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writes:this is really weird for me. i am 20 years old; i am the type of girl that has no problem with men whatsoever, i have game, outgoing, flirty, laidback, what most guys want. i met this guy, lets say hes Andy, from my close friend, lets say john. i go to school with john and andy is his best friend from home about an hour away. but andy goes to school near john and i. i met andy last year at johns party and i didnt really think much of him since he is a shy kind of guy. but what attracted me most was the morning after he cleaned up the whole house before everyone woke up. that was brownie points. then i saw him again that halloween and i told john that i thought he was cute. john told me that hes never been kissed before in his life (hes 20), i find it impossible because hes tall, dark, and handsome and goes to a party school. that made me more attracted because i am still a virgin myself (but rarely anyone knows or if they do, they dont believe me).just this past saturday, john had a bday party and andy showed up. we got a little buzzed (me for the most part) and we went outside to talk. we had a good conversation and i kissed him. he was a little nervous and somehow we talked some more and we made out. all his friends knew that he had never kissed a girl before and thanked me for helping him. i did it because i like him not cuz he was a victim i wanted to make out with. he left the party early cuz he had to take a friend home and the next day i facebooked him asking him "how did you think of your first time? :)" and he replied with "it was cool, ur cool" like that was it. i dont know whats wrong and that i want to pursue him and i understand hes a little overwhelmed. john even told him that i had a crush on him since halloween and he was interested but too scared to make a move. so i did it.hes such a sweetheart and i actually want to calm dowm from my party animal ways and date him. i dont know what to do...
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reader, MinnieM  +, writes (17 June 2009):
Invite him somewhere that you can be alone together to talk, for a coffee or a walk etc..........that way if he accepts you know he is just the shy kind.........if he declines he's scared! Simple
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