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writes:Hello all....well me and my girlfriend got into it because of another fight and i told my friend to call her on 3 way so i can hear her voice (She wouldnt pick up she was mad at me)...when they started to talk i noticed how she acted..when he told her something she sounded really happy...she even laughed..i never got her like that before (i made her laugh but this laugh was as tho h e had her heart)..she tells me everyone acts diffrent to certain people.....But is it really like that?...shes told me they talked before on the phone either she called him to get some info out of him about me or he called her..he says he called her to talk about a certain video game and some martial arts....she tells me she calls cause there friends (Thats what friends do) ...but the nshe tells me she calls him when shes mad at me...why would she do that if your mad at me why would you even be thinking of my friend..i think they have a little thing going on but they tell me they dont...when they were on the phone on 3 way the way she sounded was totaly diffrent from she talked to me...how would i know if they have something going on..im so hurt inside i dont know what to do, i think she has feelings for him..but she says no way.but i cant believe that its just something in my gut it just hurts that another guy can make her feel that way without knowing and or even trying....and when i try i get nothing i make her laugh but not like that im so hurt i know they talked about more that games and martial arts on the phone...i know they have..but no one will tell the truth....what if they are telling the truth Reply to this Question
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reader, Missioncircle1 +, writes (19 June 2009):
Missioncircle1 is verified as being by the original poster of the question ...today i asked her have i ever called and she was on the phone with him...she told me yes..but she switched over and told him she had to go..but i wonder what they were talking about...the things shes telling me doesnt sound right
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2009): I can't tell you if they are telling the truth or not. But ask yourself this; has your gf ever lied to you before or given you reasons to doubt her? Has your friend?
I have been in a similar situation, my bf and one of our female friends seemed to hang out a little too much in my opinion, and looking at the way they talked and reacted made me sick to the stomach. I asked both of them if something was going on and I regret it to this day. They weren't and they were telling the truth, but it ruined my relationship with the girl which had been one of my good friends, and my bf and I got major trust issues, they are getting much better, but it's hell to go through.
The best advice I can give you is to tell your gf how it made you feel to hear her laugh that way etc. And if she says nothing is going on, and nothing prior to this has given you reason to doubt that she's telling the truth, then believe her. You might have difficulty at first, but if they really are telling the truth then how can they show you that nothing is going on.
Hope this helped and good luck
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reader, Missioncircle1 +, writes (16 June 2009):
Missioncircle1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOh anther thing she told me she talked ot him because he reminds her of me...she sasy its good to talk to someone who reminds her of me becasue its like im there but without the stress that we have during arguments...What kinda mess is that i thouhgt ...im so hurt..she says they only proably talekd 10 times out of the year...for about 30min + ...and im thinking about what they told me they talked about..and now im thinking shes telling me a lie because u have to talk about more than that for 30 min +....she said it was just about anything....i bet ...it makes me so mad and i wanna cry ,,
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