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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I justified in thinking negative stuff about him? He's been callous since my diagnosis with MS.

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have just recently found out I probably have MS, albeit mildly so far, fortunately. My partner of 5 years, with whom I had had various problems on and off, left me just before I was diagnosed, whilst I was ill and for a while was being a friend but has since decided he ... (365 words)

His girlfriend, who was his ex at the time, will not let it go! I'm afraid it's going to escalate!

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - In summer 2008, I met this guy who was a friend of a friend of mine. I didn't know much about him at the time. He really cute, and he showed interested in me, so I was like, hey, why not, right? After a few weeks of knowing him, I was at this party, and I had one too many ... (310 words)

I've been played one too many times. But is this guy different?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been played one too many times by one too many guys. i guess i'm an easy target because i've never been in love, but i want to be, so anything any guys say to me i automatically believe to be the truth, but is actually just "him" trying to have his way with me. is t... (203 words)

Is this guy just not into me????

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok...this is kind of a long story... Last year around May, I started talking to this guy because he asked for my number. (He worked in a music store. I used to often go there and buy lot of cd's with my mom and sister for more than 6 months before he finally asked for my #).... (1302 words)

How can I figure him out and what can I do about it?

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I been talking to my bf about 3 1/2 months now and we are officially being comiitted to this relationship togethor the issue was how my bf started getting this way when he seen me he lives in middle town and everyweekend he comes to see me we both chill hangout or whatever ... (224 words)

It's complicated between us, but I want her back!

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3 June 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey. Im 14 and male So the thing is, I asked this girl out and she said yes, and everthing was going really well, we were together for a week and then the holiday break came along and we couldn't talk much. Then on the first week back she asks to have a chat and announce... (119 words)

Any ideas for writing emails that give a good impression? I signed up for an online dating service.

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3 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi i signed up for a onlie dating agentses a few months ago and sent 2 or 3 email to girls i was interested in but got no reply just wonderd if anyone had any ideas on wot i should put on thease emails i/e to get the girls atention as i spotted a girl i like tonight but ... (90 words)

I want to give him the space he asked for with this break, but I'm afraid he'll forget about me!

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 months now, we met in a very special way and we're honestly so in love, everything is perfect between us, he always tells me how in love with me he is and how i'm the best thing that's ever happened to him, we've never gotten into a ... (194 words)

I have fears of moving in with my boyfriend of 2 years

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I am contemplating moving in with my boyfriend. We have been together for only two years. I've posted before about horrible flat mates my boyfriend is living with, which is the reason i am considering to move in with him alone. I don't want to move in w... (447 words)

I feel muddled and emotionally empty?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

3 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello I'm in a long distance relationship and have been for the last year and 3 months. It has always been long distance. At the beginning it was the most wonderful thing I've ever experienced. I cannot fault my boyfriend at all and he is a wonderful man. I moved to a diff... (200 words)

I think I'm scared of having an orgasm!

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My vibrator isn't getting me off... I think it's 'cause I'm too scared of going having an orgasm. I recently got out of a very long term relationship (almost 6 years), and we were each others first and only kiss, sex partners, etc. The sex was never good for me. He tried giving ... (256 words)

Deflecting his unwanted attention...I'm at a loss!

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, here goes. Last summer I helped with job training for a group of people from outside agencies (it's a program we do at my work.) As was supposed to happen, they all went on to work other places. I had given my phone number to the whole group because I was the person t... (344 words)

Why do some guy and girl friendships not last?

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've moved on and am no longer waiting for my guy friend to come back and talk to me again. I only hope that next year he will miss me being around in shop. Its so hard trying to forget someone who is on your bus and always around you. He never talks to me and if he does its ... (220 words)

I know what I want but I hate that I'm hurting my husband.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

3 June 2009 (F) age 51-59 - Well, I've been writing on this same topic for 3 years now...for background read my other 2 posts... It is now 2009. A lot has changed in my life. I am still very much in love with my soul mate. However, he has now left the state. Before he moved away, we were separated f... (705 words)

Why is it impossible to talk to your spouse about issues?

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Why is it near imposible to talk to your spouse about issues or problems on your mind? Why do they mistake it for an invitation to argue when you are just trying to sort out problems that are bothering you?... (41 words)

Having some trouble...should I wait for her to text me? Or should I try again?

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3 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been talking to this girl that i really like for about a month before we hung out. She would text me everyday to talk and if she didn't text me i would text her and she would be happier. We talked about dating over the summer and she i knew she was real into it because she ... (370 words)

Should I believe he will not cheat again?

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for just less than two years, its a long distance one and we have had some difficult times, due to him cheating twice and persuing another woman which i found out about and never went further. I told him three weeks ago that i... (256 words)

Why is she being so confusing?

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3 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - At frist we dating for four months and then we stop dating cause we where fighting a lot! Then we didn't talk for three months! Till one day I was with my friends and my friends had invited her too! So next day she send me a text saying that she still had my jacket! So we ... (196 words)

I slept with my best friend! Now what do I do?

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my bestfriend is a guy and we have always had a flirty kind of relationship. well one night we got totally shithoused and we ended up having sex, nothing was strange about the whole thing we didnt bring it up at all, all of our friends kept asking what was with us and neither ... (161 words)

Confused on what to do with my life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm just really confused right now...I just turned 18 and me and my bf broke up after a year. I just feel so dumb for giving him my virginity, i thought we were gonna get married so it didnt matter anyway. Now hes just being so mean to me. and i dont know what to do now that im ... (80 words)

Getting pregnant while on your period

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i still have sex when im on my period can i get pregnant? im on birth control and i still take the pill reguraly i dont use a condom all the time this there a higher chance of me getting pregnant when im on my period?... (50 words)

I want to come to America to pursue my dream!

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3 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - when i grow up i want to be a racing car driver and the cars i want to drive are in america. I want to go over to america so i can get used to racing in america but my parents don't want me to be a racing driver but my sister says that she would support me what ever i do. i ... (94 words)

He's great but when it comes to sex he isn't the best!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

3 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all. :) I'm new to this site so bear with me... I'm a 21 year old female. I'm currently dating a 34 male. He's a really great lover and turns me on all the time. It's like I can't get enough of him. But... when it comes to having sex and that sort of thing, he isn't ... (137 words)

How can I let someone go that means so much to me?

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, well last year i got my first part time job. Still being at school i only work the weekends. Over the past year i have became confident and socialise well with other staff members. I have bacame close to this guy from work and i started to see him in a way The past few mont... (223 words)

She dumps me but still praises me about the great sex we had!

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3 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex GF and I keep in touch via e-mail or messenger. me and her start talking normal, then she always ends up changing the subject to sex, and she always says I was definitely great at it. I dont know what to think. She Dumped me and I still have feelings for this girl ... (108 words)

I think she's having more fun with online games guys that she is with me!

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3 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello my girl friend and I play halo online and a lot of guys hit on her. she is a friendly person so she talks to them. A few of them have been talking more and more to her and she stays up very late playing with them and when I finally get to i feel like im at a lost and dont ... (136 words)

Caught him with porn now I'm constantly checking his web history

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

3 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Ever since I caught my boyfriend watching porn while I was at home, I haven't been able to stop randomly looking at his web history. I've seen him look up pictures of real girls that we both know alongside porn. Is it normal for guys to masturbate to other girls? And... (109 words)

Now that I'm pregnant he wants to have sex all the time and is getting aggressive about it

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - alright so im 17 years old and my boyfriend is 28 years old. we have been together for a year and a half. the thing is he used to work at my school as a security guard. he left my school about 6 months ago to move onto another job. we met through the school i go to. my parents ... (282 words)

My g/f is spending time with her questionable uncle

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3 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi i'm very confused and need some advice about my girlfriend. I have been together with my partner for 4 years now. She is younger than me and is now 24. When she was growing up she received a lot of attention from her mother's brother who lived with the family. He would... (205 words)

Was I used as a one night stand?

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3 June 2009 (?) age 30-35 - me and a guy friend of mine was playing around yesterday night and i went down on him... but i haven't heard anything from him since then. was i a one night stand? i feel awful about it he was my 1st and i haven't known him along time or anything but i thought he liked me.. i ... (108 words)

She wants a break..am I wrong by constantly wanting to contact her?

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3 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship for the past four years with a woman I am madly in love with. We have had some rough times before, like all relations, but we managed to get past them. I graduated from College last May. Since then I have been trying to look for a job, any job rea... (385 words)

I don't have the confidence to tell him that I like him

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hey. I need help. Its my birthday tomorrow and I have liked this boy for about 2 years now. I was ill today and my friend told me that the boy had been asking about me. Recently people have told me he likes me but I asked him out a year ago and he said no. Now i dont have the ... (129 words)

Should I tell my 11 year old cousin that I love her?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

3 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i am an 18 year old boy and last week i met my cousin who is 11years old actually i met her for the very first time...we had nice time and became really very close.but i have fallen in love with her i am too much attracted to her. What shall i do? Should i tell her that i ... (62 words)

I gave a friend a place to stay, and she had a fline with my crush

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. I was hoping to get some advice about a love problem I have. I had a fling with a guy from work which lasted about a month. He then said he did not want to continue, which upset me because I really fell for him and in fact I am in love with him but he does not return ... (355 words)

My ex is happy now, and I'm a loser

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

3 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - whats wrong with me. i hate myself for writing this but its driving me insane. about 6 years ago i finished with my ex boyfriend-i just felt like he didnt care about me at all we had a house together-he took it out in his name but we were living in it for 2 years. ... (447 words)

If a man ejaculates a lot, does that mean he has not had sex for a while?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

3 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Just wondering if I can get some help on a sex question I have. I have heard that when a man ejaculates a lot that means he has not had sex for a while. Is this true? Thanks for reading.... (44 words)

Want to talk to him, but so scared, don't know what to say, please help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I really really like this guy who is in the year above me at my school I'm in secondary school, but never had a boyfriend so i don't have alot of experience But I haven't talked to this guy for ages (Since October last year) (this is just because we haven't really seen e... (229 words)

My mom has skin cancer, so do I, having a hard time coping. any suggestions to help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i need some advice from people ... i am only 15 and i am a carer. mi mum has skin cancer and i look after her all the time as shes always! in hospital .. recently i hav found out i have the same thing, im not alloud in the sun at all. i hate seeing my mum once she ... (161 words)

What kind of gift would be fun and nice for a young lady?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

3 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am going to be home from uni over the summer, so I won't be seeing the young lady I like until possibly until September (though as I only live a couple of hours away I will probably try to visit when I can) Our current situation is that we have known each other nearly 6... (226 words)

I went to his house, did not want sex, he insisted, I feel violated, should I?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i kinda have this friends with benefits thing but i hardly see him these days as i wanted more than just sex. Anyway, i went round his the other night and we chilled for a bit but then i decided to go without having sex, for the reason i said above. Anyway, he pinned me dow... (170 words)

On again, off again, what gives with this woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

3 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok! But she's not goin 2 get any vacitons cause she wants 2 finish her school already! But we r just dating and she has told me since da beggin that she didn't want noting serius! Cause of her busy life! We dating like for 4 months and we stop talking like for almost 3 ... (113 words)

He never talks to me face to face, why?

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My classmate-boy never talks face to face with me(iam a girl). He stands behind me,when i am alone and tells he's relocating!!! Hes not shy type, he talks to other girls,also flirts.But with me he acts weird,though we never talked much.... (41 words)

Guys -- how long do you usually last during a bj?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is for the guys out there. When getting a blow job about how long does is take for you to ejaculate. I give my boyfriend head but there's no way I'm letting him cum in my mouth so I only do it for a while then carry on with a hand job just in case he does and doesn't say ... (74 words)

Should I get my hopes up or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i broke up with my boyfriend early this year and i tried to make things up with him but he refused to take me back.recently he sent me an sms saying a day doesnt pass by without him thinking about me.i dont want to get my hopes up because everytime i do he lets me down.i am ... (74 words)

Not proud of the way I lost my virginity

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, this is mainly for parents to help me out here, I'm a 16 year old girl, and I was at a concert one night, and me and my friends booked a hotel room for after it and we meet some people, I ended up having sex with one of them and this was my first time. Since then when I... (155 words)

I'm losing my best, best friend, please help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

3 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a college student and i have been best friends with this catholic girl for 2 years.Our frienship was very close but had no sexual element whatsoever.It was just a boy-girl being really good friends. It would be odd for even a day to go by without us talking.We loved ea... (509 words)

If they are just friends then why is he lying about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

3 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My BF had met a woman 5 years ago over seas (before me) and kept in touch. When we met he mentioned that he slept with her and they had sent some intense emails about him moving there etc. Well now he's with me and she emailed him asking to visit the US this summer to see ... (337 words)

What am I supposed to do when he is playing with me?

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i have been dating this guy for a while now and we are both ready to move to the next level. he wants to finger me and i want him to, but the thing is when he is doing it, what am i supposed to do, do i just sit tere? do i close my eyes? please help by telling me what ... (81 words)

She's pushing me away..unsure what to do about it

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3 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok! She goes 2 school from 7 to 6 mondays thru thrusdays! And her parents own a drive thru and they r open 7 days a week! She works after she gets out of school to help her parents! And da little time she has we spend it together! She says she loves me but its not fair to me ... (119 words)

He called me a selfish bitch because I don't want to have sex

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

3 June 2009 (?) age 30-35 - So I told my boyfriend that I don't want to do anything sexual with him mainly because it makes me feel uncomfortable. Well he gets mad at me cause I told him earlier I was going to gave him my virginity but I realize I wasn't ready. He called me a selfish bicth for only ... (171 words)

Can I text him and ask him to change his address so I don't have to see him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

3 June 2009 (F)

- My partner and I broke up 8 weeks ago. I don't feel too upset about it any more but I am feeling a little lost. We have only spoken to each other once or twice in the last 2 months and that was to deal with bills and that conversation didn't go to well (the whole childish ... (173 words)

Should I have stayed out of it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

3 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey, I was trying to lookout for this girl friend of mine, Jess. She's been going out with a guy friend of mine and they've been good friends of mine. The guy was my friend first but as I had problems with my significant other, the girl helped me out more. Anyway the two of t... (293 words)

I'm sleeping and hes watching porn right next to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

3 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance and I have our computers next to the bed. I know my fiance watches porn, I don't have a problem with that. It's just a little unsettling when I wake up to him sitting on the end of the bed, at his computer watching porn and pleasuring himself. It's just a little ... (341 words)

7 month anniversary..sexy pictures?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

3 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - okkay so me and my long distace boyfriend have been together for 6 months our 7 month annevirserry is coming up soon and i dont know what to do for him! i cant send him any thing in the mail because i dont know i send him something and get it back. i already made a website for ... (94 words)

Do I step back and let them handle this as a family?

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have recently started seeing a guy who has 3 kids. I have not met the kids yet as its still only new. He called me the other night as 1 of his kids had died suddenly and unexpectedly that morning. I feel so bad for him and told him im here if he needs to talk or anything. But ... (145 words)

What can I use similar to a penis to masturbate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

3 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i've just begun masturbating.I want to know what can be used as a dildo.something that i can push up my ass, something that feels like a pennis. Please help me.... (30 words)

Husband playing spankee or hanky panky with the maid?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

3 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - dear friends, I am a married woman who has spent 21 years of married life.our relationship was nice till recently. Recently when i had gone out with my children and returned home a bit early than my husband expected. My husband was alone at home.On the previous day we had inte... (292 words)

One college for another..wondering about my choice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well i began last year in a very very repuated college but was doin a course which i dint like at all i hated it but the college and my friends were very good after completing that year i moved to another college which is not that reputed and took a course of my choice ... (98 words)

My husband's contact with his ex

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been together with my husband for the last 6 years. we have been married for the last 2. We have one son. During our whole relationship it feels like his ex has been in the background. Since they day they have broken up she has repeatedly tried to interfere with our... (346 words)

Will this have to be a LDR?

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i have recently meet this guy and really like him, probably more than i should considering the time we have been together. I might have to leave for 2 months and have told him that ill visit etc but obv he wants me stay.but i dont want to leave at such a crucial part in our ... (92 words)

Do guys get turned off by inverted nipples?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Do men mind inverted nipples? I really wanna be naked with my boyfriend of 9 months who is 15 years old but i have an inverted nipple. Will he mind? And will it be a turn off for him? Please answer.. I'm really embarrassed!... (53 words)

Trust issues

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3 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - [MOD NOTE: This was posted as two separate questions but as they are so closely related I have posted them together] 1. My girlfriend past is bothering me as well.Im 19 and i had sex with about 50 girls. I know thats bad but i try to make excuses because i am a guy and i al... (242 words)

He admitted to have fantasies about other women

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, just a quick question... My partner and i were lying in bed and we both just had a really great night, i bought up the topic on whether he thinks about other women and he has always been extremely honest towards me regardless of whether it's an easy topic or more of ... (201 words)

Todays letters are J and R, and they're not getting along

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

3 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance and I have been in a great relationship up until recently. I'll call my fiance J. Well, he has been working for this guy for a while now, about a year, lets call J's boss R. Well, R doesn't have a very good work ethic and J barely ever gets paid. Also R keeps J at ... (320 words)

Surely, there has to be a part of him that still attracted to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex boyfriend broke up.. 4 years ago now when he went to College, as it was 5 hours away from where we lived, and he didn't want to do a Long distance relationship. He graduates this semester, but I'm not sure what his plans are, if he's staying there, or coming back ... (717 words)

Female masturbation questions

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i'm 18 years old and i'd really like to buy a sex toy like a dildo type thing but i'm too scared of how it'll arrive. i've been told like it just comes in a box but i really am too scared to do that and too shy to just go into a shop and ask for one. i know people s... (150 words)

Is he still interested? How do I communicate how I feel?

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This man was interested in me (he's quiet shy, reserved, doesnt talk a lot, he is also a loner, doesnt have a big social life and likes to spend a lot of time on his own).. finally he asked me out and we had a lovely few weeks dating, then I feel I may have come on too strong, ... (243 words)

Sleeping with my sister in-law, but I want to end it. Help

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

3 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been sleeping with my wife's sister for six years now, and I want to end it. I don't know how it came to this point. After my wife and I had our son, we were still adjusting to life as new parents. Postpartum, my wife was too tired for anything (including sex).... (586 words)

Her family doesn't like me. She's avoiding me. Do I break up with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

3 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi,i'm 22 of age i being in the r/ship 2 and half years after 1 and half years we had sex and to find out she was a virgin after talkin about it to have sex in our r/ship we had it ones.After that all changed our r/ship,she came busy with r/ship,no respect like before,acussing ... (214 words)

He cheated, we got engaged. Then I cheated but he doesn't know!

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help, i am 22 years old and i've been in a relationship with my boyfriend/fiance since highschool (6 yrs) he was my first everything. I was so in love with him, I thought we'd be together forever, but the last few months have been rocky for us, i don't want to get into ... (498 words)

My boyfriend is addicted to porn. How can I help him?

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Help my boyfriend is obsessed with porn? am with my boyfriend 2 half years, and i had alot problems. woman has been big threat in our relationship cas of cheating and him having them as friends. my boyfriend also loves porn never stop looking at it. i told him i don... (281 words)

Did I lose my virginity or not? How do I explain this to my new boyfriend?

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 years old and I'm afraid I might have lost my virginity. I was dating this guy and I desided that I wanted to lose my virginity on him but when we were busy withe 4 play, he inserted his tip of the penis but it didn't reach the hymen and I did not feel any pain or ... (165 words)

I feel inferior to my boyfriend because of his popular social life

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this may sound very stupid but i feel inferior to my boyfriend in terms of friends and social life. my boyfriend is the kind of guy everyone likes- he's friendly, funny and confident and can hang out with anyone in our grade. the thing is that i'm not. everyone knows me as the ... (220 words)

Is it right that american girls do oral sex easily ?

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3 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am french, so please excuse my english which is not very good. I have heard that in USA, american girls do oral sex (blowjobs) easily, it's not a big thing for them. To make love with them may be hard, but to be sucked may be easy. Is that right ? Because in France i... (82 words)

Teen boy wants sex, scared he'll be a virgin forever!

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3 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi im a 14 year old guy and im scared that i wont lose my viginity! my best mate has already and iv come close and i kind of thought scince the last relationship another one would've revealed itself and nothing has! im wondering if it will for ages or ever will and i just fee... (72 words)

He got another woman pregnant, we have no trust, I'm second to his son... do I leave?

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years on and off. during our off period of 6 months he got another woman pregnant, he did not tell me until we had been back together for three months, by that time the child was 2wks old. I feel very betrayed and even though we were ... (156 words)

She's confused about her ex, and taking time to decide what she wants. But what should I do?

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3 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend was so much in love with me when we started our relationship that she lost her virginity to me, and we are about 4months into the relationship. her ex bf who she was with for almost 3years and who is presently about 10hours away from she where she is, happens to ... (500 words)

I really liked him, thought he likes me - but he's married!!!

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi hope someone can offer their advice. i work with a guy and have only known him since february. since he joined and especially over the last 2 monts i have found myself physically and mentally attracted to him. he chats to me all the time and we get on really well. just ... (300 words)

Should I be honest that I don't know how I feel?

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - He knows I am the One but I don't know if he is. I like him and I want to continue to be with him but is it ok to tell him that when he asks me if he's the one and if I could see myself having children with him? Is it ok to say "I don't know" or does it automatically mean we ... (80 words)

Her vagina smells! What do I do?

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3 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Help! I have been dating this girl for 3 months now and we are starting to get sexual. The only problem is her vagina kinda stanks. How do i tell her or what do i do???... (36 words)

Any tips on masturbation?

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3 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm an 18-year-old virgin, and I'm bored w/ masterbating, haha. any fun ways to make it more exciting/better feeling?... (19 words)

Would this be considered cheating or unfaithfull?

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Well over the weekend my husband and his co-workers threw a retirement/55th B-day party for his work friend "Corey" that they threw at the beach. We had games,alcohol,food and all the typical beach party gear.When we were playing volleyball on a few occasions I overheard Corey ... (316 words)

Messing eachother about forever - should I tell him I want to be an "us"?

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Its been hard for me the past 3 months. i met this guy not too long ago, but we've been chillin every day and every hour of the day. hes soo confusing like, when its us 2 or other people we chill too, hes the nicest person i can think of for that moment. but when theres time ... (234 words)

Should I get back together with my first husband?

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3 June 2009 (F)

age - Fifty-four year old female who's been married twice, divorced twice, and has four children. Two of whom just finished their third year of college, and my eldest just finished her second year of Med School. My first husband and I were together for twenty-six years, that's in... (380 words)

Can someone fall in love just by chatting?

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know that guy from msn for around six months he told me that he is into me in the next day we chatted I told him that can't be real as he barely knows me I'm 18 and he is 27 he asked for my phone number millions of time I gave it to him.now he calls me every day the.the ... (109 words)

Ways to increase penis size

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3 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 18 yrs old and I have only 4.2 inch long and 4 inch thicker penis. Please tell me the way to increase my penis ... (28 words)

Comments or opinions on planned teen pregnancy

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3 June 2009 (F) age 30-35 - My bf and I have been together for about 11 months. He is 17, and I'm 16. Ever since my cousin got pregnant at 18 I've wanted to be a young mum. This came up in conversation with my bf and he has said he wants to be a young dad as well, which I don't find unusual at all for ... (189 words)

Abusive b/f and his sponging family

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend and i have been together for 7 yrs. i'm 40 and he's 38.Most of the relationship has been very abusive both physical and emotional. He's been arrested 3 times as a result. his family treats me well as long as there's barbecues,parties,or if they're in need of a ... (161 words)

Tragically in love with my former teacher

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear agony aunts, I'm tragically in love with a former teacher of mine. He's all i can ever think about. I find myself thinking about him everywhere i go, no matter what i'm doing, he's always in the back of my mind. I get so depressed because he's no longer going to be te... (175 words)

I haven't heard from him since we set our date

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 22 (female). Met this great guy online and we chatted practically everyday last week! I think he's interested in me. On Saturday we set a date for this upcoming Thursday and I'm excited to finally meet him! He hasn't written to me since then. It's been 3 days now ... (157 words)

Any risks for me to be pregnant?

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi.!i've posted this question before but didnt got many responses .so i'm posting this question with the expectations that i'll get more responses.its a big problem to be sorted out.few days before i had sex (unprotected)with my boyfriend few days before.we had sex before 1 day ... (106 words)

Am I reading more into this than is there?

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am friends with a married man and he has just come back from an overseas work trip,but while he was there we kept in touch thru email - just very basic stuff like saying how much fun he was having, where he was going etc. Just a few sentences each week and some photos. Not ... (116 words)

Should my feelings be hurt or is it ok?

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am dating a guy that lives an hour and half away. We have been dating for 3 weeks... still very new. Everything is going really well. He is calling a lot, texting really nice things often... yet we have only been on 3 actual dates. He must like me... he contacts me oft... (279 words)

How to tell kids their mother isn't coming back?

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have bin holding this off but how do you tell a 9 and a 3 year old their mother left them and is not coming back. I realized I should tell them when I was writing my last question... (41 words)

I want more financial freedom

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I tell my bf of 5 years that I want to continue saving for a home, but I want a life too? Everytime I want to do something (e.g. go away for a long weekend) he says we can't afford it... I am so young and I feel like I have no life. We have been on a few holidays, but ... (214 words)

Should I Feel Guilty About Pleasuring Myself?

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've just got this little problem, and I don't know why I'm even seeing it as a problem. I'm 18 years old (nearly 19), and I'm still a virgin. I've never done anything sexually active with a boy, but I have done some (no polite way to put this) orally pleasurable thin... (127 words)

I'm bi and in love with my best friends boyfriend

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hi im bi (i think) im in love with my best friend boyfriend he gives me this wierd mixed feeling and i feel uncomftable on monday he was allover me and on tueasday he was soo distance hes just soo weird around me but when i se himm make out with my best friend i walk away sad ... (89 words)

Dating a bisexual man

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hmmm... well let's see. I have just very recently started seeing a great guy. He is somewhat older than me, but has also told me that he is bisexual, and has slept with men in the past. At the same time, all of our conversations have been very flirtatious, there's obviously ... (197 words)

She's too busy for a boyfriend but we're always together.

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3 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - She tells me that its her busy life that that's why she don't want to be boyfriend and girlfriend! But any free time she has she spends it with me! Which I don't care cause I want to too! But that she feels bad cause I stop doing what I use to do for her and she thinks its ... (102 words)

What are these blisters?

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3 June 2009 (?) - dear cupid i have a problem about 2 years ago before i started dating my boyfriend i'm with now i found some small painful blisters on my lips of my vagina, i got them checked out at the doctor and they thought that i had herpes but the test results came back negative and now ... (109 words)

Please help me gain some weight!!

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I want to gain a few pounds about 10 or 15 but I do not know where to buy a powder that I can drink every day and gain weight. I don't want protein shakes such as boost or ensure, I just want a powder you pour into milk or water or whatever and drink it. Do any of you ... (81 words)

I don't want my best friend living like this anymore. Please help

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don’t know what to do. My best friend is going through a lot right now. Her dad left her mom bt still comes back every once in awhile and even when my friend does good things her mom ignores it. She called me a few minutes ago crying saying how her mom said she was ugly and ... (367 words)

Should I ask him out or would that be weird?

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - K there is this guy i like but i want you to tell me if i should ask hm out or not well he and my brother are friends and his parents and my parents are friends my parents dont really like him!!! We ve known each other since we were little he is one year younger than me i ... (121 words)

Should I talk to this girl who is wearing 2 bras to school? Or laugh with everyone else?

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - K so there's this girl in my class who for some weird reason wears 2 bras everyday to school, should i talk to her about it maybe she needs someone to talk to ? Do i laugh along with everyone else!? Do i just leave it alone?? I dont what to do cuz she is kinda my ... (62 words)

How do I cope with the fact that I was raped by my husband?

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - The thing that I am having the hardest time dealing with is the fact that I was raped... by my husband. Everyone that I know is always saying "how can you be raped by your spouse?" Well, I would like to know if it is ok for me to feel like I am right. For me to be able to know ... (100 words)

What underwear should I wear under my graduation dress??

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Stupid question that im to embaressed to ask anyone else .... Lol! Kind of has to do with guys but pretty much not!! What kind of underwear do i wear under my grade eight grad dress!!!???? Im only 14 i need an opinion !!!!! I know this may be funny to u but i really wanna ... (57 words)

I want to have sex, but I don't want to end up pregnant!

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am really in love with my bf, i want to have sex but i dont want to be stuck with a baby or abort it. what should i do?... (30 words)

Is the chase over or is he gradually getting used to our relationship?

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3 June 2009 (?) age 51-59 - I need some advice. I have been seeing this man for a couple of months. Everything was going great. I guess they chase you in the beginning. I know he is really a busy man but now he is calling less often. What does that mean? Is he just getting comfortable in this relationship ... (94 words)

Is it weird to call a guy's penis a "penis"?

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this is a really random question and not that big of a deal - i'm just curious... but i read in a girl magazine once that guys don't like for you to call their dick a "penis" when you're screwing around because it's too anatomically correct and dorky sounding, and that you ... (259 words)

He wants our relationship a secret!

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend wants our relationship to be a secret and freaked out when my friend put up pictures of us on facebook, what should i do?... (26 words)

I was so upset over him that I cut myself

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 16 and in high school. ok so i like this guy. he's amazing and i think i'm in love with him. i just can't stop thinking about him. we're friends and we always talk on the bus cause he's not in any of my classes. i think he might know i like him, but i think he likes this ... (186 words)

I really fancy my best friend

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3 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I met my friend nearly 20 years ago. When we first met she was married but the marriage was pretty much over by that time. I had an affair with her that lasted 6 months and its was fantastic. I helped her through the marriage breakup and then she seemed to gradually become more ... (267 words)

I think I want to lose my V-card to him

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 15 yrs old and thers his boy that i have known for like almost a yr now and he just turnt 16 and i really really like him and i know he likes me to because he has told me many times. he knows that i am a virgin and he has told me that he isnt and im ok with that. hes told... (211 words)

Will I ever get another girlfriend?

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3 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm eighteen, just graduated from high school, and have a full-ride scholarship to Juilliard; I play concert piano. I'm 6'2" and 195 lbs. I've only ever had one girlfriend and we broke up last year after only two months together. We still have feelings for each other (we ... (116 words)

I'm painfully shy. How can I find it easier to talk to the opposite sex?

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3 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi im a 22 year old guy and my problem is that i cant talk to girls, the furthest i ever get is eye contact, i dont remember the last time i had a conversation with a girl. This is especially bad if I'm attracted to the girl. I feel as if its pretty much impossible to get ... (127 words)

Why can I not climax?

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3 June 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Last night me and my boyfriend had oral sex, it was my first time but not his. So he started to finger me and all this other stuff to but I couldn't cum. How can I fix this problem? I loved what he done, it felt great but still I couldn't. Even when I masturbate I can't ... (65 words)

I'm not invited on holiday as my boyfriend says "It's a lads thing!"

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3 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi my boyfriend and I have been together for 3.5 years. He normally goes away with the "lads" on holidays without me. When he goes he usually doesnt contact me very often and we usually would be have alot of contact during the day normally. He's planning to go away to a ... (144 words)