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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

At what point does one go from dating someone who is also a friend, to being a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

6 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I refer you to: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-kind-of-gift-would-be-fun-and.html I think this young lady is something special. She isn't the first I have liked, or the one who I have liked the longest. Nonetheless I feel strongly for her, as you can tell by the ... (164 words)

Why does he continue to email me?

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6 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to ask advice about something that's been on my mind for a while. A couple of years ago, I was working in a big company and got to know the guy that was fixing the computers there, that owns his own consultancy business. This guy is in his late 40's and I am in my mid t... (855 words)

Has any one ever met anyone through a singles club or social club?

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6 June 2009 (F)

age - Has any one ever met anyone through a singles club or social club? I recently joined one and I was rather disappointed as i met a load of older men and many of them were unattractive and creepy. There were one or two people my age but all the women were attracted to the... (124 words)

Help!!! Should I tell him how I feel... and if so HOW should I tell him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

6 June 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Hey, I'm writing in hoping that you could give me advice of what to do with my teacher. Usually I'm quite rational in making decisions of what is good or what is bad to do. But more than i think, more I'm confused. That's why i'm asking you for a help. I'm 19 years old,... (407 words)

Should I just carry on as normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so I recently told a guy friend that I liked him. Unfortunately, he said he didn't think of me that way but he thought I was "very cool and funny if not a little weird" (can't necessarily argue with that :P) I must admit, I was a little upset but I am over it now. But I'm ... (155 words)

Does she want time to herself? Or time for me to move on completely?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

6 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - The girl I have been dating have been having a rough time for the last few months. I admit I have done somethings that are not the best to have to report. Our problem seems to be that we have different expectations for each other. When we met I explained I was truly looking to ... (1187 words)

My married lover just broke up with me

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6 June 2009 (F)

age - The love of my life just broke up with me. He is married and so am I. We have been seeing each for 3 years and I am devastated. I know he loves me, but feels confused and guilty. I do not want him to leave his marriage. I am content to go on the way it has been. Do I have ... (79 words)

How can I open up to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - dear someone who can help, i feel a little awkward about this, but i think some outside advise can really help. i have been dating my boyfriend for about 5 months now, 2 just dating and 3 exclusively. i really think i am falling hard for him, but i just can't open up so... (109 words)

He chases me and then tells me we should never be in contact again??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age - I'm 48, so I've done the relationship thing before. I've been seeing an (ex) Marine (they're never really ex Marines) who went to Vietnam at 17. He came great guns after me...ending up with stuff like "we belong together," "You belong in my house"...I love you...We'd been ... (355 words)

OMG, we danced together!!! Could he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well there's this guy who I posted about several times since last summer who I liked and I thought he liked me because he would always stare at me in the hallways and in class..but when I told him that I liked him, he told me that he had a g/f but he would continually stare at ... (216 words)

I just don't know what to do with myself

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy an awful lot but im afraid that when we meet im going to be a total disappointment. He knows im not a stick insect which i wish to change so i was a little thinner and he knows all this stuff about me i just don't know if he is seriously okay with me ... (79 words)

I think he loves me but he's just an idiot!

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6 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I broke up three months ago due to an outside incident. He is emotional and whnen upset retreats. Talked to him a few times just as friends only. He currently is not in a relationship although has had dates. Two days ago I called him because my father is in ... (228 words)

Her family doesn't approve of on interracial relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

6 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Recently the girl of my dreams and I broke up because of the disapproval from her family. I am an African American and she is white. We dated for four years and I am completely heartbroken over the circumstances considering I moved away for a year and moved back to be with her ... (280 words)

I just want fun, but he's getting emotionally attached...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have recently started an affair with a married guy at work. He is a lot more senior than me, older than me and married. It started off with him inviting me to a working lunch and I genuinely thought that's all it was. We then went out again and I realised he liked me and then ... (166 words)

I am worried that he is now only with me because he doesn't want to hurt me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. I have been away for the last six months and he cheated on me with a girl for about one month. He did tell me about it and said he was sorry but said he wasnt ready to discuss why it happened yet. He was not supposed to see her ... (184 words)

How can I cope with his severe depression?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband of l0 years (dated 3) has had a major depressive episode. Before we met he had several and in one, he hung himself. I was not aware of his depression when we met and he only gets them when he is under massive stress every decade or so. He refuses to take ... (439 words)

Married, but gay and I don't believe in Bi-sexuals!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

6 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So I'm in my early 20's and got married to my HS sweetheart. Very typical; most of you already know why I need advice. She is quite possibly the best thing for me and keeps me grounded, she's smart and ridiculously good looking. All my friends are envious of my life... but I am ... (375 words)

How to give my boyfriend a good hand job??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im 14 and my boyfriend asked me for a handjob. i said i would think about it and i hav i want to give him one but i dont know how and i dont want to ask him how i should do it im just 2 shy to ask. so how do i give him a really really good handjib???? xoxo... (62 words)

Feeling guilt about having lusted over my sister for so long!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

6 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I need help with coping with some shame and guilt feelings. I used to fantasize big time about having sex with my younger sister. It never happened. I was never crazy enough to make any move. But I still fantasized to the fullest extent. No limits. I am now touching 40, and ... (665 words)

How long is too long for a Break-Up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I see people have broken up for close to 8 months, 1year and 2 years and yet they would just refer it to "Only 8 months" "Only 1 year". Isn't that long enough or a reasonable time and most times, they still get back together after that long period of time. How long is to... (64 words)

Any good positions you recommend for sex with new partner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I turn 18 tomorrow and have been seeing a 37 yr old man for exactly one month today. We're planning on having sex tomorrow because neither of us want him to get into any legal trouble. Does anyone know of any good positions that we could try out? I'm not a virgin, I've had five ... (70 words)

Going back and forth between 2 brothers, cheating, rape

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i realy need help on this i had a baby a few months ago and i got postnatel depression and i started to hang about wid a friend and my boyfriends brother and my boyfriend was never supportive when my depression got worse so i turned to his brother and we got closer and ... (236 words)

I feel like I"m never good enough

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have never been the center of attention. im always feeling like im never pretty enough, smart enough, nice enough etc. i hate this feeling and im always envious of my friends. im especially jealous of an ex friend of mine, who despite her incredibly bitchy ways (im not ... (247 words)

What do I do if I meet the woman my husband had an affair with?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have to attend this social event and the woman my husband had a short affair with is going to be there. I never met her before, just know how she looks like from her Facebook. They are not together now, my husband dumped her to come back to his family and we both are trying ... (98 words)

I'm worried people won't like or respect me if they find out I like girls

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. i am a teenage girl. and up until now ive only had feelings for guys. but now im starting to get attracted to girls. ive kissed girls before and i liked it. almost as much as guys. there have been girls at my school who attract me. but im nervous to try anything because ... (66 words)

An awful ordorless, goop comes out of my mouth, don't know what it is, any ideas?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello DearCupid, I used to use this site quite often when I was a bit Younger when i needed Advice and found it Helpful, so maybe you All can help me with this occuring problem I've been having? I keep pulling out this white-ish Goop out of my mouth. Gross i know, believe me... (144 words)

Broke up 3 years ago, after 3 years together, don't know if I am being used for sex, need advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - It's been 3 years since my first love and I broke off our 3 year relationship but I can't stop thinking about him and I know I still love him! We broke up because of distance and fighting and have both had relationships since then. We've always hooked up when we run into each ... (221 words)

I asked if he loved me from the start and he just ignored me!

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6 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys can you please help me my ex boyfriend and i we were trying to fix things and i asked him if he loved me from the start why he left.he got angry and left i tried to call and sms him but his ignoring me.i am so hurt because i dont even know for asking that i was wrong.i ... (104 words)

Need help with a break-up, do you think we can fix this?

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6 June 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Hey guys can you please help me my ex boyfriend and i we were trying to fix things and i asked him if he loved me from the start why he left.he got angry and left i tried to call and sms him but his ignoring me.i am so hurt because i dont even know for asking that i was wrong.i ... (104 words)

Should I let my wife give me a golden shower?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

6 June 2009 (M)

age - My wife wants to pee on me. Should I let her? It would probably turn me on, so I don't see any reason not to let her if it makes her happy and horny, I just don't want it in my mouth, which should be my choice. Any thoughts please?... (53 words)

In a 3 year relationship, with a man who is disrespectful, controlling and cruel in ways, why do I still want to be with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice on my relationship itr my first proper one so i havent really got anything to compare it too. I see my boyfriend 2-3 times a wk. After 3 yrs! We dont live in the same town but only 30 mins away! Its his attitude towards me and everything. He makes comments ... (427 words)

Should I tell a one night stand I'm pregnant with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - We had sex a couple of weeks ago.. I wasn't really supposed to happen, but we were both drunk and I went to his home and that's pretty much how it happened. It didn't really mean that much to me, until I found out I'm pregnant.. I am on the pill, but obviously it didn't work.. ... (85 words)

Why would be be buying another brand of condoms that he never uses with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Last time I was at my boyfriend's house, I checked the drawer near his bed where he keeps his condoms and noticed that he had two types there, two of the kind he always uses with me and one other different brand that we don't use, that looked old and kinda wrinkled. I paid it ... (226 words)

If girls can't get over an ex does it mean it was true love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - why girls can't get over an ex relationship and move on is that mean they are weak or they know how to really love which include if I love I'll never forget?... (33 words)

Is it possible that I could be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I had unprotected sex with my bf and he ejaculated 3 times inside me! Now ive started to feel light headed and tied. Could i be pregnant?... (27 words)

Pregnant with my ex's baby. I've never been so scared about the future, help me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm five days late on my period and all three home pregnancy tests are positive. I was taking birth control pills and had sex with my ex during my ovulation time without a condom because I was on birth control. My family and my friends think I haven't seen my ex in six months. ... (231 words)

My fiancee brings up my past and is mentally abusive, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi andrew, i live with my fiancee and its been two months that we have been living together but we have known each other for a year now. but there is this problem that we got when i do something wrong or a mistake he agravates it and start bringing back my past. the problems... (118 words)

I regret breaking up with my ex as then I got in an abusive relationship, please advise!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - please someone help im in tears as i write this. ive made the biggest mistake of my life. 6 years ago i split with my boyfriend-i felt he didnt care i did a lot for him and i felt taken for granted. at the same time i was good friends with somebody else st my work a... (302 words)

I am 15, really like a 23 year old man, is he too old for me to date?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there, i have a question for you all, well i really like this guy and he is 23 and im 15 some of my friends say he is too old and some say that aslong as he is respectful in my decisions and he doesnt push me into things then its okayy, but i need some more opinions fr... (98 words)

We had a second chance, but he says he likes me as a friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I like this guy and he lives about a hour away..we met when I was in 7th grade and thought he was really hot..we texted eachother a few times them kind of just stopped..I dropped my phone in a lake and lost his number..then this year I saw him at a basketball game..I ... (153 words)

I just want out! I've hung on for the sake of the kids

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

6 June 2009 (M)

age - I've been married for 20 years, but Im near the end of my tether with keeping our marriage going. Here are the main problems I have. Trust. She does not trust me, so much so that I cannot engage in normal activities without her thinking I'm seeing sonmeone else. I belong t... (635 words)

He cheated, I've cheated, where do we go from here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Over the past 6 months, my husband and I have been at each other's throat. This past February, my husband moved into the basement. We didn't go to counseling, we just continued to exist. Finally, we made a decision to get in counseling in mid-May and things were going pretty ... (248 words)

Would he cheat on me, based on his past actions?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

- Ive started dating this guy and he wants to make it an 'offical relationship'. But Im unsure if I should or not. The reason for this is because we were talking about past relationships and he said his last realtionship was with a married woman!! I was in shock when I heard ... (303 words)

Is it safe to do this with a prostitute?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

6 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - MOD NOTE: Two questions from this person have been put into one post, as they are of a similar subject. I am wanting to experience a golden shower with a prostitute. Is this safe enough. Could I catch any diseases? Is oral sex safe with a prostitute?... ... (51 words)

How should I ask him if he wants to meet?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am going to see a show in a theatre soon.I sort of know one of the actors in it.We have never met in person, we have just spoke online a little bit.He is on a social networking site.I was wondering whether to ask him if he'd like to meet at the stage door after the show,by ... (487 words)

Why won't my boyfriend forgive my cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i ve cheated on my boyfriend and asked for forgivenness but he hardens up whereas he has cheated too although not caught redhanded but he still makes life difficult for me.... (31 words)

Are older men quick to say I love you? Are looks more important?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering do men in 25 and above are easily admit or telling the girls they like or love that they love them even if their feeling toward the girl isn't that strong? and I want to know why most of men looking for beauty and caring about it more than moral in the girl... (60 words)

How can I stop thinking of her as more than a friend?.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well, to start all of this, Im a lesbian [if you dunt like it, too bad]. Theres this girl who I really really really like.I mean I love her! Right now Im 20 and shes 19. When we were like 14 years old, we dated. We broke up over a simple question I asked, but whatever. Then I ... (228 words)

The pain from my past has numbed me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

6 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - so thru my life I have endured quite a bit of pain. my first love was killed when I was only 16. my next girlfriend at 17 left me to go live in another state and before she left she told me I was nothing and broke me. after a month or so I found another girl this one told me I ... (160 words)

How can I help him orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

6 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - This is a very raunchy and mostly homosexual post. If that bother's anyone, please direct your help to someone else, I just don't know where else to turn here. First off, I'm bisexual - and I also don't see sex as the final reward to a personal relationship. I see sex as an ... (274 words)

I feel like other's have forgotten me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i feel like im a very forgettable person. my close group of friends are always getting invited to parties and so is my boyfriend, who is known around school as the cool funny guy. everyone knows me and they see me as a friendly nice girl but it always seems like im being ... (207 words)

How do I go about finding out if he does like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so, there is this guy... big surprise... and i've know him for a few months, never really thought of him romantically. I mean, he's nice and all, i just didn't really think he was my type. Recently, in the past couple of weeks, I can't STOP thinking about him. We've never be... (187 words)

I daydream about others, sex and negative nasty thoughts

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

6 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - im 15 and i have negative nasty thoughts going threw my head like sex and other thoughts and when i do day dream its about mostly other people even some i don't know having sex and doing other things and i hate that all i think about is other people instead of myself this ... (110 words)

What should I expect for my first time?? how can we make it "easier" on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm almost 18 and i'm still a virgin... not that i'm upset or ashamed about it, i'm actually quite proud. Me and my bf have been dating for 5mths, and i think i'm finally ready to have sex. I love my bf, and completely trust him... but i'm still scared to go through with it ... (116 words)

Why do I like much older men?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 15 year old girl, and I absolutely can't stand guys around my age. They are immature and annoying to me. I'm attracted to much older guys (35+) and i'm not really sure why. I don't think it's a wanting-a-father-figure thing, because though my parents are divorced, I see ... (81 words)

Why does this girl stare at me, does she really like me or is she just looking at something else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

6 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Why does this girl stare at me, does she really like me or is she just looking at something else? Ok, well i never knew this girl or never talked to her but, by the start of Semester 2, i noticed that she would always stare at me whenever i come to school and go to my locker... (162 words)

I like her but she does drugs! How do I let her down?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

6 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - There's this girl at work I began to like quite a bit over the last few weeks. She is cute, funny, friendly and just an easy going person to be around. I'm a little shy when it comes to this stuff, but I began giving out little hints that I fancy her, and I guess she's pick... (269 words)

Why does he want sex only when he is ready?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age - Why does my husband only want to try and have sex with me after I am already asleep and then when I wake, he will not kiss me, love on me or anything, just wam bam, and if I try to proceed any other time he turns me away, it is always only when he is ready?... (57 words)

Am I straight, gay or bi?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

6 June 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I am not sure if i'm gay or bi or wat, i'm a 14 year old boy, and while i think girls are hot, i've never had sex, or even a relationship where we got as far as to make out. I have however had sex with a guy. However i was pitching, so now i don't really know if i'm gay, stra... (74 words)

Where should the line be drawn?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok I need your opinion and advice. I'll try to make it as short as possible w/painting the entire picture. Originally my boyfriend and I were getting a house w/his best friend and his girlfriend. But she cheated on him and moved out they are working on things.He wants to ... (268 words)

My curiosity has created a huge mess!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive got a pretty interesting question, and id love some feedback. So i started seeing this cop about 5months ago, hes got a good seven years on me. I wouldnt say we were dating, it was more of fun and games, but we developed feelings for each other, but we both have trust ... (415 words)

Can a guy ever be just friends with a girl?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it possible for a guy to be best friends with a girl and never get feelings for her?... (19 words)

I love him but he's changed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - been dating my boyfriend for the past 2 and a half years.....i am 25 and he is 37 and has 3 children never been married ... i been in love with him and had the biggest crush on him since i was a teenager for 6 years before we ever even spoke.... he eneded up being nothing what ... (349 words)

I cheated on my girlfriend, how do I deal with the guilt?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

6 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I cheated on my girlfriend a few days ago. Not really doing anything actually just making out but I feel incredibly guilty about it and am not sure what to do. Please give me advice.... (35 words)

Did I mess up our first date by not kissing her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

6 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Met this great girl from an online dating site. We met up for a walk and she adjusted her lipstick at the end and waited expectantly near her bus stop. I wasn't comfortable. This was the first time I saw this girl face to face and I really wasn't comfortable kissing her...it ... (137 words)

We showered together...could I be pregnant now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really paranoid that I might be pregnant. You see, my boyfriend and I showered together about a week ago. While he didn't actually penetrate me, he did rub himself underneath me. It was mostly between my thighs. He didn't actually "cum", and he says he's pretty sure he ... (214 words)

Can I make a selfish man and father change or should I just leave him to be alone and ruin someone else's life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all, I am 25 years old and have a 6 year old son with my ex and a one month old with the man I am having trouble with. I lost my job at 3 months pregnant and I was extremely depressed and felt really lonely and distressed due to hormones and just feeling pretty worthles... (689 words)

Are guys being selfish if they stop having sex after they orgasm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

6 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a question for men. Can you control how long you keep your erection for? Is it subconcious and out of your control or is it somewhat of a 'skill'? The reason I ask is because my boyfriend now can keep it hard for as long as we want to have sex. Often times we just go at ... (435 words)

Are we over because I had sex with ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

6 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I went to a party with my girlfriend. She's new at my school (she has trouble making friends) and we been to together 3 months now. She kept clinging to me (she doesn`t really know anyone at the party besides me) she would`t let me 4 secords to myself. I was really getting ... (158 words)

My wife has doubled in size, I've lost interest in sex..do I leave her to get her to get in shape?

This question has 36 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

6 June 2009 (M)

age - When I proposed to my wife she was 5' and a perfect size zero. She had lovely long hair and walked like a graceful lady. Exactly my type. Now after 15 yrs of marriage she's a size 14-16 w/ short hair and walks like a chimp. Doubling her weight resulted in rolls of fat that make ... (130 words)

Help me name my baby!

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6 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Alright, I am New so Hi! everybody! well, uh my question is I'm pregnant so I was thinkin of names ok, for a girl, I like Valentine, or Kairee (Kyree) for a boy I like Rohan (Row Hawn) what do you think? You can put suggestions too!... (50 words)

All of his girlfriends including me look similar to his mom!

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6 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I think I look like my boy friend's mum she's blonde, medium height and slim with big boobs, and blue eyes, and though I don't exactly look like her, I am the same, and in fact, I think all his other girl friends have been the same He is a way normal guy, but i feel lik... (105 words)

If you really loved your wife would you let her sleep with another man?

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6 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you know when a man truly loves a woman. What do they do, say, act like? For the men if you really loved your wife would you let her sleep with someone else? ... (39 words)

I can't get over my ex and I want to!

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6 June 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Hi, everytime I think I'm getting over my ex, I start hurting again and then I cry. I'm afraid I'm going to keep hurting. I really want to get over him. ... (230 words)

Phone sex on 4th call too soon?

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6 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy while I was out of town last weekend. We have had a couple great "get to know you" conversations. Tonight we had phone sex, on our 4th call. Was that too soon? If we lived near each other would it turn into a friends with benefits situation?... (55 words)

Am I normal to want to masturbate?

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6 June 2009 (?) age 30-35 - well i am 18 and here recently i have been like really horny is this normal? everybody in my family says it's wrong to masturbate and do stuff before your married, so i don't really masturbate alot cause i feel bad when i do is that stupid? i know it is but i just need to know ... (83 words)

Flatmate stroking my back..what is the meaning behind it?

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6 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im a university student and ive become close to my flatmate who is a guy and recently ive been staying in his room ( not in the sexual way , just been watching a film and fallen asleep) but one night he started stroking my lower back then gradually up to my neck but when i ... (74 words)

Guy next door has 9" penis and I'm sure my wife would be fascinated by it

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6 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife mentioned tonight that the girl next door told her that her husbands penis is 9" long, we get on really well with them but now things have changed in my mind. My penis is only 5" and I now imagine my wife to be fascinated by his size. My wife is very sexual and I know ... (93 words)

I was going to marry her but caught her in our bed with another man

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6 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been together for five and a half years; since Christmas 2004. I was planning on proposing to her and then joining her in a civil union, but I caught her having sex with a man. In our bed. I honestly don't even know what to do right now. I'm lost and ... (106 words)

My boyfriend doesn't care if sex is good for me

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6 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend ownly thinks of himself during sex. i never have had an orgasim during sex, before he used to try he best to please me now its like he doesnt even give a shit, when im getting ready tp have an orgasim he erects then he just lays there im thinking to myself like ... (199 words)

Long distance relationship and I sort of/kind of cheated...

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6 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and half way into the relationship he moved away and we have been long distance since. It has been really hard but we love eachother so much and I am moving there in a month. Whilst we have been apart I have cheated twice. Ac... (370 words)

How do I deal with girlfriend's hissy fits?

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6 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey, I've been with my girlfriend for over a year now, everything is pretty much perfect. We plan to have kids, get married, have a life together. We're both really excited about it. The problem is that as soon as she's a little stressed she whines like a bitch and shee... (200 words)

Should I tell him how lonely I feel?

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6 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a bit of a problem. My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly three years. 1 had just turned 16 when we got together, it was like we just clicked, everything was perfect. He was always so into his music, and i was so proud of his amazing talent. He had been in a... (729 words)

Is he afraid to say he likes me so he ignores me?

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6 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm very confused lately on my old guy friends behavior. Lately he hasn't been talking to me and I thought he wasn't my friend. Today on the shop field trip to the mall I sat in front of him and he kept accidently touching my hair and he talked to me a little. Then he was ... (194 words)

How do you know when you really like someone?

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6 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this is a bit strange but it keeps me up at night. I was wondering how you actually know if you like someone. I have been speaking to this guy for a while now and i've known him since i was little but we kind of lost touch. Now i talk to him everyday. I always get kept awake at ... (205 words)