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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I stop being in denial?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Every once in a while I text my guy friend who hasn't been talking to me and ask him a question. Well last night he answered finally jus to prove that I spelled something wrong then after 2 texts he ignored me again. I don't get it if he wanted to cut me off then why is he ... (126 words)

Is cheating wrong with one other person?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am on here to ask for advice and comments. I have a child by my man who is 30 years older than me. We have love for each other, however im not in love with him. I have cheated on him twice sexually and don't really regret it because he can't please me in that way. I know ... (131 words)

How can I help my son with his drug addiction?

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8 June 2009 (F) age - I don't know if I can help him (my son and his drug addiction.) Presently he lives with me and I want help, but he is not really ready to quit. I don't know if he will ever quit, but WHAT CAN I DO TO HELP? What do you think... what is the most common way to quit drugs? He ... (117 words)

I'm so confused, just what is he playing at?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I don't know where to start, please bear with me. I've had a rocky road with my boyfriend over the last few years. He left a relationship to be with me and we were living together, a problem became apparent in our relationship regarding my sister and her husband whom i a... (867 words)

I don't want to lose my marriage because of this problem.

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8 June 2009 (M) age - Is it possible that a man who can't make love to his wife, due to erection problems from undiscovered psychological problems, can make love to an other women if he falls in love? I mean my wife thinks, if I get turned on from someone else, I will get back my sexual desire. ... (99 words)

Where is the best place to buy a good quality wig?

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8 June 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Hello, I was wondering if someone knows where is the best place to try to buy a wig, on line. I have a serious hairloss, and I feel very shy, to go out and meet with people. Also, if you are wearing a wig, is it very akward? Do people notice you are wearing a wig? I want to ... (120 words)

Help!!! My boyfriend would rather spend time with his friends than me.

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am so in love with my boyfriend, I do so much for him, I go out of my way for him, I hang out with his friends, I tell him how much he means to me and how I can't wait to spend the rest of my life with him. My boyfriend however does nothing for me, he never tells me he loves ... (220 words)

He lied to me about hanging out with this woman. Am I overracting?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for five years, we live together and are planning on marrying. This past weekend I went out of town. We were talking about my trip and I asked him what he had done Friday night. He told me he stayed at home and a male friend of his came ... (157 words)

He is such a complex character and I want to be there for him to help him through all this.

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm hoping for some advice to help me through all this. I've been with my partner for 9 years, lived together for 5. We're not married as he always told me he 'wasn't ready' but he would be one day. Anyway a few weeks ago when we were cuddling and I brought up the subject of ... (388 words)

I think I was used as a rebound girl for my ex boyfriend, but don't understand why he picked me?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend slept with me two or three times when he were broken up with his girlfriend that he had after me and then left me when the girl came around. (At that time I still loved him and wanted him back...) While we hung out when they were broken up, he looked miserable... (188 words)

I don't mean to sound naive, but could he be lying?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay my crush danced with me at prom the other night, he was the one who approached me. I noticed that the whole night; him and his friends were staring at me. Even when i was dancing with other guys,i would look around to find him staring at me. While we were dancing; he took ... (278 words)

Hearts not in it, but don't want to add to the pain

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8 June 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I have been dating a girl for the past 3 months. We have gotten along fine and have actually never been in a fight, but my heart is just not in it any more. I struggled with the same thing at the beginning of the relationship, but I thought I have gotten over it, but my lack of ... (169 words)

Why do only older boys like me?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i'm a 14 year old girl and i've never had a boyfriend. So now i want my 1st boyfriend cuz i'm starting high school this fall. I'm wondering how i could get a guy to like me. I'm overwieght and i think thats a reason. I'm 5'5'' and 180 lbs. But i see "big" girls with guys ... (131 words)

Cousin troubling wife...

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8 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hi, I just got married to a beautiful lady about 6 months back.. my wife is a good looking 25 year professional.. I am 30 years old.. recently my cousin brother joined us in our house, he is 16.. so he trying to date a girl...so he asked my wife if he could take my wife out for ... (311 words)

I'm in one big lonely mess...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

8 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in one big lonely mess and it is getting me so down I spend nearly every night crying. I used to have a really close circle of friends, and even though we went our separate ways after school, we still kept in touch and went out together at the weekends. A while ago we went ... (514 words)

Did my masterbation habit ruin my sex life?1

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok I have this big problem..I'll try to make it short When i was a kid(8-9yrs old) i use to have sex with my neighbor daughter(she was 11). We continued this for 3 years and then they moved. When i was 8-9 yrs, strange thing is I use to be horny and used to masturbate even ... (366 words)

My negativity is pushing her away and I cant lose her!

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8 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with my girlfriend/best friend for close to a year. She is, by a long shot, the best thing to ever enter my life. Im 28 and I just now found love. The problem and my question is I get so paranoid that she will find someone else. I used to never be like that and we had ... (117 words)

She doesn't want to consider me more than a friend. What to do?

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8 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've liked this girl that goes to my school for a long time. We've never really had a serious relationship..but i can't get my mind off her!...we are good friends and she's always nice to me and stuff. She just doesn't seem to want to consider me as more than that. What do I ... (55 words)

Can guys be in the mood for sex if they did it the day before?

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8 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, i'm 20 years old and I had great sex the night before with my gf for a good 40 minutes, but the next night she wanted to do it again, and i wasnt in the mood, i couldnt get aroused, is that normal? Can a guy really not be in the mood for sex even after a whole day of rest?... (62 words)

We've broken up but he still drives past my house! Why?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so my boyfriend and I broke up, he started dating a friend of mine (we are no longer friends) but yesterday I caught him driving by my house. I live on a remote street, the only reason for him to drive down my street is to drive by my house. That was at 4pm, but then 2 ... (131 words)

I can't stand him touching me but feel guilty when I tell him to get out

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8 June 2009 (F)

age - I lived with my boyfriend for 5+ years. About 6 months ago I decided to move out and into my own place. He would not work and I paid all the bills. I finally could not deal with it anymore and moved out. He still calls all the time and stops by. Sometimes he spends the ... (202 words)

I know this is going to end with me hurt...He always does but I cant get over him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This one boy is driving me insane. I havnt been happy for over two months. It all started when he had a girlfriend and i had a boyfriend. We realized we were in love with each other and dumped the other people for eachother. Then he got back together with his girlfriend before ... (330 words)

We just clicked. He says he loves me but hes already with someone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met him 4 months ago the day i met him we've been talking everyday all day thru text and phone call's no exaggeration we just instantly clicked the day after we met i asked him if he has a girlfriend he told me yes i kindaof draw back but it was so all innocent to me(not ... (264 words)

Do you think I scared him into NOT liking me anymore?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay this is gonna be long so brace yourself. There is this guy that I have a crush on. Sometimes I think he likes me and sometimes I'm not so sure. He is the brother of one of my friends on my soccer team. He is also my soccer coach’s son. At the end of this year I will be ... (689 words)

I want that spark back with my boyfriend but I can't stop thinking about girls!

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My current status is that I am in a relationship. I have been for over 2 years, to a great guy we'll call Erik. To spare all the gory details, Erik is very friendly, intelligent, my mom likes him, and he LOVES me... But I feel as though our spark is gone. I want to so bad ... (249 words)

How can I feel more confident doing a strip tease for my boyfriend?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend says he'd really like it if i did some type of dance for him like a strip tease, but i have no idea what i should do. I feel really embarrassed and put it off all the time and tell him i'll do it another time. I told him i feel embarrassed and he said i shouldn't ... (125 words)

My man is going to his ex apartment for plumming. I think theres more to it

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Aunts and Uncles here's a good question for you :) My man is planning on going to his ex-wifes apt. because he says the landlord called and asked him to quote some plumbing work. I really have no reason to suspect anything other than what he says but i just have a "... (97 words)

Is it possible to be addicted to masturbating?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, an embarressin question but it has too be asked. Is it possible too get addicted too masturbating? As i think i am.... (26 words)

I feel something for his friend, just can't deal with all these mixed feelings!

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im in such a mess and i dont know what to do!! my mind is telling me one thing and my heart another. iv been with my boyfriend for 7months now, his perfect by all meanings and i am constantly told how lucky i am. A very close friend of his was my first love we didnt go out or ... (290 words)

Teenage mum. Will my lesbian relationship affect my baby?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I am a young mom with a baby aged 5 months. I have just started getting my life back on track when i met roxanne. We are now dating. Will this affect my child with the fact i am a lesbian?... (48 words)

Dating a married man. I just want him to be with me

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hello, i dont want any hurtful or rude comments, iam writing to everyone here because i think this is a site for evryone to write about their problems and feeling's. Well, iam seeing a married man. i have been seeing him for 2 1/2 years now. i got with him in a time of pain, ... (208 words)

I am tired of guys I like not liking me back, what do I do to improve my likability?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont feel pretty enough to deserve to be loved , they say its the inside that counts if that was true then i'd have someone by now right? im so lost and confused no one wants me the person i like just likes me as a friend sucha cliche. i need your help. im sick of crying over ... (70 words)

I can't bring myself to kiss her. Help me guys

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8 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there I am really nervous,, I am going to the cinema on saturday with a girl i like and we are going with some mates. Well ive never kissed anyone properly before and im really worried because i think she has and i dont want to look like an idiot. Im not that brave either i... (84 words)

When it comes to girls I strike out! Should I make the first move

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8 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - This is a question that is more directed towards the ladies. I am a nice guy, the funny guy, etc. I do not consider myself bad-looking and I am always hanging around all of the jocks. I myself run track at my school and I went to regionals my freshman year for it. But ... (184 words)

How am I suppose to forget her when it was love at first site?

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8 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I have a little girl trouble. I'll give you all the story. Back when I was 13 I met a girl and I liked her the second I saw her, I'm not a strong believer in love at first sight, but if there ever was, this was it. We proceeded to spend the night together and had a bl... (268 words)

Should I refuse a job simply because my girlfriend has issues with a female coworker?

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8 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been together for about 8 months and all has been well. Last week I received a job offer from my old workplace. It is a good offer and I really enjoyed working at that place and only left because I started to feel stagnant and was grossly underpaid ... (282 words)

We were close once, now don't talk , what can I do to change that?

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8 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm 15 well there is this girl I really like. We once were really close but now I don't ever talk to her. I really like her but I just don't know what to say?... (36 words)

Wanted to talk to girl at club, she wouldn't after talking with her friends, why are women so insecure?

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8 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i approached a girl at a club and i asked if i could have a chat with her. enthusiastically she said "yea why not, but leme talk to my friends first cuz we're leavin soon, so i'l be back". after a couple of minutes i noticed she was around me with her friend and she didnt say ... (105 words)

Might be pregnant but bleeding after sex. Whats going on?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I had my period on tHe 27th of last month and last night (on the 7th) Me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex. It didnt hurt or anything but after we finished i started bleeding. About 30 minutes later tHe bleeding completely stopped then a hour later we did it again ... (130 words)

Ex with trust issues. Should I let him back into my life?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex has commitment issues due to his past relationship and the woman not standing by him when his mother died (over 2 yrs ago). Now after 3 months he is trying to get back into my life. I love him dearly and really think he still loves me. But will I just be stepping into a ... (189 words)

Romantic sex on Prom night but I got my period! Help

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, Right I have a problem. Prom is on thursday! i can't wait. My current boyfriend, of 9 and half months, asked me to go with him, i obviously agreed. So i got my dress shoes ectect.. But yesterday [7/6/09] i started my period! Prom is on the 11th of this month!... (145 words)

Met her, texted her, no response, saw her with boyfriend, didn't talk, not interested? Should I forget it?

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8 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - ok you females really confuse me. basically i met this girl at uni and i got her number. she said shes seein someone and i asked if it was long term and she said "its not and i don't know where things are going". she replied "yes" after i asked her if she would like to me... (143 words)

I like two spoiled guys and need to choose one of them, please help?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am a 20 years old girl and I have a problems of having two too loyal boyfriend..both of them doesn't want to let me go, while i'm just trying my best to not hurt any of them feeling.. i have try several times to break off with both of them, but they just cannot accept the ... (202 words)

I'm utterly heartbroken! He left me and says I messed it up

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8 June 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I'm utterly heartbroken. My ex left me and to top it off, he's still contacting me only to tell me how I messed everything up and how I never showed him I loved him enough! I still love him, but being with him is like walking on eggshells, honestly. He had issues with my past, ... (243 words)

Says he loves us both, did not answer quickly, if he was " in love" with me, what do you think?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been living together for over a year. Sometimes I feel like there is something missing between us and he cheated on me for over a month with some girl who he says he loves and is still friends with. He said he's not ready to talk about the reason he ... (138 words)

Best friends drifting apart because of her boyfriend! History repeating itself

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my friend are going through a rough spell the now. A cupple of years ago she got a new boyfriend and we slowly started to drift apart, we ended up arguing and i lost her for about a year. She came to me and told me she was havin trouble with her boyfriend and we ... (190 words)

Want to do more with my boyfriend than making out, what is the next step/

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, like i wanna step up in my realationship, but what do you do, my boyfriend and i only make-out. what do you do to have him do more with you? thanx. [:... (37 words)

I love my girlfriend but her over-protective brother is driving us crazy!

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8 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with my g/f for 4 years now and shes perfect, I love her. Its her annoying overly protective brother. He never lets me be alone with her at her house.I've spoken to my g/f about it and she had a talk with her brother about it and after their talk he has gotten more ... (92 words)

What kind of game is he playing with me?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dont understand my ex broke up 2 months ago. He came to my rescue a few days ago with a family illness. He acts like he wants me back but yet has not called for 2 days. Not even to see how my father is doing in the hospital. So why did he offer to come with me and make sure ... (230 words)

He has no job, he doesn't go to school and I am so annoyed with him! Why am I like this?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend very much...we've been together about 4 months now...but recently I've just been getting really angry at him..he doesnt have a job or go uni, so this annoys me as i work very hard so he doesnt understand why i like him to be on time when i finish work for ... (123 words)

Want to know if he still has feelings for me, what are the signs?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend broke up about 2-3 weeks ago because we never knew what to speak about. but now we're really close and speaking now. i think he still likes me but im not sure. what things would be obvious that he likes me? the other night me and my best friend went to see ... (114 words)

I'm so confused by my semi-fiance, that I need an interpreter!!!

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Last year, I left everything and moved to Spain to be with my then fiance. It has not been an easy transition and he hasn't been as supportive as I would have liked/needed. Anyway, we broke up two months ago, but I don't think either one of us is really over it and while I ... (448 words)

He and I have always been close before..so what's happening now!

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im pretty young to be in the situstion im in. Falling in love at 15 wasn't my plan nor my parents. I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year 1/2. I commited my self at such a early age. My parents both love him dearly. But he's older then me which might just be my problem here. ... (811 words)

Really like her, she has OCD, is there something I can do to help/

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

8 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, again, i'm writing to have a problem,i have a very close friend, whom i love and adore, shes my world, i met her on a online game (mmorpg) yet everytime i see her i get really really warm, everytime shes not on i cry,the problem i have is the gal has ocd, and me i just like ... (118 words)

My gf is not very sexually minded and I feel only like a friend to her! Any advice?

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8 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - right here goes.....I’ve been with my girlfriend for half a year now and whilst I am absolutely head over heels for her, I’m finding that we don’t have much sex. Roughly once a week at most usually, more than once a week (and not much more) on very rare occasions. She seems ... (610 words)

Trying to answer a question I received by PM

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8 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - This is not a question, just my way to hopefully stay in contact with someone. To the person who sent me a private message last night, but canceled her account while I was sleeping: you still need an answer to that matter. I can't respond if you don't come back. It's your... (59 words)

He does not want a commitment and it's driving me crazy, please help?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Help how do u get over someone. And stop feeling shit bout giving your all being totally inlove. Them saying they love u back. Then just deciding that actually the cant give u what u want. 3 yrs i gave my all to someone who i was totally in love with. They say that im the one ... (226 words)

Want to gain weight, bought Ensure, how many should I drink tp gain weight?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i bought Ensure Plus yesterday and today i drank 3 of them i dont really like the taste but i was wondering how long do i have to drink it in order to gain weight and how many a day will help me gain 15 lbs in 2 months? i dont want a double chin though :/. and i never ... (111 words)

I haven't snogged a boy, should I do it when I'm drunk so there's less pressure?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi my names Leigh im 15 and i havent yet snogged a boy. im too worried ill do it wrong. so many boys have wanted to go out with me but i always say no because im too scared about snogging them. i always get drunk on the weekend, should i just snog someone then and if i do it ... (71 words)

My husband is very defensive, but needs to understand my side of the story, how do I get through to him?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and ihave been married 7 years. He has been not doing so well in his business and I have been paying all the bills. He is always upset about everything I do. I stay home all day with kids and go to work at night. I asked him to take our son to school on his way to ... (282 words)

I'm overwhelmed by my family. How can I get my own life back and not worry about them?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Help, iam overly overwhelmed with my life right know, this is the deal, I’ am 22 and I feel like I have the weight on the world on my shoulders…..1st…my dad was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s, psychofrenia, I was 13-14. Growing up I saw my mom struggle with 4 children and dealing ... (278 words)

Any ideas on how to deal with an angry, abusive ex-boyfriend, that you want nothing to do with?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I am in need of advice. I was in a 4 year verbally abusive relationship and have been out of the relationship for nearly 2 years. My ex and I have had angry and painful communication over the last 2 years and we recently talked on the phone and came to a mutual agreeme... (291 words)

Found my husband at his ex gf's house

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8 June 2009 (F)

age - I just found my husband of 23 years with a ex-girlfriend. They were talking. We were separted about 2 years ago for 9 months and I filed for a divorce. After I filed he found a girlfriend and was seeing her. We got back together and he came back home with me and our 3 kids. Th... (125 words)

Why is it that black boys prefer white girls?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this is a random question i need answering but i want everyone to know i am NOT racist in anyway as you will see cos i have a black boyfriend i love very much. so no hate mail please. i was just talking to my boyfriend the other day im white and hes black and were both quite ... (135 words)

I am very shy, like this guy, but need some stimulative cconversational subjects, any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i need help, i've had a major crush on a guy in my year for ages and ages and i'm always put next to him in class n stuff but lately i've been getting the impression he like me 2. i've read about ways of seein if your crush fancies u n i think he does.but i need help cos i'm ... (193 words)

Can't stand to live with my drunk, erratic mother.

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there, I need A LOT of advice, I'm about ready to just end my world. I can't stand living with my mom, she is an alcoholic who drinks 6 of the 7 days a week, she is annoying and childish when she does. Last night I was with my friend and we were going to a bonfire that's... (297 words)

Don't really know how to 'do' a relationship

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8 June 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - :( ok..I'm 14 years old and I got a girlfriend two weeks ago.The day I asked her out.. I sat at her lunch table feeling weird and not knowing what to say and... neither did she. I can understand that (might) be normal on the first 1 or 2 days but this has been going on for 2 we... (133 words)

I am using Slim Fast,, along with limited food intake to lose weight , any suggestions to lose weight faster?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - helloo everyone, im currently trying a slim-fast diet but i dont know if its going to work or not? at the moment im having a slim fast milkshake for breakfast, and apple and another milkshake for lunch and vegetables and fruit and salad for dinner, im also running twice a week ... (108 words)

Defensive (and blinkered) friends, what do you suggest?

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8 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So I have this friend, we've grown apart greatly over the last year. I have this problem with him. We have this mutual person we know, who is an old friend of his (lets call him ali). Ali is a guy our own age. He messed around many of our friends, lied to us, had money issues, ... (193 words)

Suggestions for cosmetics?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well...not exactly a relationship question - but please help anyway! I don't wear make-up very often and when I do its not much either. However it often seems to smudge (although its only mascara and eyeliner). I don't know why this happens. Have you got any tips to prevent ... (56 words)

Is it worth risking all we both have because of one silly, drunken mistake?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, I had a bit of a mad weekend and kissed one of my closest friends boyfriends, the thing is - him and my boyfriend are really close too but my boyf is in jail at the moment. Me, my friend and her boyfriend was all out together we had a good night and as usual we ended up ... (428 words)

Does he have feelings for his ex gf..am I 2nd best?

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8 June 2009 (F)

- Im kind of a bit worried that my bf still has feelings for his ex? These are the reasons why I think so. When talking about there past relationship, he goes on about how they were so in love and how he made her so happy etc. They only broke up due to distance. So that mak... (362 words)

I regret so much in the past, that I can't stand it sometimes

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is mainly about the relationship with myself. That might sound selfish, but please bear with me. Thanks. I regret so much from high school and I think about it so much that I sometimes get angry with myself. But I hold it all in because I know nobody truly cares. I s... (341 words)

Still confused..do I give him my virginity?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have wrote a series of questions about this boy but im still caught up with it :( i am 15 and i like this 16 yr old boy and im still a virgin and he isnt. i have known him for about a year now and i still want to lose my virginity to him i dont know whats wrong with me. ... (154 words)

No time for sex with me as he studies too hard!

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my bf are in a relationship 7 months now. He loves me an all but he is really into studying and i hate it! He never has time for me! but its ok... i try to handle it. i tell him sometimes that he should relax a little, but it's no use... but i don't want a bf who is ALL ... (202 words)

Worried about oral, impetigo "school sore", pullout method, herpes and pregnancy, help please!!

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8 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey im 16 male and i think i got impetigo, some kind of herpes, not a cold sore. i gave my girlfriend oral for the first time about 5 days ago and again last night. ive recently had this little blister pimple thing im not exactly sure when i got it, hasnt been long though... (383 words)

Communication problems with my stressed out boyfriend! Help!

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a long distance relationship (LDR) for about 19 months now. Things were so good in the beginning and he quickly swept me off my feet. He did what he could to relocate here, but his life was pulled out from under him. Since then, it seems to me, that he’s ... (819 words)

I have difficulty talking about my past! Could it be fear?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hii all.... i have a major problem i find it really hard to express my feelings towards people... i get too shy. i've been through some stuff in my life which could be part of the problem... but when it comes to talking about things that happened in the past i burn u... (196 words)

Should I stay with him? He cheated on me once already

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is very complicated, please help. I'm 16 years old and my boyfriend (Danny) is 17, i live in essex and he lives in manchester, which is 251miles apart, yes long distance. We both handle this distance well, because when we are together, it is like ectasy! we talk everyday... (984 words)

Obligation does not equal love!

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 22 years and my boyfriend is 33. We have been together over a year, during which we lived together- I am not from his country. I returned to my country a few months ago with plans to return in five months. I found out that he was with someone else for about a month and ... (264 words)

Is something wrong with me because I don't want to or like to masturbate?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age - Im not sure if i have a problem or not, i cant masturbate, its not because i dont know how but simply because i dont want to and i think the thought is so dirty so i never do it. my boyfriend always tells me i should do it and that it will destress me except id rather a cudd... (187 words)

Purpose of the pill and is it wise to take it?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Good day, just a quick one.... I would like to know What the purpose of the pill actually is. What is it made of? And is it really so wise to use? I tell you why, i know one of the main reasons are for birth control and so, but can it really help cleaning out my system and ... (91 words)

Why doesn't my girlfriend want to add me on her facebook?

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8 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I invited my girlfriend to my facebook 3 days ago she still hasn't added me. I noticed after inviting her that her ex is on there. I asked her why she said its nothing. Well she still hasn't accepted me and I told her I'm going to delete my facebook she just said 'ohhh'... (87 words)

My 6 year old daughter doesn't like me dating

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Am i wrong in making my daughter the centre of my universe?I have a 6yr old daughter,she is my only child.I spilt up with her dad just over a year ago.When i was with him he wasn't around much as a partner or a dad,so basically it was just me and her.We did everything ... (313 words)

I'm such a wimp taking all this crap from men!

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Here's my story. Before I met him I had two unfortunate relationships in a row. First one had a bi-polar disorder, i coud not cope with anymore as he was hitting me alot and then was crying sorry. I had no strenth to tell anyone or dump him until my friend found out by accident ... (1618 words)

My ex is drinking alot since our break up and it concerns me

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8 June 2009 (F)

- I broke up with my partner 9 weeks ago. Its been hard but I know it was the right thing to do. We argued alot and to be honest he was pretty high maintenance. No matter what I did he was nver happy. Anyway, I am starting to find it a bit hard now. I am missing having h... (194 words)

Should I give him another chance, try again?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy 3 yeas ago and we had a pretty heavy relationship, I have children from previous and so does he. I moved abroad with him and my child but then serious flaws started appearing. We would often argue which I hated as my child was only in the next room. He has ver... (562 words)

He only wants to see me when he's drinking

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - To put things basicly, i really liked this guy but he didnt know me so i txted him. I went to his house and thought he was real nice. We ended up sleeping together that first time. So things went on and I went to see him whenever he asked me around. I thought he was so nice - ... (349 words)

Sex life is going down the tubes

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi All, I am 30 years old and have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years, we have a 1 year old son and baby number 2 on the way. My problem is our sex life. From the beginning of our relationship our sex life hasnt been brilliant. After about a year together i reali... (354 words)

How can I fix our sexual situation?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now. In the beginning sex was almost nightly. Then his roomate put restrictions on how much I could be there. That stressed him out and he felt as if he was being controlled. Sex began to dwindle to once a week. Then in ... (385 words)

Will my husband know I have masturbated and has it affected my 'tightness'?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - am 30 years unmarried female, i have never been into any relationship before, but i am doing masturbation from last 6 years With a wooden tool due to which i think my vagina is loose, now i am getting married soon will my husband notice it, and will it effect on married ... (74 words)

Is this an affair that should go further or is it over?

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8 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - So i had an affair. lots of reasons, no point getting into it, but rest assured there were reasons. First/last time I'll do it. But i realized i waited for as (held out) long as i did, because i wasnt really looking for an affair but to move on (i just didnt know it) 9 mo... (620 words)

My friend's secret life...

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my friend used to be friens with benefits with this 15 yr old and they were having phone sex like everyday and sending tons of dirty pictures i want to tell her mom that she has been doing things but she would get mad ... (44 words)

How can I be sure that she is ready to lose her virginity?

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8 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a gf who's a virgin what would the signs be that she is ready to lose her virginity other than saying "I want to lose my virginity"?... (29 words)

I am married and have a child, how to deal with the resurging feelings for my ex?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi .i am 28 years old. i am a mum of 10 months baby and i have been married for 2 years.i feel cofused in my feelings and i want to understand my self and how do i react like this. i m happy in my life and my husband is very good with me .the only problem is that he is very ... (158 words)

He's socially awkward, what do I do?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi my man is not very social. he is awkward in social situations and around my friends. when we are alone he is so nice and chatty and outgoing. it feels like he has a split personality. its especially hard when my friends etc are like "why are you with him" they cant see how ... (144 words)

He won't talk to me because he is not over his ex, what do I do?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My close guy friend i knew about a year got out of a year relationship this March. He was upset because he said she was his first love. In late march we started being somewhat affectionate then he said we should stay friends. He changed his mind a couple weeks after and we beca... (97 words)

He was my first love so should I talk to him or not, now?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When i was fourteen i had a massive crush on this boy from the first time i met him, One day i found out he moved in by me and i was so excited. He was my first crush, first kiss, basically he is my first love. We hung out all the time and things were going really good... we ... (529 words)

Was he attracted to me or am I wrong?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid readers well yesterday my friend and i went out yesterday evening we went for a wander down by a harbour we had a chat about this and that. anyways she's been texting a boy shes met up with before and she was texting him and told him to come down to where we were... (385 words)

Do all men masturbate even if they have frequent sex?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - do all men masturbate even if you have frequent sex? my boyfriend does fairly often, and it makes me feel very insecure, unattractive, un needed,and unwanted.(should it make me feel that way?) he says he loves me and wants us to be together. he also says he is satisfied with me ... (58 words)

He's clingy and insecure! Need dating HELP!

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - OK.. So there is this guy i've been dating for two years this September.. I love him to peices and i think he may love me a little [too much] I'm seventeen and he is twenty so i can see where some of this comes from.. he proposed to me in february and god im so stupid for ... (379 words)

We're just friends, but I love him so much! Help!

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8 June 2009 (F)

age - hi. I have a friend i met him through e-mails. its been a long time. we were in the crew e-mails but he just send e-mails to me as individual. when times goes on, i noticed then i send back so we become friends. we arrange to meet as friends so our friendship grows sending me ... (139 words)

I like my fiancee to wear sexy clothes, is this strange?

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8 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - when my fiance and go out or have sex i like her to wear sexy clothes. It excites me more during sex, does this make me pervert? ... (28 words)

How can he choose a stranger over me so easily (twice!) when we had three years of history together?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of three years broke up with me about six months ago. I didn't know why at that time but I found out later that he left me for some one else - he broke up with me on the day he had some coffee with this girl-- it was just coffee without being any romantic or sexual ... (306 words)

Should we be friends with benefits?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 13 and there is this 16 year old boy that always wants me to send him dirty pictures and try things with him at the movies . me and my friend really like him he always flirts with us at the movies and stuff two days ago he suggested that we should be friends with bene... (90 words)

How to tell my mother that I'm an atheist?

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8 June 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - It's no so much of a question that requires an answer, more of a comment with follow-ups I'm an atheist the reason i don't believe in god is because the world is jacked up. I really don't believe in religion because of what it has done for the world ...... Small drawback... (76 words)

I want to gain weight but not too much!

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8 June 2009 (F)

Married man wants me all for himself, what do you think?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i met this guy at my job...who was sexually attracted to me and everyday he kept bothering me until finally he kisses me and we have a deep long sexual moment. the problem is that his with a girl and has two kids with her. i dont care and never expected him to be with me...but ... (112 words)

Was this rape?? What do I do?

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8 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a problem.I doubt anyone will want to help me but I hope so.I took a girl out on our first ever date, and we went clubbing..we preceeded to get horribly drunk, and had to get a motel because I didnt want to risk driving her home...there was one bed so I let her have it ... (227 words)

How to find men that want to settle down...?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I am 22 years old and I am wanting to settle down. The single life style just isn't satisfying anymore. It seams that more and more of my friends are getting serious, engaged, married, etc, where I clearly am not. I could use some advice on ways to settle down. Sh... (104 words)

How can I cope with my ex thinking so awfully of me?

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8 June 2009 (F) age 30-35 - My boyfriend doesn't trust me because I kept my "past" from him when we first started dating and he thinks this past was slutty, although everyone has told me it wasn't (I used to make out with guys at parties, no strings attached, you get the picture). The thing is I've never ... (249 words)

What has to be done before he can have 50/50 custody?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My live in bf of two years has two children and he was recently told by his ex wife that if he moved closer she would give him 50/50 custody. He currently pays child support. I dont believe her. What has to be done before he can have 50/50 custody. What about the child ... (59 words)

My skin is breaking out so bad, any good remedies?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my skin is breaking out so bad! I think its cuz its summer and I sweat and what not. but I used to just have troubles with blackheads on my nose and some zits here and there, usually on my forehead. but now I have an inflamed blackhead. zits all over my forehead. some funky ... (111 words)

My pregnant wife has a high libido, is this normal?

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8 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, my wife of almost an entire year has been pregnant with my son for about six months now and she is quite literally all over me every night I get home from work. I mean, I obviously don't mind all the bedroom/shower/every damn room of the house fun, but it's ALL the time! ... (72 words)

I don't want to tell him I cheated again but the guilt is too much, help!

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been dating my boyfriend for 4 years. i cheated on him once and confessed to him and he wanted to work things out. since then i cheated on him one other time with one of his close friends. things were not good between my boyfriend and i and i made a HUGE mistake. i ... (130 words)

Is it a problem that I have only been liking taken guys and guys that I don't talk to?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been best friends with these two guys for a long time... one's taken and the other got asked out by 4 girls... I hate the fact once the other gets a girlfriend he won't talk to me but the taken one only talks to me when he's not talking to his girl...now the taken one ... (144 words)

How can we get her to join us in a threesome?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well me and my boyfriend of 3 years have thought of having a threesome with him and another girl. and this was basically all my idea, but i am bisexual, and i think this would make my fantasy come real as also give him good pleasure, but we don't want it to happen just with ... (146 words)

It's all kinds of messed up! He likes my close friend, I don't want to lose both of them!

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm 16 and I've had this weird relationship with this guy for about 9 months. We tried being together but he never actually wanted a relationship with me. I lost my virginity to him recently and we have always been close. He has never really treated me right but I could have ... (249 words)

What can I say in an email to let him know I'm interested, without being too pushy?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've fallen in love before, I've had my share of boyfriends and I thought there were no surprises on how falling in love happens to me. I have never been a believer of the so-called "love at first sight". I thought things at first sight were purely physical attraction. Howeve... (903 words)

Is drug addiction a disease, or a willpower problem?

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8 June 2009 (F) age - Do you think drug addiction is an disease,or its willpower problem? My sun is an addict, and I'm trying to help him, but he relapsed so many times , that I'm losing hope, and energy. I would never give up, but what can i do as a parent to stop this tragic problem? He wen... (91 words)

My wife is so upset by my erectile problems! How can I help her?

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8 June 2009 (M) age 51-59 - Why do woman, gets so upset from erectal problems of their man? My wife is in emotinal pain because I lost my sex drive after ,I lost my erection. The doctors couldn't tell us waht was going on, and now she says I have no medical reason, so she thinks I don't turn on fr... (105 words)

How do you know if you're being dumped?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfiend and I met online and in person in Feb 2009 We visit monthly, as he is from Canada. He called a lot in the beginning, but now hardly at all. Am I being dumped? How do you know you're being dumped, if you have long distance issues, and life gets in the wa... (63 words)

I can't trust my girlfriend because she lied to me. She turned out to be a slut. Should I break up with her?

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8 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My cousin went to skool wit this girl that was litterally known as the skools whore. even tho she had never slept wit anybody at that school, e. I had my eyes on her ever since I saw her at the movies one day and I got her number from my cousin just to get laid really quick. I ... (582 words)

I think we got married on the spur of the moment lust kind of thing

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8 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - ok here goes, i got married after knowing my wife for only 2 weeks before i deployed to iraq. and it seemed right at the time but now im thinkin i might have made a mistake especially since ive been REALLY in love with the same girl for 8 yrs we still talk and we still love ... (173 words)

Wrong kind of love crisis!!!

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in a big dilema here..i have a boyfriens of 6 months today but there is a guy who ive known for alot longer than i have my current boyfriend. i'm starting to have feelings for him again and i don't know what to do. but the only thing is..the other guy is much older than ... (107 words)

How long is long enough to expect marriage?

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8 June 2009 (M)

age - I've been seeing a woman for over 10 years. Due to her family issues we didn't always spend every week together and the relationship was not public to most people. I've been thinking of asking if she really will get married, not just "in a few years". I'm having trouble p... (101 words)

Why would he send me an email and then totally ignore me?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So... I met a guy on the internet. We decided to meet in real life, and we ended up having a good time. The date lasted for about 4 hours and it felt like we were flirting and had something to talk about the whole time. Then, when I got home I saw an email saying "so how w... (125 words)

Is is obvious that he is done with me and trying not to hurt my feelings?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of 8 months whom i thought we were quite serious- now tells me is overly stressed with his life and can't handle any extra stress including me. He said were weren't breaking up but he is not talking to me at all except about 1x a week briefly and that is if I ... (188 words)

Guy 1, Guy 2, Guy 3, which one is best for me?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am stuck in the middle between three guys. I am going to give you all a piece of information and my feelings regarding each of them. The rest is up to you my Aunt's to help me. Thank you for ALL that take the time to actually read this, and thank you in advance.. THIS ONE ... (645 words)

My traditonal indian parents do not accept my American boyfriend! Help!

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this is very long. im an indian girl and i have been dating my american white boyfriend for 2 years now. im 19 years old. We are deeply in love and have been ever since we met. all my life, my parents have been extremely overprotective on me. i could never date or ev... (665 words)

Why has my friend become so distant?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My old guy friend that I used to hang out with a lot stopped talking to me and is ignoring me. I see him every day and he only ignores me and acts differently to me not his friends. It started out that he liked me and everyone told me he did. Then I started having feelings for ... (162 words)

Is he holding on?

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Welllll.... I been with my boyfriend for 8 months now... and besides normal disagreements and such we're great.... but lately I have been finding out more information about his last relationship (the one that ended a month before we began) and I'm realizing that he really loved ... (366 words)

Advice needed! I don't know whether to stay with him or just move on...

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8 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok ill try and make this quick me and my boyfriend have been together nearly 3 years living together as well. he goes out every weekend with his friends while i stay at home i never get to see my friends and if i do then it has to be during the day, he accuses me all the time ... (188 words)