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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Birthday ideas for boyfriend?

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12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriends birthday is coming up. He has never really had a girl do anything special for him but throw a party for him (but i can't do that). I want it to be different and for him to love what I do for him. I just don't know what to do. We are really closed and ... (195 words)

First love left me for another guy! But I want her back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

12 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My first love dumped me a week ago. We were together for over 8 months. It was bliss. But when summer came around she started getting cold and distant. I didn't know what to do. When she dumped me she said she didn't want a boyfriend right now and she just wanted to have fun. ... (552 words)

Have been loving an older man and now he is meeting someone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, He is about 17 years older; he is of another religion (not that I mind but at all, but we will face trouble if we get together). Now, I can't stop thinking about him. He likes me sooooooo much and I know it. He just keeps telling people how a wonderful person I'm, and peop... (188 words)

Leave the boyfriend? Is this an abusive relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Long story. Thank you for taking the time to read this! My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. When we first dated, I had just left an abusive relationship and eventually had to place a restraining order against my ex. I truly should have taken the time to heal... (1595 words)

My friend is dating a total jerk!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so..... My best friends boyfriend, who is one of her first, and she just got together with, is pretty dangerous according to a few of his past girlfriends. He smokes weed and has "touched" his past girlfriends against their will (take in mind that im in 8th grade). He ... (76 words)

Ex rings me while on vacation with new g/f

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi all My ex is on holiday with his gf who is pregnent and last nite he rang me and he said are you missing me i repled kinda, but then i asked why he rang me and he said just seeing how you are then as we speak hes texting me. Does anyone think deep down he still likes me e... (93 words)

Husband makes me feel ugly

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age - I have three children. One for my current partner who I have known for 26 years. Child is now 6. I thought my life would change and be happier having the last child. Instead its has reamined the same. He makes he feel ugly and wont introduce me to his family or friends or ... (191 words)

Should I be concerned about this discharge?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well basically... I am a 15 year old girl. More or less daily i get some type of discharge flowing from my vagina. It is white and creamy. I have been getting it for quite sometime now, although i have not started my period. and the other day the discharge was browny/red... (104 words)

I feel miserable and concerned about my health

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age - I understand that most women have uneven breasts. I have always noticed mind. I have no quite a complext about since my female doctor commented about them. I have been experiencing pain in the bigger and today thought the pain may be due to the size. Before I thought it ... (160 words)

I want to have sex and yet am repulsed by it

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

12 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've never heard of anybody who has this problem. I am a man in my late 20's, who like most other men is desperate to have sex, yet at the same time I'm repulsed by it. The reason why is because I despise the human race, I view all emotions as weakness, all signs of affection I ... (195 words)

He covers my mouth and talks about other women during sex!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Self Centered In Bed My boyfriend of 9 yrs is 16 yrs older than me. Im 25, he is 42. Throughout the 9 years, 90% of what he does in bed is cover my face with a pillow and have sex with my mouth taking about other women. The other 5% i would say is anal sex... (314 words)

Forever is a very long time....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone . i hope someone could fill me in on this , or help me understanf atleast a bit i have noone to tell or ask for support and i trust alot of your opinions . me and my bf were making out and so on , told him i loved him - we say it it is ok we are supposely inlove... (320 words)

I think I made a mistake cutting the other guy off!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm afraid I made a bad choice, all I want is to be happy! Recently, I met this guy, we got along great, and he was normally really good to me. We had a few tiffs along the way though, and decided to remain friends, he soon after got a girlfriend. Lately we have been talkin... (316 words)

Was it rape or sex?

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i was a virgin...i started talking to this guy he was gorgeous..whe had known eachther for a while and decided to go out and we ended up in his room. at first just teasin the making out but then he started pulling my jeans and i dit want to but he kept on puling and i ... (127 words)

Boyfriend and I have been through hell but I think I'm falling for his friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive asked for help on this before but the situations worsened and now i reaaaaaaly dont know what on earth to do! See, thing is. Ive been with my boyfriend for three months, i feel as though fate has set us up to be together and ive FINALLY found a decent guy. Hell hes se... (534 words)

They both like me and I don't know what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - here's the thing... theres this boy that i like and he lies me back, but before he liked this other girl and told me he wanted to be with her (this is when i told him i liked him as i knew it would be the last chance id get) but then this other guy has come along just when i ... (114 words)

He says abortion, but it was something that never crossed my mind

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - so im about 3 months preg, i tell my boyfriend and the first thing out of his mouth is ABORTION, didnt really give me much option... what should i do.. i mean i have two kids already i really dont need another one (financially) and i obviously cant count on him but abortion is ... (60 words)

Mom's boyfriend came into my room and played with me..how do I tell my mom?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - okay, last night my mom had to work (as usual). her boyfriend just moved in last week, so he is around when she's not. last night before I fell asleep, he came in my room and sat on my bed. he talked to me about boys and how now i was old enough to be seen as attractive. he ... (194 words)

We're going to have to be apart and I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - In need of help. Me and My boyfriend have been together for 2 years now and we have a fantastic relationship! Honestly its great he makes me feel alive, we have the same dry sense of humour where only us laugh he utterly adores me and cares for me and the feeling is more than ... (232 words)

I'm having an affair having mixed feelings about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am having an affair with the husband of the couple me and my friend consider our best friends. it has been going on for nearly three years. It is so complex because we have been attracted for 12 years, I am totally in love with him but my husband is such a good man and ... (110 words)

Isn't it normal for women to like cuddling and kissing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a very tactile person and I love to show affection with touch, hugging and cuddling, etc. My fiancee doesn't like hugs or cuddles... except as a precursor to making love and only when she initiates it. This leaves me feeling like just a piece of meat. This lack of co... (92 words)

I don't really understand about sex, and men

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been having sex with my boyfriend for around 2 months now, and hes my first. He seems experienced but im really not. He's done everything for me, fingering, oral, sex. And ive given him a hand job but cant bring myself to give him a blow job. I want to but every time were ... (152 words)

He doesn't split the bills fairly and I don't think this is right!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) age 51-59 - My bf has a house he pays a mortgage for out of state that no one lives in. He got it in the divorce but can't sell it due to the ecomony. He pays about 1300, no heat (in the south) and about $10 a month for elect. He lives with me and I pay about 1300, plus food, plus ... (200 words)

Girlfriend depressed? Should I give her space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (M)

- My girlfriend is going through depression. She doesn't talk to me, touch me or anything. However she still invited me up to her cabin with her parents this weekend. It hurts me to be around her knowing how happy we were before she got depressed so I'm wondering do I go or do ... (72 words)

Love? lust? or Bust? Is my dream guy really a nightmare?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I'm "seeing" my ex again after two years of back and forth where I'm always hurt. I'm not sure if this time is any different aside from him originating that we're "seeing" one another. I don't even know what that means. I met him Halloween 2007 and we started dating t... (675 words)

I lost my virginity with him, not sure what to say to him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I lost my virginity to this my ex boyfriend like 3 months after we broke up. We dont talk but I really like him and I'm afraid to tell him how I feel because I'm afraid of what he will say. What should I do?... (45 words)

I always seem to hug or kiss him at the wrong time! Is he just not interested?

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12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy 3 months ago and we have been hanging out alot at friends house and stuff, and occasionally he hugs me or even kisses me, but i always seem to do it at the wrong time and he seems uninterested. why is this?... (46 words)

We don't mesh well with each other's friends

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12 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have got stuck in a rut of not going out and only spending time with each other. Now we're both feeling a bit bored in the relationship, sex has suffered, and we want to bring back the spark. I miss socialising, I would like us to go out in a group with peo... (90 words)

Is he along with others trying to make me jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5637 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I seriously like my friend's Brother and he knows I think he is cute. Im thinking he likes me too, He stares at me a lot, he laughs at everything I say and he is always shy around me. Only problem is that he has just got a girlfriend, I get the feeling that he and his ... (156 words)

Football training sucks but I don't want to be made fun of if I quit!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi guys i have a problem. well im going into highschool in about 2 months and we're in summer vaca. so i decided to do football...so i had to go to summer training..i went the first week..and today's the last day and i went also..It's horrible..and it's only getting ... (181 words)

Good girl fallen for bad boy! Can it work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So my ex boyfriend and I are starting to 'talk' again and it's highly likely we're going to get back together this summer. This will be the third time. I admit I'm nervous about it and I have my insecurities but it's like whenever were not together I want to be so bad. Before ... (262 words)

I'm scared to let go, but now I feel its too late!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5638 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Recently, I started having feelings for this guy. He is great, and was normally really good to me. It was the first time I had really felt happy since my ex boyfriend. We had a few tiffs and decided to just stay friends, soon after that he got a girlfriend. About a week l... (322 words)

My daughter moved home to sort things out, but seems to be stagnating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age - i'm looking for some help in handling this situation in the best way that i can. my only child, a daughter in her late 20's, has recently returned home to sort our her life. she's been living away from us for a long time, and has recently run into a rough patch i suppose ... (755 words)

Too many issues: mental, physical & emotional abuse from husband

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a mentally, emotionally and yes occasionally abusive relationship. My husband has an extensive background of child, sexual and emotional abuse by family members that has created trust issues in all of his relationships. He also has a history of drug (meth) abuse which ... (476 words)

Uncomfortable with my fiance's bedroom preferences

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm wondering if my fiance has gay or bi tendencies..When we have sex he wants me to perform anal sex on him with what ever is in sight. He really gets into it. This is weird because he sits up on what ever it is that is in his ass.. Like he his having sex with a man..He ... (96 words)

I just want my sister and I to get along!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm really nice to my little sister (11) but she is mean to me. We get along but out of no where she will start calling me names and hitting me for no reason. I'll hit her back some times but I get tired of it. I really want me and her to be close and not fight. Every time I ... (187 words)

He says he loves me but doesn't like me as a person

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been goin out with this guy for about two years. But since we hit our first anniversary he went on holiday to the coast and cheated on me. I did too as part of revenge later but i didnt have sex. Neither did he, but i'm sure he'd hav if not for his inability to have an ... (185 words)

Do I stay in a marriage where he ignores me?

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12 June 2009 (F) age - I think , I might have to leave my marriage, but I'm so scared to do that. My husband makes me feel totally unloved, and I suffer everyday from this. I was trying to do a lot of self improvements, and I'm stronger now, and more confident, but I don't think I'm strong e... (309 words)

On the pill & used condom..pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay. I had sex for the first time today and I'm worried. He used a condom, I've been taking the pill regularly for a couple months (haven't missed one yet) and he didnt cum inside of me. Is there a chance I'm pregnant or am I just overreacting because today was my first ... (65 words)

Wants a threesome as a birthday present!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Its my girlfriends birthday soon and she says she would love too try a threesome with another girl she said she has no feelings for the girl its just something too try, but i dont know if am comfortable with this do you think i should still do it for her? x Thank... (68 words)

Do I give bad blowjobs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm not sure if i am good at giving a blowjob. i gave 2 to this one guy, the first time it didn't seem to be going anywhere. and we needed to finish up, and he said he could not come because he had masturbated the night before. he came, but not a lot, and not because i made ... (148 words)

How much should you spend on a first birthday?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This is not a relationship question or anything but im kind of stuck as i never had to do this before. My son is turning 1 on July 6 th , his birthday party is going to be thrown on July 11th due to the 4th of july weekend. My question is for all the mommies out there , what do ... (90 words)

Can our relationship be fixed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this guy for about 2 and half months. For the first month or so things were great! We both have the same group of friends and we're always going out. He was always calling; I knew he really liked me. However, I think we spent too much time together, pretty much ... (1097 words)

Is it reasonable that I'm upset because my husband doesn't know why he's impotent, and the doctor doesn't either?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (M) age 51-59 - [Mod note: Assume this is a female poster for the purposes of answering.] How common is that ,when a man becomes impotent with their wife, they can't tell why? My husband does not know why, and he went to doctor and the doctor says he has no medical causes.No hormons, no any h... (145 words)

How can I convince him to have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. As strange as it might sound, I'm having trouble getting my boyfriend to have sex. - We're both 20 years old - We're extremely attracted to each other I think we're both crazy about each other but I have the bigger sex drive, apparently. So far we've only ... (303 words)

Should I add him as a friend on MSN? Do you think he would like it or could he make fun of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - so,i and my crush like each other a lot for almost 2 years and we share a lot of great memories together.in the past months we have been pretty distant with each other,so i thought maybe he doesn't like me anymore.today was our last day at school,but i didn't go 'cause i had to ... (178 words)

He wanted to marry me and now broke up with me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me figure this out. I have been in a serious relationship for a year now and I moved in with him 7 months ago. Things have been great, awesome and fabulous…I don’t understand what went wrong. About 2 months ago we started having more arguments than normal. My ... (934 words)

Does the condom fully protect her?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

12 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - If I cum inside my girlfriend while I'm wearing a condom, does any semen leak into her vagina? Because I'm really just cumming into the condom but I don't know if it like overflowed or something. Thanks.... (39 words)

13 and I think I'm pregnant! Help

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - help me please im 13 and me and boyfriend have had sex lots of times but once we had sex without a condom and he pulled out before he came but i found out that that doesnt work and im really scared im pregnat... please help me... i dont know wat to do... my boyfriends only ... (100 words)

Does he not want to be seen with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know how to move on. This is a bit of a long boring story (sorry), I have fancied this guy at work for about 2 years, he always seemed interested but when we arranged to go out he cancelled at the last minute with no explinaion, anyway after about three months we ... (378 words)

A lot of miscommunication and assumptions, how can I make him reply to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (?) age 41-50 - What is the best way to make my ex reply to me? I know and have already accepted the fact that my bf and I are no longer together. The problem is he has stuff he said he will get from me and I have some cash he agreed to keep for me as savings before. He was very serious when ... (458 words)

I'm insecure and need reassurance from my boyfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i haven't been together very long but i sent him a text yday saying I didn't feel like he really cared for me like he used to. To this i got no reply so today i sent him a text asking him for his address so i could send his stuff back. I'm devastated and just ... (94 words)

Our affair has been revealed. Where do we go from here?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I’m having a relationship with a married man for nearly two years now. He’s been married for about 18 years. We are both contract workers and work away from home for months at a time and only get back home one’s every four months. We love each other dearly and he is my sole ... (277 words)

What's up with them? Why are they ignoring me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Were friends and his bestfriend and I used to have this weird 'more-than-friends-but-less-than-lovers' thing going on until he(bestfriend) cleared out that he did not like me. Then he (the guy in question; not the 'bestfriend') started complimenting me a lot, saying how prett... (351 words)

I love my boyfriend, but have butterflies over another boy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyy aunt's and uncles. I feel so bad, and i havent even done anything. I need major advice. Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. Im only 16, and hes 17, but where in the same year in school, as ill be 17 in july! He arranged a suprise Birthday for me too spai... (470 words)

How can I make my fiance and my dad get along?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been having problems with my fiance. I'm 19 and he's 24. We've been engaged for a few weeks now but my parents don't know this. I love him dearly yet he hates my dad; he despises my dad's morals and wishes my dad could act more like a real friend. what the heck! I want ... (405 words)

I'm sore and itchy down below. Could it be a disease?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i've been using my finger to wiggle around down there is it possible that i could have got a disease because it's sore and it itches very bad but when i itch it it hurts or burns... (37 words)

How does one move on when there is no other course?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - what next? I moved countries 10 years ago to be with my then partner, now husband...from the time i moved in with him our relationship was never the same. It was as if he didn't have to "try" anymore. At the end of our first year together, I was toying with the idea of ending ... (231 words)

He wants to go away for six months

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. i am 20 and he is 22. we have a very good relationship, we enjoy each others company and make each other very happy. however there is one problem... at the end of this year he is thinking of going away with his ... (422 words)

Should I be playing games with him to make him interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Why do guys whom I dont want a relationship with keep pursuing me like they are obsessed? And the one I really love is not? Could it be that I am being to easy with the one I want to be with? Do I need to act more aloof with him? I know some men need to chase you...should I ... (91 words)

Friends before boyfriends/girlfriends?

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12 June 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I know people always say 'freinds before boyfriends/ girlfriends' but is this actually true? Does this apply to freinds of the opposite gender, even if they really are just friends and your'e not attracted to them at all? My boyfriend recently got me to stop seeing my guy ma... (90 words)

Relationships: What would you not tolerate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (?) age 30-35 - This is'nt an advice question as such, but I do require help. I know it would be difficult to say, and every case is different, and you probably have no idea how you would act in the actual circumstance, but; What things would you never put up with in a relationship and... (63 words)

B/f & anger issues? Is he just a bit off? Or will it get worse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My b/f has such anger issues - non violent - and it is affecting our relationship. For example, he is so mad at an owner of a restaurant because the owner did not say hello to him at an event. Now he wanted to punch the owner since he felt he was disrespectful since he spent ... (342 words)

Hubby cheating..I'm cheating..now what?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - can somone give me some advice. im 31 and i have been married for the last 5 years. lately my husband doesnt want to have sex with me. i think he has another woman back in his country. last month my husband went back to vietnam. one morning i was jogging and i met this white ... (93 words)

How to leave my wife for another woman..gracefully?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

12 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I met a girl 4 years ago, who I always think of as my 1st true love. We were dating for a year and a half, during which time she broke up with me 3 times (3rd time was the last). She was young, only 18 at the time. She always said she was not sure about her feelings. I ... (382 words)

I keep getting dumped!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

- Please help, I am going out tonight, but I know that the guy I've been seeing is going to end things with me tonight, as he's been withdrawn lately. What really gets me is that it always happens to me, around about a few months into things, every guy I've dated wants to end ... (86 words)

My friend and I kissed. Does she regret it? What should I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 14 year old female, and am in love with [at least have a huge crush on] one of my friends. She is also 14 and a girl. I'm not sure if she likes me the way i like her. At times I think she does, and at others it seems like she doesn't. About 3 months ago she slept over at ... (173 words)

Why did this breakup happen?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Was with a guy for nearly a year. Its a year in July. For the last 4 months he has been acting strange. Breaking up by txt message and we have been on and off 9 times now...last night he decided to break up with me just like that...he said he didn't want to ever come back..so I ... (825 words)

Did I cheat on my girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, me and my girlfriend have been going out for 2 months and a half now and i love being with her and always look forward to speaking to her everynight and we are constantly speaking and she makes me so happy. I love my life at the moment. However, i am suffering really... (259 words)

How to I address this without sounding pushy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been waiting for some feedback on an email I sent to a guy. It was business related and requires some thinking on his part before writing an answer. A week after my email he replied saying he was on holidays and has a lot of catching up to but "will come back to me ... (175 words)

I don't want to be faking it!

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12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I lost my virginity a few weeks ago to my boyfriend, and it was painful and there was blood. We've been continuing to have sex since, I have the conctraceptive implant (Implanon) so we have stopped using condoms in order to feel eachother properly. Implanon is actually more ... (192 words)

Infertility by too much stimulation?

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12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello frndz....actually me n my bf are together 4 a year now...n we are madly in love...so we decided to get married as soon as we finish our higher studies...we both really like kids and planning to have kids after we get married..but few days back my bf told me that before we ... (142 words)

Is he just using me to get physical?

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12 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I just wanted some advice, because I really feel like my bf is jst using me. We knew each other really well b4 we went on our first proper 'date' and by the end of it we were snogging. Since then we have had abt 5/6 dates and every time he just wants to get physical and seems ... (193 words)

Compulsive liar? Or am I just paranoid?

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12 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing this guy for like over a month, we're 23/24 and met over the net. Lately I've noticed little things like, inconsistency in the things he says. Like, I'll ask which days he has off work, he'll say Tues and Weds. Then later I asked, and he said 'Oh no, I've got... (203 words)

Can you suggest if it is fine to trust this Turkish man and go ahead and marry him?

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12 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Are Turkish men trustworthy? I am an indian girl sharing a relationship with a 34 year old turkish man who came to india on official purpose (for a period of one year). We met and he expressed his love for me. We have been seeing each other for almost 9 months and he ha... (300 words)

How does sex feel with a woman who was penetrated only once?

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12 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - how does penetration feel during sex with a woman who lost virginity only by fingering, penetrated only once, or who last had sex more 3 years ago?... (28 words)

I feel so insulted that he puts my 'worth' on a spreadsheet and want a divorce! What do you think?

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12 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married 10 years no children (I'm 36) and since I met my husband (until 2 years ago when I started studying to change my career) I have worked full time in a well paid marketing job - a job which left me stressed and unfulfilled but I paid my way and contributed ... (503 words)

My husband's porn watching reminds me of the time I was a prostitute, should I break up over this?

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12 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, IM LOOKING FOR SOME ADVICE, I HAVE JUST SEPERATED WITH MY HUSBAND OF 5 YEARS, We have always had a difficult relationship,this is how it started, he had just got out of jail, and i was working as a escourt, i studied in the day and he was a muso and worked in forestry. I ... (940 words)

I'm afraid to say I love you to her because I'm afraid she'll end things

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12 June 2009 (M)

- hi im needing help on a situation i have gotten myself into. i have been seing this girl now for a while and we have spent a lot of time together we have both have said we have feeling for each other and both said that its not love, but what i need help with is, i feel altho... (141 words)

Found a video tape of my husband and my best friend's husband having sex, where do I go from here?

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12 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I came home from work last night to find a video tape by the side of the sofa with a note attached from my husband saying "Hope you enjoy this and missing you loads. John* xx". My husband was away on business at the time when this happened. I put the tape in, expecting i... (320 words)

What is a perfect girlfriend?

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12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I tend to always just try and be the perfect girlfriend to the guy i'm with. I pamper him with care and support and I do a lot of cute things for him such as leaving cute notes in his car for him to find or I give him massages and make it all about him. I also tend to bec... (199 words)

Nice guy but incredibly quiet around me!

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12 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy who was really sweet, but seemed a little bit awkward in a shy way. I thought he was nice and cute, so I left him my number. He started texted me almost every day to see what I was doing, usually later in the evening, but I was never able to do anything because of ... (500 words)

Period problems....

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12 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi!!! Im having some period problem. I used to have normal period before but it have been few month Im feeling some problem on it, I feel some blood on my penty and it stops for 2 to 3 days and then normal bleeding starts and it last for 4 days. Im married for a year and half,I ... (75 words)

New boyfriend problems

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12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well you see im dating my friends brother and i have liked him ever since the first day i met him and he felt the same for me. Well we started talkin then he moved out of his house and met this other girl, they dated for like 5 months and they broke up. a few days after their ... (210 words)

Astrology test says we are made for each other, where do I go from here?

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12 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - so i download a stupid astrology test cuz i was bored and am intrigued by them. anyway i ran my own numbers, then looked at the report. bla bla, fairly accurate. so i did one for this girl i like, right. i then discover this program can compare. like compatibility. so i do ... (147 words)

She is a liar and a cheat but I am madly in love with her

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12 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am having an affair with a married woman . I was working on her home and she began to tell me that she was very unhappily married and that her husband had not given her a sexual orgasm in 8 years . I told her that she should get counseling but She said He would not go . I ... (459 words)

Can I change my friend's feelings towards me?

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12 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So there is this friend that i like. I told my friend i liked them and well the feelings werent the same. time passed by and we got closer. however we've kissed and stuff but my friend just says they do all this because want it and that it doesnt mean a thing. The thing is ... (81 words)

How do I change his impressions of me?

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12 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey there :) Okay, so I have known this boy for about 7 months now, and he is one of my best guy friends. I used to like him, but then I just liked him as a friend. Now I know I like him again, but the problem is he is a very smart person, and he's mature. I on the other ha... (211 words)

Sexless marriage and fantasies about my mother in law!

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12 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I haven't had sex in almost a year. Any advances towards my wife were usually rejected, but my advances have lessened. Relationship seems fine otherwise. One thing that others have noticed as unusual in a good way is that I am very close with her mother. Nothing has ... (135 words)

LDR...should I stay with him or look for someone else?

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12 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ive been dating this guy for a while and things are going fine and we havnt had a fight....but he lives in a difrent state then me...i really really like him...but i cant go see him...so should i stay with him or should i look for someone else???... (48 words)

Why do I love him but hate him at the same time?

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12 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Im not sure why i want him around, but i want him to leave, yet i dont. Im in love with a guy (so i think) whom i would consider a friend, ive known him for almost 3years now and we've said 'i love you' many times but we're not together...So i guess i'll just get to the poin... (140 words)

I'm not sure what to think, am I pregnant?

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12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I might be pregnant, but I'm not sure. It's still to early to take a pregnancy test. Today is 7/13. The first day of my last period was on 6/22. Which means my ovulation day is somewhere around 7/5-7/6. [not 100% sure; but almost positive] Almost everyday si... (159 words)

Is there something wrong with him or is it me?

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12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so here it goes...ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years and im very happy to say that we havnt had sex yet, im not ready yet. he has waited a long time too. even though we havnt had sex, we do have our "fun". our fun consists of dry sex kind of because i still have my pants on ... (144 words)

I'm so annoyed at people who play the victim!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so lately these past three days my "friend"(only calls when she has a problem or isn't stuck up her man's ass) been calling me crying or texting me saying "ohh my bf is so mean he makes me cry he calls me a bitch etc" but the dumb bitch always gets back together with him! S... (231 words)

She wants a break but will it actually help or make things worse?

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12 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend of 5 months wants a break. At first I was ok with it and I knew it meant hooking up with other people. Her best friend is a guy also an old friend of mine. She has been hurting so she said she probably wouldn't have sex with him cause it hurts but probably won't ... (155 words)

I am scared he may be cheating...

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12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend named Tyler and there is this girl named Mya tht really likes him and they r friends and i haven't talked to Tyler lately........and everytime i talk to him he says i gtg in like 5 or 10 min. and im scared he is cheating. can anyone offer any advice?... (54 words)

Should I stay in a marriage that makes me unhappy for the sake of the kids???

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12 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - So i have been married for 7 years now and, I am finding that everyday i am falling more and more out of love with my spouse. we have 2 beautiful boys together and hate the idea that they may see us not getting along or fighting. My biggest fear is not being able to have ... (114 words)

When a girl asks you "Are you a player" what is the best answer?

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12 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - When a girl asks you "are you a player" ? What is the best way to answer this question Usually I just laugh it off and move on to the next topic but is there a better way to address this problem because I don't want to have girls feeling as if I'm lying or trying to hurt t... (62 words)

Advice needed on whether to pursue him or leave him, now that he has a new b/f?

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12 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Just over a year ago now I met my first love! We're both 19 year old lads. Through a mutual friend I got in contact with another boy in another part of Ireland. He lives just over 100 miles from me. We talked literally for hours and hours each day online and over ... (502 words)

How do I get over him?

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12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so to all of you who answered my previous post: I don’t mean to sound naive, but could he be lying?” i never said this but later on that night when i read the convo, i sent him a msg on msn saying: hey, i just saw the convo with u and my friend and i just wanted to say ... (343 words)

PLEASE HELP! Should I stay or should I go!!

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12 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i am with my fiance of 10 years, we have three wonderful kids together however, for a while now i cant help but think we just aren't meant to be together, he is not a romantic man and i love to be romanced, we don't do things together, he gets to go out when ever he wants to i ... (444 words)

We're complete opposites, can this relationship work?

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12 June 2009 (F)

- I know that opposites attract, but can two opposites really work in a relationship? My bf and I are so different and sometimes it scares me because I fear that he will want to change me to be more like him. He is a big drinker, and I dont drink at all. This is something ... (374 words)

Dating my brothers ex. It bothers me when I think of them having sex

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12 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok I will try to sum this up quick. I'm currently dating my brother X. My girlfriend had a pretty ruff break up a few years ago with my brother and I pretty much been there for her helping her out in her problems. During that period we became real close and our friendship ... (270 words)

What should I do if my boyfriend believes my sister and not me?

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12 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, I really hope this makes sense because I am still trying to figure out what is going on! So here goes, my boyfriend of 6 months lives with my sister and her husband, where I basically used to live. My brother in law has never liked me and him together because I take away ... (182 words)

What should I do with my pregnancy?

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12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just turned 17 and I'm pregnant. I'm not ready to be a mother. My boyfriend is 17 also and wants to keep the baby. I told him that I would either put it up for adoption or get an abortion if it's not too late. He told me that if I have it he would take full responsibility ... (95 words)

I had my period, but could I still be pregnant?

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12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - sooo I came my period like a week before my birthday and my birthday is the 22nd of may. and I obviously have been having sex,but now the date is the 12th of june and still no period,could I be pregnant??? I have had all the syptoms :( but no morning sickness and no bleeding ... (67 words)

Why can't I feel him but I still get off?

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12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been sexually active for about 3 years now. When I make love to my fiance sometimes I don't feel it. I always fake it because I don't know what I am supposed to feel but I will finish. I get wet and I finish pretty much every time but it doesn't feel good it just feels ... (116 words)

I still love him but don't want to be in a relationship with him

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12 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - About a month ago I contacted my ex boyfriend and we started to talk. We had broken up about 10 months ago and both really missed each other, so we decided to try and be friends again. It's been going great, we get along just like before the relationship and have been having a ... (156 words)

Girlfriend won't talk to me because of looking at porn

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12 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 24 and my girl friend is 20yr old girl we have been together for about 10 months now. I have been in several relationships before but nothing has come close to this. She is amazing, she drives me crazy and has so much going for her. We are both very goal orientated, have so ... (656 words)

I want to run away with my teacher and start a new life!

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12 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay last year when I was 15 i had this really hot teacher I didn't like her at first but she grew on me. Now I can't stop thinking about her. I mean I think about her so much that I can't stand it. Every day and night she is always on my mind.I know we can never be together ... (324 words)

Should I tell this girl about the spots on my penis?

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12 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hello every1 im 15 years old.n i was wondering if ya can give me an advise plezz its very ergent?? ok..see i have these spots on my penis there called Fordyce spots. i had these sinces i was 11. at 1st i was like wut ever u now. but then n the past 2 years it got worst i was ... (386 words)

Boyfriend's family is trying to pressure us into marrying

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12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - If I went into all the details, it would be a lot longer, so here’s the jist: My boyfriend is from St. Petersburg, Russia. He and his family immigrated here to the U.S. when he was fourteen and by then, he already knew his fair share of English. Because I've always been ... (660 words)

My fiance wants to watch me with another woman and I'm tempted!

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12 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, my fiance of 2 years been together 4 years and have 2 kids asked if i was intersted in being with another women, he just wanted to watch.. yeah as life gets shorter i start to get curious and now im kinda thinking about it but i really dont know how to pick the person and ... (97 words)

Am I not sending the right signs?

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12 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - okay so i really like this guy and i'm pretty sure he likes me back. he is always trying to get my attention and make me laugh and teasing me etc. but i'm kind of confused as to whether or not i'm sending the right signs. he acts like a jerk (joking around). so today while i ... (166 words)

I've always believed guys should make the first move but I'm tempted to email him...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

12 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've always believed that a girl should let a guy approach her, contact her and pursue her. I've 'chased' a guy before and it's never worked so this is why I think this way. I've recently been using an online dating site and I apply the same strategy here, I let the guys con... (227 words)

One night I have always dreamed of... or lifetime of happiness with boyfriend?

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12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've always had this secret crush on a friend of mine but it was just childish. hes now 24 and im 19 and he has just split up with his girlfriend. i was there for him as a friend in the beginning and now it has esculated that he is physically attracted to me. the problem is ... (221 words)

Baby gossip!

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12 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have endometriosis and my husband and I have been trying for a baby for 3 years with no luck. I was on clomiphene and have been told recently that I am not ovulating? I am booked in for IVF but have to lose 20kg before I can do it and was advised that we should continue doing ... (119 words)

Help!!! Am I reading too much into this... or is there really something there?

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12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me! I have a crush on this guy I work with and am now thinking about asking him out. I mean, I get nervous at the thought of doing it, but I was hoping you guys could help me out with something before I do. What I'm about to describe usually happens often, but never ... (418 words)

Stuck!!!!

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12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in this relationship with this guy for 2 years and almost 4 months and im stuck. Don't get me wrong I love him so much he really is everything to me but I don't see him going anywhere in life. He was supposed to graduate last year but he still hasn't, he used to be ... (222 words)

Bf is hinting at sex! I am scared to do this..any advice?

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12 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My Boyfriend is 19 and im 16, he keeps hinting about sex, but im too scared, as i am a virgin and im scared it will hurt and also im body consious so that doesnt help either, any suggestions on anything ??... (43 words)

How can I comfort my sister's kids after she left them?

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12 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Yesterday my sister left her marriage for another man who is very wealthy. I have no problem with this however she up and left all 4 of her kids oldest 10 and the youngest 2 years with her husband. She left with no explanation and I only found out late last night about her ... (279 words)