend cannot go to sleep with me at night!

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18 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend cannot go to sleep with me at night. We went through a phase where we finally managed to get it right then I came back late one night and through out the pattern. Now he is back in the spare room listening to boring fm all night. I'm so frustrated he wont try agai... (109 words)

I love the soul, spirit and essence of him, but our relationship is troubled

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18 June 2009 (F)

age - How can I have feelings for a man that feels to me like they are on a different level - as if I love the essence, the soul and spirit of the man and I feel he loves me the same way but he keeps behaving in a way that hurts and upsets me - yet i still feel the same way for ... (348 words)

Worried I've lost a good friendship and possible future relationship

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18 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I need some help understanding what a lad I know is thinking about our friendship. We met by chance through a mistake on a networking sight and are both very similar with lots in common and both hurt in past relationships so it seemed fate had interveened. We met several ... (183 words)

If I give him some time, what if he doesn't even think about me?

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18 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend dumped me about two months ago. I have made mistakes like calling him, txting him and even begging all that stuff right after we broke up. Then I backed off for a bit and decided to call him once a week. Everytime I txted him or called him he always responded. ... (234 words)

I want to feel loved by my husband. How can we save our marriage?

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18 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - OK, I'm 31 years old, he is 39, and I been married since I was 18, we have two girls, 2 and 6 and for years our only issue was lack of sex,until we decided to make a schedule!! and I dont know how but it worked for a few years, we were happy with our sex life. A week after my ... (1034 words)

Suspicious of my girlfriend since she had a weekend away

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18 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I don’t trust my girlfriend!? She secretive and gets all defensive if I ask her about things. It never used to be like this. She used to be so open, used to tell me everything, I didn’t need to ask anything. It all changed a few months ago when she had a weekend ... (550 words)

Girlfriend only shows me affection after a drink

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18 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - GF only shows affection after a drink? When she not had a drink and we kiss, she either pulls away then gives a quick peck on the cheek, wont kiss my lips. She wont hug, more like a pat on the back, wont hold hands in public and sex is def a no no. When she had a drink... (177 words)

He cheated on me so I burned all of his things!

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18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Lets cut to the chase, shall we? my boyfriend and I were dating for a good year and three months. I am sixteen and he is eighteen. I thought we were in love, he bought me a promise ring for our one year. i honestly thought i would spend the rest of my life with this guy. ... (313 words)

I have a tickling fetish!

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18 June 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Okay, I'm young, but I've always known what I like. I have a tickling fetish, and I prefer to be the 'ler and not the 'lee. So I kind of have two questions here. First, is it even remotely normal? I've always felt kind of freaked out by it. Like, it's not gross, but it's jus... (109 words)

I have sex with girls but think I like guys more

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18 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a young man. I like girls i yave sex with them and its good but i think i'm interested in boys more. i look up boys (their hips,penis) much more than girls. I live in a very conservative country so don't know what to do? There is a question in my mind that bothers me a ... (68 words)

Is there any way I can make my period come early?

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18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i still havn't come on my period yet and im due soon but problem is on the 26th imgoing away for my big walk which is over 3 days with school. it would be the worse thing if i came on for it. does anyone know any ways of making it come early? ... (54 words)

Should I talk to his mother about my boyfriend? He doesn't open up to me

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18 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, my name is Lien, from Vietnam. I have had a online boyfriend and we've been together for 8months, he's china, im in vietnam. As his plan, he will go back usa to see family and then him and his mom are going to come here for me at the end of this july. However, last we... (709 words)

I don't let my husband see my breasts because they are too small!

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18 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my husband been married for about a month now. We're very happy together but I never let him see my breasts cause I think they'll too small (A cups) and I don't think I ever want him see them. My husband begs me to let see them in dark and Im being unfair, am I?... (57 words)

I can't believe we are over for the 3rd time!

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18 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and i were together for 2 and a half years, we then broke up for about 8mnths, she thencame back to me saying that she wanted me back only to leave agagin and start seeing some other guy. I finished it saying there will never be another chance for us and i didnt ... (306 words)

Does anyone know about clinics, exams, costs ect?

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18 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - MOD NOTE: Poster is NOT 26, but a teen Hi! I'm a teen. And I would like to go to my Health Care Center and ask about getting the birth control shot (Depo-Provera). I need it really cheap since I can't use my parents insurance. Does anyone know how much it will cost me to ... (103 words)

Sometime people just bring out the worst in each other

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18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have completely screwed up and i need some serious help. i have had a boyfriend for almost a year now. it'll be a year on the 30th. he knows almost everything about me. we have so much fun together; but at the same time we fight like crazy. everything i do makes him so mad... (785 words)

Guy friend told me he was going to get me a boyfriend!

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18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my guy friend recently told me "im gonna get you a boyfriend, who do you like?" how do i take that? does he think im lonely, unstable or something. i then told him i didnt want one. and he insisted that hed find someone for me? does HE like me? by the way me and him never talk ... (60 words)

He's more interested in looking at porn pictures than being with me

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18 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I are 23 and have been best friends since we met in high school and started dating our senior year.We have been married for four years and have two children that are four and two. We have a great relationship except for one problem. I have caught him looking up ... (235 words)

My parents give me no freedom

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18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so Im 15. I'll be 16 in less than 3 months and I have no freedom. My parents will not let me go out with friends unless they're there. I have a bf that only my mom knows about cause my dad would kill him and she doesn't want him to know. So now i have to lie to my father ... (145 words)

She got mad when I tried to touch her breasts during sex...what's going on?

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18 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend (who was a virgin before I met her) and me had sex for the time first. Well it was great when I'd to take off her bra she slap my hand away and she got really mad at me because she doesn't like when I touch her breasts. Then I talked her about she got red and ... (78 words)

I hate kissing!! Please help!

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18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey aunts, i am sixteen years old. i have sort of a problem.. i don't want to kiss. i have a boyfriend and we've been dating for about 11 months. i love him so much but about four months into our relationship, i got mono. it made me bed sick for about two months, and my d... (238 words)

Is it normal for a guy to use a strap-on dildo on his wife?

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18 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have been married for 11 years. We have 2 kids. Sex is wonderful, when we have it, 1 to 2 times a week-work, kids, busy schedule. My question to both men and women, my wife has hinted at the use of sex toys. Apparently she has been talking to some girlfriends and ... (143 words)

My girlfriend seems to be ignoring me, who is in the wrong here?

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18 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My gf and i have benn going out for almost nine months now, we just got out of school, and we dont get to hang out as often. Since she's grounded, she cant use the phone, but still calls me from time to time, but whenever we're both signed in on myspace, and i write her a ... (132 words)

I'd like some personal experiences of going into labour!

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18 June 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hey guys!~ I'm about to have a baby! she's almost here.. two weeks until the due date. I was looking online for signs that you'll go into labour soon and i found only the basic contractions, water breaking stuff. But what I'm really looking for is how to know further ahe... (225 words)

I can't orgasm, and it's ruining my relationships

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18 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So a few months back my boyfriend and I broke up. The main reason was sex or lack thereof. I'm ok-ish with the breakup...we are still friends. Anyway the reason we hadn't been having sex was I didn't want it. I wasn't enjoying it as much as I used to. I hadn't had an orgasm in ... (102 words)

I've wanted him for so long, I don't know what to do

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18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok well i have been after this guy that i met at a party since november when i first met him he made me feel so good inside like woow!!even though i had a boyfriend i started talking to him. i figured out he had jus broke up with his girlfriend the day of the party (hes the one ... (512 words)

WHY do I still love my ex husband?

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18 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 43. Still in love with my ex husband. We have been divorced for 6 years, but still have sex about once per month. Last weekend he asked me to meet him at a bar....I did, and he was all over another woman! So, I left. Then HE left me a message saying if i truly loved ... (107 words)

Why do I get embarrassed talkiing about my boyfriend?

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18 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi - to anyone who feels the same... I love my boyfriend to bits - when we are alone or around people that I trust I can talk about him freely. However, whenever I am around workmates or certain people I know, I "freak out" incase they might ask me questions about him. I k... (132 words)

Online guy seems great, but can I trust him?

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18 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok well, there is this guy i met on the internet he's 19 and well im 14...and...when i first met him he lied to me about his appearence sending me a false picture (i found that out on google images)so i caught him and he said that everytime he would try to tell me he just ... (171 words)

He feels different down there...where's his other ball?

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18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so this is a weird one, hang in there with me... I just started seeing this great guy a few weeks ago, he's such a sweet and goofy guy, I feel really comfortable with him (not to mention he's smoking hot). Well we were cuddling and messing around a bit while watching a... (187 words)

How do I win my girlfriend back?

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18 June 2009 (M) age 26-29 - i lost my girlfriend about 2 months ago because we fight too much. She moved on and got a new boyfriend. We still talk but only for a short time. How can i get her back in my arms?... (39 words)

My relationships rarely last more than a month...except for one ex who I loved

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18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - All of my relationships suck, they don't even last a month. when I break up with the guys I don't even care, there has been one relationship of mine the lasted 5 months and then the guy ended it, I was heart broken. And I think with my previous relationships I'm never going to ... (79 words)

During sex, I either feel nothing or I feel pain

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18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for 11 months now and we have had sex over 30 times but during sex i dont feel anything or i feel pain. once we had sex and i was on top and it was okay but i think that was because my clilt was rubbing on his stomach. please help ... (61 words)

She's overfriendly with other guys on social-network, it's making me insecure

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18 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone. I have a long distance relationship. She is over 30, divorced, have a child with her and I am 5 years younger. It has been 1 year and we fight a lot. It has been 1 week we didn't contact each other. Out of blue, she called me. We have great conversation a... (332 words)

He hid his profile on the dating site?

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18 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I’m on a dating site and recently I emailed a guy who I liked the sound of. He responded and we’ve been emailing ever since. After our first email exchange he hid his profile. I can still email him but his profile isn’t visible to anyone else on the website unless he contac... (167 words)

Is he interested in being more than just friends?

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18 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Help please! I need some advice on how to read male signals. Ok, ive known this guy for a long time, in the last few months, he has begun to email me a lot, and now we text each other every single day. He always sends me a good morning text, (its not just good morning... (167 words)

Tips for the best way to be on top?

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18 June 2009 (?) age 30-35 - my boyfriend wants me to be on top when we have sex but i don't know how i go about doing this. do any of you have any tips to help me? ... (32 words)

What can I do to stop the rumours? I really can't deal with this anymore.

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18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - there has recently been a romour spread about me at school that i have been sleeping with a class teacher in his class room *i haven't* its making me feel really bad at school because this is not the only romour that has been spread about me it has also been spread that i sell ... (178 words)

Should I have sex with this ex, or will he just dump me again?

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18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have recently got back in touch with an ex that i have been split up with for almost two years we had sex once when going out with him. we have been getting closer and closer and he has being staying at my house but the other day we were messing about and he kissed me out of ... (152 words)

I miss her. I hope she misses me.

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18 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok heres the story i liked this girl from my work we talked alot on msn and bebo had so much in common but she had a boyfreind and she never talked about him so i took the risks on valentines day and asked her to a snow patrol concert with me she sed she could'nt it was "too ... (220 words)

She goes through phases when she's not sure she should be dating me! Help me out!

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18 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Right, me and my girlfriend have been going out for 7 months and its been the best 7 months of my life. She is 17 years old and i am 18 years old. But as of recently, my girlfriend has started to have mixed feelings; she wants to be able to experience the physical side as... (489 words)

How should I ask her out? She doesn't know I'm bi.

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18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i want to have a relationship with my friend but she doesnt know im bi. how should i ask her out? (shes gay)... (23 words)

Any advice on sex toys...

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18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys, i posted a question about learning to 'squirt' for my fella, and a fair few answers came up with try on my own first, which im more than willing to give a go although i can orgasm by myself it takes AGGGGES and i can sometimes get bored. so i want to st... (112 words)

Anyone with a military loved one overseas?

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18 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Does anyone on this sight have a boyfriend/girlfriend, or spouse or anyone over seas?if so does anyone know when they are demobilizing back here to Illinois? my man is with the 634BSB out of Mattoon illinois. Thankx!... (37 words)

I'm trying to decide just what my responsibility is with my child's education...

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18 June 2009 (F)

age - My daughter is going to university next year after high school. I'm very happy for her, but it is very expensive, especially room and board 1500$ a month. But it is a big city and she will live in the dorm, and that is how much. So we can't really help her too much, and I... (195 words)

I lost my wedding ring, never told him and now he's furious!

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18 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I lost my wedding ring about 4 years ago, never told my husband, bought a ring that looked similar to mine, and just recently he somehow found out and is extremely angry, yet he too lost his around the same time and it was not a big deal. We have been married 12 years, and I ... (99 words)

He's all buddy buddy with me after ignoring me. Why?

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18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What would make a guy friend not talk to you for a couple of months then suddenly act like were friends again? It's almost summer and I won't see him all summer. Maybe he feels like he won't talk to me. He never texts me or talks to me online just talks to me at school. He's ... (65 words)

I am so afraid of karma, but it just happened. How do I deal with this?

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18 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have put myself in a veryyy uncomfortable situation. Basically i have this ex with whom i went out with when i was 16 years old, we were in a relationship for a year, i am currently 19, and well ,between us ended for a very stupid reason, these past years, i would always ... (521 words)