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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Sagittarius Females! Please help this Aries Male!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

2 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Sagittarius Females!!! Please Help! I am a mid-thirties Aries male who has had the great fortune to begin a friendship with a Sag female. All the astrology folks seem to think this is a good match. At this point I would have to agree. We both have the same active life... (386 words)

What gives with her? Is she trying to make me jealous or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been talking to this girl for over six months, somewhere around there we had a problem which began a lot of tension from there on, now she will talk to me if I want to talk to her and go places with me if I want to go places, etc but I have been trying to keep my ... (190 words)

I'm in love, but I honestly wonder about him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Help. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months but we were friends for over a year before we started dating. We know EVERYTHING about each other and I love him more than anything. He means absolutely the world to me. We don't fight or argue ever. BUT- he slacks on the emot... (140 words)

Flirting problem

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a relationship with an assistant manager that I love a lot. So, in order to keep this going I have to keep it a secret from the head manager and other co-workers. So I started flirting with another assistant and his friend that is a cook and the guy I care about doesn't ... (134 words)

Is there the slightest possibility that I could be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't have sex with my boyfriend, though I give him a blow job and he fingers me. But there's no erection going on, no sperm or whatsoever. Sometimes we dry hump with clothes on and still, whenever I ask him if he has an erection, he'd tell me, no. There was a time where he ... (91 words)

Problems with ED!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (M)

age - hi need some help with ED, my wife she's very sex active and a lot of times it's not there... is there anything over the counter that could help me thank you, ... (34 words)

I think I have had a miscarriage... Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I shall just cut a VERY long story short, I have been taking birth control and I think I may have been pregnant. I just started taking birth control a couple of weeks and I had some light brown spotting and since I woke up today, I have had lots of pain in my central lower ... (150 words)

Is this normal for a friendship or do you think it's becoming something more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend says our flirting confuses her :S Were both 19 and both in relationships with two guys. We've been best friends for about 4 years. And we have always had a special connection with each other. We flirt constantly, give each other the eye and check each other... (318 words)

Should I try and fix it or just move on with my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I told the girl that I like that I liked her and she thought it was sweet and the other day she managed to make me say that I loved her which I do but I knew that I shouldn't say it to her because I may freak her out and I still want to be friends but now after I said I love ... (109 words)

He never turned me on. Were we doing something wrong???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a boyfriend a little while ago, it didn't last long (about a month) but by the end of it we had gone to 3rd. I wasn't all that into him, but I liked him enough. Thing is, when we did anything, it didn't feel all that great. My nipples never got hard when he touched ... (104 words)

So confused in love...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so recently (about 11 months ago) I moved to a new town. for the first 9-10 months I was here I never knew anyone, so I pretty much just worked and did whatever. Then about a month ago I decided to go to a party with my little brother, just for the heck of it, turned out ... (690 words)

How can I persuade my boyfriend to get closer to me?

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2 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I really like my boyfriend Kyle but the thing is we have been going out for a month and a half... I reallly want him to hug me, kiss me, hold hands, etc but he wont. I am his first girlfriend too but I dont think he'll do it to me when I ask for one he says no and I do want to ... (88 words)

What can I do to stop obsessing about my teacher?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a question, and it may have already been asked, but here it goes: I was walking down the hall going to lunch and it was pretty empty except for this one teacher coming towards me. I looked up to smile and be friendly (because you never know who you'll have next year) ... (172 words)

Your hymen...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi... I'm 13 years old, and I'm only here to ask this one question. I was told today that you can 'break your hymen' and i've been told too many things, and I'm not sure what is the truth.. Please, will someone explain to me... how do you break it, where it is, and how p... (90 words)

I'm getting so frustrated. What can we do to get pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance and I have been in an relationship for a little over 5 years, and we have been trying to have a baby for a year now and nothing happened. He keeps asking me if I'm pregnant and why I'm not pregnant yet. I'm scared it might be me because he already has a 6 year old. ... (125 words)

I can't I seem to forgive him? Please help me! He is the love of my life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - To keep this to the point here are the facts: Subject: I can't seem to forgive or forget my boyfriends past actions. Term: dating about 18 months Actions: one incident of text flirting with a local girl, one incident of sexual email exchanges with a girl he knew fr... (332 words)

Why do I not care enough to show my husband affection?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do I not care enough to show my husband affection? I love him more than anything in the world but I cannot meet his needs regarding communication, companionship and sexual fulfillment. Sometimes I feel like I just don't care to do anything to save our marriage and am ... (81 words)

Wanting a baby with an older husband...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I get my 55 year old husband to want a baby with me? I just turned 30. We have been married only 2 and a half years but I want one real bad. He is not sure. We already adopted his grandson permanently and he is a nice 7 year old boy. I'm not even sure we should have a ... (78 words)

My girlfriend is in PA and I'm in NJ

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

2 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so me and my gf, started out as friends and then decided to go out. we've been going out for about a year and a few months. and she lives in PA and I live somewhere south of NJ, by Trenton. I dont drive and neither does she, I feel like I need to see her physically coz I ... (156 words)

How to get over someone that used and hurt me...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - We've known each other for about 6 months, and I fell good and proper for him. We spoke for hours every night and even though he seemed to not make an effort to meet me, when we actually did meet up it was so fun, and i cant believe how well we got on. We haven't been offica... (287 words)

14 and female and I think I like one of my girl mates, just now sure how she is about me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really liked this boy whos really recently let me down i wont go into the life story of it as i dont think its to necessary, but theres also this girl who came to our school i think around after or just before christmas and weve got good friends, shes bi-sexual and i found ... (299 words)

'J' and 'A' text me all the time but which one should I go for?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Whoever, I need help! I have two guys who both like me and are trying to get me. They are best friends. I don't want to hurt either of them. One of them told me he likes me... J. He is so nice. He always texts me when i text him. Everyone is telling me not to date him... (419 words)

A lover's rectangle? My dentist, his affair, his wife and me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear aunt agony , Last year I chaned my dentist. He is cute and I instantly fell for him . I lost my sleep and apetite , it has been a year now but whenever I see him I get jitters in my knees. Since he is my neighbor , I know he is married. Also, I came to know that he has... (190 words)

After I told her I love her, she hasn't been chatting to me anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

2 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i told the girl that i like that i liked her and she thought it was sweet and the other day she managed to make me say that i lover her which i do but i knew that i shouldn't say it to her because i may freaker out and i still want to be friends but now after i said i love you ... (108 words)

How do I become attracted to her again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Basically, been with my girlfriend for a year and i love her to bits but i'm totally unattracted to her now, she lost her job and has went WAY down hill, she just sits around all day, today i got offered a job and she went mental, but the thing is i'm in love with her, she's ... (109 words)

I'm feeling guilty and afraid I'm going to start an affair! But I can't bear the thought of never seeing him again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Just looking for some friendly advice... Im 18 and have left school officially, still in school for study time until next week. Like many other posters on this site, there is this teacher I am interested in; and so on, you get the picture. However, unlike many of the... (634 words)

My ex is still crushing on me--do I block him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I really like my boyfriend, and I don't want to date anyone else. But recently, one of my ex's told me he likes me again. This is the second time that this has happened, and the last time he tried to break us up by telling me lies about my boyfriend, like he's going to break up ... (121 words)

When should I tell him? Before we meet, or in person?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have asked a couple of questions before and want to thank firsthand for the good answers. I met this guy by accident, over the phone, it was a work related conversation that led to talk about us and exchange phone numbers. I called him a couple of times and he has call... (387 words)

I don't want to feel like a cheat!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I DON'T WANT TO FEEL LIKE A CHEAT! I am visiting my LDR boyfriend who I love dearly this weekend. As coincedence has it - there is another guy who I know from the same town who I havn't seen for ages but he desperately wants to meet up with me. Therefore, I suggested "as a fr... (100 words)

Do I have a chance with this 40 year old bachelor? Or is he too set in his ways?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I play bowls each week with 2 guys who are mates. They are both 40, never married and not had girlfriends for at least 10 years. They seem to be terrified of dating women. They are attractive and I have noticed women come on to them but it seems to go over their heads! I really ... (88 words)

I really fancy him! How do I get to know him better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I've fancied this boy for a year. We are both coming to the end of year ten~i am fourteen and he is fifteen. Last summer we both fancied each other but neither of us did anything about it and now I think he might be bored of me. I still really like him, but I have low c... (141 words)

He likes me, he likes me not, she likes him she likes him not

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - We're not really friends, more like acquaintances. We KINDA acted like a couple (no intimate things though) and I really thought that he liked me. But then we fell out and he got himself a girlfriend. One that has no feelings for him whatsoever. Anyhow, I told him that I... (251 words)

Ex-girlfriend may be confused, now I'm confused. Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Women in particular, I'm looking for some advice. My fiance and I recently split up actually about 8 days ago after 5 years. I found what I thought was cheating, I'm not sure if she was sleeping with the guy or just good friends, when I asked her directly, she said she's n... (906 words)

Do I just expect too much from him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok....Here goes. I've been married for about 3 1/2 years to a man from Africa (...thats right, Africa) I love him very much and try to show him this in different ways. But he on the other hand, has never...ever been able to show me that he really loves me. I always try to plan ... (539 words)

Should I follow my head or my heart?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

2 June 2009 (M)

age - I felt that my new relationship (4 months) was progressing great. I was taken aback by how it ended. Saturday night we had a nice romantic time together. Sunday we had what I consider being a small argument and she told me on the spot that that was it because we were not ... (215 words)

Should I trust my gut instinct about him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - should I trust my gut instinct ? My long term boyfriend and father of my two children has been acting really distant . He has gone for " nights out with workmates " more frequently and gone to Paris with work for a week .He now sleeps in a seperate bedroom ( his decision ) I ... (88 words)

What's the best way to do it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

2 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Do girls care about what the penis looks like, and when they give you head, do they pull your foreskin back? And what is the best way to pleasure a girl, finger her or eat her out?... (37 words)

She doesn't want to be boyfriend and girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

2 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this girl for like 5 months! But she tells me that she's not ready for being boyfriend and girlfriend! We have had sex already couple of times and we both like it! I really love her and she says she does too! What should I do?... (55 words)

I can't stop hoping we'll get back together

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i was with my ex for 2 years 1 month. broke up in january 2008 and im still not over him. . unfortunately theres still a bit of hope left in my brain that we will get back together, my problem is i cant let go. i know i have to but deep down i just dont want to have to forget h... (94 words)

He lies about everything!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - We've been going out for almost 8 months now and it has been a really nice time for both of us, except for his constant lying. He lies about everything from what he had for breakfast to what he did yesterday, or when we are talking online, what he is doing when I ask him "... (253 words)

He thinks what I asked him to do was wrong

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hello, i've been with my husband for about 5 years; august 28th will be our first wedding anniversary. a year before we met, he and his girlfriend of two years had broken up. he told me they were still friends. that was okay at the time, since our relationship wasn't s... (291 words)

Fiance doesn't want to hang out because we always have sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance doesn't want to hang out because we alwyas have sex and he doesnt want to risk it so he refuses to hang out with me. why are men so confusing... (33 words)

Ingrow hair is affecting my esteem and sex life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i've had a problem with ingrown hairs down there ever since i became sexually active, and it's got to the stage now where it is actually affecting my sex life. how many ingrown hairs i have determines whether or not i can have sex. i've tried everything, shaving, waxing, ... (90 words)

He treats me poorly but I can't stop talking to him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So my and this guy have been on and off for about three years. Just recently we started hanging out again. He has recently been calling me and inviting me to these parties and when I get there, he has hickies on his neck and ignores me. I know I shouldn’t be talking to him and ... (128 words)

Would it be a waste to stop having sex till we are married?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend has recently been having issues with premarital sex. We have had sex, and we both enjoy it, but sometimes she feels guilty about it. It goes back and forth. She is getting closer to God, and Im all for that. She has a very promiscuous past, that I wish I didnt ... (127 words)

Worried about color, shape of "down there"

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, im 17 and this is quite embarrasing but im worried about down there, it seems to be quite big and the lips hang quite low,and im ideal weight, so its not fat or anything but im really embarrassed by it and i have a boyfriend and wont let him go down their because im so ... (83 words)

Is it love? Or head over heels in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have an amazing friendship, and there is so much passion between us, we enjoy each other emotionally and physically so much. I live somewhere else and spend most of my time with him at his house. Im even finding myself sleeping over every night. When we first ... (257 words)

Not sure how to behave on a job interview

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

2 June 2009 (M) age 36-40 - Hello,I was womdering if anybody could give me advice how to behave on a job interview? I have been trying to find a job, and I must ave been doing something wron,because everybody phones me, and tells me ,sorry but no,,, I'm kind of a shy guy, and don't know how to talk very... (90 words)

Its hard for me to take things slow!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I have only been dating this guy for a few weeks but i had such a chemical attraction to him from the very beginning. He says he is interested in seeing where our relationship will go, but he wants to take things slow. I am intellectually 100% OK with that. But emotionally i'm ... (104 words)

I'm scared and don't know whether to go up and talk to him or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi okay sorry this may be a long story... last summer we did this drama production at school, and I had a main part. There was this other guy who had a main part too (he was in the year above) , and we quite often talked and stuff- i would have considered us friends One time ... (390 words)

Does she have feelings for me but is afraid to tell me?

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2 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi everybody, i can smell that something is going on with a girl we have been friends for almost a year. Until the past week we were very very close, we are working in the same bank, i can say on my part that i was acting as if we were just friends, we used to talk about detail ... (577 words)

How to have sex with another girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ... hi i'm 19 years old and i think i might be a lesbian cus all i think about is my friends breasts and how they would looknaked. i would really like to have sex with a girl but how?... i only no how to with the oppoursite sex. please help... (54 words)

He lost his erection, we can't talk about it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together for 6 months. From one month in we've had a steady sex life. He's very shy and dislikes talking about sex, as he says it's just the way he was brought up. Last night we were fooling around and went to have sex, only when he went to enter... (204 words)

I'm not happy and drinking seems to be my only release

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont really know wer to start last year i had a massive wieght lose operation and now am at my perfect weight but still not happy my mum died last year and my brother is a heroin addict i recently finished with my bf because i thought there was better out there for me and i... (159 words)

She's 5 or 6 years older than me should I date her ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

2 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I work with a girl, really attractive and really nice. I talk to her on days when we work together and whatnot. The only real problem is that she's 5 or 6 years older than me (i can't remember her age). I am nineteen years old. I really have a thing for her and I can't help it, ... (141 words)

Should I leave my husband?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi im 26 and have 3 children, i have been with my husband for 10 years and married for 2. For the last year we argue non stop about everything. We have not had sex in 6 mnths we dont sleep in the same bed, and i dont feel as though i love him, i care but dont love him. We have ... (115 words)

Argument over the weekend left me questioning her commitment!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, Me and my GF had an argument over the weekend over how much we see each other. we've been dating for about 4 months and we see each other exclusively on the weekends even though we live in the same town. I'm fine with that since we both work long hours during the week and ... (198 words)

Does this mean my hymen isn't there?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, im not exactly planning on rushing into sex just yet, im 17, and im proud to still be a virgin, ive been with my boyfriend now for almost 6 months, and im not stupid.. i know sex is going to happen soon, and ive heard most people bleed on their first time, me and my ... (152 words)

Want to increase my libido, any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I increase my libido? I really enjoy sex but latley I've just not had any drive. I feel bad because my boyfriend, bless his heart, is always horny! And I'm not. It upsets me because I don't have the urge like I used to. Any Suggestions would be great. Thanks.... (52 words)

I'm suspicious about my husband working with female coworkers, help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age - I recently saw some emails from my husband's receptionist and he was calling her by her nickname. She had been sending him jokey photographs and she was bribing him to get work signed by giving him cake. I asked him why he flirted with her but he said this wasn't flirtin... (95 words)

How can I inspire my husband to be more physically and verbally affectionate with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - How can I inspire my husband to be more physically and verbally affectionate with me? He thinks he is very affectionate by giving like three hugs a day... which is real nice, but I need more! He probably thinks I am too aggressive and just want to attack him physically!!! The ... (127 words)

Can I lose my virginity without really having sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay im 19 years old and up until yesterday I was sure I was a virgin. Me and my boyfriend were in bed together and things got a bit too heated as he layed on top of me. I know for a fact he didnt go inside of me but I felt some pressure coming from a bit of the tip of the ... (200 words)

What could be the reason my girlfriend does not like oral sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

2 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My GF won't let me go down on her. We are 23, been dating for almost 2 years, and live together. I'm just trying to figure this out. I really want to go down on her, it is such a turn on, but she won't let me. Sometimes, rarely, she'll let me go down for a brief brief mom... (214 words)

My girlfriend needs a break, I complied, what can I do to keep her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - my girlfriend of 5 years has told me she needs a break and have agreed only because i love her so much i do not want to lose her and after reading some of the other replies here i guess i know what it is i need to do. I just needed to vent but if you have anything you have to ... (67 words)

My husband demands oral sex every morning to relieve stress, creating for me, what can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age - My husband demands I suck his dick every morning but I dont want to. I am over 50 and cant support myself and remaining kids in house. If I dont, he menaces me. I am sure it is not right for him to demand I blow him each morning, but he feels it is his right and besides, he ... (86 words)

His drinking , non-interest in sex or communicating is destroying our relationship, suggestions please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I would really appreciate some help with my dilema. I have been seeing a guy for the last 3 months. Things moved along quite quickly and he told me he loved me quite quickly. The feelings were soon recipricated on my half. We only see each other at weekends due to week day comm... (331 words)

Made an off-color joke about her mom's cancer, apologized many times, she is unresponsive, should I move on or is there more I could do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi thanks in advance for your advice. My brothers girlfriend has a female friend who I have met a couple of times and she apparently likes me. Well this weekend she had planned to come over and stay with me at my house at uni for the sat and Sunday nights. She came up on the ... (557 words)

How do I stop biting my nails?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi just a short question. I want long nails but I always end up subconsiously biting them. I hate chewing my nails and its not healthy either... Once they grew, but broke and are weak.. How can I grow my nails/stop myself from biting them?... (51 words)

His ex wants back into his life

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - l have been dating my boyfrend for 6 months now. his ex came back a month ago and she wants to reconcile with him. all his relatives know her and is in support of them getting back together. they are putting pressure on him to break up with me and marry her. he had introduc... (91 words)

I feel like I've lost The One

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy on the internet almost a year ago. We got chatting over msn, and the first ever time we spoke we spoke for something crazy like 12 hours. We spoke this much every day for a month. We never ever ran out of things to say, it always kept flowing. We had EVERYTHING in ... (449 words)

What happened and how do I make it happen again?

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2 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm lesbian used to be able to cum with ease now can't cum at all why would I stop being able to cum for no reason ???... (27 words)

Why do I bleed when it's not the first time?

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2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - what does it mean if i bleed after my boyfriend fingers me even though it's not the 1st time he's done it?... (22 words)

I like him but I need time

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2 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What do you do when you are in a rebound relationship after your divorce 6 months ago, you like the man but he's in love and wants to know whether you love him the same way or not right away? I like him but I need time. He seems to know that he wants me already and won't wait.... (59 words)

Why do all the girls cheat on me?

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2 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So I just found out my girlfriend is cheating on me. This has become a pattern. Every girlfriend I've ever had ended up sleeping with someone else. Right now I'm finding it difficult to trust women. My best friend says I need to go out and be a player, get some notches ... (98 words)

He never seemed to care but now he's treating me like I'm a whore!

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2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My storyy starts with my boyfriend who never seems to care about w,e i do … Ive told him thousands of times that i am extremely jealous and tht im too afraid of loosing him.. He always said tht he trusted me and that he doesnt really mind anything, he even told me that he would ... (467 words)

My fault I didn't orgasm?

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2 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been wondering, i was with my ex partner for 4 years and now we have not been together for 2 years, but the whole time i have been thinking when we had sex he would cum and that was it almost but i didnt get to have an orgasm. is this because he isnt doing something ... (109 words)

I don't trust him!

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2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i feel like my trust issues are pushing my boyfriend away. he has hurt me before, in a previous relationship more than a year ago. i used to be fine with him spending one on one time with his girl friends, but he ended up falling for one of them. he wasnt a nice guy in our ... (252 words)

Is there any way of finding a random stranger to do it with?

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2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend has asked me to have a threesome and im fine with it cos ill try anything once but he wants me to ask one of my friends and im not really confortable with the idea of it being a friend so i was wondering is there any way of finding a random stranger to do it with?... (59 words)

Talking to a girl I like for weeks, but we've run out of things to say! What can we do?

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2 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've been talking to a girl for a little while over MSN. We've gotten closer over the past few days, and we've arranged to meet in a week or so. Trouble is, we seem to be at a point where we can't think of anything to talk about. It's like we've exhausted the ... (85 words)

Is it worth trying to analyse a break-up?

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2 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it worth trying to analyze a break-up? I literally just broke up with my boyfriend 2 hours ago and I know he and I won't be talking, seeing or emailing each other ever again. I don't understand what went wrong and why it all ended when we both care about each other. His feel... (136 words)

Sex with my ex... could I be pregnant?

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2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had unprotected sex with my ex on saturday night, i have been taking the pill but went away and forgot to take it on thursday or friday and saturday morning. I took it again when i got home sunday morning. I woke up this morning and had my period. Is it possible that i ... (71 words)

We had sex but I'm too young for her. How can I move on?

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2 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - wow. im completely in all honesty in a place with a girl where I don't know what to do and im not sure if anyone else has ever been in a situation like this. I've had this friend who I work with. I've been there for her thru many relationships hers aswell as mine. after her ... (246 words)

I'm naturally quiet and he can't stand it, what do I do?

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2 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend thinks I'm too quiet when we're talking on the phone. We tend to text message a lot throughout the day and we talk on the phone at least once a day too, so my feelings are that by the time that we talk before bed it's normal to have pauses in a conversation where ... (343 words)

B/f uses really bad words when we argue, he even pushes me or grabs me!

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2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I had been together for more than a year. He is a really nice person except for his ego. He thinks he is all better and knows more than me because he is a year older. He also thinks that he has the rights for everything because he is a guy. This really pisses ... (502 words)

New relationship, old sex life...

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2 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, So I have this problem i started dating this girl who i love to death but when it comes to sex, its not there. All i can think about is my ex who i dont love but had the best sex of my life with, and i can only get off if im thinking about sex with her. Im afraid that... (98 words)

How do you have sex with a pillow?

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2 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi i'm a girl and i'm 13 years old i also have really sexual thoughts and get a warm feeling in my vagina, why is this? also i would really like to have ssex badly but i'm under aged so how can i achieve this sensation? how do you masturbate with a pillow??... (53 words)

Wife threw me out after an argument without letting me explain!

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2 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My sister decided to divorce her husband (for personal reasons and she wanted call the place at my house (her idea) cause she doesn't him to know yet. After my sister left my wife (of to months) hit redial (she has a friend that lives in a few states away and talks to her ... (97 words)

4 years of what ifs?

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2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a teenager and i have dated around, but i can't get my mind off this one ex-boyfriend. its almost 4 years since the relationship and still think about him sometimes during the day but mostly at night. We were on and off for a year and the break ups were devastating. A ... (232 words)

He falls asleep before I'm done!

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2 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, My fiance' has fallen asleep several times while stimulating my clitorous, leaving me frustrated and angry. No matter how tired I am, if I start a hand job or blow job, even if he has to help me finish, I don't stop till he gets off. Why can't he do the same f... (101 words)

I want him to know this is a bad idea

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2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm worried about my friend because his foreign exchange girlfriend is coming back for the summer. She was sent back home for bad behavior, being disrespectful to her host family, and smoking. He claims to be in love with her but this really upsets me because he now he dips and ... (83 words)

Stay until time comes, or go where the military takes us?

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2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so here it is: I've known my best guy friend sense we were both 7 years old.. which makes 10 years. I've secretly liked him ever sense we started going to middle school. He still lives right across the street from me. He called me last Friday telling me he's going to st... (303 words)

Shy and long distance, why should I do?

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2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently met the oldest son of a family friend. We've seen one another only twice (different schools) but I have heard many things about him from his brothers and it seems like we'd be compatible. We've texted several times and it's going well, but the only problem is that ... (78 words)

Am I ready? And how do I let men know?

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2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am afraid of becoming a dating reject. It's been almost three months since my boyfriend of 8 months broke up with me. I can't tell whether I am ready to date or not..and if I am ready to date, then why is it that I have no male interests? All of the guys that I know only want ... (143 words)

Wiait for him to sort out his life, or see someone else?

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2 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met the love of my life just over a year ago now, both felt an instant attraction to each other, but he's engaged so we became "friends" instead. Over 6 months we fell in love with each other, very deeply, without even realising it was happening. He was in deep shock be... (188 words)

Pregnant at 15 and madly in love, help please

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2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, i dont know how to go about this. but i am 15 years old and possibly pregnant, all the signs add up and tests were positive. and im terrified. not that my parents might isolate me more than they already do. but knowing the man of life, may have to leave me. cuz he is 18 ... (165 words)

We chat all the time yet I don't know what he wants, do I just ask him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

2 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, pls help me decipher this. N is my colleague from another country (3hrs flight away). We know each other since 8months ago, chatting everyday on company chat and we meet up for coffee/lunch whenever we're in each other's location. Recently he came to my country and we hung ... (193 words)

Dating, but not going anywhere, should I split?

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2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this guy for about 6 months. We were good friends before we started hooking up and He doesn't get with anyone else but he still has not tried being serious. He tells people we are together but we arent official and I just don't understand. I really like him ... (88 words)

I like this guy and I need gift ideas!

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2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known this guy for about a year now, and he's bought me a shirt from Hawaii and a cute cell phone charm from Japantown in San Francisco. I want to get him something, and I know he likes metal roses. I'm not sure what to get him though. A cell phone charm with a rose as ... (78 words)

I want to travel, he wants to save for a house, shouldn't there be a middle ground?

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2 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf is hellbent on buying a home before he turns 45 next year. Of course as his girl I am being sensible and saving with him, but we never DO anything. In 5 years we have been on 3 holidays, each one less than a week long and 2 of the 3 were national. I become very angry when ... (155 words)

Promising relationship off to a rocky start

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2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm facing a difficult problem. The guy I am currently with slept with someone else. He did NOT "cheat" because we weren't committed to each other at the time. But we were involved, and he knew I had been cheated on in my past relationship, so I was, and am, oversensitive ... (372 words)

Molested as a child and she is not open about sex, strain on relationship, any advice is appreciated?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

2 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating my gf for 6 months and she told me about her childhood molestation 2 months into our relationship. She's very shy about sex and would not let me do oral on her...so I've not pushed her and gave her as much time as she needs. I'm not sure how long I can wait for ... (151 words)

Friends for 26 years, have child together, does not introduce me to family, he's distant,.should I move on?

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2 June 2009 (F)

age - I've been friens with my 3 rd childs father for 26 years. We both have children forprevious relationships. Our child is now 6.5 and he will not commit or arrange to live togehter or introduce me to friends and family. Its getting colder and colder as we have not been it... (308 words)

Labeling my sexual orientation

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2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so, im confused. Basically, at first i thought i was bi, i am a female. I liked girls, and guys. Then i started to find guys less attractive, to the point where when a guy hit on me it didnt matter. I tried to not care much...i mean bi, gay, straight, theyre all labels, but ... (207 words)

Pisces intertwining with Virgo

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2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a pisces.i been in love with a virgo for about 4 years and i havn't seen him in 2 years.i live with my dad.my mom and sister just left a few weeks ago so its just me and my dad.well my dad want to see our old nabor and the virgo i love lives on her street.he still lives ... (193 words)

Could someone interpret hand holding body language?

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2 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - When a guy holds your hand, does it mean he likes you? Or does it matter on what type of hand holding it is? Like if it is just a palm to palm or resting his hand....is that a big difference to intertwining your fingers and playing with your hands? ... (50 words)

After 30 years of marriage, husband reconnected with his childhood sweetheart

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2 June 2009 (F)

age - We've been married 30 years. I recently found out he reconnected with his childhood sweetheart via phone. They've been secretly talking for 3 years. It is more than just "friendship" They were arranging to meet when he took his vacation this year. Fortunately it didn't happen. ... (193 words)

I walked out after 3 years, he talks with, dates other women. proclaims it's nothing, is he just a cheat?

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2 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I walked out on my boyfriend a few days ago after learning that he had been talking on the phone with a woman that I asked him not to talk to. I had an altercation with her and thought that they stopped talking but they have been talking lately behind my back. My boyfriend and ... (246 words)

On a break from his girlfriend, my ex slept with me, should I tell her he's a cheat?

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2 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, my ex and i hav been seperated for about a year and a half. He has been with other women and whenever he broke up with them he always ran back to me. At first i used to fall for it because i still loved him. Now i am wiser. The last time that he broke up with his lates ... (260 words)

Is there anyone who can answer some questions about PCOS or PCOD?

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2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was diagnosed with PCOS or PCOD not sure which is the correct verion they use since my doctor sucks and all i know about this is what i've learned from the internet which is not much. Um, so she decided to put me on the pill which I haven't started cause Im scared of the ... (120 words)

Does anyone know if this is love or not?

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2 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - okay so im 15 and i think im in love with my girlfriend. but i wanta know if you think its love or not? lets see she has been the only girl ive ever went out with. we've been together for 3 years. mhm i always get butterflies in my tummie when she comes around even after 3 ... (190 words)

How can I forget what happened when we were broke up?

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2 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I once broke up - no one cheated or became cold..we just got too involved and kept arguing or getting hurt by trivial things. We were broken up for about two months and then somehow started dating again realizing that we do care for each other but just w... (240 words)

Why is he questioning me about being faithful?

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2 June 2009 (F)

age - My question is a little bit uncomfortable and embarrassing for me to ask, but this is what this is for anyway, right. Well, my boyfriend is convinced that I cheated on him because he observed excretions. I have not been unfaithful at all. What could this be and maybe it's even ... (60 words)

Sex in the water

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2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend just moved into a place with his friend and they have a pool. well my boyfriend wants to heve sex in the pool. well it sounds fun and exciting, and would definately be a new experience for me...but I'm kinds nervous. I have been out of town and haven't been able to ... (116 words)

Depressed, gained weight, and ost interest in sex

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2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have an issue... I have been increasingly depressed... Summer has came and i've been sad...I'm exactly 200lbs... And i was wayyyy lighter last summer...I'm sad...I've been working out 5x a week- nothing helping. and I'm still 200lbs. I've lost all sex drive... My boyfrie... (106 words)

I am so afraid of losing him but I guess I never had him anyway....

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2 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I went out with this guy a few months ago. His girlfriend was away for about a month the first time we went out and I told him I didnt want to get hurt and that I trusted him because he was an old friend of my family. Anyway, he told me he was so confused. That I was the most ... (314 words)

I'm not a whore... so what is my problem?

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2 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I'm 14 and I have a huge problem. I'm a flirt. I know it, everyone knows it. There's this cycle I go thru with almost every single guy I've known. 1. I get their number 2. We text and flirt 3. I send pics 4. He stops talking It's seriously annoying. Som... (166 words)

Help!!! I don't want to be married any more but am scared to be single...

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2 June 2009 (M)

age - Hi I don't want to be married any more but I am afraid to be single. It would mean huge financial losses and a free fall but I want to feel what being in love feels like again. We have been married 22 years but it is now an empty love marraige. We sleep in separate rooms an... (281 words)