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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Did I have a miscarriage or is this a side affect from the pill?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - About 2 months ago i had sex, it was protected and we are sure the condom didnt break. Afterwards my period came slightly late by 5 days. (which is normal after i had sex) and i then went onto the pill during this period. Im on the placebo break, and my period has come on ... (175 words)

Should I get my nipples pierced?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3546 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend wants me to get my nipples pierced. I think it might be kind of sexy and am interested in getting it done. I'm a 34 DD (natural--no surgery). Does anyone know if it hurts a lot? Will my bra cover the nipple rings or will it be obvious through my clothing that ... (81 words)

Does this boy have a crush on me as well?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

27 June 2009 (?) age 26-29 - sorry for the length but i need a little help i have this crush but i dont see him often only when i go to my friends house his sister calls us love birds and we both laugh at it but when i see him we play b ball and it seems that he is showing of. his dad also calls me his ... (83 words)

How should I end my affair?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am at a cross road with this affair I've been involved in for the last seven months. He's married to a woman who lives in another country. He's with her now until he returns home next week. He's a very well known in many religious circles. I love him but I have grown tired ... (316 words)

I know I love him but would I be better off without him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - well i love him so much, and i know he loves me, but i am really confused. ok, so it is teenage love, but it does mean a lot. i spent ages trying to get him and went through a lot. now i finally have him. he was different in school and out of school, and i fell in love with the ... (256 words)

Is she "playing" me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

27 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I was engaged to a girl that I was with for two years. We began living together after a few months of meeting, just after becoming engaged. We had a great relationship and we were both very happy. However, we both brought children into the relationship, I work full-time as well ... (564 words)

My husband is addicted to DearCupid and is an aunt on this site. How do I bring this up to him?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. Late at night my husband gets out of bed. His sleep has been getting worse. I'm a pretty deep sleeper, so I don't ever get up to check on him when he goes downstairs at night. All I know is that he gets up around one in the morning and I think he comes back to bed ... (375 words)

How do I stay in touch with this boy I like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, Right, there is a boy who I have met who I really like and would just like some advice as how to keep contact with him. I saw him for the first time at a debating group I am part of. I didnt speak to him but added him on facebook and have had a couple of ... (291 words)

Am I being protective like a brother or am I just jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My step-sister just got a boyfreind. Befor I even met him, a felt mad at him for no apparent reason. When I met him, he already seemed unconfortible around me, so I wanted to further scare him. I didnt becouse my step-sister was there. I havent known my step-sister for long, ... (132 words)

I'm hurt because the married man I'm seeing thinks I'm pressuring him into a relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been seeing this married guy for 6years and we were together all the time. we started out the best of friends and then it turned into love on my part, I love this guy so much, everytime I ask him about a permanent relationship he reminds me that he is still married ... (244 words)

He flirts but there's no action! Is he just being friendly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, I have known this guy for years, but we lost touch. We found each other again before Xmas, and have been chatting regularly via email and text message since then. He texts me every day, good morning, asking me how my day is going etc and often throughout the day. Now, we ... (174 words)

Where did I go wrong? Everything was great at first and now he has me in limbo....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - what is happening??? I met this guy in january, he has the most bright smile i have ever seen, we just click, or at list a thought, he ask my help for a project he wanned to start, and we start to spend a lot of time together, he call me for what a thought were stupid reas... (573 words)

What does FWB entail?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hey Im 16 and the girl i like asked if i wanted to be her friend with benefits what does this entail? I have never had sex before and i know she has had a fair bit.... (45 words)

What do I do about his drinking problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Am i worrying 2 much? Me and my bf been together almost 2 yrs got a gorgeous daughter but the prob is he has a drink problem! He has gotten loads better, but i cant help but feel that horrible knot in my stomach that he might go back again. His family says he has done gr8 which ... (96 words)

Loads of people say likes me so does he? I can't tell.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a good friend and i never know if he likes me or not. we always slag each other, as he does with most of his girl friends though, but we tend to mess around a bit more than i've seen him do with others in the way that we'll pretend to try to push each other into main riv... (196 words)

I hate it when he has to go to his wife! It's like he never has time for me...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 18 and hes 40 and where having an affair, i hate it when he has to go to his wife, help? First of all he told me got divorced at christmas and he was 2 kids who are 3 and 7 who live with the mum, then he finally admited he was still married and we still are seeing each ... (98 words)

How do I clear things up with the guy I've been leading on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - This guy who really likes me and I have been flirting a lot recently. My boyfriend hasn't been there for me in a long time, and I'm considering breaking up. The only problem is, I've been flirting with this guy only because I wanted to replace the love that I haven't been ... (102 words)

Do I say something to the girl I like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl who ive liked for a while and i think she likes me. Thing is she doesnt know i like her because i dont know her well enough to make a move. she is now going out with another boy. do i say something to her?... (48 words)

I can't believe I turned out to be such a crappy girlfriend. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I'm in a troubled relationship, and I don't know what to do. Ok, so we met and a few months later we started going out. He was my first boyfriend, and I'm the first girl he's ever loved. Well, in the beginning we were PERFECT for each other, absolutely perfect. I guess we would ... (845 words)

Is he taking me for a ride?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i have been best friends with this guy (lets call him D) for 2 1/2 years and we are really close. a few months ago my friend text him from my phone telling him that i really liked him (which i do) and he replied 'wow im speechless'.a few days after we were talking to each ... (322 words)

Is he being polite or is he interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

- There is a guy I like and I think he likes me too. He is always asking me to go to places where he and his friends hang out. The only thing is that he ALWAYS says to come if I have nothing better to do. I have heard guys say that to girls before. Is that their way of playing it ... (103 words)

I'm confused! My best friend says he does not want a relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I'm really in love with my best friend. I've know him for years but we're weren't close until recently. And I guess the more I know him, the more I'm in love. He's really sweet and caring. But one thing I'm afriad of is that he doesn't feel the same way. He is rea... (183 words)

Girls: would you stay with a guy that's so cheap and shallow?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - see i use to like this guy when he was studying with me i use to look at him in class because he's so cute well he asked me out and we've been going out for like 4 months and in this period i've never hated any one as much i do not like him when i knew him i recognized that ... (170 words)

We have a baby together but I think he's cheating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) age 36-40 - i think my bf is cheating on me but have a baby with him so don't know what to do... he showed no interest in our baby from the beggining and only does now when showing off to friends. i hardly ever see him and even then he only wants sex, he also had pics of him cuddling up to ... (102 words)

What was your favorite age and why?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey guys and girls can you answer this plz , tell me which period of age was your favorite and why !!!!!... (22 words)

Confused about my sexuality. Could it be hormonal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sixteen and I live in Cardiff, I've had boyfriends but it's never felt right and therefore the relationships have never lasted long. I'm not sure of my sexuality but not just because of the boyfriend thing, I think, well I have been attracted to girls. No one knows and I ... (90 words)

Any tips on how to meet men?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Does anyone have any tips on how to meet a man (not online dating please)? I broke up with my long-term partner over a year ago and since then I have had one failure after the other. There has been Mr emotionaly unavailable; Mr I really like you but my ex wants me back; M... (103 words)

Is life going to get any better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - aw my life is crap at the moment. 6 years ago i had just bought a house with my first ex-we were on the verge of marrying etc, but in the back of my mind i knew something was not right-he didnt seem all that caring about me and i would normally have to prompt him into showi... (224 words)

Is he playing it cool or could he be interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Well, I really like this boy, who used to go to my old school, but I left and I hadn’t seen him for about three years or so, but I always remember that he was nice to me at school. So, I Went on skype one day and he started talking to me, he came on a lot and always said... (904 words)

Is it good to be friends with a married colleague?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a colleague at work, he was cute and cool to me he told me he lived alone and had a son who lived in another city. He flirted a bit with me and I thought he maybe was divorced or something so I did try to know him better, he looked really interested though I decided to go ... (213 words)

I'm a lesbian but I'm unsure of how to have sex with a girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I am a lesbian, and I have kissed girls and made out with them and stuff but, im still unsure about how to have sex with them..My girlfriend really wants to, but i dont know how, so i always make an excuse. with out being to crude, can anyone help?... (51 words)

How would you know if a guy came and could I be pregnant from it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, so i have a question. Don't laugh at me. haha I'm not very experienced so I don't know. Ok, would you know if a guy came? I was giving oral and he was fingering, and I'm pretty sure he didn't cum, but I just want to make sure. I'm kind of freaking out that I might be ... (153 words)

Do Jewish men have some sort of weird sexual rituals?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5655 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - ok I feel completely rediculous asking this question..I am dating a jewish man and is there some kind of funky sex thing before anyhting or I mean I dont think he is orthadox..well he is not so do they have some weird sex ritual or somthing? We have done everythi... (87 words)

How do I get my feelings back for him? We fight all the time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have been friends with my boyfriend for about a year and we've been basically dating for about six months now and official for about two. We recently moved in together and ever since it's been non stop fighting. He still cannot open up to me what so ever (or so he says) ... (245 words)

Is it safe to have sex on your menstrual cycle?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - is it safe to have sex on 5th day of menstrual cycle... (12 words)

Going down on my boyfriend makes me gag! Any tips?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well this is kind of embaressing.. My boyfriend likes it when I go down on him, but it makes me gag! I don't know whats wrong with me, I think it could be the texture and i don't really like the taste either, I don't mind doing it with condoms though. What should I do, be... (81 words)

I can't leave my abusive boyfriend! When he's not abusive, he is very caring....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a relationship where I am facing domestic and emotional abuse. I don't know what to do and need someone to talk to. The relationship, when not violent, is perfect and I am deeply in love with my boyfriend. But the way he treats me when we are agueing eg. hitting me, ... (109 words)

If I'm pregnant for sure, should I offer the kid to them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i didn't get my period this month and i'm starting to really worry because i think i made a huge mistake. i had a threesome with a friend of mine and her boyfriend a while back. when he was inside of me, he used a condom, but he prefers not wearing one and he usually doesn... (346 words)

Should I choose racing or professional football?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hello there i have left school and i am wanting a job in a shop but when i have enough money i would like to fly over to america and live there so that i can start a racing career i really enjoy racing but i like football(soccer) just as much and i don't know what to do because ... (126 words)

Does anyone know of a support group for people like me?

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27 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When i was 15 i had intercourse with a person i trusted who was 21 i was oblivious to the camera he was filming it with, 2 years later his ex-girlfriend who had a court case against him thats the only reason she showed it to me brought this tape to me and these two 24 year old ... (158 words)

Should I suggest we reconcile our relationship, while both of us are on a holiday in Jamaica?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age - I recently found out from my hairdresser that my child's father is going to Jamaica for the summer to do voluntary work. I saw him last week and mentioned that I willl be going on holiday to Jamaiaca. I did not mention that I heard he will be. Hairdresser is quite reliable as ... (243 words)

Having a baby-should I stay with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Should you stay with someone, just because you are having their baby? Hi, me and my ex boyfreind broke up late last year. We were together for a very long time, and i truly loved him, however i broke up with him, as i wasnt happy in the relationship and he wasnt bringing o... (332 words)

Why do I never orgasm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

27 June 2009 (?) age - I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year now and we've had sex many many many times. He comes every single time but I've NEVER had an orgasm. Why is this?! Is there something wrong with my vagina? What am I doing wrong? The foreplay is AMAZING and the attraction is ... (115 words)

Why would a man be prepared to risk his marriage and family for this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I’m looking for general views and comments on my situation please. I recently had a one night stand with a married man. He has contacted me again and asked if I would consider a threesome. I assumed that he meant with him and his wife but he said it could be with a man of my ch... (126 words)

Will she hate me if I tell her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I asked this girl out. I wanted it to be a date, but because we're both quite shy and quiet people, I thought it would be eaiser to ask her out with some other people, so it wouldn't be just us 2. I think shes really beautiful, but recently, i've been going through some ... (125 words)

Why should he expect someone to be faithful to him when he is still living with her and still hasn't gotten a divorce?

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27 June 2009 (F) age 41-50 - I know this guy that says he has a hard time finding someone to be faithful to him. As a matter of fact I dated him. He said his wife cheated on him. He was still living with her when I met him. This is my question, why should he expect someone to be faithful to him ... (235 words)

What way do MEN act when they're in love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, this question is for you men. I was wondering the way you act when you are in love, like do your hearts beat so fast when she calls, do you feel bad if she didn't call, do you keep remember her voice, her laugh, what she had said when she is not around ..... . Come o... (67 words)

Should I worry she's cheating on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with my girl for 6 months now and things are great. But lately she has acting a little shady. she hides her myspace page and has been keeping her phone to herself a lot lately. she just recently confesed that her ex of 5 years has been calling her, but she does not ... (90 words)

Could this be swine flu???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so this isn't exactly a relationship question, but I need answers urgently! For the past week or so I have had an extremely bad cold, my older brother also has it (he is 16, I am 13) and I think I caught it from him. Now I am feeling really hot all the time, and my ... (126 words)

I have deep feelings for my cousin...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi... I dont know where to start im in a really bad situation and its horrible and wrong and i dont know how to get this sorta thing out of my head and how to help make it better.... so The story... 4 years ago i met my 2nd cousin, I started to grow feelings for him more and... (328 words)

How can I save my relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys! Was wondering if you could help... Been going out with my boyfriend for about 4 months. Up until the last couple of weeks things have been going so well. We both agreed it's the first time we've felt proper happy and comfortable with a partner and became best frie... (501 words)

Do you think I'm going too far wanting to give the items back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) age 51-59 - When I met the guy that I used to date, he told me he loved me more than anything in the world and he would love me as long as he was breathing. I do know that as time goes on people sometimes change. Our relatoinship was damaged due to the fact that he was in a marriage and ... (526 words)

Our first date tomorrow, should I kiss her or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

27 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am going on a date tommorow with a girl from school, weve only talked a couple times but i asked her if she wanted to get lunch sometime and she said yes, so we set up a date tommorow. My question is at the end of the day when im dropping her off, how do i know if shes ok ... (69 words)

Am I cheating on my real boyfriend with my online guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hello, well i have a boyfriend in real, and i have maybe 9 guys online. i just wanted to know is it considered cheating on my real bf? and one guy i met online and know is planning to come see me!! im scared i will try to avoid it. am i cheating on my real life bf wi... (71 words)

I fancy both men and women and it's distressing me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

27 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I fancy both men and women (men more at the moment). When I masturbate, it takes me longer to ejaculate when im fantasizing about women than it does men, about 5 minutes. Its really upseting and distressing me, I hate myself so much because of it. Is it just a phase, I don't ... (57 words)

Boob issues!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well, i have 34 e/f boobs, and they look great with a bra but the thing is as soon as i take my bra off they look horrible! they look really saggy, but they cant actually be saggy because im only 15, they just aren't very full at the top, and it doesnt help that my nipples ... (103 words)

Fiance very depressed and takes out her moods on me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, don't really know where to start. I live with my fiance who is 2 months pregnant (we have been together for 2 years now) and our 2 kids 2 years and a month old and 7 months old(the eldest isnt mine but going through adoption) but with our youngest child she suffered from ... (188 words)

I worry about how I taste!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay this may sound weird but here goes: My boyfriend likes to go down on me but a lot of times I don't let him because I can't stop thinking whether or not I taste okay down there. It makes me feel really weird. I shower every day and clean myself well in that area, shave... (265 words)

I lied and told him that I had an orgasm but I really didn't

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi can someone please tell me what i do wrong do i not know what sex like everytime i have had sex with my ex i have not been able to orgasm is it me or is there something im not doing right he always seeems to be able to cum but i have told him i did everytime we have had sex ... (82 words)

Help! He wants to have sex with me but I'm not ready. What shall I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 years old and I have a boyfriend (16). Until yesterday, we were only kissing each other sometimes. But yesterday evening he wanted to have sex with me. I said i didnt want to, but he didnt listen and started to rape me. After I started crying he stopped and left. What... (67 words)

How can I vent my anger without coming across as a psycho?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

27 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey im 16 and i bottle up my anger practically all the time. I have never let out my anger in public and lately i have been having violent thoughts towards people. My friends say that i do need to let out my anger, but i just can't. Usually when i feel like letting it out i ... (199 words)

Caught up in the moment, no protection..forgotten pill!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together about a year (he is 17, I'm 16) and we are usually very careful about condoms when we have sex because although I am on the pill I am not the greatest at remembering to take it everyday. But about a week ago we got quite wrapped up in the ... (259 words)

Foreskin problems causing massive amounts of pain. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in pain from something i've done downstairs and am hoping someone can help me! i have a problem with my foreskin where it would never come over the tip of my penis when erect as it didnt stretch enough, but in the bath the other i managed to force it over. however i cant ... (168 words)

How can I deal with my "monster in law?"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My mother in law hates me, though i am the best son in law, (she even made some comments in the past). None of my brothers in law treated her daughters like I treat my wife and I was so kind with her as well. In the beginning she started the blackmailing thing and I didnt do... (199 words)

Help me understand what he is thinking. (BOYS help me with this one!)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have currently been in a LDR with my boyfriend for the last 8 months. We struggled but we made it work. Yesterday he moved back to my home town, and we had a great night.. I finally remembered why I loved him. The long distance was making the feelings fade, but lastnight... (427 words)

Should I fly and see my ex, who has a gf, or should I wait for him to come to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I dated for three years, one of those years was our freshman year in college. After that, my family's business was suddenly not doing well, and I needed to come home, as there was not enough money for tuition. We broke up and since, he could not bare the idea of going ... (410 words)

She has beautiful curves...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I saw my cousin's sister taking shower and since that day I just want have her, whenever I think of that scene I masturbate by thnking of her. She's younger to me and has beautiful curves. Do you think I am a developing lesbian, or I dont know. But for sure I want her at least ... (61 words)

I don't want to push him away?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. So this is going to be kind of long. But I am really stressed out right now. I usually tend to be over analytical, but please, I need some help. So I met this amazing guy on an internet dating site. I know, I NEVER imagined that I could ever find anyone decent. ... (984 words)

It feels like her love for me is fading, is there anyway I can restore it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi...I have a situation that I don't know how to turn it around. I'm currently in a long distance relationship. I'm in a different country then my girl. I have been away from her for close to 7 months now. We would video chat almost everyday ever since. Recently I notic... (181 words)

Gf initiated but I feel responsible, Should I wait until she's 18 before doing anything else sexual?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, im in love with the girl of my dreams. its kinda funny cuz we dont do drugs, drink or party and were both virgins. I was at her house today and we did touch but never below the belt, then before i was about to leave she felt below, i did try to stop her but the ... (114 words)

In love with my older cousin, what can I do to get over him?

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27 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am in love with my cousin after he broke up with me and started dating another girl. He's 3 years older than me. I love him. No matter what I try, I can't seem to get over him. What do I do?... (43 words)

I feel stifled, cheated on my g/f of 10 years

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27 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend and I have been together just over 10 years. Last year I did what I shouldn't and had an affair. The affair has ended now but I still have feelings for the woman I was seeing. I am back with my girlfriend and still feel confussed. My girlfriend and I have lived ... (225 words)

Am I naive for believing my ex isn't just after sex? are all guys only after one thing?

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27 June 2009 (F) age 36-40 - How do guys think? What am I not getting? I have recently been in contact with a sort-of ex (unofficial relationship) and he wants to meet up to 'discuss things'. My friend, when I told him, was angry at this. According to him, all my ex wants to do is to come to my house... (309 words)

Want to give my co-worker who I like a birthday present, any ideas??

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27 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I was wondering what I should get a co-worker for her b-day coming up next week. She's turning 20, and currently in college. I.. like her kinda. I think it's close to mutual, not sure though as I don't understand women 100%. So what would be a good gift for he... (121 words)

Want to join a gym but I'm shy and self conscious, advice needed on how to overcome this!

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27 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, i've really been considering going to the gym to better my health, but the problem is that i'm pretty shy/self-conscious and i worry that if i do end up going to the gym, that people will be staring at me while working out, even though i'm not overweight or anyth... (74 words)

Didn't bleed after first time sex, why did this happen?!

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27 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid,i am 20year old.i had sex at first when i was 16.before that i never had a sexual connection with anybody.even not a kiss.but my first sexual experience was unusual.there was no bleeding.my boyfriend didnot get any problem to leak my vagina.it was not tight.i only ... (81 words)

He's stopped texting me -- have we broken up?

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27 June 2009 (F) - he just stopped texting me and im assuming we're broken up. its painful to just act like nothing happened and move on. i know it will not be a good idea to contact him. all my friends say wait for him to contact you, but im in pain. what do i do?? do i wait one more day? do i ... (76 words)

My roommate's b/f is racist, but I can't afford to move

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27 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My best friend/roommate has been dating this guy for a little over three months. The problem is, I hate this guy. I've met him once, and he said some racist shit to me (I'm black, he's white). It wasn't just one comment either, it was quite a few of them. Racism is a zero... (340 words)

He says he's over being bi-sexual, but ...

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27 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating a guy who used to be bisexual, he says its in the past and that it was just a phase in his life and i believe him when he says it but sometimes i feel that its not in his past, like when we try to be intimate with one another, he always says he just doesn't ... (106 words)

He was sweet before we married, now he's abusive

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27 June 2009 (F)

age - Dear Cupid, We are 48 years old. Both divorced. We lived 80 miles apart - traveled each week to spend together. We dated for 18 months,He got a job here, so we got married. He left his home of 20 years and moved to my town. Within days, he started yelling at me over the slig... (341 words)

Which one to chose?

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27 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so me and my boyfriend just broke up and im ready to me move on. its between three guys.1 matt hes always been there i have been with him multiple times and iknow he will always be the one ill go to. He is tall and has dark hair and tan skin with big brown eyes. 2 john hes... (203 words)

Unprotected sex with two different guys -- could I be pregnant?

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27 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - three weeks ago i had sex with 2 different guys in 2 days. one of them was my boyfriend, one was a guy i met at a party that i went to with some friend's. usually i don't have sex with my boyfriend unprotected but it was just one time and he told me it would be a tiny chance of ... (309 words)

Why doesn't he just leave me alone and move on?

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27 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my boyfriend a little over a month ago. When we first met he was a sweetheart and would do anything for me and made me feel very special. He was proud of my medical studies as I am a med student and he was very encouraging but after a while things deteriorated. ... (733 words)

Confused and hurt! Should I just move on?

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27 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with this guy for 5 years. Our relationship started out sexual (bad start huh?). Then it grew to love. He was my first love and I lost my virginity to him also. I was 20 years old. He later, after a year, decided in his mind he didn't want to be with me. So he cheated ... (260 words)

My porn use and cyber sex obsession ruined my marriage! How do I get my wife back?

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27 June 2009 (M)

age - I have been married 19 years. For 8 yrs I watched porn and engaged in cyber sex, and even Emailed women. This became an obsession. My wife found out about it and I tried to lie my way out of it. I did stop eventually, but she left me anyway. How can I get her back? I truely am ... (133 words)

Will he marry me? I'm so confused!

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27 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend was perfect for two years. suddenly he went back in his hometown and after come back he stared ignoring me and didn't want to talked with me too much and one day he said , he don't want to be with me anymore and after one week I heard that he was going out with ... (178 words)

I know that I'd like to try dating him one more time. Should I bring it up?

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27 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I think I realized i'm either a) in love with my best friend or b) in love with our friendship. We've been best friends for about 4 years now. We've dated once for a period of 3 months. Our relationship didn't really go anywhere because both of us were afraid of ... (272 words)

How do I get her to warm up to me but at the same time keep it casual?

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27 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi i'm asking this question because i'm in a situation that i've never been in before and i'm not too sure on what to do or steps to take. I met this girl, who I took to my formal and she took me to hers, we were just friends, and had a mutual understanding about that fact. ... (186 words)

I'm a great guy! Why cant I find love?

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27 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I am a athletic 17 year old male with a good muscle build and I am a nice guy who know how to get stuff done and will follow orders if they are given but anyways, all of my friends have had sex or are in a romantic relationship with someone else. I feel horribly left... (272 words)

Should I really move on? Everyone is telling me I'm in denial.

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27 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm so confused cuz I love a man who has been abusive with me and the last incident was yesterday when he tried grabbing me by my hair for trying to get out of his car. I broke this relationship off cuz I'm so tired of his bullshit and excuses on why he does what he does. He ... (229 words)

Is it wrong to go for it if I'm not 100% sure?

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27 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been talking with a girl a year younger than me for about two months now. I think she's a very kind, attractive and interesting person, but I just don't know if I really like her. I've flirted with her a lot in person, over text and on the phone. I like her a lot as a ... (173 words)

Is he in this just for sex? Why would he message another woman? Does he really care? Do I dump him or not?

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27 June 2009 (F)

- I have a pretty big problem right now. My bf and I met through an online dating website. We have been together for about a month and have decided we are exclusive. Anyway I decided to log onto the website we met just to see if he was still using it, because I saw it in his ... (879 words)

Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?

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27 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been because they said something to ... (443 words)

Having problems with my girl - I need your help!

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27 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfrien has been acting funny, we went from talking and texting like crazy to no it seems like she is just talking to me, to make me happy. She went on a 3 day trip for work and said "don't know if I will have time to call during the trip" What I heard is that you are not ... (240 words)

Question about "the rod" contraceptive implant...

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27 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so ive just have the contraceptive implant or "the rod" put in. My question is do you have to wait until after your period before having unprotected sex? or can i just wait for a week? (the time it takes for the implant to kick in) Thanks x x x... (53 words)

Ladies: Are the flowers and chocolates I send making her distant?

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27 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Here is a question for the women. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 2 months. In that time I always sent her flowers and choclates. Which I know she loved. Because of her hectic schedule I never knew if she would be there to get them before they went bad. We live in a ... (168 words)

I think this guy really likes me but I cant tell for sure! I don't want to seem desperate!

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27 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a guy friend who I think is mad with me! How would I know! I can't ask him because he won't talk to me. He likes me so much but it kills me that he won't talk to me online or text. I will not see him at all this summer and thats the only way that I can talk to him. I ... (121 words)

New baby but don't love the father. I still love my ex! Help!

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27 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i've just had a baby with my current bf but i don't love him anymore and i feel trapped we've been together only a year and everything has moved so fast i dont feel he's the one 4 me plus his family are horrible!! but i dont want our daughter growing up with out him plus!!! im ... (67 words)

For the guys: If you were showing all the signs of being into one girl, would you be likely to see others too?

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27 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Out of curiousity for all you men out there- If you met a girl and are seeing her for a month, and you text her everyday and you ask all your friends (that are friends with her) about her and you mention her to your close family, are you likely to see other people? That's b... (255 words)