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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I get my BFF to place a restraining order against her lying, cheating, woman beating boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so my best friend from college called me at 3am crying because of her boyfriend was beating her up.. i had noticed a swollen lip and couple bruces in march.. she game me excuses okay what ev she dont wann tell me what ev... but now she told me and shes fed up with her... (199 words)

Ideal weight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

14 June 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - what is the ideal weight for a 13 year old boy who's height is 5.8?? thanks for your help.... (19 words)

Is he tactfully trying to dump me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been hooking up with this guy friend of mine for 2 years. We met through mutual friends. Aat the time we met we were both going through relationship problems. He had just got a divorce and I had just moved out of my ex boyfriend's house. Well he recently took away the ... (95 words)

I'm afraid that I'm going to like him too much and I'm worried.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy in Italy on New Year Eve, we kissed and nothing else happened. We met again in February and we kissed again and I spent a few days with him, getting to know each other, hanging out etc. We decided that we'd like to see each other again. I went home(to Ireland) and ... (201 words)

16 and pregnant! He says he's not the father!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) age 30-35 - hi,ive been with my boyfriend since we were twelve years old. we are childhood friends. our parents always use to joke about us getting married when we were older. who know he would actually be the guy to make me fall inlove? he's generally a major sweetheart, he bought me... (186 words)

I need help to try and forget about a guy.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help to try and forget about a guy. Hes come into my life on and off for the last 5.5 years, and its always the same, hes really nice, we have a couple of dates then we sleep together and then he cools off and then i don't hear from him for ages and then he gets in touch ... (297 words)

Should I pursue my long distance boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

14 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Simple question! Should I pursue my long distance boyfriend? I love him. He is with someone else though? Should I pursue him?... (22 words)

Should I tell him about my past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I wrote in my other question about how i got raped by my bro in law and my sister chose him over me. And i asked whether if i was right or my sister was. But this time ive got another problem. I am gettin into a serious relationship about who my family knows about and is happy ... (114 words)

In love with my best friend but can't help it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

14 June 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I'm in love with my best friend and i cant help it. I want to tell him but I dont want to ruin our friendship. He is the perfect guy for me, he's funny, smart, cute, romantic and well perfect for me. He's constantly flirting with me, hugging me and sometimes kissing me and ... (119 words)

I don't trust her when she goes out with her mates.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello there, I'm currently in a relationship with this girl (for almost a year now.) She is really outgoing and a mostly a nice person. But she likes to go out a lot, with her 'girlfriends'. This bothers me somewhat, because all sorts of guys are hanging out with them, ... (181 words)

I "know" I'm gay but I don't want to go out with a gay guy, I only seem to like straight guys!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

14 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Never Thought of asking this on here before but it's now or never, Why do I "not" like gay guys? I think of them and I think to myself never in my life would I go after that, but here's the thing... I'm gay!!! And in the past I've only ever liked 3 guys, both of them straight... (64 words)

A love saga... please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I started dating this guy casually. We werent exclusive but despite neither one of us wanting to be in a relationship, we became close. He told me he loved me. 7 months in I find out he is living with a girl who has just had his baby!!! Apparently it was the result of a flin... (212 words)

Best friends fallen out of love with her husband.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My best friend and her husband are going through a rocky time. Married for over twenty years and she is not in love with her husband anymore. But they have been in an open relationship for the last few years. Both of them seeing other people occasionally. It was his idea to ... (180 words)

I want an older boy in my life, is this a good idea?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hey x Im in pickle.. i really want a boy in my life. I want a boyfriend. I hate all the boys in my year and want to get to know new boys a bit older. How? I have made friends with a popular girl who knows boys in higher years. Is this a good idea. What can I do? Any tips?... (67 words)

He's divorced but still lives in the same house with her and wants to stay over with me sometimes... I don't feel it's right. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, I have had a good friend for almost 14 years and we have dated off and on until the last seven years. we went our separate ways and he got married and had a family with someone else and so did I. So now i am separated getting divorced. he is divorced but still li... (204 words)

I don't know why it hurts, I shouldn't even be bothered

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi im not sure why this bothers me my ex who i split with a while ago used to work at the same company as me. whilst we were there, there was several people who he would bitch about and say he hated etc etc. the other day one of my closest friends who is in contact with... (124 words)

Why does he keep blocking me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok my problem is that i dated this guy (have sex and everything) but after that we only see eachother at school. We are cool, I know that nothing else is going to happen so we treat eachother like another classmate. But now he keeps blocking me in his MSN. If he doesnt want to ... (126 words)

Fallen for a female teacher, does she feel the same way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well Basicli im 14 and female and i think im in love with my english teacher who also is female and 9 years older then me . i started having feelings for her since december and ever since then i cant stop thinking about her ..and i do talk to her in school alot about life ... (306 words)

I wish someone would come into my life and give me some hope...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm so lonely that i cry about it most days. I'm recovering from a relationship where ive been messed around and had my heart absolutely crushed to pieces. I spilt up with my boyfriend 9 months ago after 3 years on and off. I've waited for him, havent been with anyone else ... (280 words)

Haven't met yet in a year and I'm feeling insecure.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hey guys, well me and this girl have been dating over the phone for a year now and we havent met because she has trust and insecurity issues. Her last relationship was unhealthy with her ex abusing her sexually, physically and cheated on her as well, so i didnt want to ... (362 words)

Is this an eating disorder?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im going to be completely honest because i genuially want to know what's wrong with me. I think i may have an eating disorder. Do i? I am 10 and half stone, 5ft 7inches and generally im not very happy with my image, theres quite a few things id change if im honest but these... (269 words)

Do I really need a man or will I be lonely?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age - Hi Need some advice. Am mid 50's and had a boyfriend for over 4 years - we were happy and got engaged but then the last two years not been great. I work full time, he is retired and I have a very busy life, and find I do not have a lot of time to give him. He is getting ... (150 words)

Should I go out with Hali even if it hurts Haley?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - okay so i broke up with my girlfriend. she couldnt stop doing things that were messin up her life. and i didnt feel like takin care of her anymore. so after breakin up with my girlfriend i got my friend Hali back. which is great. me and hali are very close now. i really like ... (143 words)

Losing my best friend and could use some comfort... Please help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, well this is a stupid question really and most of you will think im mad, but im really upset about it. The thing is, my horse has been sold, and hes going in 2 weeks. I know its crazy but I really love he and we have been together for 5 years now and we have such a strong ... (418 words)

He loves me..he loves me not..he loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i met this guy 3 years in october he keeped telling me that hes in love with me and then out of the blue he told me that he wasnt in love with me anymore and that he loves me deep down what should i do ... (46 words)

I'm not cheating but he's accusing me of it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ive been with my boyfriend for 2 yrs and we are both very very insecure, i dont accuse him of cheating on me but he thinks that i am because i am always working and working for long long hours and sometimes even 6 days a week, we dont live together so i only see him on my days ... (113 words)

When I hug him I smile, am I leading him on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so a few days ago I started talking to this boy who goes to my school, although he's in year 11 so he has finished his exams and left. We get on extremely well, and he asked to hang out yesterday, so I said yes. I think he likes me, as he kept poking me and hugging me, ... (162 words)

Should I give up my career aspirations for a girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I want to be an actor, and, as I'm sure you know,that is a career choice that takes A LOT of hard work and dedication. Plus, I'd have to move to a big city like New York of California. But the girl I'm in love with doesn't want to leave Florida(where we currently live),an... (165 words)

On her birthday while having sex I called her by another girls name!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

14 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend (of 2 years) and me were making love. I called her by the wrong name by mistake. She really mad at me and than she started crying and storm off. I've been calling her like crazy with no answer and went to her place but her roommate told me she doesn't want to talk ... (93 words)

How can I help my son?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age - Hi, strange as it may seem, Im after some help for my teenage son. To cut a long story short, hes known a girl for just over a year, they got engaged, broke up, engagement off, got back together, then lost a baby, broke up, got back together. this has been going on for the ... (237 words)

Absence makes the heart grow fonder? Or find another?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I've been dating this guy for about a month and a half now. (Since the beginning of May) I'm 16 and he's 19. Were taking things slow, we aren't official yet.. I wouldn't say its a long distance relationship, but I live about an hour away from him by tube. He's fro... (390 words)

Is he emotionally mature enough for sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been best friends with this guy for the last couple years, and we have an amazing friendship. Lately we've started blurring the line of friendship however, and we've entered "Friends with benefits" territory. We're both okay with this, because we have a good foundation ... (364 words)

My boyfriends ex is using his baby to blackmail him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been together for 9 months now. i was happy with him until his baby's mother or his ex started bothering us, especially me. she is like a crazy stalker. she calls my cell phone and left 15 missed calls. she called my parents phone and talked to my ... (342 words)

She doesn't know that I love her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

14 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My best friend and I are three years apart. She's 21 while I'm 24. We've known each other for seven years now, and we're literally closer than family. She has problems with self-harm and depression, she has BPD, mild bipolar and chronic insomnia. No one knows she has all that ... (820 words)

How likely is it that she could be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I had sex with my girlfriend last weekend 3 times, she has been on birth control for 4 months, but didnt take the pill the day before or the day of, also, she drank the night before(idk if that matters), and i pulled out all three times but the third time i got a small amount ... (108 words)

Together for 3 years and still no sex, what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

14 June 2009 (?) age 36-40 - So I have been dating a girl for almost 3 years. From day one she was against oral sex, which is fine. But I believed that after dating for a while she would be willing to have sex....3 years later an this has not happened yet. Basically, I am living an asexual life because I ... (138 words)

"I think we should just be friends"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - what does it means if you been with your girlfriend for about 3 weeks, and you telll her good morning everyday, and compliment her everychance you get,but barely get to see her because there's always an excuse, and she calls you up and say "I think we should just be friends, ... (58 words)

Deal with our issues? Or stay broken up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

14 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my bf of four years and am now strugling and FREAKING out over whether it was the right decision. Would really appreciate some perspective away from my emotion. This was the deal... gay, together for five years, great loving relationship, living together,... (292 words)

Does she finally like me, or are we just becoming good friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - At the beginning of the school year, I was coming off of some very difficult situations and was emotionally clingy and needy. I had just spent 2 years in homeschooling and was virtually inept in social situations. And I fell in love. This girl, we can call her Jasmine, did not ... (600 words)

Any advice on how to deal with this jealousy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi people, I need some advice on how to deal with my feelings please! I’ve known this girl through work for 4 years. For the first couple of years we were very close, always hanging around together and flirting. Everyone said we would make a great couple and we were destined... (360 words)

Who schedules sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

14 June 2009 (M) - I'm starting to notice that my relationship is one sided and we do thing when she wants to do them, including sex. I was with her the other day and we were in the house watching TV and I wanted to get intimate with her. She tells me no we will have sex the next day, bad enough ... (194 words)

Had a great time together, but he didn't text me later. Now what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 15. ok so my friend told the guy i liked that i liked him. me and the guy i liked texted all day and he asked me out by text. i told him i wanted to be asked in person. so then he took back the question. the next day he didn't text me at all so i had my friend text him. ... (533 words)

Dream interpretation about a friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - can anyone help me interpret this dream? i feel like it's really important background: my friend who's graduating a year earlier than me and going to college and i had a fight which caused us to stop talking. we haven't talked for a year. we're not particularly hostile; we... (242 words)

His friend is getting in the way and almost made us split. Help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my first boyfriend for just over 2 months now and we have hit a rocky patch. His last girlfriend dumped bcos of one of his friends that calls him to come out and he has had sex with this person twice in the past even tho she has a boyfriend of 2 years. I do not ... (155 words)

My husband masturbates all the time...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband masturbates every day at least 3 times a day i have never experienced this with him before and its making me feel really bad. the fact that he's maturbating has decreased our sex life from 3 times a day to once every two or three days. I have spoken to him about it ... (108 words)

I hate him now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Oh Gosh....i've never done this before but at this point i'm pretty much desperate. I've been dating my boyfriend for 9 months now. Of course at the beggining everything was nice. I never had a boyfriend b4 so i wanted to take things relly slow with him.But he was alwa... (425 words)

Advice needed. Boy trouble!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - there is this boy called daniel who lives across my road he works for my dad and he comes around a lot. he is an ok friend and im not sure if he likes me back. i really like him. ive been throwing hints at him but i am having no reply. he is not the best looking boy in the ... (76 words)

What is this spotting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - About a month ago I experienced 'spotting' (bleeding between periods). im on the pill so i went to the doctors and got checked for any possible infections and had none. i am definately not pregnant. it went away when i stopped taking the pill and started again but it has now ... (73 words)

Help!!! Family problems!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - dear all, what i think is that i have a psycological problem.. i feel that in a way i stopped being social and stopped exprssing myself or getting involved in conversations..this is mostly happening with my family in law.. my husband's parents are very good peole but very ... (201 words)

How can I help my friend get out of this sticky situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

- Hoping for some sound advice here. Often some pretty good answers. I have a friend who is almost seventy who lost her husband a couple of years ago. She has continued to stay living here because her adult daughter and son in law are here. Her daughter has a good job but the ... (246 words)

Why is he being so mean to me now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help, my husband and I have been married for 6 years and we seperated over a year ago right after we had a baby girl. I have a boy that is 9 from a previous relationship that my husband has raised since he was 2 years old. Neither of us have pushed the divorce issue ... (739 words)

Partner just broke up with me and I'm really hurting

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've used this site for a long time and have tried to give some help and relief to people going through stressful times and worries. I have always considered myself good at copeing in the face of adversity and boy have I faced a lot. Yesterday and without warning my partn... (337 words)

He says he just likes compliments from women, wasn't planning on doing anything!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I was wondering if i was handling this all wrong. I went online the other day and pulled the history on the computer from one day last week I was looking for a paper for college. I thought i found it and low and behold it was his profile for this dating site. he did put he was ... (200 words)

How long should I wait before asking out my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - A friend of mine has just split from her boyfriend, he left her, we get on really well with all the flirting etc. i really like her and i think she likes me or atleast she deffiently has at some point as she told me. my question is how long should i wait to ask her out on a ... (60 words)

What would you do if you were in my position?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

Boyfriend's mother driving me insane!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriends mum is driving me insane. I am pregnant and this is her first grandchild so I understand that she is super excited. But she's being so controlling, it's unreal. She treats my boyfriend like he is a child (he's 23), she speaks to us in a way that suggests she... (489 words)

I want to give him some space then contact him to see if he really is interested in me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a little confused. Have been seeing this man for a few weeks now and things were going really well until the last few days... he came late to a planned date and has not been texting me quite as much as usual. We were talking on the phone every night for hours at a time but ... (206 words)

What questions/topics can I talk about on a date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

- I am a really shy person and I take a fair while to get to know people, before I feel comfortable around them. And even when I do know people really well, I'm a still a bit on the more quiet side. I'd rather listen to other people and hear about them, and observe others than ... (206 words)

Parents forcing me to live in a Smokey enviroment while I'm pregnant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my mum and dad have always smoked, they smoked when my mum was pregnant with me, took me in smoky environments when i was a baby and chain smoked around me. my mum tried to quit smoking but my dad would smoke in her face so she started again. iv tried talking to my parents ... (218 words)

Am I nagging him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a bit of a miserable situation at the moment. My boyfriend and I have been together just over 2 years. We moved in together 3 months ago, after 2 days of living together we found out I was pregnant. I am now 17 weeks gone. Because we didn't know I was pregnant when we... (457 words)

He's pressuring me after promising that he wouldn't

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been dating my boyfriend for a couple of months. He said that he wouldnt pressure me into thing sexually and to his credit he has been very good at keeping his word... well untill recently. He says he wont pressure me but in the same breath complains that i wont let him ... (87 words)

Are we infertile?.... 5 years of unprotected sex and no baby!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married to my husband for almost five years. Although we have'nt been trying to have a baby, we have had unprotected sex since day one but we have'nt been able to get pregnant. Is it possible to still get pregnant after all this time or is infertility the issue?... (52 words)

I don't like his choice of friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently had a huge argument with my boyfriend which resulted in him threatening to throw me out. He said I was over emotional and was pretty harsh about my reaction when things went wrong. I have made the effort to change and it seems to have worked, I try and 'not ... (253 words)

Through sickness and health?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - [MOD NOTE: This poster has submitted 3 similar questions within 10 minutes, so I have put them all into one post] 1. Is it me of is there something wrong here. My husband and i have had problems and we are current not living together, but are trying to work our marriage out... (568 words)

My mum has hated him for 3 years, how do I tell her I'm pregnant with his child?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i met this guy when i was 14, there was a group of us and we'd never met him before. i instantly fell for him. he was absolutly gorgeous! 20 year old 6ft tall, dark hair, blue eyes, 6 pac, he was like something from a magazine! haha. noo waaayyyy would he ever fancy a 5ft 5, 12 ... (562 words)

Can pre-cum make her pregnant?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

14 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend says she thinks she is pregnant and she is have all symtoms in after two days it that possible? i didnt cum in her but precumed in her can someone get preg from that? Moderators note - Have re written the question as the spelling was hard to understand.... (52 words)

I just can't get over he watches porn!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so me and bf have been going strong for nearly a year and a half but the other day he told me he watches porn and now i cant get the thought out of my head!! does it me he doesnt love me? or does he not find me attractive?? i guess because i dont watch it and really dont ... (88 words)

Stuck in this triangle competing for my husband!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have trust issues with my husband. i resently found out the he has been secretly contacting his ex girlfriend calling and texting her up to 5 times a day.i feel insecure that he dont even communicate with me on that level and i am his wife. I have told him how i feel and he ... (162 words)

Can ex and I be on same dating site?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My ex and I just broke up a month ago. He is on a dating site. Is it ok for me to be on the same dating site? He is on one of the best. We are not trying to get each other back. He was on this site first. I haven't put up my profile yet.... (67 words)

After 2 years of marriage I just find out that my husband has children!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been married for over 2 years i asked my husband even before we were going out if he has children he said no. I have found out that he has 2 or more children. i feel like my life as been a lie, i feel decieved and my husband has been controlling and shaping me life. i ... (66 words)

How soon do I tell person I'm dating about my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (M)

age - I'm looking at starting a new relationship with a woman. I've been separated from my ex for several months now, but we still have a business relationship and I am close to her family. Because of the business relationship a lot of people don't realize we are a couple. If t... (132 words)

We broke up but she told me if I give her space we'll probably get back together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend had been together since she was 14 and i was 15 i am not 19 and she is now 18 so we have been together for some time. Everything was fine untill about 8 months ago when i went to uni only 20 minutes away from my home. We had always been together everyday ... (664 words)

Can you get sick or aids from getting a blow job?

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14 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am sure this question has been asked before, but can you get sick or get AIDS from receiving a blow job? Please help I am freaking out.. ... (29 words)

Finally meeting her but a friend is coming along too!

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14 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - A brief background before my question: I had recently been talking to a girl (initially via e-mails, then IMs and texts, and phone calls) and we had really hit it off. I never get my hopes up with these sorts of things because my luck doesn't seem to be the best with these ... (365 words)

Is it safe for me to call the police on the person who is sexualy harrasing my girlfriend?

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14 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i really dont know if its weird but its just a confusing situation. My girlfriend and i have been dating for the past year. But recently, she has been getting texts on her phone from some people who want to have sex with her. She replies with a huge reject but they still k... (124 words)

He's difficult but I know he's worth it

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14 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - okay, I'm insanely attracted to this guy that I work with....but we're having some complications getting together....I've invited him out to a group outing at a bar three times, the first time, we ended up going to a restaurant, and he asked me to go back to his place(I ... (341 words)

I'm only attracted to guys wanting sex. Am I the problem?

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14 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like I seem to only attract guys wanting sex. Out of all the guys I have met, every single one of them (except one) has only wanted sex. I found out even my ex bf only wanted sex too. I dont think its how I dress - i dress pretty respectable. Plus Im quite shy so I dont ... (153 words)

Military relationships, should I dump my boyfriend?

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14 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is another problem ive got up my sleeve.. Are you guys ready? haha So this boy i've been with for two year as i mentioned in my last post that is kind of a loser... I realized today means nothing at all to mean.. But apparently enough for me to be having a rough time ... (787 words)

Found my boyfriends fake vagina..what should I do?

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14 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my bf for almost 3 years now and I found a fake vagina in my boyfriend's closet during in the middle of our first 1 1/2 year together. I found out that he bought it 3 days before my birthday! I was so mad that we got into a huge fight. I remember him ... (196 words)

I feel everyone just sees me as shy and boring.

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14 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im really unhappy. which is probably a common thing for a teenage girl to say but i dont know. i feel like im being oversensitive but i can't help feeling like a complete loser and a doormat. i have been a nice friendly girl all my life. my friends see me as the person that ... (428 words)

I feel pushed out because of him looking at porn!

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14 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a bit of a pickle if you would call it. My boyfriend looks at a lot of porn and his nieghbours and roommate all look at it as well. In general, I've never had an issue with it and it was never a big deal until I realized that he does it excessively and it bothers ... (683 words)

Signs of masturbation?

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14 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - what type of mark will be found on the bed after men masturbate.whether the mark will be round in shape and the fluid is thick and sticky?Do men masturbate on bed? ... (33 words)

Did I make the right decision by saying lets not be friends?

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14 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Yeah, so I like this girl and she claims she likes me but we were gonna try the whole just friends thing for some unknown reason. We've been friends for a while now, we see each other once every blue moon. She said I was her best friend. We're really just text buddies imo. ... (363 words)

What can I do to get my lazy boyfriend motivated?

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14 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont know what to do with my boyfriend. he has no direction in his life, and he just wants to do things "his way". i tried telling him to go to collage with me to make our future easier, but he says hes not ment for collage.i even asked him if he would do it for me,and he ... (82 words)

Its hard to be supportive and watch someone throw their life away!

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14 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - so... where do i start? So dating this girl for a while and fall in love... before we were dating she was dating a guy who went to jail for selling drugs.. So he gets our of jail and im S.O.L..the guys kinda of abusive so she seems to be in a relationship that she cant get out ... (145 words)

I think I love her but she doesn't turn me on sexually

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14 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i need some really good advise to save this relationship. i've been with this woman for 8 months and im really happy i found her ...here's the problem. i have way more experience than she does. and she's beginning to realize im not turned on. i cant really fake it l... (196 words)

Should my past not matter to him?

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14 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this guy and i have been together for about 8 months but never officially dating. its driving me crazy that i want to be his actual girlfriend. we act like we are anyway. he's always asking me about my past. i dont have a good sexual reputation and i think thats whats holding ... (77 words)

How is being in love different from lust/desire?

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14 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello, I recently backed out of an affair with a married woman at work ( you might have seen the post, and thanks to all those that helped )I was wondering something? towards the end there i couldnt stop thinking about her, really strong feelings. Now im going through the afte... (184 words)

In love and expecting but he hates me

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14 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am about 3 months pregnant by my x boyfriend. I found out that I was expecting about a Month ago, which is about the same time its been since we broke up. He will not be with me or give me "another chance" because he said i have hurt him so bad. when I only got on him for ... (140 words)

I have falled back in love with him, could he feel the same?

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14 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - About a year and half ago I reunited with my high school sweetheart. We dated for about 5 years and broke up shortly after we graduated when I went off to school. We didn't see each other for over 10 years but kept up to date on each other via mutual friends. He married someone ... (249 words)

Crossdressing advice from wives?

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14 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have a fetish for crossdressing and my wife knows about it. She said its fine and helps me wear her lingerie, nose rings and bindis sometimes. My dream is to wear sarees ,jewellery's, accessories and sometimes play a house wife and help do all household work... when we ... (97 words)

My dream relationship became a nightmare when we moved in together, he puts me down, do you think this is hopeless?

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14 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is ignoring me all the time, I cant understand why, once we moved to live together I found him different person, not the one that I love , he always off from his work to his computer , then to take a nap , and he spend all the night watching movies and I am waiting ... (380 words)

We just started dating, but I have not heard from him in a while, should I contact him?

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14 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my BF started dating a couple of weeks before skool let out. I haven't talked to him in two days in fact most of the time we only text goodnite. He keeps telling me he's gonna try to talk to me and stuff but her never does. I haven't seen him in awhile eithe cause my ... (169 words)

He asked me an inappropriate question, why ?

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14 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for almost 4 weeks now... things are going really well. Last night I went to a barbecue. When I talked to the special guy today and he asked me how the barbecue was... I said it was fun, told him a few highlights, explained that I may have had a... (164 words)

My ex threatened my first love, and told him lies, how do I fix this?

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14 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - 20 years ago I ended a relationship when I moved out of state. I never fell out of love with my first love but ended up marrying someone else 10 years ago. Last year I began my seperation with my husband, at the same time unknowingly my first love was separating from his ... (249 words)

Anything that I can do to calm my girfriend down, she thinks she is pregnant?

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14 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - my girlfriend isn't scheduled to start her period for another week or so, but she thinks she is pregnant?? is this possible?? she is not on the pill and while we might start sex without a condom, i always put one on during sex. i feel confident that she isn't, but she is ... (62 words)

It seems I am going to have to get over him, any effective suggestions?

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14 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i danced with my crush at prom, he was the one who grabbed me from behind and started dancing with me. While we were dancing; he took my hand and folded his into mine; he kept rubbing my arms and when we slow danced; he kept rubbing my back up and down slowly andslowly ... (519 words)

What do you do when the people who hurt you are your family?

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14 June 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I'm getting so FREAKING frustrated.. I've had many many hurtful people in my life. I've gotten to the point, that as soon as someone hurts me really badly, they're gone.. i don't even want them in my life becuase i know that they only lead to more pain. And I'm SO SO SO tired... (896 words)

We are living together but now I feel nothing for him

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14 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of only 4 months and I live together (I realize its a mistake to move in together so early) I'm 26 and he's 30. I have lived on my own for about 8 years and he is right from mom's house. The first few weeks were filled with argueing only, he swears and raises his ... (207 words)

Why is he hanging around me since we broke up? Waiting for something to come along?

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14 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been with my boyfriend since march 2008,and i still cant figure out whats going on.things have always been a bit rocky and he has had a few commitment issues,as he is only 22.last november we got into an argument about something small,and i was drunk and grabbed him by ... (355 words)

Its only a matter of time before I ruin everything!

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14 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am confident and trust my boyfriend. I don't get paranoid or jealous, I don't care about him hanging out with other girls and I truly love him. However I am really good at hiding how insecure i am. A year ago I spent all my time with my current boyfriend, I abandoned my ... (215 words)

How long after a break up is it acceptable to start dating again?

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14 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there. Where to start. It all started about 4 months when I met this really great girl at a job programme scheme. At first I just saw her as a possible new friend. But after a week we were talking everyday. Either online or by texting. But the more we talked, the more I ... (395 words)

My wife is not interested in sex anymore.

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14 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife of 6 years is not interested in sex. In all other respects our relationship is excellent. We get on really well with no arguments or disagreements, and are each other's best friends. But since day one she has had a low sex drive, and shown no interest in sex. On the r... (232 words)