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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

First Time....Viginal Problems

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex for the first time on a Sunday evening. the sex was rough and painful(used protection by the way) since i was with a more experienced person. As what most female would expected, i bled. But now for two days (Tuesday) i continue to bled (mostly when i wake up)only when ... (118 words)

I went online pretending to be another woman and my boyfriend fell for her!!!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I used this fake account and added my boyfriend on it. I started talking to him as her, and he started to flirt with her. He said he would kiss her and most probably have sex with her! I kept asking him about me his girlfriend and he was acting like he didn't care about me. He ... (140 words)

How do people stay away from others they know are bad for them?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Help me. Besides being a bit of a Well, I cheated. I didn't enjoy sleeping with a stranger. I strongly suspect he was more attracted to my pocket book than to me. I understand now that it was not destiny, but i don't really understand what it was. I let him treat me worse ... (348 words)

I feel like such a sinking wreck...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm beginning to feel like my life has come to a halt. Just come out of a bad and messy split with my fiancee of 5 years-he has been emotionally abusive and has completely and utterly financially drained me-i managed to get debt help but my credit ratings ruined for ages... (205 words)

What can I do that's special to celebrate our 1 year anniverary?

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30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My 1 year anniversary with my boyfriend is coming up and we don't know what to do to celebrate it but I really want to make it special. I'd really like to hear some suggestions or what you did on your 1 year anniversary :P Any suggestions welcome =)... (57 words)

We want to elope but I don't want my parents to feel cheated in seeing me get married.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend asked me to marry him a week ago and we still haven’t told anyone. We want to avoid the tension, stress and drama that come with planning a wedding and not to mention the debt. We just want to go on a tropical vacation together and elope before coming back here and ... (127 words)

Why has my teacher been treating me differently than anyone else?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why has my teacher been treating me differently than anyone else? This year, he's given me full credit (twice) for an answer that I put, and half to the rest of the class who wrote the same answer. He's also thrown papers to everyone else but handed them to me. He's also gi... (103 words)

I really want to get on with my boyfriend's family.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem.. My boyfriend is a different nationality to me and his mum and dad speak a different language to me and know limited english. I've met them a lot of times but have barely said anything more than 'hi'. I don't know what to say to them :S it doesn't help t... (153 words)

He feels more like a friend than a boyfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for three years, a long time considering we are both only 18. However When we kiss I start to feel weird and as if the act is wrong, so we stop. This happens 80% of the time and I don't ever feel like I want to start kissing or for this to p... (260 words)

Help! Anger problems...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so heres my problem.. I think I have a problem with my anger.. I always fly off the handle for stupid reasons, especially at my boyfriend. It's putting a strain on our relationship as I get really angry at him for no reason. When I'm angry, I honestly can't stop and... (103 words)

Can I make my butt bigger?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a really sensitive tailbone that hurts when I sit for a long time, and it makes it hard to do certain exercises like sit ups and stuff. It still hurts if I put a pad on the floor or do sit ups on a bed. I'm 5'4" and weigh around 115 lbs usually. I've recently been to the ... (180 words)

Is it normal to masturbate "to porn" while in a relationship?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with this guy for 3 years and I was just wondering if it is normal to masturbate "to porn" while in a relationship. I understand that it is a natural thing but when I think of him masturbating to another naked women it makes me feel insecure, un-wanted, like I'm not ... (79 words)

Boyfriend being completely insensitive and will never support me when I need him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some relationship help. I've not been getting on with my partner lately and it's really stressing me out. I've had a lot of issues this year and he hasn't helped me through any of it. The first major one was that i had major issues about him seeing other woman nak... (946 words)

Would you date someone who got divorced at 25?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I met someone I fell in love with when I was 22 years old. We instantly fell for each other, about 4 months later we moved in together and spent pretty much every day together for the next 2 1/2 years. Because we were from different countries, I moved to be with him, and we ... (318 words)

I miss them sexy moments with her, I'm desparate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi im mitesh n im 19years old i had sex withmy gf many times....but now i had a break off...im missing those sexy moments of my life...n problem is its making me more desperate...as any women passes by i jus check her out 4rm top 2 bottom n it feels like having sex with ... (82 words)

Should I just leave the pieces on the floor and move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello...I am a lesbian and my ex girlfriend and I are trying to be together again. We were together in 2008, for a little over 9 months. Through this time she went to alcohol and drug rehab, and I myself was going through a recovery process too. The timing of our relationship ... (306 words)

Is G-spot stimulation the only way to get a real orgasm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've always wondered when girls say they've never orgasmed through masturbation or sex. Does it mean they haven't orgasmed through clitoral stimulation? Or G-spot? I'm just confused 'cause I can easily orgasm through clitoral stimulation by myself, and that can't be incredi... (76 words)

Has anyone here had breast enlargements? I'm considering it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been wanting to get a breast enlargement for years and really want to go up 2 cup sizes but still look very natural as if they were my own. I was wondering if anyone could give me any advice on who is the best or own personal stories. do your breasts feel hard? Do they ... (83 words)

I'm married but I can't stop thinking about my ex! How can I get him out of my mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay well here's my dilemma. I can't get an old lover out of my head. It's been years since we've seen eachother and the majority of our relationship was sexual, but I always find myself thinking back and feeling what I felt years ago. I constantly have the desire to re... (122 words)

How can I make our night alone romantic?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and My boyfriend have the house to ourselves for a night. I want to make to romantic but im not really sure what I could do to 'set the mood'. any ideas? any music suggestions would be great to x... (45 words)

Since moving in with him it feels like sex is a chore! How can I spice things up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been living together for almost a year and im beggining to think that were just having sex because its routine now. It seems to be when we go to bed and because we sleep naked we just have sex. Its lost its excitment of undressing ang for play. Its all ... (97 words)

Confused about online guy I like

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - im 13 i met this guy online he lives in mexico and i live in the US he is sweet we talk every day idk if he likes me this happened a month ago i asked him wat he was doing and he said talkin with some 1 (it was a girl) and he said i dont like her then i said did u think i was ... (98 words)

How do I tell her I think about her when I masterbate?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - ok well i don't know how to say this but my gf just resently asked if i masterbated and i said yes and i have been wanting to tell her that when i masterbat i think of her but idk how to tell her i mean i want to tell her bcuz we tell each other everything and i love her i just ... (71 words)

I don't know what to do. I'm falling for my ex's brother!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Helpp! im really lost and confused. need some advice because everyone keeps telling me something different everytime i bring it up. my ex and i broke up in january and we never told anyone we were dating. he always denies it now even his brother doesnt know. we never talk an... (189 words)

Hair is getting me down. Why is it so frizzy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My hair is getting me down. Ok - so my hair has never been my best asset - it is long, uncontrollable - never goes properly straight etc etc. But just recently - I have noticed it is REALLY frizzy and to me is very annoying as it just looks awful! What could be causing this ... (103 words)

What the most embarrasing makeout or intercourse session you have ever had?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Have you ever done something embarrasing during a makeout session or during intercourse (sex)? ok this is suppose to be fun so share with other people the most embarrasing or funny thing that happened ill go first and feel free to add your stories. Well here is my story. my ... (146 words)

Are porn sites bad for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - When I was 11. I was goning on porn sites till I was 15. Why? Because I was curouse and I want to know if that it can change the way I act? Also, is going on porn sites is bad for you and me? If yes, tell me everything please. ... (51 words)

He told me he was divorced now I want him to leave his wife for me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know your all gonna call me bad names but its so hard, i really like him and miss him loads, when i met him he told me he was divorced and i deserve a nice rich boyfriend and said he would fit that category, hes a lawyer and gets paid a fair bit. He eventually told ... (114 words)

I'm so scared of giving a blow job!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 20 and I've NEVER given a blow job! I don'tknow how to, I was always scared of doign it wrong. All my life I've been scared of almost EVERYTHING. I was 17 when I had my FIRST boyfriend after bing scared of relationships. And 19 when I FIRST had sex nd that was after I ... (194 words)

I don't know what to do. I split from my fiancee.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - please please somebody give me some good advice. i feel so alone i dont know what to do. i split with my fiancee 6 weeks ago. i met him through working at the same place where i was best friends with him. at the time i was seeing somebody else who also worked there but t... (398 words)

My boyfriend is financially dependent on me. Will he ever change?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is always broke! We've been together for 4 years, living together for 2 years. I am a recent grad with BS, he doesn't even have a GED. I'm 24, he's 25, but he's been financially dependent on me and it's draining my savings. He's a great boyfriend in every ot... (383 words)

I like his friend, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my friends have started hanging around with one of my friends brothers and his mates. They all go to a different school from me and my friends. All of us have a sort of thing going with a different one of these lads. Its nothing official. But anyways, i did some things ... (130 words)

I want a divorce, how do I bring the subject up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have posted two other questions. Here’s another. Like ya’ll know my husband has fathered another child. I’ve known about this since last Nov. 2008. We have been trying to work things out for the sake of our family. Things haven’t been going so smoothly. We have are ups and ... (255 words)

Are the rumours true or is he lying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - well pratically i don't know what to believe. i found out that the other day my boyfriend said he fancied one of my mates, but i took a long time to think about it, and i figured that was false, as i spoke to him and he said this was a couple of months ago when i hardly k... (243 words)

Why am I more attracted to married woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Why am I more attracted to the married woman? ... (9 words)

I cry hysterically on rollercosters, how do I get over this fear?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im going to bush gardens tomorrow with my family and I don't want to be a party pooper ... so I kinda wanna ride the roller coasters too but I get so scared and I cry hysterically the last time I was on one I was 11 ... and im 17 but still any advice ... (55 words)

Did I have a miscarriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I had a miscarriage back in january. I was in a relationship back then and we had unpretected sex once or twice..I was 2 weeks late with my period, and then my stomach started to really hurt. It was an unbearable sort of pain, that was so bad it would wake me up and ... (161 words)

4 Problems! What my sexuality?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm so confused and emotional. I have a lot of compliacted situations and I really need help and someone to turn to. I've known I was different since I was 13. I was friends with a boy lets call him Tom I was kinda attracted to him, and sat close to him and stuff, encrouchi... (837 words)

When I came down to it, he couldn't get it in. How do I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Background info im 16 and still a virgin ive been with my bf for quite a while and we both felt that it was right. but when it came to it. it wouldnt fit we used lube aswell but still no change, i tried to relax as best as i could but it didnt work. i am extreeemley embarris... (142 words)

She blames me for everything and split me and him up!

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30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - friends who dont like you being friends with other flamen people! im sick to death of this. seriously. my so called best mates have a go at me over being out with someone older than them. making me hide the fact im out with him from them so they dont have a go at me but they... (309 words)

I'm horrible to guys when I'm with them. Help me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have major issues with relationships , I'm 19 and I've never been in a serious relationship I always end up kissing boys once and that's it , I rarely ever end up being with them more then once. I'm not a slut or anything I have never even had sex because I want to be in a ... (280 words)

He told me he loves me but not 'in' love with me, cheating at the same time. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 6 yrs just told me he love me but not in love with me.we have a 3 yrs old boy and live together.what does that mean.he have been seein women behind my back.will that relationship work and lead to marriage?... (43 words)

Should I be worried about this teenage crush? Advice needed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My 40 yr old boyfriend has a 17 yr old daughter. The daughters friend is 15. They have been friends for a few months and the 15 yr old has stayed at our house a few times. It appears to me the friend has a crush on him but he doesn't see it. If he is sitting on the huge ... (210 words)

Want to get rid of these stretch marks! What are the best creams to use?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm going on 16 and i'm pretty skinny but now that i'm actually growing lol i'm starting to get stretch marks on my butt and hips, wat's the best coco butter to use for this? i want to either minimize their appearence or just get rid of them, my friend told me to do squats and ... (73 words)

My wife has lost all sex drive. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a happily married husband of 24 years with 2 gorgeous children and a beautiful wife. We have been married for 8 years, I am nearly 32, she is 31. I used to vists my family weekly since my job is away from family. After ourlast child ws born, my wife is reluctant to have ... (145 words)

What do I do about my ex? I don't want to be back in the friends zone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I dated a fantastic, uniquely interesting woman for a very short time, but we were both deeply (almost soulfully) involved. It was too quick, too deep, and she broke it off for no real obvious reason, just saying that sometimes she felt confused; like, maybe I was the right ... (273 words)

Did I play too hard to get to win my ex back? What should I do?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay. If you like love stories (or something that sounds like one lol), read this. I need help with an Ex whom I really like/wanna be with. We're pretty much RIGHT for each other. This is gonna be long, so be prepared. This AWESOME (my dream girl) chick, broke up with me... (1478 words)

Please help with Hong Kong and Uk exchange rates

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have recently moved to Hong Kong and would like to transfer money back to my existing bank accounts in the UK. Can anyone suggest what is the best and most efficient way to do this without losing money in the exchange or due to bank charges? Thanks... (54 words)

Girlfriends going away for college soon and I'm afraid that she might cheat!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

30 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend be going to college in a few months, and as each day passes, I get more and more worried. We have been together for awhile and we love each other dearly. My girlfriend hasn't really partied since we've been together, but she has drank a few times. She hasn't drank ... (229 words)

Husband is being a hypocrite about Myspace friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

30 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I just found out today that my husband deleted the one guy I had on my myspace profile. My husband has women on his and one ex, yet the second I add a male on mine, he has to be deleted instantly. It wouldn't bug me so much, except he writes to these women and tells them they ... (177 words)