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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why am I freaking out about having sex? I'm not a virgin.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 16 and i have had sex twice i want to do it again. i feel like i am always horney my bf recently asked me if i wanted to have sex with him. i dont know what to do i really want to have sex we have done other things but not quite got to sex we were in bed the other day we ... (146 words)

Should I stay in a marriage with little affection or sex? Is this all my fault?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for two and half year, the sad part of this marriage is I don’t believe there is any affection when the time I married him. The whole relationship just gone crazy, I was tired of all the lies happened before. And he is very nice to me make me feel safe. ... (412 words)

Is my indecisiveness keeping me from moving on? I don't want to be treated this way.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey , well i feel that i got no character because am not decisive when it comes to taking decisions , i mean whenever i say am gonna do something or am not gonna talk to a certain person i go back and talk to him like nothing happened even thought they hurt me so bad , my bf is ... (142 words)

Suggestions on how to not look like a moaning, insecure girlfriend? I need them!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in a serious relationship and i am very happy with my boyfriend and very much in love. We got engaged about two months ago and all in all we have a fantastic relationship. He is a very social outgoing guy and his job requires a bit of flirtation to sell but just recently ... (193 words)

Follow up: Would you catch the first plane if you thought he was "the one"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! This post is a follow up to my previous post "What can I say in an email to let him know I'm interested, without being too pushy?". Whoever doesn't want to read whole thing, can just skip to the last paragraph, where I post a general question. Your advice for my other pos... (623 words)

How can I let him know I exist and increase his interest in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - anyone can answer this, male or female i dont mind :) theres this guy i like, he is two years older than me and apsolutely gorgeous! problem is, he doesnt know i exist :/ how can i strike up a conversation with him [preferably on msn as im shy] and get him to like me more? and, ... (73 words)

What are the chances he'll get deported back?

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24 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - im living in the uk and my boyfriend has been in the country 5 years and awaiting a indefinate leave to remain to be approved from home office. i think im pregnant but a bit worried he may get his indefinate refused then i be stuck with the baby? can someone tell me wh... (101 words)

Is my body not ready for sex? My boyfriend told me that.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend tried to have sex but, it didnt work. he says its not my fault its just my body isnt ready. do you have any sugestions as to what to do about this? also he says he needs to be able to put 2 fingers in easily before his dick will fit. is this true?... (65 words)

I'm having flashbacks of all the bad things I've done in the past! How can I get over this and realize I'm actually a good person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

24 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I keep having flashbacks of bad and stupid things i've done in my life and i have constant anxiety about everything. These spells can last for days in extreme cases and can really depress me or they just niggle at the back of my mind. Sometimes i'll remember something i haven't ... (469 words)

Going crazy here, need someone to help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfried just moved. Shes been hanging out with her 30 year old land lord she is 18. We're on a "break" like were not together all the time. she is with him alot watching movies shopping exc.. im i just really jelous or does there seem to be some kind of relationship there. ... (93 words)

Helpppp!!! Pregnant or not??????

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, i badly need help. There might be a chance im pregnant. I havent had my period for about 4 weeks now and ive had all the signs , just not the actual thing. part of me thinks its to do with the pill since ive come off it and i had two light periods in the space of two w... (146 words)

Why does my erection let me down when I'm with a prostitute???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I never get an erection when I am with a prostitute whereas whenever I am with a normal girl I get a good erection. Kindly let me know the reason behind this?... (32 words)

Why did he act this way... is he feeling guilty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my bf for 6 months now, a week ago after we were fooling around and he fingered me I bled a little tiny bit - prob my hymen a little scratched or a little broken - Ii didnt tell him till 2 days we were in bed and he asked me if I still want to break my hymen - I ... (186 words)

Confused Girl!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about 2 years, before he was like the perfect guy in the world and I was soo happy. Today, I am happy with him but due to his moods-swings and his attitude, I don't know what's wrong with him. He says he loves me and can't ... (182 words)

Problems with the family and their culture...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all i'm in turmoil as the man i love is from India and his parents are tradtional hindu's, he went home 6 wks ago and told them all about me and they are devastated, whilst he was over there his mother arranged for him to meet potential wives and even tried to rip up his ... (149 words)

Your advice is sorely needed. What should I do about my feelings for my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in a relationship with a girl but I still fancy my ex girlfriend whom I dated in college. My ex girlfriend says no she will never date me again. What should I do about my feelings for my ex?... (41 words)

Advice needed. How do I get over her and what do I do about my future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have problems everywhere. First i needed to hand a slip in at school to get an interview for the sixth form but i didn't because the courses are just rubbish and the only thing i want to do is become a footballer or a racing driver but if i want to become a racing driver i ... (332 words)

Was I being clingy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am/was (idk right now) with a guy and we havent hung out for a month and I guess I would bug him a lot about the next time we would hang out whenever he said we would soon and he never would be able to. this is also in summer so I dont see him every day in school any more so ... (260 words)

I don't want to leave but I really want the independent uni life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont want to leave my family and friends to go to university but want to move at the same time, I have a good home life, I argue loads with everyone but we love each other soo much... I love my friends and have no boyfriend relationship currently... I dont want to leave but I ... (62 words)

Can laxatives help me lose weight quickly?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Can laxatives help me lose weight quickly? All my friends are so skinny and size 6 and 8... I dont want to lose a great amount of weight, just enough to look like them and one of them said laxatives helped them. thanks... (44 words)

How do I know if he is bored of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend seems so not interested in me any more. He has been acting werid. He used to care who I talked to and he knows hiss ex hates me and I want him to stop talking to her. He did for a while but he is talking again. The funny thing he said I'm controlling who he talks ... (139 words)

Why do I hate that he loves drugs so much? I feel this might be a burden on our relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I am struggling with an issue with my boyfriend and I don't know what to do anymore. I am 23 and my boyfriend is 24 my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2yrs. My boyfriend likes to smoke weed, but until now only did so very seldom (like 5-6 times a month). I never ... (397 words)

What should I give my teacher as a "thank you" present?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - please help me! i only have a few hours to figure this out: i want to get my teacher a thank you present, because i never was at all interested in the subject he teaches before i had him; he made it fun for me. he's a great teacher and has been very kind to me this year. ... (108 words)

Is his temper a behavioral problem? Sometimes I think it's my fault...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost one year. He is my first boyfriend (I'm 21, he's a few years older). He has a bit of a temper and sometimes gets angry at little things. I am a very very sensitive and emotional person, and am not very good at tolerating anger. My ... (728 words)

I asked my girlfriend not to talk to someone I disliked. She did anyway, is she in the wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I asked my girlfriend not to talk to someone i dislike. she told me she wasnt talking to him, and never would. I believed her. However i found out that she had actually spoken to him, i feel betrayed and upset. I really love her, but am i in the wrong for stopping her talking ... (69 words)

She's been seeing this other girl behind my back yet claims she loves me. Is she playing the both of us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really don't know what to do about my girlfriend as was. she's been seeing this other girl behind my back for at least 2 months now and i've only just found out. i've confronted her and she admitted to it, she says she really likes this other girl, but she loves me. she's ... (184 words)

Am I in "friendship zone" with this girl or could her flirting mean more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been working along side this girl for about 8 months now and I am nothing short of crazy about her. My problem is she confuses the hell out of me. She seems to act differently around me compaired to everyone else. I dont want to ruin our relationship as we have to ... (487 words)

He fractured my collar bone...is this likely to happen again?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Well basically i have been with my boyfriend for about 7 months. We're fine, completely, the only problems we've had are his temper. He has a tendency to get extremely agitated and argumentative and often takes stuff out on me (not physical). He's never been properly vi... (132 words)

Do men mind pubic hair?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Hi, I'm so embarrassed I don't know what to say but i have to ask I haven't had sex before and I was wondering about pubic hair do I have to remove it or its okay to leave it there? do men mind? I know its painful and I don't know what to do plz help.... (57 words)

Do I break up with my boyfriend because I kissed another guy on holiday?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I went away for a weekend a few weeks ago and kissed another guy. I thought i was happy with my boyfriend but we had been arguing constantly for weeks before i went away. Then i met this gorgeous guy on holiday and kissed him. now i can't stop thinking about h... (122 words)

I always fall in love with my best friends, do I need help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im the type of person who dont fall inlove easy, ive never had a long relationship and never fallen in love with a guy. My problem is im inlove with my bestfriends. I known her since she was 3 and grown up with her always admired her and protected her and really loved her since ... (179 words)

How can I make amends? I tried to make love to her while she was asleep...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

24 June 2009 (M)

age - My girlfriend and I have been seeing each other going on five months now, she is the best thing that has ever happened to me by far, we share a lot of the same interests, enjoy the same things, and really hit it off better than I ever thought imaginable. After we took our ... (432 words)

Should I meet up with my ex? He said he still fancies me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, my ex sent me a friend request on Facebook afew weeks ago,and i added him.He also sent me a message asking how my lovelife was,if i had a boyfriend,e.t.c, and he said he would like to meet up again sometime.Afew days ago, i saw a comment from this girl he had been seeing ... (236 words)

I'm bisexual and I'm not sure I want to have sex with my girlfriend. How can I overcome this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a female bisexual, currently dating a girl. We've been going out for around 4 months. I care about her alot, but I end up in some bad situations with an unavailable guy. I haven't done anythhing I would count as cheating (yet). I haven't had sex with my girlfriend because ... (104 words)

What changed in our relationship so suddenly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. Some objective perspective would be greatly appreciated here. I have been dating this guy for four months now. We were friends for two years though saw each other rarely as he had been working outside europe at the time. At first I was very reluctant but he ... (374 words)

I'm scared I'm going to lose my dad!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I havent seen my dad in 5 years,,he moved to Argentina together with his new girlfriend he cheated with on my mom...we moved here 7'5 years ago and the money of the house they've sold has dissappeared ( together with my dad) he is not paying for me, even though he should ... (495 words)

What should I get them as a present? Their mom died.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my friends mom died two years ago today and I feel like I should get them something. they are two brothers, 15 and 17, and I want to let them know I'm thinking of them. I was gonna get a card and a cookie cake and a gift card for them to go out to dinner but I feel like I ... (77 words)

What are your views on premarital sex?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there, what do you think with that I think girls and boys should have sex after getting married(for the first time)no sex before marriage what is your opinion?... (31 words)

I don't want to be the guy that uses text sex services. How do I convince her I'll stop?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've done something stupid and need advice on how to make things right. To cut things short, I've been with my gf 7 years, for 5 years we lived together until I left her a year ago. I was tired of my life at the time - I had a long commute to work, lots of work to do at home, ... (390 words)

I have morning sickness....Am I pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Welli've been having a lot of back pains and my period this month was early and spotted wit brownish color.I have mornin sickness alot at nite.an i us bathroom way more than usual.Do youthink im pregnant?... (36 words)

How does the guy feel when he touches a girl's breasts?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

24 June 2009 (?) age 30-35 - When a guy is touching a girl's breasts, it feels good for the girl, but what's the guy how does the guy feel?... (23 words)

How do I even talk to this boy when I'm so shy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) age 26-29 - I am a girl that is really shy and I would like to know how to get this boy that I like to like me back. I hardly ever talk to him because his popular and i'm not! I really need help!... (42 words)

Why didn't the guys I kissed ever get back to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys wanting your advice!!! Basically...I want to know what you guys think of this situation ( and me..) i have only ever kissed two people before, the first guy was at this party i went to (it was only a few months ago) the guy took my number and never called me, it took... (200 words)

My boyfriend wanted "space" and he's texting another girl! Is all trust lost?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have just recently broken up with my partner. We were together for about 11months and it was going so well. We had our arguements like most couples, usually about him working so much and us not spending enough time together. He said he want space. We broke up and have spent 2 ... (186 words)

How do I get over her and what do I do with my future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i have problems everywhere. first i needed to hand a slip in at school to get an interview for the sixth form but i didn't because the courses are just rubbish and the only thing i want to do is become a footballer or a racing driver. but if i want to become a racing driver i ... (329 words)

Will asking him wreck our friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hey guys, i've seen a guy that i really like but i don't know if he likes me. we are good friends, but i am really confused!!! i have liked him since the start of year 7 - maybe 7/8 months now - but i really do not know if by me asking him out it will wreck our friend relation... (65 words)

Confused about my sexuality. Am I gay or bi?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Am i gay, straight, or bi? I like to masturbate to girls getting slimed, etc. but i think that guys are hot and get really turned on and having urges. i never have urges to have sex with girls, so i din;t know what's going on. please help! i'm confused. thanks.... (60 words)

Is masturbating with a condom a good sign for intercourse?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My g/friend says she's now ready for full sex so before we start I've decided to get used to wearing a condom by wearing one in bed when masturbating. They feel ok-plenty sensation and a decent orgasm without semen all on the bedding.Is this a good sign for actual intercou... (66 words)

How can I find out what's bothering him and try to fix it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Can someone pz help me with this question? My boyfriend has been on the fritz lately and i dont know why. He has been being so mean and i am getting tired of it. He acts so mean towards the kids. He hasnt been to work in the past three days and i asked him why and he says it is ... (155 words)

Do I have OCD? Am I gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a teenage male, and I have had homosexual thoughts for the past four years. I do masturbate to gay porn, but I also masturbate to lesbian porn too. Its all confusing for me because it takes me longer to get sexualy aroused over women than it does men, as it does to ... (341 words)

I'm too you for sex but he says no-one will know. What to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi guys i'm menna,14 years old i like a guy,even some times i feel that i love him ,he's about 19 year bt the problem is he wanna us to have sex he tells me that he likes me bt i feel that he says it to make me have sex with him i never felt that he like me bt i really wanna ... (155 words)

I don't want sex, it hurts. Should I give it to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i don't want to have sex with my boyfriend because i'm not yet ready but everytime he touched me in areas gives me tickles and make me want to do it and i cant think well during that state. then everytime he tries to stick his thing in I cry and he stops so i think he cares ... (97 words)

Would this be classified as rape or no?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I basically wanna know if this classes as rape and if the guy still has an interest in me or not. Well about four months ago i went to meet a guy off the internet. He wasnt the first person id met off the internet and i always have an incling if its not right and turn b... (414 words)

Who has stayed with their parter after an affair?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) age 41-50 - hello... I was wondering if anyone could help me out... I recently found out that my partner has been utilizing massage services... Which I wouldn't have a problem with except it was ones that "finish" the job so to speak... Now... That isn't cool... I had a suspici... (630 words)

Cancelled the wedding and I don't feel bad about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I just left my fiance of 3yrs and cancelled our wedding. He was very insecure and always gave me hell if i wanted to go out with a friend, we wanted different things in life and grew apart over the years. He is beyond devestated by my leaving, but I strangly feel ok. Is that ... (100 words)

Going camping and going to get some?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - heyyy please help! well im a virgin and ive never really had a proper boyfriend, and tonight i am going camping with my friends and this guy adam who is a year older then me but not a virgin. we know each other a bit, but mostly though facebook, texts and phone calls we haven... (208 words)

Is he sorry about his affair? Should I forgive him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband has been having an affair with a younger woman from work for five months. I have children and because of that I packed his bag , and asked him to leave. He says he wished he could turn the clock back and see the kids more , also that I have given him the best... (100 words)

Did she cheat? She revealed a "secret" and it's bothering me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, me and my perhaps soon to be ex Girlfriend, "confessed" something to me that has me at a crossroads, I dont know what to do now. We met like the last weekend of the month of january and seemed to hit it off with her. We basically spent the whole month of february dati... (216 words)

I'm worried I smothered her and have lost what we had

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

24 June 2009 (M)

age - i am 45 and after almost 20years of marriage my ex decided to leave me coz i never paid interest in the family, we have 2 boys aged 14 and 11. She was right, work has always been my focus, i loved her, tried what i thought was best and always done as much as i could to make it ... (620 words)

Should I be worried that it's over, or am I making a big deal over nothing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello all, hopefully someone will help me. I have been dating this girl for about 2 months now. At first we stayed talking on the phone for like 5 hours a night, and now it is 15 minutes here 45 there. She never wants to talk on the phone to me while she is around her ... (155 words)

Together again after his affair...but I feel like I'm with a stranger

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

24 June 2009 (?) age 51-59 - Well I am back since my husbands affair, you know I thought things would change they have a bit, I feel more strength in myself. As for my husband, who I cherished the ground he walked on, he looks weak, he no longer is the man I loved and respected I dont even feel sexual ... (169 words)

Why should I change and act all macho? I'm happy as I am!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a 35 year old guy who is in a great relationship with my wonderful girlfriend. The problem is that the way i act people think i'm gay. It makes me mad having to convince people that i'm straight! Maybe it's because of some of the things i do!. I would much rather... (156 words)

He says he only likes me, so why all the fuss?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Please this has really got me confussed,this guy. i'm seeing tells me we are not in a committed relationship because he's married so the other day when he txted me i just ignored him i thought if i did that and never replyed he would get tired of trying to contact me and j... (188 words)

How can I trust her with her ex still in the picture?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I met a girl about 9 months ago she had a boyfriend for about 7 years and she said that he was her first and only boyfriend. Anyway as time moved on she told me that she love me and that made me feel good because I had no one in my life, but she also told me she love him too. ... (478 words)

How does one live happily with a perfectionist?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend and i have been fighting alot lately, we have been together for almost 2 years, i was married when i met him, we seen each other for 6 months before i divorced, i had been married for 20 years, 2 kids 18 and 15, we moved in together after 1 year in the ... (333 words)

He wants sex but I don't. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Noone dont find me attractive ive ony sortaa hadd a boyfriend for a few month but he sed i was boring because i didnt want to do anything sexual with him. We kissed and hugged butt i didint want to be forced to do things.hes wierd with me and outs me down wen hes with his ... (112 words)

How can we get financial assistance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - my fiance and me are trying to find legal help. leagal aid has told us they will not help us. we are living on employment that is not possible to pay for an attorney. we are being sued for financial hardships by her ex husband because we had no choice but had to leave texas ... (156 words)

Who is more important - his friends or me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi guys. recently iv been haveing a few problems, and i think its really affecting my relaitonship. im suffering from depression and i think i have a few other issues. recently me and my partner have been falling out a lot and things are close to an end, we spend time toget... (372 words)

Could seeing me make him more depressed and lonely?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex boyfriend has been really depressed and lonely after us breaking up. He asked me to see him and be in his life in some way, but I refused because I couldn't handle seeing him not as my boyfriend. After two months later from the breakup, I took him out for dinner for my ... (216 words)

She's using their kids for blackmail - what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - The man im with said we cant be together as his ex might stop him having contact with his children. Even though he said he has strong feelings for him and i make him so happy his ex has done this before turned around and that she does not like one of his gfs so he can only see ... (101 words)

Which is more important - personality or looks?

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24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'd like to discuses one of your considerations in life. so just to know who is thinking soul is more important than look? and do you think who considers look is the most important whether in dating,everyday communication or even to love is superficial.I know if I said w... (115 words)

Is this a sign she wants to break up?

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24 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been dating this girl for a littke over a month. At first we would spend hours on the phone at a time. Now it is more like 30 minutes at a time and once a day. We also use to text a lot now she dosn't always reply. It has been a while since I dated so is this normal or ... (72 words)

Is sex important in a relationship?

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24 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay let me just start this out as...I am 21 and still a virgin and would like to stay that way until I'm ready to get married. I have always promised myself I would and I'd rather do so, sex just doesn't seem important to me...I've never even masturbated. Well this past... (380 words)

Why did he cheat if he says I'm the best thing that happened to him?

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24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is new to me, so forgive me. I'm usually the one giving the advice, not asking for it. But for once, I'm stuck. I've known this guy for two years, and we've always been great friends and just about 6 months ago we started talking every single day all day long. Then we ... (367 words)

Is he insecure or just nasty?

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24 June 2009 (F)

age - Hi, I'm hoping for some advice/support. I'm very upset about comments that my partner makes. I've been with him for 4.5 years and gave him loads of support when his ex wife was divorcing him. I live in a council house, have two mixed race children from a previous relatio... (460 words)

Should I end this relationship?

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24 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm dating a guy for the past 3mths and he's a sweetheart, he tells me that he loves me, but he still has his profile on numerous dating websites, I find this disrespectful and I'm seriously thinking of ending this relationship. Can you please advise?... (45 words)

I've found a lump. Can girls get breast cancer at 16?

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24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I found this lump inside my right breast and its realy sore. i just got a new bra the other day, so i guess you could say it's the bra, making me sore, but only one breast is sore and i can feel this lump inside my breast. when i touch it, it kinda moves around a bit lik... (100 words)

My ex keeps calling me and I'm starting to feel scared

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24 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - so my ex left me for my friend and i dont talk to neither of them but my ex is veru confusing, he disses me then is nice to me. he tells everyone he hates me. i dont have any form of feelings for him. hes constantly dissing me! on myspace he said he will kick my a** ... (244 words)

I have an abnormal penis with a lump on it. What is it?

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24 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So need calming down!!! For the past month I have had a whitish lump almost on the base of the head of my penis (I am uncircumcised and it is on the head itself). I have been to the doctor and looked online and it seems it is very probably a swollen lympthatic vesse... (281 words)

We're great friends and I know I'll never be his girlfriend...but I want to be!

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24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm totally in love with this guy but I know he wouldn't like me. We're great friends but I know I'll never be his girlfriend. He is a really really good guy, I've know him for years, but he is not interested in me! He said he wasn't interested in anyone and he has no thoughts ... (157 words)

I've asked him to stop but he won't - what can I do?

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24 June 2009 (F)

age - My husband is flirting over the internet. He goes into instant messenger and flirts with women all over the world. When I confront him, he says its just a joke, nothing serious, it just a hobby. One of these ladies told him she would be visiting the county where he lives for ... (110 words)

Why is love judged by something other than the heart?

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24 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear cupid, I met a guy a year ago, kind of a blind date. We hit it off the first time we laid eyes on one another. The thing is, I am black he is white. He comes from an environment that does not believe in interracial relationships. I know he cares a lot for me, maybe ev... (430 words)

How can I trust him when he tells so many lies??

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24 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Having trust issues with b/f of 3 yrs. I've caught him in several lies. Small ones, like he rec'd a letter from his sister a few months ago, and I happened upon it one day, so later I asked him casually if he ever heard from her and he said No. Medium ones, like whether an ... (260 words)

My life is filled with drama!

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24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - please help me i'm confused. when i was 15 i went to a party did things i'm not proud of i got drunk and made out wit a guy i barely met.i honestly remember the whole thing but the next day i lied and said i dont remember anything but i did.he drank a pill because he had a he... (438 words)

Girlfriend slept with friend before she was "my girlfriend"

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24 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing this girl for about 4 months, and the relationship has been mostly great. She is athletic, caring, friendly, very attractive and has a great personality. I have a high level of trust in her and I know she thinks I am attractive, intelligent and a good guy. ... (483 words)

My Land Lady is Flirting with me!

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24 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hi aunty, Well last few days have been a roller coaster for me.I am a mid 20's guy staying by my self in a small apartment. As per the rules and regulations of the apartments contract,alcohol is not allowed.. But I still do bring beer from outside and I guess my neighbour... (338 words)

Love hurts , .I can't get over him

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24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 15 years old and i had a boyfriend of 9 months its not alot but he was my life we did eerything together we even had sex both our first times. it but i guess the love we had in the beging was just fadding away and he ended it he said it wasnt me but i have a feeling it ... (138 words)

What if....I had a relationship with my wife's sister

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24 June 2009 (M)

age - what if you are not in love with your wife, and discover that maybe you never have been. what if your marriage has gone bad, and you are not intimate any longer with each other and considering divorce. what now if you have fallen in love for her sister. what of you are ... (101 words)

Long story....can I get him back? Is there hope?

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24 June 2009 (F)

age - Hi I am in need of help. My husband of 9 yrs was on meds from the Dr for pain the whole marriage. He is very laid back to begin with and does not show emotion and he is not very compassionate. I thought it was the drugs the whole marriage. We had alot of problems when we ... (1492 words)

How are we ever going to get together?

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24 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so there this guy at the place were I volunteer, we flirt all the time. He works there and one day he asked me how old I was and he keeps showing up in the kitchen when I am volunteering and teases me and all. He asked me if I had a boyfriend. And then he asked me one day ... (481 words)

Why am I jealous of my sister?

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24 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have recently felt concerned about my relationship with my sister. She is younger than me (2 years), a doctor, and engaged to a good looking man who adores her. I am a real estage agent, really enjoy my job etc, and very happy with my life in general. However, for some ... (171 words)

How can I stop my ex from haunting me?

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24 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I separated from my (now) ex-H over a year ago. A few months later I decided the relationship was way beyond saving, so I told him to sign the D papers in September 2008. The papers were legal just this March, but things were over far before then. We were together 10 years ... (777 words)

What should I do with this guy at work flirting with me having a GF in the same company?

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24 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a co worker of mine. His GF works in the same company but different area. I know both of them, although I knew him long time ago. I´ve seen lately that he likes to talk to me and likes to hang around me and when he sees me he tried to get close to me. He even waited for ... (268 words)

Should I get there first and end it before he does?

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24 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy at uni and become really close to him. we lost touch for a couple of years and recently met up . with a bit of alcohol and the obvious attraction still there, we ended up kissing. a week later caught up again and decided we'd be together and see how things go. its ... (255 words)

He keeps breaking his promises. Should I stop all contact?

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24 June 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Hi my ex broke up with me. He had mentioned to me about being friends. At first I didn't want to , because I was so in love with me and my hurt would start all over again when ever I talked to,but not by the grace of God and advice from you all my heart is stsrting to heal. ... (355 words)

I don't want to break his heart - what should I do?

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24 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been talking to this guy I met on the net for the past 2 months. We had really hit it off. We talked forever on the phone and the net. I knew what he looked like and all and I knew he was overweight and I wanted to look past that, also he said he was in the proccess of ... (263 words)

I'm scared about having sex

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24 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 7 month's and all we have done sexually is he has fingered me. i really don't want him feeling like i won't do anything with him but i'm just scared since i never have before. we've planned on having sex which i want ... (68 words)

Is it a good idea to arrange a meeting between ex and current boyfriends?

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24 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i've been with my boyfriend for a while, but ever since we've gotten together, i find that my interests in other men have increased. i feel confident enough to be in the presence of other men i find attractive, and not blush and bow my head, like i usually do. i feel even more ... (434 words)

Miscarriage Question

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24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it possible to have a miscarriage if you have a MRI scan done during earlier stages Of pregnancy?... (19 words)

I want to get over my ex but my aunt is wont let me forget!

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24 June 2009 (F) age 41-50 - About 6 years ago, I started seeing someone. I didn't tell my family because i wasn't ready to tell them. Some how my aunt found out about us. She went and told all the women in the family and she was suppose to be my friend. Then she went to his job asking people questons ... (332 words)

My mom's boyfriend did this to me, what do I do!

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24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well for starters, this isn't an easy topic to discuss. I've had so much guilt, and frustration built in that I don't think I can do it anymore. My mom's boyfriend has been living with us now for almost 2 years. At first he seemed really cool, and really nice. He would bu... (479 words)

I bet the first thing they will want to do is find guys to hook up with!

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24 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - my good friend invited me to the beach with her this summer. and she sounded really excited about it but then she invited these 2 other girls. if those girls were my friends i wouldnt be anoyed with that fact but those 2 girls are lets say sluts who are with guys 24/7 unless ... (164 words)

I like him but I fear he was indifferent to me like other girls

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24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 16. ok so i liked this guy for almost a year now. hes so cool and amazing. ok well we hung out a couple of times and i had tons of fun. plus went we hung out we got really close. we were laying on top of each other and and biting each others noses. he carried me around and ... (277 words)

Do I hold onto someone who doesn't want to be held onto?

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24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend recently broke up with me because he says we rushed into things too fast. We were together for 2 months and had sex after the 1st month. I wanted to wait and so did he but one thing led to another. Like after we did it everything was fine, until a couple weeks ... (253 words)

I don't know him very well...any ideas?

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24 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - K i like this guy who doesnt like me.....yet he said he doesnt like me i really really really want him too though how can i get him to like me?? Inside info: he likes all sports mostly hockey Im gonna see him at a campground this weekend I dont know him very well He is rea... (80 words)

Should I trust him or not?

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24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so me and this guy have been talking as friends for about a month and a half now. I know he likes me and same goes for him but the problem is I don't know whether or not to believe that he is still together with his ex girlfriend. He said no but did mention that she still ... (186 words)

Do u think he was talking about me?

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24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok sry its so long okay so the guy i had a crush on for 5 onths added me on facebook on friday night and he worte on my wall and since then we have been talking wall-to-wall. until this evening when he didn't write back..then he changed his facebook status to'ahhhh kay f*c... (153 words)

He broke up with me because he loves me too much and is afraid I'm going to hurt him?

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24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice. My boyfriend of 2 months broke up with me the other day because he was scared that I would hurt him and that he was too in love with me. He races motocross so we hardly ever get to see one another. Anyways, he told me that he wanted to get to know me better ... (150 words)

Has he been using me for sex all this time?

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24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known this guy since middle school. I'm sixteen and so is he. We've had sex eight times without protection, which I now realize was very stupid. I've been stupid and so has he. A couple of days ago I had a pregnancy scare. Luckily, I ended up getting my period. When I told ... (196 words)

I like her, she has a boyfriend that she never mentions..do I tell her I like her?

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24 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Lately, I think I've fallen for this girl in my class at college. We talk all the time, and we even go to the gym after class together sometimes...so we get a bit of alone time to talk each week. The thing is she has a boyfriend who I've only seen in pictures through facebook... (136 words)

I think I love him but I can't read his feelings!

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24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known this boy well for four years now. Over these years, we have built a close friendship - or at least, I perceive it that way. I consider him one of my best friends, and I know he considers me at least a good friend, but this is part of the problem, I cannot really ... (448 words)

He masturbates to my cousin's naked pics! I'm so angry about this..am I over reacting?

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24 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a 20 year old cousin who works as a model. Recently I found my husband keeps naked pictures of her in his sock drawer. We see her at family gatherings and I'm scared he will want to have an affair with her. She flirts a lot with him but she is like that with a lot of ... (100 words)

Are we a good match?

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24 June 2009 (F)

age - I was born on Oct. 30,1960 I believe in the pm, and he was born feb.14,1960 at 11:35 pm, are we a good match?... (24 words)

Will I ever be happy again?

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24 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been divorced, have 2 kids, broken heart from a one year relationship with married man, suffering from sleep disorder and depression lately,and I've got no one to talk to about and no crying shoulder. Am I ever going to be happy again and find the love of my life and... (57 words)

Why won't she return my call?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

24 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I met this girl about a month and a half ago, and we started talking, and hanging out all the time. She would stay the night multiple times, sometimes days at a time. She would also leave her things over at my place. Ive met her parents and she has asked me to come to her house ... (428 words)

Why do I constantly feel tired?

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24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I am fifteen years old, ever since school ended, I haven't been able to get to sleep until about three, four, five am in the morning, I then don't got up into mid afternoon.. I feel tired all the time but I cannot sleep, I move around lots and it takes me at least half a... (157 words)

Is that special girl ever meant to come into my life?

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24 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 18 years old and single. I am happy with life, have good friends. I have never had much luck with females. I asked a girl out two years ago and got rejected. I talk to girls but can't tell the signs if they're interested. If they flirt it just seems a game and nothing ... (150 words)

My dog bit me! Will I have a scar?

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24 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i just got bit by my dog i went to kiss him and he must have panicked or something and bit my lip hes never done this before. anyway it hurts but not too bad my lip has doubled in size due to swelling the cute doesnt seem to be too deep and stopped bleeding badly aft... (161 words)