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writes:My husband stopped having sex with me. Two years ago. I don't know why/. He is in good health, and only 45.He also does not get an erection ,when tries it sometimes.It's been like this two years now.... He does have night erections.He does not want to talk about it...My friend thinks ,he is hiding something... What should I do?Should wait for him to resolve this or should I be alarmed?What do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2009): yes be alarmed, very alarmed. his inability not to have erections with you is alarming. there is no medical reason to think he is impotent so time to do your homework. 2 yrs is a very very long time for him just to stop wanting it. very suspicious indeed and your friend is right.
maybe you need to force the issue and get him to the doctor just to verify whether he has a problem. my money i on a third person in your marriage. lets not pussy foot around this. rather be alert/ observant than be a blissfully ignorant cheated wife. check who he is spending time with. work colleagues/ cell phone obsession/ emails/ private calls/ or even look out for close family and friends. maybe his relief is close by and he doesn't need anyone at work. start noising around, you may be surprised at what you find.
you know you hb best so you will have that nagging feeling something is not right. good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2009): I think he should see a doctor.Dont try to go with him as he maybe embarrassed. if he offers then great.
You do have needs so this needs to be treated. try talking to him saying that you are worried about his health and your marriage.i cant say he is straying as he is still with you.
either way get him to see a doctor
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2009): If he has nocturnal erections, then he does have the ability to have erections......so the question is...why isn't he having them with you?
Nocturnal erections are the standard testing for determining if the problem is psycological or physiological.
He is having and taking care of his erections somehow....only he can tell you where or how. Do some research and approach him prepared with information, it is not acceptable for him to just blow you off for two years. You have needs!
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