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writes: Hi,about 9 months ago,my mom married another man since my dad passed away.Well,my stepfather is really nice and he treated me like his own son when we moved into their house.The problem is,its his son,My stepbrother.He's 19(i think) and im nearly 17.He's nice but lately he's been acting really weird around me,like he watched me everytime i got out of the shower,cuz the bathroom is just outside his room,and sometimes he would purposely touched my hand whenever he sees me around..There were other times when he hugged me and said 'im playing with you..'.I dont know what his intensions are but Im feeling really uncomfortable with him around..I wanna tell my mom about this,but im afraid she would think that im making up stories.What should i do?And what is up with him,anyway?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2009): He may be messing with your head. Or he may want you.
If you're afraid that your mom won't believe you, note down the incidents that concern you. When you have a list of half a dozen or so, get her alone and talk with her. Tell her that you're not trying to make trouble, but that you're being made to be uncomfortable in your own home. She should be trying hard to make the new blended family work, so she'll want you to be comfortable. Once his dad tells him to stop messing with your head (whether that's all he's doing or not), your step-brother will probably knock it off.
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reader, cherry cherry boom boom +, writes (16 June 2009):
Well I don't really know but I think he might be gay. Why not just ask what the hell his problem is. Or see the kind of people he hangs with. But seriously these kinds of things deserve an answer. This ya girl, pease.
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