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writes:Was this a bad move? I don't think so..but curious about what others think. Ok, so I went to a family wedding without my boyfriend. He had a prior engagement. Anyways, I thought of putting on some sexy lingerie for when I saw him the next day. He always initiates things, so I surprised him this time and he was ohhhh so happy. He was all cuddly, kisses and stuff afterwards. When he looked at what I was wearing for him and we kissed I whispered 'I missed you.' And he said it back. Later he asked 'so you missed me?' I was like 'yeah.' I was being honest. He answered in the same way. The next day was okay. Still holding hands while watching a movie. But do some guys get a big head with such actions? I was just thinking of spicing things up a little..it was getting to be more of a routine.
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reader, kayla +, writes (16 June 2009):
 I think you made him really happy.lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2009): No, there's absolutely nothign wrong with that. You may have made him more confident though. I know that after a while of ALWAYS starting things, a person can come to feel as if they want it more than the other person, but i don't feel that this was in any way too ego-boosting.
It's good to spice things up!
~SY.
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reader, Emjo  +, writes (16 June 2009):
 I dont think it would make him bigheaded at all,
Im sure he was just very suprised and happy at your initive to please him.
My advice would be to worry less and be spontaneous like this more often :)
Take care,
Em.
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