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writes:I found a new passport that my husband received (and hid) yesterday. We have had our problems based upon alcohol and his verbal abuse but he has been adamant about how much he loves me and moving forward with working things out. We misplaced both our passports last year when we returned from vacation. He has threatened to go to his family's property in Sweden and find "some 25 yo" who can give him kids. Unfortunately, I cannot. I hid the thing, as I can absolutely see him up and going to Sweden after a fight, which he would start to feel justified. Sigh. Sometimes I hate the man, yet love him still.Does everone have a miserable marriage? Reply to this Question
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (17 June 2009):
 Have you ever been to Al-Anon? I think that it would be very helpful for you. It would also be good for you to seek professional counseling for your hurt.
Every marriage has its ups and downs but yes, there are happy marriages.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2009): I wouldnt know as Im young and not married.
People go through problems yes so they are pretty miserable sometimes but some work through them and are happy.
Regarding your husband?It does sound as though he maybe is quite set on moving off to sweden so i would quite worry about that and confront him.However there is also the thing as because he misplaced his he is just gotten a new one to replace it.I think it was completely insensitive for him to even suggest leaving to find someone who can give him kids so i feel you are very in the right here to feel miserable.
you need to make the decision to either talk to him about how you feel or divorce time.
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