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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Can't stand my small breasts ...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I need your help, I'm a young female of 20, and for the past 4 or 5 years I have had an issue with my breasts. To be honest I can’t stand them -- they are too small and I don’t feel womanly! It’s been getting to me even more in the past couple of years. Especially when I s... (250 words)

Am I masturbating to much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Im currently 14 and I masturbate about 1-2 times a day, but i somtimes skip weekends.. I know 1-2 times a day isnt much but a week ago after doing it twice i started feeling sore, and was hard to sit down.. Am I doing it to much?... (51 words)

Devestated when I heard my ex got married

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i used to work at a place with my ex boyfriend-we did the buying the house thing together etc at the time i had a low credit score so he took the mortgage in his name but we paid equally towards it after two years i felt unloved and didnt feel he cared even though i did ... (222 words)

I want to be curvy and not skinny!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - heres my issue: im skinny no hips no butt poofy hair when not scrunched with gel or straightened. over this summer(2 months) i want to get atleast a bit of hips a little bit of butt gain 15 lbs and find something to make my hair less frizzy and straighter but i want my stomach ... (95 words)

Crushes end in disaster driving me constantly nuts

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi there i always get into very strong feelings for my crushes in the end as a disaster when my crushes marry others i get disappointed and i dnt knw why i cant get them out of my mind it s just stck there u knw its like i keep thinking if he is happily married or not i dnt get ... (73 words)

I'm so scared about my skin cancer!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey .. im a 15 year old girl and i need sum advice .. i am a carer of my mum who has skin cancer and i found out i do to .. and she is always in hospital .. and wen she 1st started gettin it she had a lump (sist) on the inside of her mouth ... and now i hav it too .. and im... (122 words)

A never ending cycle of misery, yet I can't break up with her

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9 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girl friend and I have been together for 7 months. Were both 17. When we first started going out it seemed like heaven, then it dulled down, then it had its peaks. Lately for the past 2 months we have been in a frustration/arguing cycle. We will be fine then ill get frus... (398 words)

Does he still want to be friends or what?

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9 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I got a question. My guy friends been ignoring me. But every once in a while I'd catch him staring at me. Today was weird i was talking to my girlfriend and he sat behind her and I was talking about the answer I put on a test that was wrong and he smiled because he was ... (145 words)

Why won't he look at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - okay so there is this guy that i really think likes me but i'm confused about 2 things. he flirts with me nonstop. he gives me subtle compliments or playfully rough-houses with me or asks for help in class on the easiest questions (that he totally understands) he says things ... (127 words)

I think I want to give up my virginity..but not 100% certain

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Typical question Me and my bf have been dating for about 3 months and I think Im in love. I really want to take our relationship to the next level (sex) but Idk if it's the right thing. He's not a virgin but I am and i did make a promise to myself to wait till i knew i was i... (103 words)

Men, What is the sexiest thing a woman can do for you

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (?) age - What the sexiest thing a girl could ever do for you in bed? Or in just everyday life?... (18 words)

Boyfriend talks down to me, treats me like slacker..driving me nuts!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4775 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! My boyfriend is driving me nuts. We've been together near 2 years. We've lived together for one. He's very OCD and I am pretty laid back. He constantly nags at me, as though I am some lazy, unmotivated slacker. This is because, I quit my job a few months ago, ... (737 words)

In love or just another crush?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so I just turned 14 and I believe I am in love with someone I simply can't get off my mind. I want to know if this is a real feeling, or just my mind playing with me again. But this time around its such a different feeling, I just dont know what to do about it. This g... (112 words)

She likes me, but I'd like to get to know her better before dating her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to get to know this girl, whom i just met, some more without getting into dating relationship yet. How do I do this when she already likes me a lot?... (32 words)

What is happening, I have never felt this before?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone i have a problem and i dont no how to react to it as it has never happend before it is really emmbarasing when im walking around or in school i feel like i just want to have sex all the time and i have this very uncomfortable feeling which is awful and then w... (98 words)

There's just one thing getting in the way...

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9 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im new to asking for advice about my life sex,,because i never really needed it cause the partners i was sexually active with i never really cared about,,but now i got a man i can see my self being with for a long time,,but he got out of a 7 year realationship 2 years ago an ... (279 words)

I have met someone else but husband won't split up the family

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What happens when you are in a marriage with 3 kids and it is not working and no matter how hard you try to talk things through you just can not get through,. He says change my thinking and we will be fine. I can not turn on love in my head as he wants, I am not in love with ... (274 words)

Diet pills that burn fat?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey does anyone know of any diet pills that work and actually burn fat? or know anyone that has used some sort of diet pill that has really worked for them? i'm doing a diet but i want the extra push. ... (41 words)

We argued all the time. Why did he leave me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so me and this boy have been on and off dating for about two years now. During the time we spent talking to each other, most of it was us fighting, arguing and cussing at each other. I don't know how or why but i fell in love with him. We did have alot of rough times but ... (157 words)

Pregnant and not sure who is the daddy..maybe the old flame?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Im in a huge dilemna, I am currently 6 weeks and 6 days pregnant (tomorrow will be 7 weeks). I got my period April 22, 2009. I went on vacation from April 26-May 3rd 2009. On that trip, I ran into an old flame and slept with him every night from April 28th-may 2nd, 2009. He ... (125 words)

I'm the other woman and I want out of the relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm the other woman. I love my "boyfriend" and we have been together for 2 years I can't imagine being without him. He is always tellig me that he is going to leave his wife who he "visits" at there home about twice a month, but I don't believe him anymore because he has been ... (89 words)

I think I'm frigid

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im very worried because i think im fridgid. All my life i hate it when people hugged me or touched me and im exteremly stiff, it never realy bothered me but then i relised something is very wrong with me. I dont want a boyfriend like everyone else and i hate it when friends ... (262 words)

My ex got remarried and I can't get it out of my head

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - this sounds so sad. i have just finished with my boyfriend who for the past 4 years-we were together for 5 has been incredibly emotionally cold-has borrowed so much money off me etc. a month ago i heard through mutual friends that my ex had got married. i had a house wit... (108 words)

Did he forget what he did? Game? or sincerity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My ex and I had an on and off relationship after the first 5 months of dating. I treated hims os good and he just seemed so unappreciative. On May 13 we hung out, slept together (pretty typical) and then he said he would come over the next night to hang out, stay the night, ... (195 words)

How can I make good conversation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years now and i have a big issue with conversation and communication. its not that i dont want to talk with him its just that i dont know how to spark up a conversation. i can tell that my silence annoys him alot. i dont want him to ... (70 words)

Friend is depressed, I want to help her but don't want her to take over my life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. I'm so worried about my friend. She keeps getting really depressed and I really don't know what to do anymore. I want to help her but everything I try doesn't work or only improves her problems for a few months. She keeps talking to me about it but I've run out of things to ... (139 words)

Love Triangle and what to do about Travis!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am currently in a love triangle. My 2yr old daughters father is my childhood sweetheat we have been together on and off for 13yrs. We were together for 5 years starting at age 12 I became pregnant at 15 then lost the child at 6mths pregnant. so shortly after that we broke up ... (252 words)

She gives me no attention but I'm falling for her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

9 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Dear cupid ,there is a woman i like very much but she does not realise my intentions , and i am gruadualy falling in love with her. what should i do? becausevshe gives no attention to me.... (37 words)

Medication to make pimple go away faster?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, this isn't really a relationship question but anyway, I have a pimple right above my lip. It's touching a little part of my lip but it's not all the way on it. I don't want to pop it but I'm going to see my boyfriend tomorrow and I don't want to have a zit on my lip ... (91 words)

Do I tell my ex's new girl that he's cheating on her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - ok this is kinda hard for me to write this but i really need advice, Im still good friends with my ex bf and we do still get on great,he has a new gf whos pregnent with his baby and yes i admit i find it really hard sometimes to see them both together Anyway when his gf isnt... (292 words)

I'm jealous of the professor--she's a hottie!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm currently enrolled in a Summer class that lasts 8.5 weeks and in a rather short period of time, I managed to get to know a guy who is painfully gorgeous, intelligent, hilarious, and he's MY age. He's a little on the chubby side, but fuck, I wanna grab his love handles and... (251 words)

Girlfriend has fallen out and masturbating tips

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - (Mod note: questions have been merged.) 1) Me and my gf have had a fallout because i talk too this english person over the internet. We tell each other everything and we say love you too each other She then started shouting at me saying am practically cheating on her D... (87 words)

Orgasm...how do I make it happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - asking about orgasms! ok so i have reached a higher level of intense pleasure by having sex on the side and having him touch my on my outside g spot. it feels really good and makes my legs go numb. but after a pretty decent amouunt of time the tense ness of my body becomes ... (104 words)

Do these actions mean he likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i've been having trouble with one of my guy friends because i'm having this gut feeling that he actually likes me. he usually is affectionate in a not-so-serious manner (once he blurted that he loved me right in the middle of teasing me). and he's fond of hugging me and ... (124 words)

Need divorce advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I’m going through a divorce right now, we have a home that he was living for the past 5 months and didn’t make any payments on it. He moved out two weeks ago so now I’m at the home. I want to keep this house what should I do? I’m going to file for the divorce, should I contact ... (84 words)

I found Condoms in boyfriend's dresser drawer...is he cheating?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, so I think my bf of a year and a half is cheating on me. I have thought this for sometime and even caught him in lies about phone calls and text conversations with other women. I confonted him on this and he told me that I am "perfect" and he would never cheat on ... (233 words)

I'm thinking of just giving up on him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been hanging out with this guy for 5 months. I brought up us having a relationship. He says,i just want 2 keep things simply 4 now. I decided 2 back off. Then he text me says,guess u must have someone else? I said,trying 2 get over u,in order 2 do that gotta hang out with ... (157 words)

Does it matter who drives to who's house? Am I exaggerating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Does it matter who drives to who's house? I've been dating this great guy..going on 5 months.:) At first he would always pick me up at my house..then little by little it was less and now it seems like I'm doing most of the driving to his place. It's not at all far (15-20 m... (207 words)

We keep getting back together...but we're still fighting

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 17 and been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about a year and 4 months, i only had like one boyfriend before him which was like 2 months he said he loved me and then i found out he cheated on me.So i left him and soon after i started talking to this kid in my class, ... (645 words)

He's a completely different person during the day

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been married nearly 5 years and have 2 lovely kids. for a long while myself and my husband don't seem to get on at all during the day, i don't know if it is to do with the way we are with the children. i am sometimes soft with the children but my husband is strict which ... (220 words)

What exactly is going on with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5673 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok this is gonna be confusing but i hope you can help. Some background info may help so here goes...Basically there was a lad 1 yr n half ago in my class that seemed to like me, various things happened that were weird and would point to the fact he liked me. Staring(and lots... (612 words)

He always finishes the job (oral sex), am I not doing it well?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my "boyfriend" for about 9 months and we've had a physical relationship for about 6 or less. He obviously wants oral and I have willingly given it. We were firsts for each other and I feel like I am doing the worst possible blow job ever. I can never get him ... (74 words)

If neither of us are committing to others but cannot commit to each other, where does that leave us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My perfect guy: He's smart and opinionated, good looking and not afraid to take control, the ultimate Alpha male but at the same time is sweet and sensitive, always making sure Im comfortable and happy......the one thing standing in the way of making it official? He is ... (144 words)

White and dry vaginal opening, what could be the cause?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I have been together and having sex for about 5 months now. We go between using condoms, and not (we have both been checked). I am not on birth control. And we use lamb skin condoms. We dont have crazy rough sex or anything. But, just the other day after we had sex ... (213 words)

I put my foot down, will he rise to the challenge?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a long distance relationship for three months now. Things were looking good and me and my boyfriend tried to be as open as possible about issues. When we started we were both seeing other people. In my case I was in a transition phase. It was at a time I was deciding to ... (436 words)

Even her mother told me to forget her, but what if she changed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Im having a really hard time letting go.. she did everything wrong and completely messed with my head to the point where i thought there was something wrong with me.. i got my clarity i got my closure her best friend and MOTHER told me the best thing to do would be to let go.. ... (185 words)

Anyone out there who has dated a stripper and made it work?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

9 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Is it possible to fall in love with a stripper? I met this girl about 2 weeks ago and weve gone on a few dates but we arent offically dating, and i wanted to make it official but she said she needed to tell me something, thats when she let me know that she was a stripper. ... (119 words)

My problem is that I am falling in love with my step son!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my problem is...i recently got married and had a ba y. i'm 22 and my 19 yr old step son recently moved in with his father, myself and his new baby sister. withen the last few weeks i feel that i am falling in love with him. dont get me wrong i love his father more than all the ... (98 words)

He dated me for a dare?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - can i have your opinions...i have been dating this guy for 2 months and he ignored me three weeks ago wen we all went to a festival...tho sorted it out, but it hurt my feelings at the time now, he told me that he and a bunch of others were playing dares, were he shifted 3 guy... (114 words)

Did I not communicate well enough for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I had met a wonderful guy on line, he is a regional manger, used to travel a lot, finally we got the chance to meet for dinner, before the date he texted me what cuisine that I prefered and he offered to pick me up from my office after work for dinner, so sweet of him rig... (385 words)

He wants me to give my virginity to him to show my love

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey frnds plz............ help me to come out of the complicated situation. For the last 4 years i am in relationship with a married man. Though he never forced me for anything, i was equally involved. we both r Indians and in India this type of relation is against society.... (245 words)

Parents getting divorced and now I can't stand to be around my father

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Long story short. Me and my brother found out last summer that my dad was cheating on my mum. They have been married for 30 years and he's been cheating for the last 4 years. My mum didn't know, and because of her love for him she didn't kick him out. However, over the year ... (352 words)

I'm still worried about losing my g/f!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am worried about losing my gf again i mean i lost her nearley to a guy before and then after that i nearley lost her to this girl and now i am just so worried about losing her AGAIN she means the world to me and now that we go back with each other thing are diffront now i me... (107 words)

Complicated family situation, I have a big weight on my shoulders, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Help, I'm overly overwhelmed with my life right know, this is the deal, I’ am 22 and I feel like I have the weight on the world on my shoulders…..1st…my dad was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s, psychofrenia, I was 13-14. Growing up I saw my mom struggle with 4 children and dealing ... (489 words)

Is it possible to get an STI from someone who doesn't have one?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Is it possible to get an STI off somone who doesnt have one?... (18 words)

Hymen problems...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, After a bit of reasearch, i found out that i have a septate hymen, which is really rare. While i attempted sexual intercourse, i started to bleed, but my hymen didnt break at all! What does this mean, am i not a virgin? Can i not have sex at all? I havent told my... (86 words)

I feel like a fool! How do I forget him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I love a guy bcoz I always felt that he is very innocent and never can flirt with girls. A year later one of my friends told him that i love him. that time he did not said anything but a couple of days later he said that his first priorty is his career and so he didn't accept ... (169 words)

My ex still wants to be friends but it's so hard as we are still attracted to each other.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex boyfriend wants to be friends and I would like that too. He is a really great person. The problem we have this great attraction for each other and the last time we broke up and became friends we got back into a relationship but split again - he has commitment barriers ... (100 words)

Since she's fell pregnant she's become a different person!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My ex gf is 3 months pregnant she told me she loved me next day she dumped me saying she cannot stand being with me and its not because she is pregnant well that hurt so i accepted it but said i want to see our baby when born and go to the scan she was fine with that when a ... (167 words)

I proposed to him and he rejected me saying I was ugly!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am not pretty at all and I love a boy so much but when I proposed to him he rejected me saying that I am ugly. I felt so embarrassed? Now what should i do? plz help....... (38 words)

Do you think he's serious about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

- I've been dating this guy for about 3 weeks now. I'm not sure where we stand though. I dont know if he thinks of me as his gf or just someone he's dating or what? I dont know if we are 'exclusive' or not? He says things to me like 'your my baby, your my girl' and we always ho... (197 words)

I need to decide whether I want to marry this guy and I really can't make up my mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, just needed some advice on what to do. I met this guy on the net about a year ago, and we talked for months and months just over the phone, almost every night. I didn't really have the confidence to meet up with him for a while so I tried to end things with him before ... (477 words)

Being short...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How do women feel having a short guy? To me it bothers me here or there. Has we are all the same lying down. But what if the guy has some hangups about his height being shorter than his partners how would you feel?... (47 words)

Leaving my wife after 15 years of pain

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife changed the night our first child was born. We had been together for two years before that, and she was a happy, loving woman. When I left her at the hospital after our son was born, she was still the same happy woman, but when I came to see her the next day, she was ... (611 words)

Short partners

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 25 and only 5'3 if that, maybe 5'2 that is more realistic well i thought i was short. I have a wonderful boyfriend, we have been together 6 months now and for some reason he is very unsure about his height. He is 21 and he is about the same height has me when we are ... (223 words)

My family won't allow us to date again.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 years old. I was in a relationship for almost 3 years. My ex-boyfriend was good to me in the beginning and the last year was bad. He tried to cheat on me with my best friend, he said mean things to me - he hated to touch my hand, he couldn't stand to be around me. ... (223 words)

My friend married but has contacted me to say it was a mistake and that he still loves me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Everybody, I am stuck in a dilemma of sorts. I am in love with my best friend. He loves me too. But he was forced to marry someone else one year back. So, naturally, I tried to forget him. But he has again contacted me and says that he still loves me and that he is no... (116 words)

I want a proper relationship, not just to be the friend all the time.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

9 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a problem that prevents me from a relationship. I never had a problem with relationships thru highs chool and such, thru each relationship I have learned a great deal. There are still some I wish never ended or I did something different. I have learned to be who I am ... (168 words)

Should my husband and I swap with my sister and her husband?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i am 34 years old married woman and my husband is 36 years old working in multinational. we both like sex too much and we do sex daily morning and night 2-3 times. now we are thinking to have sex with other married couple and both are agree. he has already search one couple ... (145 words)

Am I too you to propose marriage?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

9 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to propose to my gf but i think i mite be too young im 19 and my girlfriend is to.i totally love her.I've just got 2 questions to ask. 1.Am I too young to propose? 2.How could I do it ?... (49 words)

Do I aske him where this relationship is going or is it too soon?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Advice please.. I have been dating a 37 year old ( i am 28) for just under 2 months. We get on well, attracted to each other and go out on dates approx once or twice a week. He is a lovely affectionate guy, always holds my hand, cuddles,kisses me etc. But my issue is he does ... (168 words)

How do I avoid impure sexual relationships?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

9 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a strong faith in Jesus Christ..but it just is getting harder and harder to stay away from sexual-like relationships that are impure. what to do??... (27 words)

I really don't understand what he is trying to say

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9 June 2009 (F)

age - hi there! i have recently met this guy and we are seeing each other. He has told me he loves me and i the same. He has 3 boys 10,12 and 14 yrs. i have three boys from 18 to 25 and a daughter of 10. He has met them all. We have been seeing each other for about 5 weeks. Its ... (317 words)

Something has been missing for a long time, I cheated, but I'm miserable

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9 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im not really sure where to start with this mess that I am in. Im in a relationship and have been for a very long time but at the end of last year, even though I have never even looked in the direction of another man since we have been together I met someone that I became crazy ... (376 words)

He kissed another girl and says he has a problem, do I forgive him again?

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9 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a real problem and need some honest advice. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. During this time we have had problems a because he is a flirt and loves attention. I have never had proof that hes cheated, but often found flirty messages he has sent to girls. A... (347 words)

Am I stilla virgin? How do I know if my hymen broke?

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9 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I had vaginal sex a good few months ago but it did not go so well, i started to bleed heavily but i stopped after a few minutes. Iv been afraid to try it since. Am i still a virgin since it only lasted less than a minute? And how do i know if my hymen broke? ... (62 words)

I am getting tired of distrusting my husband!

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9 June 2009 (F)

age - I am getting tired of distrusting my husband and he says he cannot stand more accusation as he has not done anything! Just a week ago I read a text message on his mobile: he had told a female work colleague that he would meet her for a run (that morning, Sunday, at 10am). He ... (255 words)

Can anyone tell me about England?

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9 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - can anyone here who lives in England tell me how great a place it is to be in? ever since i met this girl from England over the internet 5 months ago, i have become fascinated over England and English girls and their accents, etc. now i find myself wanting to live there or at ... (168 words)

Was I being rejected?

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9 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay my problem is that i like my friend Miguel I've liked him for a while...everyday he sends me text messages..and the he tells me that I'm pretty n cool...We always told eachother that we would hug when ever we saw eachother...so a couple days ago we saw eachother and well i ... (224 words)

Tell me, why do I only attract older guys?

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9 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'll try and keep this short...all of the men who have expressed physical interest in me are way older than I am. I just turned 21. Between age 19 and now, the guys who have flirted really persistently with me have been 41, 33, 28, and 36...and that's just the ones whose ages I ... (120 words)

Friend With Benefits...It SEEMED Like a Good Idea... Do I end it?

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9 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My best guy friend and I have become friends with benefits..... it seemed like a brilliant idea at first, but now I'm second guessing the whole thing! I really really love this guy, he's probably my best friend. We'll call him "Adam". I *thought* that I didn't love him ... (322 words)

I'm trying not to contact him but feel he's being rather immature about things

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9 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So here's my problem (I'll try to be thorough and not too long): I've been dating this guy for about 5-months. Everything has been great. He has been everything that I could have hoped for. He is attentive and thoughtful-kind and caring. However, I think I made a boo boo... (721 words)

I'm terrible with girls

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9 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - (Mod Note: Questions have been merged.) 1. I have a problem. I have a crush on my niece. Wait, let me explain =) She's the daughter of my stepbrother, though he adopted her. She's really pretty (and 20), has a great sense of humor, great taste in underwear =), what should i... (219 words)

If I date my step brother, how will this affect our families?

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9 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok, My dad married a woman and they were married for thirteen years. I was raised with 2 step brothers over that span, whom i loved very much. The marriage ended badly, and i was 19 and my step brothers were 15 and 18 when it happened. I haven't seen either in 18 years until ... (194 words)

I'm afraid to give him a hand job as I don't know how!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating since October of 2008 and I love him to pieces. In March, I lost my virginity to him and I don't regret it at all. When it comes to sexual things, he's fingered me, we've had sex(regular and doggy style), he's touched my breasts, etc. But, ... (134 words)

What should I do?? She likes me but..

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9 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Okay here's the situation. I've been hanging out with this girl. She usually comes with a friend or I see her out in public. She's part of my crew, click, etc... So I see her frequently. Well, recently she seems to have gotten a crush on me. We all go bowling once a wee... (306 words)

He's just disappeared

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9 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So I've been crushing over this guy the whole quarter, he's really shy and he has shown interest, I've talked to my friends about him and they all think he just got no guts to go up to me, and now its the last week of school, and i'm trying to go and talk to him, but he just ... (93 words)

Sometimes I think he likes me, sometimes I'm not so sure

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9 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy that I have a crush on. Sometimes I think he likes me and sometimes I'm not so sure. He is the brother of one of my friends on my soccer team. He is also my soccer coach’s son. At the end of this year I will be 17 and he will be 18. I saw him a while back when ... (524 words)

Should I be worried about the pornography?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

9 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - OKay...so my boyfriend has been masturbating to porn alot when im away....and i find porn on the computer alot lately we have been having sex and stuff should i be worried?... (31 words)

Why do I feel like I have to be better?

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9 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Why do I feel like I have to be BETTER!! I have this friend and we have had our ups and downs. But really I have not gotten over some of the things said and done it the past. Anyways anytime I hear from her or see her it annoys the hell out of me. I do not know what to do? ... (66 words)

I sent her a poem, not sure now what to do, should I ask her out or not?

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9 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Theres this girl on my street that I like alot. I've sent her a poem kinda as a hint that I liked her.. She considers me as her best friend. I keep wanting to ask her out, but I dont want it to ruin our friendship, or that she denies me and we dont talk.. I dont know what to ... (62 words)

She doesn't know I like her, we once were close, what can I do

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9 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm having trouble ok there is a girl we once were good friends but know we never talk I really like but she dosent even know what should I do?... (31 words)

Can't help myself--California love

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9 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay last year when I was 15 i had this really hot teacher I didn't like her at first but she grew on me. Now I can't stop thinking about her. I mean I think about her so much that I can't stand it. Every day and night she is always on my mind.I know we can never be together ... (324 words)

Any suggestions about how to lose 10lbs?

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9 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19, I just had my first child last month (whom, last week, I gave up for open adoption to an extremely loving couple that I very much trust), and now I'm stuck with all of this baby weight. I used to be a pretty petite girl: 5'4.75" and 111 lbs. Now I'm 5'4.75" and 127 lbs. ... (111 words)

What does it mean when he calls me "mine"

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9 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over six months and I was just wondering what it means when he calls me "mine". I don't really mind I find it cute/sexy but, I was wondering why you would call your girlfriend that.we will be with eachother watching a movie or... (149 words)

My current guy isn't compatible with my needs and wants

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9 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, im new to this site and hope someone can really give me advice on what im going threw right now.... my topic is which lover do i choose First of all i've been in a realationship now with my boyfriend who is now 24 for a year now..im 21 and when we first met he had a ok ... (287 words)

My boyfriend is a virgin, makes jokes if I want to have sex, should I just let him be in control?

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9 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is a virgin and when i try to have sex with him he try's to make a joke. He cant be serious. Does this make him a jerk or does it mean hes scared? should i keep trying or, drop the subject? Should i take charge if we get to that situation or, should i let him be in ... (62 words)

He gave me a ring I am not attracted to him, how do I end this without hurting him?

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9 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been dating a guy that is a gentleman but i am not that atracted to him. He is very sweet and i gave it a real go but the attraction is missing (for me). I know he has really fallen for me and that i should have just broken it off with him but i didn't because i enjoy ... (181 words)

He still wants to have sex, but not live together, is he using God as an excuse?

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9 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 4 years and have been living together for 3. I don't know how to define a ''good'' relationship, i'd say it is, with the occasional arguements of course. We're both 21. Recently he's gone through a strange weeklong depression and ... (228 words)

Do I risk our friendship, by telling him that I, a gay person, have falled for him ?

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9 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. Im 21, a gay guy and i think im falling in love with my straight friend who's 19. I have known him for about 2 years, i met him through another friend, we got on straight away, we were allways chatting and texting each other. About 6 months i found myself li... (582 words)

What does FWB mean, I see it often in questions?

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9 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - What does FWB mean. I see it in so many questions and anwers.... (14 words)

I say I love him, he never says it back to me, am I wasting my time with this?

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9 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have told my boyfriend twice now that I love him. Both times he has not said anything......AT all. The first time was after 3 months. Sure thats early on in a relationship but unlike many people it dosent take me years to decide if I care about someone. 6 months later I ... (160 words)

He says "If you munch I'll marry you"..what is THAT all about?

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9 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, not really sure how to address this question. So my fiance and i have been talking about marriage, weve been together going on 4 years and have 2 kids together and i thought we were both ready. well one day i brought it up and he said he didnt want to talk about that we ... (116 words)

I have HPV..will he leave me?? YOU be the judge

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9 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I think I have HPV im just waiting on pathology to come back and confirm it. I only found out a week ago when i noticed a single small lump 'down there'. My sexual history is; 2 people by 19(with protection), an 8 year monogamous relationship (we had both only been with two ... (195 words)

Fallen for the FWB partner

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9 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, to cut a long story short..I have fallen for my fuck buddy! It all started off since he is in my group of friends at uni and we have always flirted.. then about 3 weeks ago, we had sex and since then it has been all the time.. But we cuddle, we spend days together... (123 words)

How does one become a Dear Cupid moderator?

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9 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - how does one become a moderator of dear cupid curious to know... (13 words)

Should I trust him?

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9 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i caught my boyfriend cheating on me . He apologized in the sweetest ways , flowers, cards , sending my favorite movies, phone calls, messages , voicemalls constenly. I love him alot and without him i fell horible, but i dont know if i should trust him. Its his second time . ... (55 words)

Taylor Swift has a friend with leukemia, how can I comfort her through song or something?

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9 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - okay well this doesnt have to do with relationship's or anything but its important. well my friend Taylor (we talk but were not super close) is best friends with a girl named Lauren. Lauren had leukemia. she's very sick and is going to die. Taylor and her are very very close. i ... (146 words)

Pornography, cheating & lying

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9 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband is watching porn and lying to me about it and every time i offer sex he makes up excuses like im tired or im sore. i have confronted him several times and i go through the history on the computer and his phone. there is porn sites. what should i do about this im ... (69 words)

Bi-curious boyfriend

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9 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend told me a few months ago that he used to mess around with guys when he was 15. He said that it was with a few guys and it only lasted for a year or so. I don't know what to think about this? He is kinda feminine and it is always in the back of my head now. Would ... (114 words)

I prefer her sister to her!

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9 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl through a friend and we started texting each other but her sister got my number and now she says she loves me and I have met them both but I just want her sister to forget me but i dont know how to tell her without hurting her feelings and without her sister ... (61 words)

How can I help him to trust me?

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9 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, i have been with my boyfriend for 14 months now. we have been through many ups and downs in our relationship. i want to be able to hang out with other people just as friends. my boyfriend never lets me go if there will be other single guys there. he threaten... (96 words)

Will this go on forever?

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9 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my best friend is really self absorbed, and always kinda has been, its often all about her and sometimes some ppl cant handle her cos of this. She often only talks about her issues, her health problems, of which there are a few, and lately her small business which she is ... (255 words)