New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in June, 2009, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day)

1 (117), 2 (117), 3 (118), 4 (104), 5 (130), 6 (85), 7 (112), 8 (134), 9 (115), 10 (117),
11 (112), 12 (121), 13 (81), 14 (104), 15 (127), 16 (115), 17 (121), 18 (121), 19 (99), 20 (92),
21 (94), 22 (120), 23 (114), 24 (118), 25 (113), 26 (89), 27 (100), 28 (107), 29 (131), 30 (141),

Archived questions from: 30 June, 2009 (see latest questions)

(More questions from June, 2009)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

First Time....Viginal Problems

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex for the first time on a Sunday evening. the sex was rough and painful(used protection by the way) since i was with a more experienced person. As what most female would expected, i bled. But now for two days (Tuesday) i continue to bled (mostly when i wake up)only when ... (118 words)

I went online pretending to be another woman and my boyfriend fell for her!!!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I used this fake account and added my boyfriend on it. I started talking to him as her, and he started to flirt with her. He said he would kiss her and most probably have sex with her! I kept asking him about me his girlfriend and he was acting like he didn't care about me. He ... (140 words)

How do people stay away from others they know are bad for them?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Help me. Besides being a bit of a Well, I cheated. I didn't enjoy sleeping with a stranger. I strongly suspect he was more attracted to my pocket book than to me. I understand now that it was not destiny, but i don't really understand what it was. I let him treat me worse ... (348 words)

I feel like such a sinking wreck...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm beginning to feel like my life has come to a halt. Just come out of a bad and messy split with my fiancee of 5 years-he has been emotionally abusive and has completely and utterly financially drained me-i managed to get debt help but my credit ratings ruined for ages... (205 words)

What can I do that's special to celebrate our 1 year anniverary?

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My 1 year anniversary with my boyfriend is coming up and we don't know what to do to celebrate it but I really want to make it special. I'd really like to hear some suggestions or what you did on your 1 year anniversary :P Any suggestions welcome =)... (57 words)

We want to elope but I don't want my parents to feel cheated in seeing me get married.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend asked me to marry him a week ago and we still haven’t told anyone. We want to avoid the tension, stress and drama that come with planning a wedding and not to mention the debt. We just want to go on a tropical vacation together and elope before coming back here and ... (127 words)

Why has my teacher been treating me differently than anyone else?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why has my teacher been treating me differently than anyone else? This year, he's given me full credit (twice) for an answer that I put, and half to the rest of the class who wrote the same answer. He's also thrown papers to everyone else but handed them to me. He's also gi... (103 words)

I really want to get on with my boyfriend's family.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem.. My boyfriend is a different nationality to me and his mum and dad speak a different language to me and know limited english. I've met them a lot of times but have barely said anything more than 'hi'. I don't know what to say to them :S it doesn't help t... (153 words)

He feels more like a friend than a boyfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for three years, a long time considering we are both only 18. However When we kiss I start to feel weird and as if the act is wrong, so we stop. This happens 80% of the time and I don't ever feel like I want to start kissing or for this to p... (260 words)

Help! Anger problems...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so heres my problem.. I think I have a problem with my anger.. I always fly off the handle for stupid reasons, especially at my boyfriend. It's putting a strain on our relationship as I get really angry at him for no reason. When I'm angry, I honestly can't stop and... (103 words)

Can I make my butt bigger?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a really sensitive tailbone that hurts when I sit for a long time, and it makes it hard to do certain exercises like sit ups and stuff. It still hurts if I put a pad on the floor or do sit ups on a bed. I'm 5'4" and weigh around 115 lbs usually. I've recently been to the ... (180 words)

Is it normal to masturbate "to porn" while in a relationship?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with this guy for 3 years and I was just wondering if it is normal to masturbate "to porn" while in a relationship. I understand that it is a natural thing but when I think of him masturbating to another naked women it makes me feel insecure, un-wanted, like I'm not ... (79 words)

Boyfriend being completely insensitive and will never support me when I need him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some relationship help. I've not been getting on with my partner lately and it's really stressing me out. I've had a lot of issues this year and he hasn't helped me through any of it. The first major one was that i had major issues about him seeing other woman nak... (946 words)

Would you date someone who got divorced at 25?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I met someone I fell in love with when I was 22 years old. We instantly fell for each other, about 4 months later we moved in together and spent pretty much every day together for the next 2 1/2 years. Because we were from different countries, I moved to be with him, and we ... (318 words)

I miss them sexy moments with her, I'm desparate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi im mitesh n im 19years old i had sex withmy gf many times....but now i had a break off...im missing those sexy moments of my life...n problem is its making me more desperate...as any women passes by i jus check her out 4rm top 2 bottom n it feels like having sex with ... (82 words)

Should I just leave the pieces on the floor and move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello...I am a lesbian and my ex girlfriend and I are trying to be together again. We were together in 2008, for a little over 9 months. Through this time she went to alcohol and drug rehab, and I myself was going through a recovery process too. The timing of our relationship ... (306 words)

Is G-spot stimulation the only way to get a real orgasm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've always wondered when girls say they've never orgasmed through masturbation or sex. Does it mean they haven't orgasmed through clitoral stimulation? Or G-spot? I'm just confused 'cause I can easily orgasm through clitoral stimulation by myself, and that can't be incredi... (76 words)

Has anyone here had breast enlargements? I'm considering it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been wanting to get a breast enlargement for years and really want to go up 2 cup sizes but still look very natural as if they were my own. I was wondering if anyone could give me any advice on who is the best or own personal stories. do your breasts feel hard? Do they ... (83 words)

I'm married but I can't stop thinking about my ex! How can I get him out of my mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay well here's my dilemma. I can't get an old lover out of my head. It's been years since we've seen eachother and the majority of our relationship was sexual, but I always find myself thinking back and feeling what I felt years ago. I constantly have the desire to re... (122 words)

How can I make our night alone romantic?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and My boyfriend have the house to ourselves for a night. I want to make to romantic but im not really sure what I could do to 'set the mood'. any ideas? any music suggestions would be great to x... (45 words)

Since moving in with him it feels like sex is a chore! How can I spice things up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been living together for almost a year and im beggining to think that were just having sex because its routine now. It seems to be when we go to bed and because we sleep naked we just have sex. Its lost its excitment of undressing ang for play. Its all ... (97 words)

Confused about online guy I like

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - im 13 i met this guy online he lives in mexico and i live in the US he is sweet we talk every day idk if he likes me this happened a month ago i asked him wat he was doing and he said talkin with some 1 (it was a girl) and he said i dont like her then i said did u think i was ... (98 words)

How do I tell her I think about her when I masterbate?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - ok well i don't know how to say this but my gf just resently asked if i masterbated and i said yes and i have been wanting to tell her that when i masterbat i think of her but idk how to tell her i mean i want to tell her bcuz we tell each other everything and i love her i just ... (71 words)

I don't know what to do. I'm falling for my ex's brother!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Helpp! im really lost and confused. need some advice because everyone keeps telling me something different everytime i bring it up. my ex and i broke up in january and we never told anyone we were dating. he always denies it now even his brother doesnt know. we never talk an... (189 words)

Hair is getting me down. Why is it so frizzy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My hair is getting me down. Ok - so my hair has never been my best asset - it is long, uncontrollable - never goes properly straight etc etc. But just recently - I have noticed it is REALLY frizzy and to me is very annoying as it just looks awful! What could be causing this ... (103 words)

What the most embarrasing makeout or intercourse session you have ever had?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4903 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Have you ever done something embarrasing during a makeout session or during intercourse (sex)? ok this is suppose to be fun so share with other people the most embarrasing or funny thing that happened ill go first and feel free to add your stories. Well here is my story. my ... (146 words)

Are porn sites bad for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - When I was 11. I was goning on porn sites till I was 15. Why? Because I was curouse and I want to know if that it can change the way I act? Also, is going on porn sites is bad for you and me? If yes, tell me everything please. ... (51 words)

He told me he was divorced now I want him to leave his wife for me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know your all gonna call me bad names but its so hard, i really like him and miss him loads, when i met him he told me he was divorced and i deserve a nice rich boyfriend and said he would fit that category, hes a lawyer and gets paid a fair bit. He eventually told ... (114 words)

I'm so scared of giving a blow job!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 20 and I've NEVER given a blow job! I don'tknow how to, I was always scared of doign it wrong. All my life I've been scared of almost EVERYTHING. I was 17 when I had my FIRST boyfriend after bing scared of relationships. And 19 when I FIRST had sex nd that was after I ... (194 words)

I don't know what to do. I split from my fiancee.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - please please somebody give me some good advice. i feel so alone i dont know what to do. i split with my fiancee 6 weeks ago. i met him through working at the same place where i was best friends with him. at the time i was seeing somebody else who also worked there but t... (398 words)

My boyfriend is financially dependent on me. Will he ever change?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is always broke! We've been together for 4 years, living together for 2 years. I am a recent grad with BS, he doesn't even have a GED. I'm 24, he's 25, but he's been financially dependent on me and it's draining my savings. He's a great boyfriend in every ot... (383 words)

I like his friend, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5612 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my friends have started hanging around with one of my friends brothers and his mates. They all go to a different school from me and my friends. All of us have a sort of thing going with a different one of these lads. Its nothing official. But anyways, i did some things ... (130 words)

I want a divorce, how do I bring the subject up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have posted two other questions. Here’s another. Like ya’ll know my husband has fathered another child. I’ve known about this since last Nov. 2008. We have been trying to work things out for the sake of our family. Things haven’t been going so smoothly. We have are ups and ... (255 words)

Are the rumours true or is he lying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - well pratically i don't know what to believe. i found out that the other day my boyfriend said he fancied one of my mates, but i took a long time to think about it, and i figured that was false, as i spoke to him and he said this was a couple of months ago when i hardly k... (243 words)

Why am I more attracted to married woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Why am I more attracted to the married woman? ... (9 words)

I cry hysterically on rollercosters, how do I get over this fear?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im going to bush gardens tomorrow with my family and I don't want to be a party pooper ... so I kinda wanna ride the roller coasters too but I get so scared and I cry hysterically the last time I was on one I was 11 ... and im 17 but still any advice ... (55 words)

Did I have a miscarriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I had a miscarriage back in january. I was in a relationship back then and we had unpretected sex once or twice..I was 2 weeks late with my period, and then my stomach started to really hurt. It was an unbearable sort of pain, that was so bad it would wake me up and ... (161 words)

4 Problems! What my sexuality?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm so confused and emotional. I have a lot of compliacted situations and I really need help and someone to turn to. I've known I was different since I was 13. I was friends with a boy lets call him Tom I was kinda attracted to him, and sat close to him and stuff, encrouchi... (837 words)

When I came down to it, he couldn't get it in. How do I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Background info im 16 and still a virgin ive been with my bf for quite a while and we both felt that it was right. but when it came to it. it wouldnt fit we used lube aswell but still no change, i tried to relax as best as i could but it didnt work. i am extreeemley embarris... (142 words)

She blames me for everything and split me and him up!

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - friends who dont like you being friends with other flamen people! im sick to death of this. seriously. my so called best mates have a go at me over being out with someone older than them. making me hide the fact im out with him from them so they dont have a go at me but they... (309 words)

I'm horrible to guys when I'm with them. Help me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have major issues with relationships , I'm 19 and I've never been in a serious relationship I always end up kissing boys once and that's it , I rarely ever end up being with them more then once. I'm not a slut or anything I have never even had sex because I want to be in a ... (280 words)

He told me he loves me but not 'in' love with me, cheating at the same time. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 6 yrs just told me he love me but not in love with me.we have a 3 yrs old boy and live together.what does that mean.he have been seein women behind my back.will that relationship work and lead to marriage?... (43 words)

Should I be worried about this teenage crush? Advice needed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My 40 yr old boyfriend has a 17 yr old daughter. The daughters friend is 15. They have been friends for a few months and the 15 yr old has stayed at our house a few times. It appears to me the friend has a crush on him but he doesn't see it. If he is sitting on the huge ... (210 words)

Want to get rid of these stretch marks! What are the best creams to use?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm going on 16 and i'm pretty skinny but now that i'm actually growing lol i'm starting to get stretch marks on my butt and hips, wat's the best coco butter to use for this? i want to either minimize their appearence or just get rid of them, my friend told me to do squats and ... (73 words)

My wife has lost all sex drive. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a happily married husband of 24 years with 2 gorgeous children and a beautiful wife. We have been married for 8 years, I am nearly 32, she is 31. I used to vists my family weekly since my job is away from family. After ourlast child ws born, my wife is reluctant to have ... (145 words)

What do I do about my ex? I don't want to be back in the friends zone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I dated a fantastic, uniquely interesting woman for a very short time, but we were both deeply (almost soulfully) involved. It was too quick, too deep, and she broke it off for no real obvious reason, just saying that sometimes she felt confused; like, maybe I was the right ... (273 words)

Did I play too hard to get to win my ex back? What should I do?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay. If you like love stories (or something that sounds like one lol), read this. I need help with an Ex whom I really like/wanna be with. We're pretty much RIGHT for each other. This is gonna be long, so be prepared. This AWESOME (my dream girl) chick, broke up with me... (1478 words)

Please help with Hong Kong and Uk exchange rates

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have recently moved to Hong Kong and would like to transfer money back to my existing bank accounts in the UK. Can anyone suggest what is the best and most efficient way to do this without losing money in the exchange or due to bank charges? Thanks... (54 words)

Girlfriends going away for college soon and I'm afraid that she might cheat!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend be going to college in a few months, and as each day passes, I get more and more worried. We have been together for awhile and we love each other dearly. My girlfriend hasn't really partied since we've been together, but she has drank a few times. She hasn't drank ... (229 words)

Husband is being a hypocrite about Myspace friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I just found out today that my husband deleted the one guy I had on my myspace profile. My husband has women on his and one ex, yet the second I add a male on mine, he has to be deleted instantly. It wouldn't bug me so much, except he writes to these women and tells them they ... (177 words)

Is he busy or just not that into me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age - I have been keeping in contact with a man I used to work with. I got an email from him in April in which he said he would like to see me sometime--and would I mind. I replied that I would like to see him too. Another month or so passed, and he emailed again and said he hoped ... (157 words)

Do you prefer guys with six packs or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Just A Quick Question To The Girls. Do you prefer guys with or without a six pack? i ask becuae my mates girlfrieds's dont understand wat the point of us workin out so much is.. so ummm yeah, Do you prefer guys with or without? ... (48 words)

After having sex, I might be pregnant and now it hurts when I pee. Should I go back to the doctors?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well on Saturday night I lost my virginity to a guy who I know quite well. It was amazing and didn't hurt at all and I have no regrets or anything. But unfortunately the condom broke. I got the morning after pill from the docs on Monday morning and I plan to get a pregnancy ... (114 words)

I lied about being pregnant and took money to pay for medication. He found out and wants me to prove that I won't lie again. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was recently in a relationship, and we are now broken up for 6 days. It hurts more then anything. I have always been beaten in relationships so I have a very very hard time opening up to people. I was starting to open up to this guy a lot, because he was so nice to me and ... (548 words)

He told me he liked me whilst going out with other girls, now he's single he only wants to 'hook up', is he just after sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i'm 15. So theres this guy whos 16. We started off as friends. just talking. he had a girlfriend. then he said he liked me as more than a friend. but meanwhile he was still dating this other girl. he wanted to cheat on her but i didnt let him. they broke up after a couple ... (282 words)

When will the pain stop? My heart breaks every time I see him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Vent.....When does the pain stop when the ex husband, who left his family for a 22 year old, when he picks the kids up on his weekend. My heart breaks when the kids leave.... (34 words)

I have just found out my boyfriend has been cheating on me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone, well i have just found out my boyfriend has cheated on me (kissed another girl at a nightclub). I found this out because i went on his facebook account and the girl herself told me as she thought it was my boyfriend she was talking to!! ... he has been texting ... (887 words)

I feel my friend and I have a connection, should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this crush on a friend I have known for quite sometime now, and have only recently realised that I might have feelings for him. But I'm not sure if I really like him, or if I just want a boyfriend. I've never exactly had an official boyfriend before, just fleeting da... (255 words)

What is this stabbing pain at the end of my penis?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I hope someone can help. I have had stabbing pains at the end of my penis, extra sensitive and sore when it is touched. The urthra is red and looks swollen. It has been like this for some months. I have used Canesten cream on it for fungi or bacterial infection, with ... (102 words)

They are BOTH denying their affair! How can I know for sure?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have ben married for 7 years and we have two daughters. The other night my husband received a text message from someone known as just the letter "J" on his phone saying "good night". I called the number twice and a woman answered and said she couldn't hear me ... (276 words)

What is this weird pulsating behind my eye?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok i know this isn't a relationship question, but i've gotten a lot of health help from this sight. My question is that there's this weird pulsing behind one of my eyelids. Could it be something serious? Some people said it could be allergies but i don't have any allergies. My ... (90 words)

How do we go about handling this and will it affect us in the future if we do decide to tie the knot?

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

30 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well here is the Breakdown... I have a girlfriend now who i care about deeply. We are both starting college and are saving up for a house. We both have good parents who love us and spoil us, along with that we both go to church and love the one who sits on the throne. It almost ... (1178 words)

Ex with dead husband

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age - I dated a woman for two years around twenty years ago. Haven't seen her since. What is she trying to say to me? What does she want? I really loved her but she hurt me and I have a family now. DM Yesterday the father of my ten year old child died suddenly. The finality of... (327 words)

Working as a support worker with people with learning difficulties...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I was wondering if anyone here has ever worked as a support worker for people with learning difficulties, and if you know what kind of questions are asked at an interview for this kind of work ? i'm trying to prepare for an assessment day i should be going to on thursday.i have ... (226 words)

How long should elapse before you give them your mobile number?

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

30 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hiya guys, I'm just wondering when everyone you saw a cute guy for the first time and you were really good friends how soon was it before you gave your number to them, in "that" manner? any answers would be much apreciated thank you... (53 words)

I feel like I'm stuck with one wheel in the mud...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I feel like I'm stuck with one wheel in the mud.. I was seeing a girl that just did everything wrong lied cheated and lied some more. it crushed me and she wouldn't admit to it. Finally after all said she admits that she did some really messed up stuff and knows i could never ... (183 words)

How do I tell him that I know!!!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 23, i am 13 weeks pregnant and have just found out he has been cheating on me. Because of my past i have trouble trusting people. A few things made me think that he was cheating like he took my picture of his wallpaper on his phone, he had a picture ... (273 words)

Dating for the hell of it.

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

30 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm currently 23 and have dated many men, have now realized that men around my age are not ready to commit because of timing issues (career, job, money goals, finishing University/Grad school) so, I want to remain neutral and date for the fun of it. I'm sick of getting ... (143 words)

How to tell her I want to have intercourse?

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

30 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - How can I convince my spouse to have intercourse for the first time? Whether she will accept or show any temporar because I am getting married next month. I was too shy a guy, please advise how to bring this up with her?... (44 words)

Help! Should I quit my job?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

- I am a fairly young teacher and I teach special ed with a lot of really high needs students. Feeding tubes, diapering... the works. I took this job when a very experienced teacher retired. I work with five other colleagues and plenty of assistants in the classroom. I have just ... (137 words)

Can anybody help me with what to say to him I'm really nervous.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hear's the thing i met this boy when i was nine at school and i really fancied him but i thought that maybe my crush would fade like all of the others that i liked before him so i didn't say anything to him about it.But what i didn't realise was that my dad knew his dad and ... (352 words)

How can I make my vagina less tight for my unusually large boyfriend?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Err, how do I put this? Long story short: my boyfriend has a long, thick penis and I have an unusually small, tight vagina. Sex doesn't last very long because these two factors combined mean everything is finished before it even starts. Our sex life is very poor at the moment ... (196 words)

I can't get over my exboyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so my boyfriend {now ex} broke up with me a few weeks ago, and i really can't get over it xD. He told me it wasn't working out and tht we were better of as friends. I had saw it coming I guess...I just had blindsighted myself to just ignore it. We were really good friends ... (343 words)

Although my wife and I are seperating, we still have sex. Is this wrong and will it hurt me in the long run?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm separating with my wife after 18 years together. We have two children, mortgage, but she cheated on me. I forgave her, but she continued with other men, and did some truly slutty things while drunk so it's over, and it's actually her who's pushing for the separation. Ive ... (222 words)

I'm NOT going to give him another chance but I can't leave him. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I love a boy and he love me too. we are in a relationship from the last four years. now he is ignoring me saying that he want to concentrate on his studies but one of my friends told me that she found him with a girl. after this lots of my friends told me about his ex ... (194 words)

Don't know what to do - boyfriend with drug problems...

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

30 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I’ve never posted to one of these things, so I am new at this, but I don’t really know where else to turn for honest advice. I have been dating my boyfriend for 9 years and we have been living together for 3 years – we are both 26 years old. He has been struggling with ... (546 words)

She's really into me but I'm not into her I don't want to lead her on

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

30 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I'm 28 and I met a woman she's 37, We met about a month ago and she seems to be really into me, She's unmarried no kids, but I don't really like older women I like younger ones. She's nice and has cooked for me, we haven't been intimate just kisses but I realize she isn'... (102 words)

How does the small stuff determine whether a relationship is worth investing in or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5620 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone. I wrote about a week ago. Guess I need a bit more feedback :-) So, for 2 weeks my boyfriend of 3 months had suddenly changed his behavior from loving to quite indifferent so I was close to the conclusion that he was trying to break up with me kindergarden style ... (298 words)

I tend to get "dumped" because I'm too nice. How can I make sure this doesn't happen with her?

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

30 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - ok i need some advice, iv been talkin to this girl for about 2 months now. and last night she came over to my place with some of our other friends for a few belated 21 year old birthday drinks. well soon enough it was time for my friends to go home, all did except the girl ... (137 words)

We still can't trust each other and at 22 he's already gone off sex. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is quite a long one and I apologise but I feel like giving the history is really important in this case. I've been with Roger* for nearly four years. We met online and were friends for three months before we became a couple, I guess we were just sounding each other out b... (1583 words)

Am I a horrible person?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my Ex girlfriend were together almost a year, we split up recently and decided we wanted to be friends. Recently i've explained to her that i've had a bit of a drinking problem and i've been out of control. while at her house i wanted a drink but didn't want to go ... (258 words)

This "cold spell" is going on too long!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not sure what to do. This guy liked me and I liked him but he is shy and if im honest a bit strange... and I hardly ever saw him. But for some reason I still liked him. Anyway if any of you watch 90210 (series 1) where Liam is hot and cold all the time - he is totally like ... (197 words)

Assertive dating techniques - jump at opportunities to define what is acceptable

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi.. so im generally good with the confidence and self esteem thing - but lately im paying more attention to it, as i go after high quality game... Scenario: recently i went on a date, left her alone the next day (i have a life/etc) - next day, i texted, msnd, and call... (431 words)

Help! Sex for the first time!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 and my boyfriend is 14, we are going to have sex for the first time soon, but am really nervous and scared. will it hurt? how does the pain feel like? will i bleed? will i faint? can i walk? thank you to the person who answers ! really need help!... (57 words)

2 years with no communication and I'm still not over my ex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Please tell me, why, after dating someone else for two and a half years I am still completely, totally, obsessed with my ex? This means checking his facebook profile nearly every night, although we are not friends so I can only see the same small 1 inch picture, when I ... (249 words)

No affection from anyone in my life, how do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - sorry this is long - need advice.. I'm a quieter person with few friends, when I was a child and teenager my family was never affectionate, I never got any affection, never had anyones shoulder to cry on when upset, so I never learned how to be affectionate with people... (571 words)

My wife refuses to go to marriage counselling

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age - My wife said she won’t go to marriage counselling with me: she’s convinced that we have solved all our problems (even though I tell her that I don't believe this is true), and she doesn’t want to talk to a stranger. I’m still going to make an appointment, and if she doesn’t ... (112 words)

I only orgasm during sex while on my period

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have sex quite often. It feels good, but I never orgasm and I feel discomfort. But when we have sex when I'm on my period. It feels much better, I don't feel no pain and I orgasm. Why is this?... (50 words)

The guy I'm seeing already has a partner - what to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Help!!!..... ok what do I do? I recently started seeing somebody the only issue is he has a partner of 5 years already! I know this was wrong but our feelings just grew for each other and it became difficult to keep away. Everything was going great-ish but then his gf went... (217 words)

I feel like my boyfriend is being dishonest about his sexuality

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am going out with an amazing guy, we will call him Q. He's intelligent, gorgeous, funny and we really click. We have a lot of chemistry, both physical and otherwise and the sex has been amazing! There is one slight problem. I have known Q for a number of years through ... (357 words)

Unhappy with my verbally abusive husband, should I leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I am so upset by the behaviour of my husband. He criticises me constantly. He says I am stupid, have 'big saggy boobs' and that I am a crap mother. I am a nurse and he mocks my work saying I do nothing important (he is a police constable and says he ... (573 words)

I'm afraid he'll reject me when he sees what I look like

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I love a boy since previous year, he loves me too. The problem is we have never seen each other. We are in contact through mobile, now he is visiting my city and want to see me but I am very nervous because I am not so pretty as he thinks about me. I told him that I am not so ... (148 words)

The girl I like says I'm 'too easy' what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've known this girl (girl-1) for 2 years. We met and I was obviously into her, and she could tell. We hung out a lot but I was stuck in the friend zone even after trying to ask her out and getting denied 3 times. Finally I decided I had to just remain her friend and look for ... (176 words)

He proposed to my wife on our honeymoon!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife loved a boy in her school days but that boy didn't accept her love. She told me this when i firstly came her home to saw her for my marriage. I was impressed with her honesty. I decided that i will marry this girl only. Then we married and we went to our honeymoon. A... (252 words)

Did I make a mistake by not talking to her? I feel so stupid...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - okay.. so I'm going to be a senior in high school. the girl my friends told me I should have talked to has recently graduated. I would always see this girl everywhere at school walk out of a room or down the hall and see her. this girl was soooo pretty!!! seriously she was one ... (168 words)

I've forgotten what dating was like before my ex, help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, first of all I'm not a virgin, and I have two kids. I recently ended the relationship with their father as it was not going well... at all. What I'm asking may sound stupid. I've completely forgotten what life and dating was like before him (as we were 17 when we met) I ... (161 words)

We broke up yesterday, I want her back, how long should I wait before I text her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ow do i get back my ex-girlfriend? She respected me enough to talk about it in person. She sed she loves me as a friend, and isnt in love with me, what should i do? i would like her back, but i dont know how to go about it.... We broke up yesterday, how long should i wait ... (126 words)

Girlfriend focuses more on work than our relationship, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Wow I better add a little to this, it seems that I didn't describe enough. My girlfriend and I have been together just over 10 years. Last year I did what I shouldn't and had an affair. But I had the affair after one year of us NOT having sex. The affair has ended now but I ... (331 words)

Do certain foods affect how a guy tastes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - my friend told me that eating pineapple makes a guys cum taste good, but idk is that true?? is it true that drinking dairy products makes you have bad tasting cum??... is it really needed for a girl to have big boobs to be hot? MOD NOTE: These questions were sent sepe... (64 words)

How do I stop having terrible rows with my friend?

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

30 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been friends with this girl for over a year now and we used to be very close but recently we keep falling out. We recently had a very nasty fight and said some very horrible things and did not speak for couple of weeks. We recently started talking again but are no where ... (219 words)

Does it bother you if your partner finds celebrities sexy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My friend and I were talkin one night and he said he gets annoyed when his girlfriend looks at celebrity guys and says how hot they are. I personally don't mind if my girlfriend checks out other celebrity guys cuz I check out other famous women. I wanted to kno who side are u ... (73 words)

Is there something you can eat to make your sperm taste sweet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I hope this isn't a dumb question -,- lol But I was reading a question on here and I was wondering if you could eat something to make your sperm sweet??? okay so I love eating out my girlfriend, I do it on almost a daily basis BUT she rarely ever goes down on me. i'd say... (244 words)

Should I tell this new girl I'm dating I was engaged?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Im going on a date with this girl i really like, and all signs point to her liking me as well, but there is a minor problem, my last realtionship that ended 2months ago i was engaged to marry her. Even though im completely over my ex and want to move forward with this new girl ... (92 words)

How do I deal with my girlfriend's interfering family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Im a 33 year old man with a 14 year old son. im gonna get straight to the point. I was single for about a year then I met a beautiful 25 y.o. woman whom now im deeply in love with and she loves me too. now the problem. her parents have such a hold on her they still tell her ... (228 words)

I have blisters on my vagina and it makes it too sore for sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (?) - A few weeks ago i had some blisters and soreness on my vaginal lips so i went to the doctor and i got tested for herpes the test was negative, i have had this before a couple years ago and test results were negative then, so i know it's not herpes. The blisters were really ... (186 words)

Should I ignore his calls for a few days?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5198 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in my first relationship, and things are going well, but I feel unappreciated and like I've lost myself in this relationship. My boyfriend and I are college students and usually spend several hours together everyday including weekends. However, right now he's out of town on ... (346 words)

How can I get her to be friends again? I don't want anything serious.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I thought my relationship with my gf was getting too serious so we changed to being non-exclusive, few weeks later I have sex with another girl but realize after that she still thought we were an exclusive couple and we get into a big argument. I don’t feel I have done anything ... (103 words)

How to give a good lap dance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to give my boyfriend a lap dance, I'm just not sure how to. I don't want to screw it up or anything. Any help?... (26 words)

Any advice on sex and what to get him for our anniversary?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I Have been dating for 8 months now. I lost my virginity to him in March, and he's fingered me, we've done doggy style, regular sex(With condom and birth control pills, of course) but there's one problem. I've never given him or any other guy a hand job. ... (307 words)

How can I get my girlfriend to go down on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - okay so I love eating out my girlfriend, I do it on almost a daily basis BUT she rarely ever goes down on me. i'd say i get oral once every 3-5 months. i've tried doing the whole "I go down on you, you go down on me" thing and it never works, ive tried telling her its not gross ... (142 words)

How do I regain my parent's trust? They found a hickie on my boob.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My parents recently found out about the hickie on boob from going through my text messages. My mom already had a talk with me which didn't go so well but now its time to have a talk with my dad. I dont know what to tell him and they have already threaten to take my car, my ... (99 words)

How do you start over making friends when you've been isolated in your marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - In highschool i was so attached to my boyfiend turned husband that I completely abandoned all of my friends. Now ten years later i find myself without a social life at all. How do you start over again at this late stage in life?... (44 words)

Do you think waiting is the right approach? Will ignoring him get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone Thanks in advance for your advice. I am a 26 year old woman in the process of applying to medical school, and began dating a man, who recently turned 32. Our first date was in the first week of March, and it was quite possibly the best first date I had ever bee... (356 words)

Any advice for a 16yr old dating a 37yr old married man?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 years old.. and my boyfriends is around 37 years old and he has 2 kids and he is also married.... He is my coach in table tennis when i was in high school, we bond together, we go out together as friends.... yet unfortunately, as the yime pass, we deeply madly fell in ... (215 words)

My husband doesn't want more than friendship with me. How do I get him back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been married to my husband for 2 years, but we have been seperated 4 a yr now. he wanted me to move back in with him and i told him yes but i never got off my butt and moved back in with him. a couple of weeks i found out he had another woman besides me. he says he dont ... (161 words)

He's my first love but is it worth being in this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i have this really big problem I've been with this guy for 3 years and I love him soo much we had the most amazing relationship and he was the perfect boyfriend. I guess I was really annoying and would get mad at dumb stuff he would always be nice and lisent to me about ... (198 words)

Any tips on how to look sexy for him on webcam?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I live 4 hours apart during the summer and we have recently started chatting with the webcam. Sometime we will talk dirty and he will masturbate and I think it is hot. he asked me if I wanted to masturbate in front for him to see and I want to but I don't know ... (88 words)

Where is this supposed to go? He's hot one minute and cold the next.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together for over a year now and lived together for about 8 months of that. I just moved out 2 weeks ago because we started fightening and we decided it would be best for us. The last month or so we have said alot of hurtful things to eachtoher (out ... (202 words)

He kept groping me while I tried to sleep! Why didn't I stop him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Well I'm in two minds about this event and I hope someone can help me... I had a party the other night and was putting friends to bed in spare rooms at the end of the night when a guy friend of mine insisted he sleep on the floor in my room. I was tired and a little drunk... (338 words)

I feel so left out! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok what do i do im at my wits end. heavily pregnant, still a teenager, my brother goes to the football with mum every weekend and leaves me at home, dads not in the scene, my boyfriend is being difficult at the moment not even sure what im going to do about him because hes gett... (261 words)

I feel like I should move on but would I regret walking away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I met this girl about a year ago through a couple of friends,she expressed interest right away but I just kept it friendly until about six months ago. I ran into her and gave her my number. She called me that weekend and I met her out for a few drinks, this happened for about ... (289 words)

Should I have a lesbian affair?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a married, female, 40 years old with children. I've known I was gay since college, but have always hid it and have never been with a woman before. I recently met a woman who is also in a relationship with another man. I am almost positive there is a huge connection and a... (221 words)

Which guy do I choose? Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Basically I have to choose between 2 really great guys. Feel free to comment on any or all aspects of this, because I need all the help I can get! First guy: A beautiful person who helped me get out of a 3 year emotionally abusive relationship. We were seeing each other fo... (351 words)

Did I find another horrible man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 1.5 years. We met three weeks prior to me moving two states away, maybe a week and half after my move he showed up saying how much he wanted a relationship. I wasnt ready for one but he was so sweat and swept me away. gradually over the past ... (181 words)

Does the amount of partners or sex change the vagina's appearance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I just have a question I have been curious about. I have been with one girl who has been with 5 other partners. I was wondering does a number of partners or amount of sex a girl has change the appearance of the vagina? Example... if you were to watch a porno you would ... (91 words)

Fell for my best friend, but he doesn't feel the same

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My best friend is a man and I am a woman. We have done everything together as companions for the last 6 months. We're both in our late 40's. I would like more but he doesn't not feel that way about me. He's been encouraging me to date and I have since learned that he has ... (365 words)

If I go back to him I'd feel like I was prisoner of my dreams again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, please help me find some kind of relief from this. I am beyond stressed right now. About a week ago, I broke up with my boyfriend of five years. I felt it was the best thing for me to do because I had issues with him not being able to commit to me completely. That... (454 words)

We live very far apart, attracted to each other, but neither wants to move..so why is she acting this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Long question, sorry. 2 parts actually. Part 1: I just got out of a 7 year relationship a little over a month ago. I left her due to a drinking problem she had (binge drinker, angry drunk). How long should I sit on the sidelines of the dating world? I was thinking 3 month... (784 words)

Do I have to make the first move and ask a guy out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - iv never had a boy friend before today i was talking to my friend on the bus and he told me about this girl who he was about to ask out when she told him he liked her dose that mean i have to make the first move for a guy to ask me out?... (61 words)

Question to the men in particular: how long should it take him to get over the relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, FROM A MALE PERSPECTIVE PLEASE???? OK I'm trying to find an answer to why it took my boyfriend the time it did to get over the life he had with his ex... So if you are a man and your with a girl who is 8years younger than you for 5 years and know her for 7 years i... (274 words)

I'm afraid he's losing interest since we haven't seen each other much

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm looking for some advice, please help me because it seems that whoever I ask doesn't give me the answer I'm after. Basically, I'm stuck on a boy. Hugely. But recently he seems to have lost interest in me. He's my ex's friend, and I went to a football match with ex w... (385 words)

Should we end things until he gets over his need to "experience" life?

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

30 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf has commitment issues but we've naturally become more serious about each other. I am a few years older and we met when he was less than 6 months out of school, living on his own and into his first job. He says how he feels he 'should' be focusing on his career and ... (97 words)

How do I come to terms with the abortion?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - 2 years ago when i was 16 i had an abortion 7th march 2006 i cant stop blaming myself for killing part of me, i split up with my ex 5 months after, he seemed to be over it within the next few week.. He said that i killed his baby when it was mostly his decision to have the ... (331 words)

Our sex life is nonexistent.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been going out with a girl for about five years now. Things are pretty good but our sex life is nonexistent. This year we've only been intimate 3 times and last year it about 10 times. I've tried to talk to her about this but I cant seem to get a real answer. Ive been ... (98 words)

She wants to break up with him as I'm the "third person" in their relationship!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, "Rachel" and "Graham" have been together for almost a year now. Rachel is my oldest friend of 11 years and Graham is my best friend of 5 years. Since I've known him, I've also liked Graham as more than a friend but he has never been interested in me in that way. We are very ... (482 words)

Should I ask if he wants to come next week before I go back or leave him to get in contact.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hello everyone I have a small problem.. well ive been abroad for the last 3 years and every time i come over to the uk on holiday i meet my ex boyfriend, we kiss cuddle etc and i feel so excited and get the old butterflies back... anyway ive messed things up today by talkinga... (162 words)

I'm willing to wait, I love her so much it hurts...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - So I met this girl about three weeks ago. I have been with her solid for those three weeks like being at her apartment and sleeping in her bed. we have had sex 3 times and she gave me keys to her apartment. I told her i loved her and she said she loved me. Now the fourth ... (122 words)

How do I get over this guy, or is it even the right thing to do by getting over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 16. ok so i really really like this guy. he's just so amazing! i've liked him for almost a year now. on the last day of school he found out i liked him. he liked me a little to. we hung out and we talked and decided to just be friends. i was ok with that. we hung out twice ... (248 words)

How do I summon the courage to go back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear all, I would quite like to get myself checked out at a clinic, as although I have not had sex since I was last checked out, I recently got drunk and woke up with a friend of a friend! The only "problem" is my mentality. The last time I went to get checked out it turned o... (123 words)

Swallow one's pride?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Bit of a long one this. A few months ago i met up with an old school friend. before we met up we'd been emailing and texting each other a lot. during this time our feelings for each other grew. we both felt an emotional and sexual connection. we met up, things were a bit ... (494 words)