He and his son has drinking problems and dislikes my sister

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Question - (16 June 2009)

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A female age , *oodependency writes:

My husband has a drinking problem. His son, 28, drinks too. I hate when his son comes home because they drink together.Some times I get so angry that I can act really nasty.

My husband gets upset because I bring my sister to our house and I am very close with my family. Is this really love or we are both codependent? Can this be healed?

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Marjorie

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A female reader, QuirkLady +, writes (17 June 2009):

Codependency and love can exist together. You can easily love someone and be codependent at the same time...heck codependency can be born out of love.

I think it would be good for you to join Al-Anon. There are a lot of people with similar stories to you and just knowing you're not alone and you're supported could be helpful. There's also a book by Melodie Beattie called "Codependent No More" that has brought relief to a lot of people. You can find it on Amazon.

Good luck!

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