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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Worried about going to the pool with my boyfriend because of my weight!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so i have been with my boo for like a week now, school is done and he called me and asked if i want to go with him to the pool. but i am 13 and 210 pounds. but i look 160 pounds since im 5"5. but i am highly highly emberassed to go in the water because i have to go in my... (134 words)

My ex the baby daddy, a friend and my current boyfriend.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi cupid i recently went on a kinda date with this guy, and his personality attracted me, my little boy came along with us, well it all went well i loved the way he respected me , thing is his 46 and i'm only 27, what if he bores me or so on i've never been with anyone older ... (167 words)

Pregnant girlfriend and the sex has stopped!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Why Doesnt my girl wanna have sex with me anymore? We use to have sex constantly, but until she got pregnant and cut down on the sex extra hard. She is now 6 month or so and i have seen nothing.... (41 words)

Why does he keep looking at other girls?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - heres my problem my boyfriend keeps looking at other chicks while he's with me and its so disrespectful even thought am so good looking girl i really dont wanna ask him to stop it because i dont wanna look not confident, i was wondering if there is any other way to tell him or ... (68 words)

Who to pick? Do I split with my fiance and get with my best friend? Or do I stay with my fiance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my fiance for just over 6 and a half years now, we got engaged a year and a half ago, my whole family love him. we went through a rough patch a few monthes ago where my mum thought i was cheating on him with my best friend, but i wasn't. but now he can't seem ... (292 words)

How to spoil your man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, this time i am seeking suggestions more than answers, actually i want to learn some approaches to spoil my man, he is a really hard worker, and he deserves to be appreciated for that.. what am asking for here, is not a one romantic night to spend together, i want to ... (77 words)

How can we make sex more pleasurable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been having sex for over 7 months quite a number of times and I have never reached an orgasm and feel limited pleasure. When I do feel pleasure my boyfriend says he wants me to try and let out noises because he says it would be a turn on for him, but I ... (112 words)

I find it difficult to show pleasure when we have sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys When I'm having sex/any foreplay I find it really difficult to show that I'm feeling pleasure from what he's doing. I feel really really awkward especially if he's watching me. I usually don't show it even if I feel pleasure. I have no idea why this is and it's not... (99 words)

I want to do something for my teacher... but what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

25 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help people!!! I'm in love with my special needs teacher, this has been going on for a while now. And I just graduated from high school, She is soooo incredibly sexy! And so nice to me. When we first met we didn't get along very well, but then a year later we had a 1 on ... (154 words)

Are there any tips on trying to get over someone quickly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a crush on someone, she is so beautiful and every time I see her I get butterflies in my stomach. I don't know if I love her or not because I don't know what love feels like. I added her as a friend on facebook and she added me back but she has a boyfriend. i messaged ... (158 words)

Decisions decisions... go back with the ex or stay with my current boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so i have a difficult decision, go back to my ex or stay with my current bf? Ive been with this guy for about 2 weeks and hes really sweet and all but now my ex has told me he wants me back and i want him so bad now. Last time we spilt up because he was a player and i felt ... (80 words)

She's really pissed off at me! Was my joke a bit harsh?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Kay my friend is going to sound like a skank but please dont trash her cause I will report you!! Well my friend decided to cheat on her boyfriend for some reason with some random guy she met at a party. They had sex without using anything. She then missed her period twice. Sh... (158 words)

Is he flirting, cheating or am I insane?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it my imagination? Hi all, hope you're well. I recently split with my boyfriend of 5 years-hes not been much of a boyfriend since for the last 4 years its been too much to even give me a hug-we've been more like flatmates really and ive helped him out so much financia... (231 words)

Boyfriend trouble, confused... do I still have love for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing this guy for 2 years now and it's been good, he's soon to be divorced, encourages me in lot's of ways, I left my job to follow my dreams and his still standing by me, he has 3 kids, 2 with the ex wife and 1 before her time, I'm so scared I'm losing touch with ... (151 words)

I wish I hadn't gotten in touch again, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was dating a guy for 3 years and we broke up. We didn't speak for 3 months and I emailed him last week and he responded briefly. After that I saw in a couple of times in work and he wouldn't look at me or say hello. I got upset and sent him an email that I needed to move ... (88 words)

How can I get my life back on track?

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25 June 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm nineteen years old, when I was twelve i fell in love with a wonderful girl, it was a whirlwind romance and I as convinced she, delicate and beautiful as she was, was the one diamond love of my life, and we wed at sixteen it was magical and wonderful, unfortunately she ... (201 words)

I always feel as if I need to pee when I have sex... why is this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I had sex 1 month into our relationship and we were both virgins. It really hurt the first time but we didn't use any foreplay and I was pretty nervous so I think these are the main reasons. We have now been going out for over 8 months now and even with ... (114 words)

She mentions her ex too often for comfort...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

25 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife sometimes mentions her ex's name for whatever reason and also uses his name for passwords, usernames, etc. She says it because it's easy for her to remember; but I think it's for another reason. I haven't been snooping but I just know. Makes me think that she's not ... (147 words)

Does any one know of any free chat rooms?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Wanting to meet a nice guy aged from 20 to 23 in adelaide any tips or advice. Does anyone know of a free chat service?... (25 words)

I can't take this constant abuse. If anything goes wrong its suddenly MY fault!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I can't take the blaming anymore. Ive been dating a man for over a year and everything that goes wrong, every insecurity he has is somehow a result of something I've done. If his boss doesn't return a call to him, it's because of me. If someone looks at me as he and I walk ... (763 words)

My child's father want's me back after he ran off with another women and got married.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there i need some advice , my kid is 7 years old i'm in a relationship with someone else not his dad, thing is my boyfriend and i have both been very busy with studies spent very little time together. My childs father is now married to his sugar mama he messed around with ... (177 words)

How can he let everything go so easily when hes my world?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid i have a problem, i have been trying to work things out with my ex boyfriend for a year and a half. we have just been on and off. he was my best friend for two years and romantic for the last year and a half so about four years he has been my world. we just decided ... (140 words)

Is it possible to have a low sperm count at 18?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - can you have a low sperm count a the age 18... (11 words)

Why does she act this way... does she like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

25 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - There is a girl at the hospital where my mum goes for kidney dialysis she keeps looking at me and looking away when i look back does she like me? But when i walk past her she doesnt look at me she only looks at me from a distance. Does she like me? thanks ... (60 words)

I'm 38 and hes 24. Is this going to work in the long term?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Okay so I'm a young 38 (very active) and my boyfriend is 24 (active as well) honestly, what are the chances of things working out long-term with such a huge age difference? We are exactly the same - we joke about it often, and sometimes if I have to be honest he is more mature ... (103 words)

I'm 14 and he's in his 40's but I have really strong feelings for him...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyyah Everyone,, I need help i have started ti feel really strong for some 1 in there 40s since i have been talking to him i cant get him of my mind and i find him so amazing id love to just be with him. although he lives quite far away id love to go meet him how do i react... (94 words)

I'm so tired of fighting...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so there is this boy that I have been with for the past three years, on and off. We have broken up numerous times over little things but we never stay broken up for more than a day or two, if it gets a little more serious then maybe a week. I am just so tired of the fighting ... (145 words)

think she likes me, but I felt that she rejected me and I told her that (indirectly) and how I feel. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, here's my story. I met this girl in uni six months ago, and soon after started liking her as possibly more than a friend. After easter things happened quickly (her attitude towards me changed, we saw more of each other, she cooked a meal for me [admittedly not a dinner ... (146 words)

Husband left me for a younger woman. Will it work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age - i was married for 24 years and the first of the year my husband left me for a younger woman. He is 50 and she is 19 and illegal to top it off over 6 months pregnant. Does not take a rocket scientist to figure out the he was sleeping with the both of us at the same time. I hear ... (151 words)

How do I know if I'm bi???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 years old and never ever had a relationship before. I love chasing after guys but think I'm starting to like a friend of mine (she) is cute funny and bi How do I know if I'm bi too2?... (43 words)

I need to know how he's feeling so that I can stay with him or just move on.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy since September of last year. If we aren't around each other, then we're always on the phone at least 3-5 times a day everyday. We've have been going strong since we've met. I was also 3 months pregnant, by him, but I lost the baby a couple of weeks ... (399 words)

I feel so lonely in this relationship. Help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hi i'm involved with this very nice guy,he's 55,he looks out for me financially,we have no problem with our sex life it's just that he's really caught up with his family and businness affairs,i feel very lonely especially at nights due to the fact that he never sleeps ov only ... (146 words)

18th birthday plans have been cancelled and I feel very let down. What can I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my 18th birthday is coming up soon. previously i had been looking forward to spending time with my entire family as some of my other family members live overseas. unfortunately, my trip got cancelled and i was devastated as i was really looking forward to a good holiday break ... (219 words)

I only ejaculate during foreplay, any tips on how I can during intercourse too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I cant ejaculate during sex. i love my girlfriend very much, and find her really attractive and sexy and she turns me on, when we are stimulating each other and she uses her mouth or hands i get aroused and ejaculate no problem, however during sex it feels amazing but i just do ... (67 words)

34DD and breasts are still growing, when are they likely to stop?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

25 June 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hi. This is kind of an odd dilemma, but please bear with me. I'm nearly 15 and 5 months, and I wear a 34DD bra. I think I've outgrown them already. What do I do after that? When will my breasts stop growing? I'm really getting sick of this! I don't know if it helps, but I'... (83 words)

Should I give her another message to let her know how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

25 June 2009 (M)

7 years apart. I didn't know, why did he do that to me?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - We're both in college and we liked each other, he found out i was older than him before I found out he is that much younger....so we kinda talked at the end of the quarter, he was not looking at me when he asked me how old i am, then i told him and he asks do u know how old i ... (118 words)

Is it dafe for her to come off the pill after unprotected sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

25 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend wants to get off her birth control pill becuase she is not happy with the weight gain that came with it. She's currently on YAZ. She's been on it for over a year and a half now. The problem is that she was planning to stop taking it when her pack runs out ne... (137 words)

I thought he had changed but he's doing it again! Am I a fool to think he'll change?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Advice needed please (would be interested to hear a male perspective too) - my bf and I have been together 8 years. Last year, I found out he was posting on adult dating sites, sending/receiving explicit texts (including photos!) to adult text services, and telling a female ... (479 words)

Are relationships with strippers doomed to fail?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

25 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Why don't relationships with strippers work? Are they doomed to fail? The females that are caught in the stripper life are caught in the life. A life style of low self esteem and constant admiration. A life style of free drugs and alcohol. A life style of fast money and f... (1047 words)

How do I get my ex to go away? He keeps texting me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Please help. My xbf is still txting me after I have ask him to have NO contact with me. He has sent question marks ??? and comments. They are not really threatening but I dont know what to do. I dont want to change my number or not have txt because he live very close by an... (301 words)

Pregnancy test came back negative but I'm still late, what else could be the reason behind this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im a week late for my period and i took a pregnancy test yesterday and it came back negative my boyfriend and i are always careful and responsible and we havnt had any problems with our contraception im starting to get worried now but surely if the test was negative i ... (79 words)

Are bachelor/bachelorette parties wrong for our situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so my BF and I are thinking about getting married and the topic of the infamous bachealor/bachealorette party has come up. Something I should tell you is that my BF and I have been together for about 6 years now and we were teenagers when we started dating. He cheated in the ... (160 words)

I walked away but did I do the right thing? He keeps begging me to come back...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice. I recently left my fiance of 3yrs and called off our wedding that was in 2months. I have posted other questions regarding the breakup however I need some help with this one. My ex keeps calling and begging for me to come back and when I tell him that im not ... (291 words)

She told the guy I love that I'm getting married but it's not true. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my best friend told the person that i love am getting married this summer and its not true and he hasnt spoken to me since then until yesterday he sent me a message saying : congratulations for marriage and wished me happiness , i have no idea what to do now , am surprised ... (65 words)

We're drifting apart, I'm contemplating divorce, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

25 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 2 years and with my spouse all together for 3 years. I have a child from a previous relationship that I took sole custody of. She has a daughter from a previous marriage. The first year that we were together was amazing. We were completely head over ... (248 words)

Don't have many friends and feeling lonely, need advice on how to approach more people!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - recently i've been feeling very lonely. i feel like the only person i can hang around with is my boyfriend, not because he's too protective but because i don't have many friends. the popular girls in my school get on with me, but just as friends, not best mates, so i don't kn... (221 words)

Where do I stand with this guy? Are we good friends or something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in relationship limbo right now. so there is this guy that i work with and were always together we have lunch go on breaks and even hang out every day after work. we have been friends like this for about a year now, at work he get alot of crap because im the ceo's grand ... (190 words)

Are these common symptoms of pregnancy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i have been ttc with my partner for the past couple of months. Last month was first time we started trying and i ended up missing a period but getting negative tests and my period came three weeks late so i put it down to wishful hoping or worrying about it even though i ... (252 words)

He thinks I'm pushing him away but I'm not!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my friend haven't been getting along for quite a long time now. Its mainly due to the fact that she puts me down a lot. I'm not exactly one of the most confident of people but she really makes me feel horrible. A couple of days ago we had our leaver's prom. She was ... (216 words)

I've been denying my sexuality for years and I'm very depressed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I THINK I'm gay and I don't want to be. This is causing me mega problems and I think it's at the root of the depression I've suffered for years. I've felt like this since I was around 13. I've had counselling, seen a psychiatrist and been prescribed anti-depressants... (254 words)

She says she's going away for work and won't have time to call me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend had to travel for work. She claims she thinks she will be to busy to call. Does this sound strange to anyone? She called when she landed, to let me know she made it ok. She returned my text when I ask her a question, but when I text her to say good night which I ... (125 words)

Its been 9 months! Why won't she introduce me to her family?

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25 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Me and My GF have been together for 9 months, we along fine, except when I bring up the subject of meeting her family. Her dad isn't around so It's basically her mom, Brother, Sister and cousins. She lives on her own so I never get to go to her family's place. They live in ... (214 words)

Why can she do things with others but not with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - my wife recently got drunk at a party we went to and let another man touch her boobs and take them out of her bra. all this things she has never allowed me to do even when she has got drunk when she is just with me. the lust which i could see in her eyes on that day from the ... (344 words)

I know I wasn't always the best boyfriend but I want her back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i dated this girl for about four years, and as with any relationship we had our ups and downs. this girl ment the world to me i was a very boring person untill i met this girl, she took me out of the country on vacation for my first time ever and she would set things up that iv ... (423 words)

I want to date but I think the past is getting in the way

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a 23 years old male virgin. At a young age i was sexually abused by a former class mate in middle school. I've had depression, anxiety and lack of confidence as long as i can remember. After high school these symptoms got extremely severe and my close friends and family ... (159 words)

Online guy now wants to meet me and I'm afraid because of my weight!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy on a dating website, we exchanged pictures, emails etc its still early days but he wants to meet up for a drink the only problem is hes a personal trainer....and well im a curvy girl who doesnt exercise and doesn really watch what i eat....im so scared he will ... (136 words)

We used to do everything together but now that we are living together, there's nothing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been dating someone for 3 1/2 years about a year ago we started living together. We use to do everything together - now we sit at opposite ends of the couch and not even speak - if we do go out its with friends even if i request to do something on our own- while were out ... (135 words)

They always left me out and now we're meeting again..what do I do?

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25 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When i was younger through childhood to about 13-14 i always felt left out when me and my two sisters would meet my cousins (two girls) ... all roughly similar ages but i am the youngest. Everytime we saw them i was left out and felt soo horrid one of my sisters sometimes took ... (154 words)

Why does she keep calling me her best friend when we hardly see each other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, early 2005 I used to talk to a girl (lets call her kim) on msn and we would txt each other all the time and she said that I was her best friend. At the time I really liked her but never told her. When ever we were out with friends she would always remind them that we were ... (667 words)

Not very talkative with others. Do I come across as boring?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have had confidence all my life. I've never really been able to build a relationship with anyone. From my point of veiw, I've always felt that people have just put me down, including teachers. I went to a religious primary school, and a lot of the teachers there were always ... (172 words)

He doesn't mind pleasuring me on my period!!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When I'm on my period, I feel digusting and fat and yucky even if I'm not and some of the time I totally do not feel like having sex. But my boyfriend insists he pleasures me orally and I'm suprised he doesn't find it disgusting that I'm on my period at that time. I know he... (87 words)

Pornorgraphy against Religion!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm having trouble with my boyfriend watching porn. Sometimes when i can't satisfy him myself he wants to watch porn... I feel like he's cheating on me when he does this because he's looking at other women (prettier than me might I add) and it hurts so bad... if he really l... (114 words)

I need a free porn blocker!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) age 41-50 - my brother(35) using porn websites on my 10 years sister computer is there any free porn blocker on the internet. i fought with my brother over it.hes just a **** about it. He says it was none of my business and he got vicious with me ... (50 words)

I met her online and now I want to take it to the next step

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. I met a girl online through a gaming instant messenger. At first it was just like talking to anyone else but actually spoke about stuff and our conversations were long. She gave me her MSN addy and for more than a month we've spoken almost everyday for several hours (a... (267 words)

Had affairs and now I'm in trouble!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello, I just registered on this site and I find this site very interesting with lots of good advice. Well, this is my story. I really love my wife, I love my children and my home. I recently shifted to another Ministry and I am presently having an affair with a woman working ... (260 words)

Does he really love me in all this big mess?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend just jumped me for my best friend. He says she led him on and that he loves her buh he also loves me. He said he can not lie about it and hurt me any more than he already has and that he'd rather be honest wit me :( She told him she could never be with him and ... (288 words)

How do I know if this is what love should feel like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) age 36-40 - my bf and i have been going out for three years and i know that i love and care about him and i miss him when we're not together, he is my best friend--but i sometimes wonder if i feel the way i should about him and sometimes even wonder if he's really the one i should spend ... (108 words)

She didn't tell me she cheated but says I should just "let it go" and I can't!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

25 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - so, i just found out by looking through my friends phone that my fiancee of just over 2 years had made out with her "best friend" an ex bf i might add. When i called her out on it she said she was going to tell me "eventually" and said it was only 5-10 seconds long and then she ... (359 words)

Cooking and romance!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (M)

- hey just need a quick peice of advice i have relised that i have never cooked for my girlfriend and it is something i would like to do for her, she likes ittalian food. but how could i turn a night to cook for her into a romantic setting. i realy want to show that i hav... (74 words)

Is he expecting sex just because we're in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

25 June 2009 (F)

- Today my bf and I started talking about each others relationship and sexual past, i.e. how many relationships we have been in, why they ended, how many sexual partners etc...Me and my bf havent had sex. He knows that I woudlnt just sleep with anyone and have only had one sex... (321 words)

How do I get more than "yes" and "no" answers out of him?

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25 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my boyfriend are both pretty shy people. He hasn't had a serious girlfriend before me, so I'm not sure if he just doesn't know what to do, or if he's just really shy, but he wont talk to me properly. We're both not talk-on-the-phone type people, we prefer face to f... (322 words)

Second year anniversary of my first love leaving me. Today hurts. Is it just a case of allowing more time for my wounds to heal?

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25 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello all Aunts. This is Andy00 and today is the 2nd anniversary of my heartbreak. In the days leading up to this, my first love has been on my mind more and more with every day that passes. I'm so much stronger than I was a year ago, and I'm a mountain compared to what... (495 words)

Foreskin is too tight! Should I get circumcised?

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25 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 25 year old man. I have not had sex till now. I have problem with my foreskin. Its tight and I can't pull it when I'm erect. I can pull my foreskin if I'm not erect. I have observed that my foreskin is attached to the tip of the penis and hence causes pain when I try to ... (77 words)

I've never had a boyfriend and I'm scared

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25 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - please someone help me this guy asked me out and i said yes we never actually went out or hung out so i felt like it was pointless but i really do like him.then i told him that its useless and now its really awekward between us he keeps saying his bumed about me breaking ... (288 words)

Should I try talking to the girl that broke my heart? Or move on?

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25 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I found someone that I had tried to forget long ago on a dating/chat website that I roam, When I saw a picture I clicked it thinking hey she is kind of cute, then when it popped up full scale my heart skipped a beat as it clicked and I looked at the users name to have it ... (271 words)

Is it normal to miss her so quickly?

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25 June 2009 (M)

- Hi I have been with this girl now for a couple of months, and I was wondering is it right that I miss her even after an hour of saying bye?... (31 words)

My BF left after an innocent misunderstanding? How do I make him trust me?

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25 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me in my BF been together for 7 years now we have a little girl and all but lately things have been really bad. We don't go out we are always arguing and tonight I was updating my face book status and one of my co workers must have seen that I was still awake from seeing when I ... (157 words)

I think my GF might be playing games with me, what to do?

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25 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello there, I've been with my girlfriend for around a month or two. I really like her and she is different to the other girlfriends i've been with before. I have two questions sort of so here goes. She has boys texting her 24/7 saying they think she would be a good shag, ... (372 words)

Is she lying when she says my premature ejaculation doesn't bother her?

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25 June 2009 (M)

- hi I am wondering if this problem I think I may have is normal. And why I think I may bring my relationship to an end. When having sex with my partner I feel as though I ejaculate to soon (sometimes less than a minute, some times less than five) however I have discusse... (128 words)

Do I have a right to feel frustrated at my GFs attack?

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25 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Sometimes accidents happen, and I appreciate that. however, I am not sure if I am over-reacting or perhaps not the man I thought I was which is generally just your average bloke. About 9 months ago my girlfriend attacked me as I forgot to bring home a lemon for her salmon. ... (212 words)

He cheated, I cheated, how do I make him realise it was a mistake and get this to work?

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25 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont know what to do. my boyfriend and i broke up almost 2 months ago. we've been together since high school for about 51/2 yrs. and have a 3yr. old son. we love each other vary much but because we live on a vary sm. island, we have gotten ourselves caught up in alot of ... (336 words)

My BF wants to have sex, but I don't think either of us are ready.

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25 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well hi. So me and my boyfriend have been dating for a couple weeks now and I really like him. He likes to move really fast and I am fine with that you know. But now he is bugging me about going all the way and I'm ready but I am not so sure he is. He tells me he is, but when... (136 words)

My fiancée has no enthusiasm for planning our wedding, should I end it?

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25 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I feel like I may be acting stupid, but, I have been with my lady for over 2 years and we have been engaged for 6 months and have been living together for 3 months. I thought when a couple gets engaged that they begin to plan the wedding, also, I figured, in my mind, that the ... (197 words)

How to let someone know you're not interested before they make a move?

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25 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you tell someone you're not interested in them if you don't know if they are interested in you but they seem to be...arghhh! This guy who works in a coffee shop next to my work added me on Facebook. I’ve said hello to him and sometimes chatted politely but that’s all. ... (233 words)

17 year old daily marijuana smoker - will I grow anymore?

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25 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to know if I'm going to grow I'm 17 and my mom is around 5'7 and my dads like 6'1 I'm 5'10 but my brother seemed to get to 6'1 just like my father I want to know if I'm going to grow at least to 6'0 I have went trough puberty and I'm not a late bloomer .. I think I'm ... (198 words)

Why do I think about leaving and being with other guys if I love him?

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25 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 22 years old, and have been dating the same guy now since I was 17. We have broken up twice and within the breaks I dated other guys. I am not sure if I should stay with this guy and get married or give myself more time. I tend to think about other guys, being ... (191 words)

I planned to wait to have sex with my BF, should I just give in?

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25 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I have officially only been dating for about two months. Although it seems so much longer since we are so close emotionally. We are really into each other. Problem is he wants sex so bad. I know that it's not because that's all he wants from me but because ... (260 words)

Dating for a year, but find her less attractive?

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25 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear People I've been dating a woman for 1 year. I love her very much, and I find her extremely attractive. But recently I feel less sexually motivated and I can't determine why. Its like, I don't feel like it, or when we do it, I feel like I'm in space. So detach... (145 words)

What does losing the spark mean?

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25 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - What does "I don't see the spark on us anymore" mean? Me and my ex-gf just broke up, I love her wiht all my heart and when we were talking about it she said to me "I don't feel the spark anymore, its not the same as the first time we met." "I still like you a lot, but i just ... (340 words)

The ex g/f shows me that he's not good for me, but ...

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25 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a smart, intelligent young woman and currently doing a degree in Medicine, I know I am beautiful because I get lots of compliments from both guys and ladies. I do not have any problem attracting guys but I'm so stuck on a particular guy that has no regards for me. I st... (439 words)

Can this relationship work even though he slept with his sister?

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25 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together since the seventh grade. We will be entering tenth grade in the fall. When I first saw him, I was head over heels. I did everything to get his attention, and then one day, he sat beside me in class and passed me a note saying, you look... (342 words)

What kind of communication should I resume with her?

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25 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I dated a wonderful and amazing girl who I met while she was on exchange at my graduate school in the United States. We dated the entire school year, over the summer (although 2/3 of it was long distance), while I studied for one semester in the European country she is from, ... (733 words)

Any tips on how to get my boyfriend to initiate sex?

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25 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm tired of being the one who has to start fooling around with my boyfriend in order for us to end up having sex. He never tries to start anything and I'm tired of being the only one. Does anyone have any ideas as to how I can get him to start?... (52 words)

Is she just trying to make me jealous and piss me off?

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25 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex girlfriend is dating a good friend of mine 2 weeks after I broke up with her. Why? She told me she loved me first, and I told her otherwise untill about a week later. I broke up with her because I was afraid She was going to break up with me. The next day I was really ... (407 words)

How common are these "dating rules"?

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25 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a general question about dating. I am 39, originally from Ukraine, and have been living in US for the past 13 years. Where I grew up (or at least at the time I was dating back there) there was no concept of becoming exclusive with someone you’re dating. People generall... (398 words)

I need encouragement about my LDR!

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25 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm currently 16, turning 17 in two weeks, so in essence i can be referred to as 17 in this. I just visited my long-distance relationship girlfriend, for the first time ever, and we've been dating for a year and a half. I love her with all my heart, and i know she's the g... (574 words)

Do you believe we were treated unfairly? Severe problems from bullying...

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25 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16, i used to go to this site for comfort that i wasn't alone whilst getting bullied when i was 13. I was severely bullied in 2005 which resulted in me being hospitalised in early 2006. I was bullied cyberally, mentally and emotionally. The school had definately turned a ... (398 words)

We are married but she still wont have sex!

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25 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and me have been married for 2 months now. Everything is great but we never had sex in our relationship. She's a virgin but im not. When we were dating she didn't want to do anything sexual besides kissing until marriage. It didn't bother me that much. I thought we ... (104 words)

Free Mental Health Centers or Help?

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25 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was curious if anybody knew of any centers where I would be able to get help for free or at least minimal costs in the U.S.? I've been going through a lot in my personal life (laid off from my job, my boyfriend disappeared, huge debt) and I really think that I'm depressed ... (122 words)

He is getting married and he won't leave me alone!

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25 June 2009 (F) age 41-50 - I have a big problem. I have worked at my job for almost 10 years. Up until 2007, I had never dated anybody that I worked with, because I was not interested and I don't think its a good ideal. Most people that tried to talk to me were up to no good anyway and I've always tried ... (544 words)

Overprotective parents and Sex

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25 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so. Me and my boyfriend are almost 18. We have been dating for the longest time and I can say I have never felt like this before and I love him. But we have one (or two) problems. Overprotective parents. We both still live with our parent and I can say we have not had an ... (198 words)

British invasion in my head!

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25 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I might be going mental! Ever since the Harry Potter series came to the US when I was only eight, I've been completely obsessed with not only the series and with my ultimate goal to move to England before I hit age twenty-five, but also with the entire British culture. ... (122 words)

I don't feel like I used to feel about her

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25 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all, First the background. I've been dating my g/f for about ten months now so we are pretty serious, firstly I asked her out but as she'd been hurt before she said no and just wanted to remain friends, but the fact I actaully did stay m8s with her and didnt just go lo... (287 words)

He says he's too big

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25 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend tried having sex for the first time except it didnt work. hes trying to tell me his dick is to big for my hole. i dont believe him. should i? im also afraid after haveing sex for the first time our relationship will change. what are your ideas about thes... (66 words)

I'm afraid my anger may take a toll on the marriage. Can I change this?

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25 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a huge problem, I'm 21 years old and have been married to my husband for almost 4 years but it seems like all we do is argue. I will get mad at the smallest things and it'll cause a huge fight and we say hurtful things. I don't know what to do or why I get mad so easily. ... (124 words)

He proposed to me but every time we break up he has sex with his ex! Is marriage a good idea?

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25 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I would like and advice. I have been dating the father of my child since 06, we have brocken up couple of time, and everytime we have brocken up he ends up hooking up (having sex/having sexual activities) with one of his ex from high school. (2x's that i know off 1x was his ... (104 words)

How do I get over him for good?

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25 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Any ideas on what else I can do? Basically, I was in love with a guy after 2 years who I have been intimate with but we are currently not seeing each other. Actually, he only talks to me in regards to sex and in the last 2 years, I have seen him with 4 different women ... (168 words)

Have I been played? I feel like she's stringing me along...

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25 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Have I been played? Hi all. I've been talking to a girl over the internet for the past month or so. It started off really well. We seemed to have a lot in common with each other and really on the same page. After a while, and it didn't take very long for me to decide that I... (247 words)

We are both married but realize we are meant to be together! How should I proceed?

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25 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am currently NOT HAPPILY married because we are not compatible...big mistake to get married too soon...Just recently I was contacted by someone that met me 15 years ago and thought I was THE ONE...and had tried to get to know me more but my parents didn't allow me then to ... (302 words)

I am wanting opinions from people! Should our relationship be kept secret?

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25 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 16 and my girlfriend is 13. We've been together for around 4 months but we've known each other for years. She's really mature for her age and I must say she's f*****g Beautiful! I've known that she's liked me quite a lot for a long time but i've never really been ... (367 words)

I'm worried about not getting my period! I'm late but I'm also a virgin.

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25 June 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I keep having "the feeling" i'm gonna get my period, but I don't..and it's 9 days late I think. Btw I am a virgin. And maybe it's a little cramps, but it's just the feeling I have when I have period but I don't have it so I'm worried..?... (49 words)