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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He is sooooo controlling! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend reformatted the computer so I lost all the pictures of the last two years of my children and very dear things to me. I tried to find other software I used and needed and nothing works. I need some private corner of my world to go to and express myself and just be ... (364 words)

Can anyone help me make sense of this behaviour?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age - Hi, I'm hoping for some advice/support. I'm very upset about comments that my partner makes. I've been with him for 4.5 years and gave him loads of support when his ex wife was divorcing him. I live in a council house, have two mixed race children from a previous relatio... (506 words)

Overpowering urges, can anyone help me control them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

23 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - heya I'm having a problem. I'm a male, 17 and I want to control my urges to females. Its natural for me to feel a greater desire at this age but I want it to stop. I feel that when I control this desire I will be able to talk to girls more confidently. My mind is fill... (143 words)

Reassurance needed. Is there something wrong with me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I get a lot of compliments on how attractive I am..I'm pretty shy normally, but if I had to be social I could...I like to laugh and could be silly at times..I'm a pretty laid back person most of the time... There was this guy I liked in college and I felt he liked me a lot..... (355 words)

I seem to be constantly aroused sexualy, is this normal?

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23 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I was wondering if its normal for me to be seemingly constantly aroused sexually, im almost 19 and have never had sex of any kind. I have to literally masturbate at least once a day otherwise it just causes me to get stressed out. I can stop and have in the past for a month or ... (77 words)

Help! How do you know if a guy friend wants to be more than friends?

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you know if a guy friend wants to be more than friends? The first time I met my guy friend we were close and best friends. I knew he liked me and I started really liking him. Then he became distant and didn't like hanging out with me. He ignored me more and we didn't ... (171 words)

How long was your first kiss with a new person?

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is just a general question. But when you had your first kiss ever, or even a first kiss with a new person, how long did it last? Because I had my first kiss ever a few weeks ago and it lasted for over an hour. We obviously broke apart to breathe, but got right back i... (70 words)

When is it that friendship starts becoming destructive and harmful?

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23 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a very complicated situation with a girl... I used to work with her, and we would talk all the time at work. After a few weeks, I was completely smitten with this girl... and it was around Christmas at the time, so I bought her a really exspensive gift. After I had gi... (767 words)

I feel as if they just view me as a big joke...

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend a while now... and today, i was seen with him by some people from my old school (not a big deal is it?) but they just burst out laughing as they walked past us... looking directly at us! At school i was one of the unpopular kids, and very shy so i... (132 words)

I need your help with regards to my husband and his work female friend

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i am married for over 6 years now and have 1 child. its been 2 years now that one day i have checked his mobile out of curiousity and seen a msg sent by him to her saying 'ok.kisses everywhere'. i have discussed this with him and claimed that it was just a silly msg without any ... (451 words)

Am I wrong to feel slighted?

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a friend who I have done a lot of favors for --I have helped her out with her daughter a lot, picking her up at school, keeping her after school, during their son's ballgames, etc. We also have invited this girl over to play after school, on days off, etc., since she is ... (498 words)

I really need your advice... could I be pregnant?

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well. im another stupid teenager and i am very young. and have a few questions. i might be pregnant. The last time i had sex was at the begining of this month. it was after i had already started my period. Today, i think i discovered a hymoroid. im not sure though, but i kn... (219 words)

I really love him and don't know what to do.

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known this guy for like 12-13 years and i have feelings for him and i love him! I think he uses me as he only wants to no me when theres no one else around but i always say yes I'll come out if he asks me because i love him i cant say no, One day we went out and he tryed... (118 words)

My friends are advising me to cut her off but I'm not sure what to do...

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23 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So I am currently seeing this girl... we both expressed our feelings towards each other recently and she really adores me and she admitted that she found happiness with me, honestly she is everything I ever wanted, but she has some problems in her life which is making me think ... (146 words)

Do you think I need counseling? Or do I just need to let more things slide??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for three years now. Living together for a little over two years. We recently broke up because he said his family thinks im not treating him right. Let me first say that I love this guy with all my heart and I go out of my way to show him. I take ... (621 words)

I'm stuck in the middle of this rift. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age - I've been married to my husband for 8 years. My son was 12 and my daughter was 8 when Mike came into our lives. He and my daughter have a great relationship however, my husband and son.. now 20 (in college, home for the summer) are always bucking horns and I'm caught in the ... (288 words)

I need help with this dream...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Well, this dream was very confusing, so I really hope you can help me out. Ok, my ex-husband, his bestfriend, and myself were in the in living room. They were sitting on the floor watching T.V.. I was on the couch and in that very second, they were butt-naked and watching... (94 words)

If love were easy everyone would do it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some help sorting out my feelings right now so I'm hoping you will have some insight. Here's the story: I've been dating the same guy since high school, which means that now we've been together for 11 years (and married for the last 1.5 years). We are both relatively ... (786 words)

Caught watching porn by my brother's friend... help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - earlier today i got caught looking at a pornish video and im really embarrassed about it. let me explain... ok so i was talking to my friend on IM and he linked me a video that was supose to have a funny ending, i told him i didnt wanna watch it but he insisted so i wa... (194 words)

Emotion of a teenager

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Am 20 and am being shown some concern by a girl of 17 since i started visiting their home. My friend who is their neighbour usually passes by to say hi because i know this girl's elder sister, so any time i don't see my friend he used to be there at certain times when i go in ... (180 words)

He is so selfish and has really hurt me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My heart is breaking, my partner and i have not been getting on for a while and we have had a temporary seperation. We have been living apart for almost 4 weeks now but he is here all the time, but yet he wont commit to the things he promised.. Anyway he got paid off and is ... (169 words)

Do long distance relationships survive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you think long distance relationships will survive? I have a boyfriend and our love is strong and all but we live acrosss the country from each other. Do you think our relationship will survive? All answers will be helpful... (42 words)

I need to know what's going on rather than wait in limbo.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi There, I guess what I am about to ask you for advice on - most people already have.... BUT I seriously dont know what to do.... I met this guy 2 years ago...we get a long and when we first met each other we said would see 'how things go'.... that was 2 years ago... I d... (269 words)

Dilemma over morals.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age - Me and my boyfriend are both musicians. Recently, I applied for a position at a church along with him and was hired.. When I looked on my title, It said music minister. My boyfriend and I live together and the Church from what I gather thinks we are married. Every week it seems ... (189 words)

He wants me to sleep with another woman but I'm not sure...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I know this is probably going to be a stupid question in the long run and i kinda think i know my answer i just want others advice also, good or bad i will take. so my fiance of 3 years has asked if i would be interested in sleeping with another woman, which i have done in ... (160 words)

Ghosts of past relationships are eroding our trust

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for over the past year. I love him unconditionally and the moment we started dating, I have been nothing but faithful. Before I started dating him, I had a past - as all relationships do. I had had sex with one of my friends (about three yea... (348 words)

Meeting ex of 6 years for the first time in 3 months...

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23 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So I'm meeting my ex-gf of 6 years since we broke up 3 months ago. We are going to eat at my place. I was the one who broke up with her because she felt she needed to be independent since being with me for so long, we are both out of college and were happy as could be.we broke ... (329 words)

I need this hicky gone by tonight as I have to wear a low cut shirt!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a hickey and I need it gone by tonight! People are doing my hair and I HAVE to wear a low cut shirt! HELP... (28 words)

Stuck in the middle of you!! Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have two best friends. My bestest friend Noureen* really likes this guy and has done for over a year, and he's just told her after them doing sexual stuff that he never wants to see her or touch her again (hes a horrible person). She has also, may i add, been going behind her ... (175 words)

Help! What can I do to make my boyfriend feel really special?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya everyone! I'm still stuck on how to make my boyfriend feel special, we both live with our parents thus limiting some of the things we can do, we're also both students (im in college, hes about to start uni) so i dont have much money... Does any one have any ideas of... (168 words)

Does he seem like a player?

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey! well me and this boy have been talking for a little, he always comes over, he is very respectful to me, we don't go out, heard he hooked up with a girl, but he kept asking to chill with him, he came over my house for a little then left to his house, and met his family and ... (139 words)

Cool theme for an 18th birthday party?

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Anyone have cool ideas for an 18th birthday party? Since it's holidays where I am now many of my friends are away but I have about 12-16 people who would come. I have a pool and a function room at my condo but that's pretty much it. Also would like a theme but I cant seem to ... (65 words)

How can I get closer to my friends without appearing clingy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is the 3rd question I have put up about my friends, well kinda, and it might not be the last, but thanks everyone for your support. Okay so I've survived the first 2 days back at school after my friends bitched about me and then left my sleepover. One of them as apoligiz... (197 words)

What can I do to make my wife feel better?

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23 June 2009 (M) age - I want to know how can I try to be nice to my wife, if I lost my sex drive and that causing lots of problems, because no desire, no erection. Now she is very upset at me, and I want to know if she is right to be angry? She said she lost her confidence because of me, she thin... (157 words)

Why kiss like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi. I asked this question a few weeks ago but things are still no different. My boyfriend when he writes/texts me tells me he loves me and I am his rock etc etc. But when he kisses me his eyes are HALF OPEN and his tongue never really enters mt mouth properly. Please can you... (95 words)

My parents want me to marry someone else but I'm not a virgin any more.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was committed with a guy for 2 years. I even lost my virginity. I belong to a very constraint hindu family and so my parents were against my love. My guy was getting worser every day and we broke up but now they want me to get married to some other guy. I feel guilty to get ... (78 words)

I am unsure what I want with her...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

23 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Another follow up to http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-kind-of-gift-would-be-fun-and.html OK, my situation is that I am unsure about what I want with her, and I think she is the same with me. I do want a friendship, but I want more (romantic relationship more than... (103 words)

Should I ask my yoga instructor out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

23 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, Last week I took a yoga class at the library. The instructor was quite pretty. I want to ask her out, but I'm not sure if it's appropriate. The reason I say that is because I mentioned to her I was going to send off an article about her class. I sent her a draft yest... (107 words)

I don't know what to do and am terrified he'll reject me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm totally in love with this guy but I know he wouldn't like me. We're great friends but I know I'll never be his girlfriend. He is a really really good guy, I've know him for years, but he is not interested in me! He said he wasn't interested in anyone and he has no thoughts ... (93 words)

Obsessive and haywire brother...

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23 June 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Someone may remember about my issue with my adopted brother. Well, I made my decision that I wanted to end our relationship so I talked to him but then, he went nuts. He scolded at me and said not to leave him and said that he'll change. I said that we can't be together because ... (103 words)

I have no serious illness, so why is my hair falling out?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This is kind of a health question. I recently cut my hair, because I had some of it falling out. I contemplated cutting my hair for some weeks. I know that it will grow back, but my question is this, is there any particular reason why my hair would be coming out? I'm not on ... (64 words)

Help me get over this crush...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i have a big crush on someone but i dont know how to handle it. i know that a crush is a crush is a crush and a part of me doesn't want it to go away but i know i have to get over it and i dont know how to please how do i get over a crush... (60 words)

If you're in an LDR and it's working, PLEASE respond!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need to know if Long distance relationships work. So for all of you in happy LDR's, please respond and tell me that they work and you're happy. Also, how often do you see eachother? the guy i like is 6 hours away from me and we both are broke students who can't afford to ... (88 words)

I found out he has a girlfriend! WHY do boys lead girls on!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do boys lead girls on, kiss you, hug you, act like they care for you. then when it comes to it they 'don't want a relationship'? I was with my ex for almost a year and a half, it was so perfect to begin with, we were so in love, we broke up and loads of stuff happened... (172 words)

I have a boyfriend but I may just have feelings for this other guy! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, Dilemma. I have a boyfriend, a past guy hurt me and now he is trying to come back into my life. the story: I moved schools and met a really nice guy (he had a gf). So at first it was really nothing, at least to me it was just a friendship. Slowly he led me on, ... (430 words)

Am I a fool, or is there still hope?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - 18 months ago I met the man of my dreams and began what I look back on as the best year and a half of my life. Our relationship was everything that I had ever wanted, everything I had searched for. This was it, I just knew it. We talked of marriage and family. It seemed ... (352 words)

Drinking turned my boyfriend into a "handsy" sex feind. Is this how he really feels toward me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - To start this off i am a very insecure person. when someone flatters me or compliments me its really hard to take it in because i just dont beleive its possible for me. Yesterday night I was hanging out with my boyfriend of two years and a half and one of his friends. They both ... (289 words)

I'm confused about my feelings for these guys and need some advice...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - - broke up with the "love of my life" (1) - string of bad experiences with lads - started seeing a boy(2) i have known for years, we're good friends, used to really really like him, however, managed to then keep it at just a sexual and close friendship level. - met cu... (285 words)

I want to help my sister but unsure how

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some help people! okay my sister has been with her husband for nine years and married almost two. recently she hasn't started seeing this girl that works in the office with her. she is lesbian and has a wife if that is what you call it! well since she has been seeing t... (317 words)

How do I tell him that I have a son?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in my early 30's, single mother of 8 year old son... My son is not with me since I'm working overseas. I've got my boyfriend through net and we have our wonderful relationship for almost 4 months now. We meet once for he visit where I am. Our communication is constant and ... (138 words)

The case of thr stinging lube!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Aunties and Uncles! Thanks in avance for any help you can give - it's all appreciated :) Anyway... Yesterday when me and my boyfriend of just over a year were having sex, he wanted to do anal, so asked for me to fetch the lube ('cause we were in my room). We've done ... (363 words)

How do you approach a girl while at the gym?

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23 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I go to the gym about 5 times a week and lately I've been noticing this girl who always seems to coincide with me in the ab workout section, I'm kinda shy and I just wouldn't know what to say to "break the ice" sometimes she glances my way and smiles a tiny bit. I try not to ... (86 words)

I want to make our life as perfect as possible but her ex gets her down...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I fell in love with a girl who is married. When we started seeing each other her and her husband have been apart for a few months. She kept asking me out and i kept saying no. I was scared cause I'm a guy who has always kept to myself and worked hard to get where I am. She ha... (362 words)

How do I get my ex to let me live my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So i'm engaged to be married. I am currently still married trying to divorce my ex. He's giving me problems signing the papers. He believes that we should stay together for the kids. I believe I'm better off with my fiance. He's a great man treats my kids good and also helps me ... (180 words)

We have sex but he doesn't cum?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What does it mean if you have intercourse with a guy but he doesn't ejaculate? My bf and I have a good sex life, we live apart and meet up at weekends, but this weekend, we had intercourse, I thought he'd ejaculated as he removed the condom, 5 mins later he's ready to go agai... (109 words)

I want to avoid the bleeding next time!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been together for several months now. He is my first boyfriend and i am his. So we've never really done anything outside of what we've done together. A couple of days ago he fingered me and it still hurts, i use tampons so i don't think he broke my ... (74 words)

He loves me...asks for number...but didn't call!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there I was wondering if a man said he loves a girl and he can't stop thinking of her, then wants her number very much. She gave it to him but he rarely calls her. How come?... (39 words)

Father found out I had an abortion and I don't feel like talking about it with him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - A few months ago my 17 year old boyfriend and I ended up pregnant... we'd decided way before it ever happend what we would do.. Which for us sadly was abortion.. Now I know what your thinking baby killer right we'll my reasoning behind my decision is quite logical.. Im 17 ... (247 words)

Cheating wife and I don't think I can forgive her!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

23 June 2009 (M)

age - just found out my wife has done something with another man,she said they havent had sex but only done it the once,we been together 20years,dont think i can forgive her,she says shes sorry and wants us to start again, she said it was because she was drunk.the trust has all gone ... (63 words)

Scared about meeting my guy's friends!

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So tomorrow I'll be meeting my boyfriends roomates for the first time. He lives with his best friend of 10 years and his fiance, so it's a little more important than just meeting his friends for the first time, more like family. I'm completely nervous. In my past relations... (225 words)

Ugly old man doesn't want to seriously commit to attractive younger woman

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a young woman who is currently dating an old man. He is 24 yrs older than me. He is not very attractive at all, most of my associates find him kind of old and creepy. I chose to be with him because I thought I would at least find real love. He have made me cry many ... (157 words)

He says he's lonely and that's why he looks for others

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'd like some advice from guys and girls out there. My bf and I have been together 9 yrs, but split up 1 yr ago for 6 months out of the blue, and I found out he was 'seeing' a female work colleague, posting himself on adult dating sites and sending/receiving explicit pics to ... (435 words)

I want him to go down on my more often!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok ... here's my deal. I LOVE when my boyfriend goes down on me. I crave it and even daydream about it! The problem is he hardly ever does. He will occasionally but only when he "feels like it" even when I give him oral he hardly ever returns the favor. I mean I bathe everyday ... (120 words)

I need more confidence but I don't want to be like my mouthy friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi aunts and uncles i'd really like to know how to be confident i've never really had the confidence in myself and i've never known how to have it either. everytime i think positive something knocks me back so i fight back and try again. i've got a friend whose like r... (252 words)

Break Down of communication with my husband of 25 years!, please help.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age - Please can someone advise me, I have a problem with communication with my husband of 25 years. We had a dissagreement which was extremely minor and then he went off in a sulk to the pub to meet his friend. He did not return home that night and in the morning I drove to the ... (178 words)

I'm picturing other women and NEED a solution!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

23 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a pretty young guy and I'm dating a beautiful girl who I have grown to love deeply. We have been through long distance relationship for about a year, the phase where women need to know if the guy is right for her and what not, and now I'm going through a phase where I'm ... (218 words)

What would be the best way to get answers without making myself look like a idiot?

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23 June 2009 (F) age 41-50 - hi all, i posted a question yesterday booty call vs feelings and got some grate replys now this bloke seems very kind an likes to please me he likes it when i say iv enjoyed something he has done for me and he makes me feel safe, something i have never felt with a bloke before, ... (246 words)

I am 15 years old and I'm scared I may be gay!

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23 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 15 years old and im scared i may be gay because growing up i didn't have a father figure at all because my dad was never around, and i try to make myself a man each day but its hard see i only get aroused to naked men not women and i really don't want to be gay, i no ... (571 words)

I'm a 22 yrs old virgin who has never been kissed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

23 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Some background might help you all understand this predicament I am in. Right now I'm in the toughest place I have ever been, went into the Navy from high school, got out semi-unexpectedly after about 3.5 yrs, no idea what I am going to do with myself (the original plan was ... (617 words)

Losing love but stuck living with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - He started beating into me when we were living at my dads mainly when dad wasnt home, because things just weren't going his way. My dads rule and only rule was its his house what ever he says goes. I understood that and respected that but he didnt. I thought us getting a house ... (377 words)

How do I ask her out?...I've only been with men!

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I’ve only been with men, but have always had crushes on women. Nothing has ever happened as I’ve never acted on them. They are getting stronger as I get older. I feel like I need to explore this. My current crush is on a specialist (think doctor) in my life. I know she is ... (217 words)

Should we go ahead with the threesome?

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I'm in need of some advice regarding my current relationship/sexlife I'm Bi and have been for a long time, I've always wanted and still really want to have a three sum with another woman as well as my partner or with two other women for some time now. My partn... (148 words)

I've Fallen in love with an older man! What is the right decision?

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a guy for 6 months and am head over heels in love with him, but, he is 18 years older than me, divorced, and has five children. We have very similar beliefs and out looks on life and want the same things in the future. Unlike him i have never been married and ... (111 words)

I embarassed my gf and now she wont talk to me!

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23 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend of 3 years went to a party together. She usually doesn't wear stuff that shows off her body cause she thinks its slutty (she only wears clothes that sre 3 sizes too big or borrows my clothes). Anyway I somehow get her to a tube top to the party. She didn't ... (205 words)

Falling for the wrong guy

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so me and this guy had a thing last summer, we kissed, and blah blah blah, i was in love with him, but he always got high and ditched me, and then came back, he always got locked up, so i said fuck it, and then he got locked up for 5 months, so i messaged him and said how ... (147 words)

My Bigoted Wife!

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23 June 2009 (M)

age - It wasn't obvious when we got married, but over the years her attitudes have become more and more racist and bigoted, which I find surprising in such an educated woman. I try to bring up my children to respect all people, but it isn't easy when my wife spouts her quite hateful ... (218 words)

Females : Which Meds works best on your period?

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Question for the females: Just out of curiosity, which medicine works best for you when you are on your period? Do you use a medicine when on your period? For a long time I didn't use medicines and just decided to weather the pain. Lately I have been using Midol and it works ... (71 words)

I'm scared, worried and sad to death of losing him

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23 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been in a long distance relationship since December and everything was going great, we planned on meeting months ago but things began to change after some events in both of our lives. A month ago, my mother had been in the hospital for a week before passing and while I was ... (411 words)

BF slept with his ex after finallly seeing me, which he desired so much

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Recently my ex and I got back together. We broke up basically we argued too much, not because of diminished love. After the breakup both of us had such a difficult time - I've heard from his friends that he stopped functioning. During our breakup, he called me a couple of t... (335 words)

My boyfriend wants to be single incase someone else comes along

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend told me today, he wants to be single! We have been on and off for about 9 months now.. We just got back together about three days ago.. he told me that he wants to be alone incase somebody else comes along.. that hes really suppose to be with, but then he ... (130 words)

When would it be right for me to tell him I love him?

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have found the one! I'm madly in love with him! I've known him since high school. We've been best friends for 6 years. Then dated for 2 and a half years. But for the past 6 months he has been stressed out. (Not by me- with work and family) So, we have been on a break fo... (149 words)

I'm not fond of ruining relationships, but she is amazing...what should we do?

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23 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been talking to this girl I work with a lot lately and we've really hit it off. I get along with her better than I get along with my best friend. Well, I'm really into her and I just recently found out she feels the same. But here's the catch: she's currently in a ... (149 words)

My girlfriend hasn't told her kids about our relationship, it's bothering me!

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23 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, i have been with my girlfriend for about a year now. We had a long distance relationship and we finally met this past January. She lives in another country, and we have talk about a future together. I love her very much, but it bothers me to know, that she hasn't told her... (170 words)

After 5 years and many hardships, she leaves. What's the best thing to do next?

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23 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - So after 5 years and many hardships when things go south and she leaves and says theres no changing her mind, you knowing you have said some mean stuff and acted in mean ways whats the best thing to do after shes gone and you desperately want another chance?... (49 words)

I like this guy but don't want to be made fun of because I like him!

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok...So this is a long dilemma that I have. Right so...I kissed this guy on a night out about 4 months ago. We were friendly, that is that we talked on nights out if we bumped into each other. Anyway that night (that we kissed) we had been flirtin with each other and I th... (300 words)

Should we get a divorce?

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been together for 6 years, since I was 14. For the first three we were completely crazy about each other. We spent everyday together. Towards the end of the 3rd year I broke up with him to date other guys before we took a step forward. I wanted to see what ... (381 words)

No control of relationship because of parents!

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so what do u do when u don't have control over your relationships because of your parents? Problem is that my mom is overly nosy and controlling. If she sees me typing on my computer or texting, she will ask who I am talking to, come up behind me to see who I'm talking to ... (733 words)

Why can't he make me orgasm?

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I have been together for 1 year 2 months and in our relationship he's made me orgasm 4 times max and that also included me stimulating myself .. What could I do to have a more satisfying sex life I want the big O too but I want him to do it to me .. Not have to help ... (93 words)

After 5 years how do I tell b/f I don't want a relationship of any kind with him!

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I tell my live-in boyfriend... of 5 years... who absolutely adores me... that I no longer want to be in a relationship - ANY relationship, not just with him but with anyone.... (34 words)

Will he still pursue you if you want more than a casual relationship?

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing this guy for 2yrs now, and we've had the talk abt our future 2gthr where does he want 2 take it from here, I've told him that I'm n love w/him and would like 4 him to b apart of my future. He says that he wants to be w/me as well. I want to know will a g... (87 words)

Me and my obsessive adopted brother....

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23 June 2009 (?) age 30-35 - me and my adopted brother are in love with each other. Is that weird? Is it considered as incest? last week, we had our first sex with each other. Its just that, i feel wrong and im scared if my parents found out. Its not easy to just end our relationship because he seems to be ... (82 words)

I feel so stupid, alone and unwanted.! Help me!

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I just found out today that a man I have been in love with for the past 3 years was dating another woman while he was flirting and playing around with me. He never promised me anything and we never spoke about monogamy but it was implied that he was too busy for a relationship ... (155 words)

Will my friend resent me if I got with her friend?

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23 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I've been interested in my best friend's (girl) best friend for a few months now. My friend said if I hurt her she'd kill me.. I would never hurt her intentionally by all means but what if things did lead to other things with this girl? Would my friend resent me? It'd just ... (99 words)

I wonder if he was a pedophile, or was it my fault...

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was 17 when it happened, I was lonely and a male teacher in his late 40s (who gave out many hugs to me and other students) started touching me a little too much. I felt a little uncomfortable at first, as his hands lingered on my waist each time he hugged me, but later I ... (198 words)

I keep falling in this cycle and I don't know what to do

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im really gonna try make this short, i was going out with this guy for about a year, we broke up + he messed me about by seeing me afterwards but sayin he doesnt 'want a relationship' but anyway, we had been broke up for about 3 months, then he came running back and it was a ... (383 words)

I need to move on and find new friends...

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need to move on and find new friends... I'm 17, and this kiddie stuff needs to stop. When they are around I get stiff and angry, and can never be positive around them because of issues in the past. My 2 old best friends are now besties but they still claim me yet we n... (145 words)

6 months after break up, move on or try again?

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I have been broken up for about 6 months now. We were together for almost 3 years. We still talk to eachother every day and hangout/hook up 1 or 2 times a week. We are comfortable with each other and talk about anything, but neither of us ever bring up our feelings ... (280 words)

What can I do about my dysfunctional personality?

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a strange situation. The first time a guy liked me [in a serious way] I felt so uncomfortable, my life was a living hell. I thought it was because he was incredibly forward and I felt I had no say or control over it. Looking back, that wasnt true. I didnt know why I felt ... (484 words)

Boat betrayal.

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My very committed boyfriend has a best friend who is another girl. They have been best friends for years and had a sexual thing once (despite her feelings for him which lasted much longer) but seem to only hangout and talk when I am not around. He stopped hanging out with her ... (294 words)

She was my best friend as well as my girlfriend but now her parents are sending her to a different school...

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so this is what happened: I am a girl and about three months ago my girlfriend and I started going out without telling anyone. Then he parents found out and her mother especially wasen't to keen on the idea of us since we're both girls. For a while we just weren't all... (248 words)

My boyfriend treats me like a doll!

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend treats me like a doll. He loves to hold me and carry me around, and he's always telling me how adorable I am. He treats me like I'm his to protect and love, like a flower he's trying to get to bloom, why do some guys do this?... (52 words)

Would it be silly to start a relationship now?

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, well I've started to become more and more attracted a guy I'm good friends with. We text each other nearly every day and I have been told he likes me, but he doesn't make any moves, except from the regular "hey, how are you doing/how's your day been? Xxx" texts. He doesn'... (171 words)

Is it wrong/silly to end a great long term relationship to be alone?

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 28 years old and I have never been single. I adore my boyfriend but I often feel like I am missing out on the time alone to learn about myself that everyone else but me seems to have had. I can never seem to make decisions about anything, I am always unsure. He tends to ... (138 words)

Is it normal for me to have doubts about our relationship?

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now, and we love each other, we lived in the same island at first, but then he went back to the states and we haven't seen each other in four months, I know we have a strong relationship, but sometimes I can't help to have ... (68 words)

Help! There MUST be a way to get him back! Suggestions?

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was with my ex for 1.5 years, and along the way I met another guy. We started talking and to make a long story short, I dumped my ex for the new guy. I still loved my ex, but I was learning to letting him go.. but I was very much in love with my new guy and boy was I happy. ... (715 words)

Do you think he could have only said no because his friends were there?????

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this guy I like but don't talk to!!! I know weird!! Anyways this weekend at the fair my bffl asked him if he liked alison (name changed) he said alison who? My friend told him and he said umm i dont know her..... Then she refreshed his memory and he's like ohh ya I know ... (128 words)

Why is he confusing me??

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Well, I am confused about his guy. I signed up for yahoo personals, and out of 160 matches, he was the only one that caught my interest. turns out, he messaged me first! i was so excited, thinking he must be interested. we exchanged 2 emails thru personals, then he told me if i ... (257 words)

I introduced them and now they're texting one another, thing is I liked him first!

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I have this best guy friend whom I love like a brother and he knows everything about me and I feel super comfortable with him, the thing is I introduced him to my best chick friend about a year ago and now she gave him her number and she won't stop texting him and now ... (113 words)

I love my boyfriend to bits so why do I keep thinking about other guys?

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Let me start by saying that I love my boyfriend more than anything in the world and I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I have been in a relationship with him for a year now and this is the only relationship I've ever been in. My problem is that I was single for so ... (104 words)

How soon can I take a home pregnancy test?

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23 June 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Ok quick question, me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex last weekend. Yes I no a big big mistake but nothing I can do about it now. Anyway, now of course I am freaked I may be pregnant! So what I want to know is how soon can I take a home pregnancy test? My period is due ... (106 words)

All we do is have sex! Is he serious about me?

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23 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Does my man really want to really get serious... all we do is have sex....... what should i do?... (19 words)

Why do I stop his advances?

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23 June 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hi! I have a friend, and he's somewhere in between a friend with (limited) benefits and a boyfriend to me. Our relationship is odd, but that's not the focus of my question. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to say this right: If ever we're kissing and it becomes heavier i... (255 words)