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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Boys are tooooo confusing!!! My ex is being all nice to me now!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so my ex messages me the other day saying a bunch of very rude things to me. he was the one boy i was completely head over heals for. i mean im not gunna lie im still physically attracted to him but not so much mental. what do you think i should do. because now hes being ... (61 words)

Rules for dating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - heyy im 14 and i have my first boyfriend... its great he's so nice and polite and actually perfect... everything is going great... but i was just wondering is there like rules? like when to do this and when to do that? how long before your supposed to say the "L" word?... i ... (74 words)

My horny friend!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay well the other day me and my best friend were hanging out and we were messing around throwing pillows at each other and stuff then outta nowhere she tells me she's horny. I mean i was horny too i guess but didnt wanna say anything. then she gets on top of me and i guess ... (89 words)

I feel as if I'm in a loveless void... how can I find love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a hard working person in a loveless void, I would love to have advice on how to find a girlfriend, but it just does not happen. I see people every day hanging out with their lovers and it makes me so sad, because I know I probably will never meet their goal of having a ... (98 words)

Opinions please... Is it too soon to be in love with each other?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, just a quick one, would really appreciate a reply, thanks guys. i met this girl a week ago, we've spoken every night for hours and hours and i really love her. i told her i did and she said she did too. we can be completely honest and i trust her completely. she's 3 years ... (121 words)

Ladies, is "friends with benefits" ever NOT an attempt to lure an unattainable guy into an exclusive relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

17 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been in a FWB before. I am being offered another one now. Let's get real. Is this ever something girls do and they're NOT just settling for it? Wouldn't they ALWAYS really rather have an exclusive relationship with that guy if he was willing? That was what I got i... (80 words)

Do you think there was no interest ever on his part... or was he interested but our age difference bothered him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - There's this guy that I really liked..we go to the same college, and from my intuition I thought he seemed pretty interested, he would stare at me a lot, look away smiling, we bumped into each other and he ran ahead to open the door for me, I think he tried coming to me to say ... (343 words)

What signs do I look for to tell if they're really interested in me?

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17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I was hoping someone could help me out a little. There's two guys that I'm kind of interested in, and with both of them it's hard to tell if they might be interested too. So what are some obvious and more subtle signs that a guy might be into a girl? Thanks :-)... (62 words)

Sex just DOESN'T happen with us any more...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my partner have been together for about 4 years, the last 18 months or so 'sex' does not happen! Well it does but once a month at the most. I dont know why and it could break us. Its as if she just dosnt want it any more. What could be the reasons for this? and, what ... (62 words)

What can I do? I'm in a sexless marriage!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (M)

age - I have been in a sexless marriage for about 4 years. My wife is a recovering alcoholic which means she has loads of behavior problems.There is no part of our relationship working at the moment. I want us to go to get help but she will not go. Where do I go from here. This ... (86 words)

I keep my mouth shut to support my friend... what else can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I know this site is normally for love relationships, but what about friendships? I have a friend who I met when we were 13. Her parents were both extremely abusive towards her. Countless times she would call me crying about the horrific things they did or said to her.(ive ... (201 words)

I tend to break up each time with someone and I don't seem to care at all.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 21 years old and my problem is that whenever i break up with a guy i dont care at all i mean i dont feel upset at all, usually girls cry or something , i guess it ment that i didnt love each person i've been with especially when i remember their negative sides it made me ... (79 words)

I'm a 30 year old virgin and I feel judged for wanting a virginal woman...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

17 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Non religious 30 year old male virgin here. I am wondering what women think of me for wanting an inexperienced partner. Of course I have had chances to have sex with lots of women since I was a teenager but I turned it down because I want to share that experience with someone ... (297 words)

He still looks at me the same way he did. Please help me get over him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I know it may sound really stupid me sending this, because im 13. My boyfriend of 11 months broke up with me 2 weeks ago. I'v tried all the advice i can get but i still cant seem to get over him. He still looks at me the way he used to, but now he talks like he's to nervo... (99 words)

How to break destructive cycle in our marrige?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Does anyone have ideas on how to break what has become a destructive cycle in our marriage. Namely, when we are angry and arguing (which is normal), things escalate to the point where he is calling my every filthy thing that comes to his mind and I either plug my ears and cry, ... (127 words)

He said choose me or your best friend! I can't bare losing either of them

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. ive just turned 16 last week and ive been giong out with my boyfriend for over 6 months now i love him so much. he means so much to me but now hes been arguing with my best friend and he says he wants nothing more to do with her and he said that i have to choose between ... (86 words)

Is it safe skipping the pill for 7 days?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, i'm on the pill at the moment and due on this weekend but i've got a big weekend planned so i don't want to be on. I've heard that you can skip the 7days of taking no pills but instead just start a new pack and start taking them again straight away which makes you skip ... (71 words)

Is it worth waiting to see if he changes his mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hi i am a single mother of three sons, and in a long distance relationship. we have been together now for two and a half years. My partner also has two children from previous relationships. we live quite a distance from each other and usually get to see each other every two ... (217 words)

He hasn't moved on neither have i. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend broke up with me about two months ago, and I can't stop thinking about him. I've had another boyfriend since then to try and get over him but it just doesn't work. My relationships have been horrible, whenever I think about him I just want to cry, and my friends ... (68 words)

I feel like I have to put on a fake smile. I just don't fit in!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like i'm drowning. I wake up in the morning and don't want to get out of bed, i don't want to face everything. The minute i leave the privacy of my room i put a smile on my face and act happy all day, and it's a lie. I don't know what to do. My friends are really ... (224 words)

Family verses boyfriend. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5663 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I come from country XXX. I moved to Canada when I was 18 to study. I've been living in Canada for eight years now. I've been with my boyfriend for three and have lived with him for two. Marriage discussions have taken place since a while back. He has visited my country XXX ... (519 words)

Choosing between 2 people...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - at the start of my level three course i meat this guy(for privacy reasons I'll use the name (matt) and we became like best mates i even put some of my longer friendships aside for him, its like he was my reason to go to college, and one day he told me that he really liked me ... (238 words)

Tutor- student relationship (love)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm almost 20 years old and im a student. when i first started my course 3 years ago i met this guy not knowing anything about him at the time, and i fell in love with him from the first moment i met him, hes nearly 30 yrs of age. and we'v had a few good moments, sometimes we'l ... (282 words)

We've tried everything we can think of, but I just can't get pregnant!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi guys , i have been married for 2 years and trying to concieve for 1 year and half but no luck . we have tried different positions . but i want to know whats the best position for getting pregnant ? and can i still get pregnant if i'm on top or if we do the dogie style? pl... (67 words)

I run away from intimacy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I’m 24 - feel really silly even writing this but hey if some people can give their view then why not, you don’t know who I am - I haven’t so much as kissed a girl in 4years. I enjoy going out and speaking to new people but as soon as I sense that spark of sexual energy in... (212 words)

He never wants sex anymore now that I'm pregnant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok well.. im 6 months pregnant, been going with my boyfriend for a year and a half and our relationship is great hes really excited about the new arrival, hes loving caring and affectionate towards me, he tells me how much he loves me all the time and seems really happy. t... (157 words)

She's screwed in the head. Why does she do his?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is not help for me, i just really want to know what you guys think is going on in this girls head. I guess im usual old curious george. I know it has absolutely nothing to do with me, but ive been dragged into the situation and so has my boyfriend, and i like to understand ... (361 words)

My boy refuses to talk to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So in December, my baby and i stopped talking because he refused to see me the first week i came back home from school and it had been 3 months since the last time i had seen him. He was busy with his brother who also came from London to spend Christmas break wit him. I got ... (135 words)

Is 22in waist reasonable for a 5ft 4in, 110 pound girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 5'4" and I weigh about 110-115 on average. My measurements are 34-25-35. My butt is kind of average to flat so most of my hip measurement comes from my actual hips, not my butt. I've always had kind of big hips in comparison to the rest of my body, and for my size and ... (138 words)

She's started ignoring me for some reason and I don't know what to do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

17 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I used this website a few months ago and found everyone who answered a REALLY big help but I'm in another predicament now. Okay just to give you all a general idea of all the details, I have just finished college (messed up in my first year and had to start over again) and ... (550 words)

She won't let what happened to me in the past go and now it's ruining our relationship!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

17 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Reading an e-mail yesterday of a woman who wanted to know whether she should tell her husband about her cheating. Well maybe you guys out there may be able to help me. I have been with my partner for 6 years, 2 children 4 and 2. After the birth of our 1st daughter my partner ... (409 words)

How can I get that cheerful girl back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - please bear with me and read this people.. i need as many opinions as possible.... i dumped my gf cuz i didnt love her... i deeply care for her though... she has become devastated... lost faith in relationships and has become extremely low esteemed ... she cries and says s... (465 words)

What should I do about all of this? Wise opinions needed!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I have quite a hard question to ask. I have fallen in love for the first time and it is the greatest feeling i've ever felt in my life. I'm sure a lot of you have been there before when you don't even notice anyone else it's quite funny sometimes. I don't really have to ... (504 words)

Help! I don't want to lose control!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone I've written before of how I hate my ex husband to the gutts. Well, I still do, my feelings has not changed. This man gets amnesia for his child. He suddenly forgets that the baby exists and lives his own life apart. He has a visitation order which he does not... (542 words)

Is it wrong to fall for your step cousin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it wrong to fall for a step-cousin? There is absolutley no blood relation. Feelings are intensely growing on both sides. He doesn't see me as family at all. We grew up being taught that we were family, but he doesn't honor the concept. As for me, I am beginning to rej... (62 words)

Problems with orgasms!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my partner have been together for some time now, and as far as the relationship as a whole goes we are great, he is an amazing man, and after all this time i still stand by that, however, we do have little problems in the bed room..... there are 2 things the 1st of which ... (259 words)

What are the chances of him repeating the same mistake again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - What are the chances of him repeating the same mistake again? If a guy ever cheated on his girlfriend. Then he broke up. Then has another new girlfriend. What are the chances of him repeating the same mistake again? People always says, second comes after the first. That... (104 words)

Help!!! Torn between two...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So...here's the thing. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. The first 2 years were amazing, but after that, things started to dwindle. I feel as if I am falling out of love with him. I mean, I love him, and that will never change, but there is just no spark anymore.... (293 words)

I'm going through a break up and don't know what to do. Suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Going thru a little, I dont know, distancing break up kind of thing..I guess..and I am trying to just get my mind off of this man..and well its been tough..maybe I should replace him? Go back to yoga..lol..... (39 words)

I don't want sex anymore with my wife! What's going on here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

17 June 2009 (M) age - I wonder,if you guys can help me out here.. I don't feel like having sex anymore with my wife.. I'm 47. Is it ok to not want sex in this age? Does it happen a lot to men? What does my night erection mean. I'm healthy, just not with her? I don't think of anybody else, I j... (107 words)

Ideas for masterbating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i want to masterbate! but i can only do it when im alone in the house but always doing it with my finger gets boring and i dont and do not plan on getting a vibrator. what r other good ways to masterbate?... (43 words)

What can I do to get this infatuation out of my head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a female, and I have liked one of the female teachers at my school for quite a few years. I don't think it's love, it's more a strong infatuation. I understand that I will never get anywhere with her; that was never what I wanted. People have teased me for so long about it, ... (120 words)

He wants a break but he won't say for how long...Should I stay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (F) age 26-29 - well to start off me and my boyfriend of 1 year split up recently. It was his choice really and he got really mad at me. this week he's been acting very strange telling me he still loves me and he only wants a break. But i still love him and i dont want a break for too long. Im ... (113 words)

Should I tell my new man about my problems with my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age - Hi: I have been talking to a very nice gentleman online for approx. one month. We will be meeting this weekend. He seems very nice. He is totally the opposite from my ex boyfriend. This person is intune to my feelings, he calls, he texts, he sends me ecards, he is very ... (257 words)

I don't know what to do anymore! She broke up with my and together with someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - What should i do..this is a long winded story cut short. Met this girl when i was 15, we had interests in eachother through out the years and always confessed it to eachother yet nothing happend..we went out with other people but they ended becuase we were looking for eachother ... (163 words)

Should I try sex with a boy to see if I like it? Where to go from here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i am in a predicament at the moment. I have only ever been with girls and had gf's ext. but for a few years now all I ever watch is gay porn and have fantasised myself with guys alot, I've even done some things to simulate a guy if you know what I mean. I have asked ... (206 words)

Is staying together for the kids going to hurt them in the long run?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have an issue with my husband, we don't really get along too well and it seems like we fight constantly. We got together very young. At 16 we are now both 24 and have two kids together. The fighting never stops we cant even have a conversation about what to have for dinner ... (206 words)

24 year old teacher touches me and wants to hang out. I love him!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in love with my 24 year old teacher. I am 15 so there is only 9 years apart, and if i wasnt a student it wouldnt be a big deal. This is his first year teaching at the high school and he is a amazing man. When he isnt teaching, he is just another one of the kids. In the ... (231 words)

I broke up with him, he got with another person. What is he thinking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So, I dated a guy for four months last Spring/Summer. I ended up breaking up with him because I was afraid. I felt a lot of electricity at first and then it didn't seem like he was willing to budge on some things and I was being stuborn as well. I was starting a new job soon ... (422 words)

10 years on and after so many time of saying she will give me oral it just doesn't happen!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

17 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I know this has been asked many times. I've been with my wife a little over 10 years, she has never even tryed to give me oral, never touches me. She says she will and wants to but still won't. She knows I like oral etc. I always do for her. What should I do? I get so ... (60 words)

How can I talk sexy back to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my guy is into sex and anal, and he says the next time we meet up he wants me to try me fingering him and he wants me to try to use a dildo on him. im ok with that but he does the sex and talks about it. i dont know how to respond and sound sexy with it? he wants me to say ... (94 words)

Hes clearly not going to stop. How do I tell him I know hes still watching porn?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'v written on here before, and the advise I've been given is sound advise... It's about porn. My boyfirned used to watch a lot of porn. I'd talk a lot about it to him because I've never undertood the attraction myself. I'd tried watching it with him... still couldn't get on ... (190 words)

Broke up to much ago and still can't get over her. I loved her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I dated this girl for about 10 months until our breakup two months ago. 10 months may not seem like a long time to fall in love, but this girl really got to me. She broke up because she felt "confused" because she ran into her bastard exbf right before the breakup and she got ... (305 words)

4 years. Should I stay or call it quits?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 years now, all through highschool. we just recently graduated 2 nights ago and he still has yet to spend and ounce of time with me. all he wants to do is hang out with his friends, and go out and party. now im being told that if i ... (207 words)

I want to send her a love letter to say sorry, what should I put in it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

17 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex and I have been broken up now for a few months. She broke up with me after about a year of dating and after the break up it's been a constant roller coaster. There have been times where we fought and didnt talk for a while yet other times where we were basically back ... (314 words)

My ex acts like he really likes me but says only as friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I feel so confused, rejected and embarrased right now I don't know what to do. Me and my ex went out about 3 years ago but he ended it suddenly and decided to go travelling it was awkward at first but we stayed in touch and became close friends again when he got home. He ... (327 words)

I don't trust him, is he cheating behind my back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey I am really struggling here.. My husband of almost two years is my first love and I love him o death. He gave me his password to is facebook account months ago and I sometimes check in. He used to be a major player and although we've known eachother on and off for 11 y... (187 words)

Broke up with boyfriend, does he still think of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (?) age 41-50 - Dear Aunts, I broke up with my boyfriend recently and admit that I am devastated by it. A month before that, he said to me that I mean the world to him and he cannot afford to lose me. Then the break up happened because of a big fight. I didn't actually try to convince ... (287 words)

Does he have me wrapped around his little finger?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay well im 15 years old and just left school after my gcse's which is why im slightly worried about things that could happen over the summer :/ a boy in my year whos 16 has like me for longer than a year now and we were always texting and chatting on msn but we never tal... (590 words)

I can't trust my husband. How do I stop feeling like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am just after some advice, I was hurt badly when I was younger and now I find hard to trust me husband. I hate being like this. It seems like vicious circle all time. I want attention he wont give to me as I moan at him an make him unhappy. However now I am about to loose... (106 words)

Do I need to be worried about my husband visiting our neighbour?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i've been crying all day. i really don't know what to do. let me explain. my hubbie and i went to a neighbor's party this weekend. there were about a dozen people there including my good friend vicky and her husband carl. it was good at first but we all had too much to ... (500 words)

Cure for panic attacks!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had an anxiety attack last week and didnt know what it was and so rang the emergency services. I was fine. It had been building up over a few days, my mouth had been getting tingly after sex and my heart kept speeding. I also kept feeling as though i was forcing myself to ... (156 words)

How can I turn snuggling into something more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a friend with benefits and i am wondering how could i turn good snuggling session with her into something more? like while snuggling, try and lead on to other stuff, like sex or something.... we have only hooked up, but we 'kinda joke' around n say we want to do ... (56 words)

What can I say to people who are disrespectful towards me?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I know that this is not a relationship question, but just thought I'd ask. If you have experience working in retail, this question is for you. I am a college student with about one more semester to go. My degree is going to be in Elementary Education with a concentration in... (643 words)

I found a ladys deodarant in his draw!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so.... this weekend i went to sleepover at ma bfs place. anyway i foynd a ladies deodarant in his drawer and i really dont know wat to make of it.he said he didnt know who it belonged. anyway i thru it out but now am reall wondering is he having other girls ova... (53 words)

I keep getting the urge to cheat on him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I keep getting the urge to cheat. I was his first, but I've had 7 other people over the space of 3 years. I know he loves me and it would kill me to break his heart, but sometimes we just argue and argue and I feel like we're going nowhere. I get paranoid that he's like me, ... (156 words)

Is ignoring someone a good way to break up with them?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

17 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am breaking up with my girlfriend. I plan on doing the whole ignoring treatment. I stopped talking to her, I stopped calling and I am ignoring her txt msgs. She has a feeling that I will be doing this. Is this a good method and what would be the effects of such?... (62 words)

Why am I so upset about him getting married?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I hv been working in this company from past 7 years. I have a very good bond with my boss who is going to marry soon with his girlfriend. My boss and I share a very clean and sincere but friendly relation. He (along with his family) likes my work and trust me the most in the ... (142 words)

Should I terminate this pregnancy?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - right so im pregnant and I want to keep it as i belive that we have been stupid enough to get ourselves into this mess no will we have to live with the consiquences, however my boyfriend says that were are too young (were 20)) that hes in army and never around , that we dont ... (261 words)

How do I break it to my mum that I'm dating a 19 year old guy from a different race?

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17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been unofficially dating this guy for around 2 months.. I'm 16 and he is 19, the distance between us is not short either.. I live in North West London and he lives in South East London, so it takes one hour by train to get to each others house. I'm truly happy with him, ... (378 words)

What do I say to her?

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17 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There is a girl who I think I am in love with that has a boyfriend. She is the nicest person in the world and she is really caring, so much that myself and others call her mom as a joke. she is so nice to me and everyone else that I cannot tell if she likes me secretly or is ... (216 words)

I feel our frienship may not be as good as it looks!

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17 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My friend recently went away for ten days holiday and hasn't been in touch with me on her break. During that time, my Mum and her boyfriend have been asking me several times when she'd be back, and whether she's made contact with me. The answers to both of them were negative ... (212 words)

Can a marriage survive without sexual intimacy?

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17 June 2009 (F) age 51-59 - Can a marriage survive without sexual intimacy? My husband does not want me in bed. What is wrong? He says, he has no idea what happened. Should I divorce him? He does not want to go to therapy. What else can I try,before divorce?... (50 words)

Too many girls! Too complicated!

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17 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey so i have anotherrrr problem. my gf treats me like shit and we are in the middle of a fight yet again because she lied and somehow its my fault. ok so if she doesnt come to me for once to fix it all (she never has) ill dump her. shes become unbearable. ive been talkin... (184 words)

Father of my baby wants nothing to do with me or her

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17 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my ex dumped me on news years eve just gone, but on that same day I found out I was pregnant, i told him and he just put the phone down on me. I was pretty devestated. I was 11 weeks pregnant at this point and I wanted to keep my baby, I graduate Uni thsi year as a Teacher, so ... (277 words)

How do we take things slow after our history together?

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17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When I was 15 years old I had a boyfriend, who i was with for 2 years. We never argued and were like best mates. We did our last year of school together and first year of college. After I finished college I started working full time, while my boyfriend remained at college for ... (805 words)

My relationship has ended so nasty I'm distraught!

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17 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My relationship ended in nasty way. Now hes ignoring me, im devesated and hoping one day we can work it out! We have been together for over a year and eventually we moved into together in central london. Things got so bad and worse when he wouldnt introduce me to his female ... (265 words)

His penis stinks!

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17 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I just can't take my husband's penis in my mouth as it stinks. He washes it before we begin but it still does. What should he/I do about this?... (30 words)

Is there a product like lady secret serum to make me tighter?

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17 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i am 30 years unmarried female, i have never been into any relationship before, but i am doing masturbation from last 6 years With a wooden tool due to which i think my vagina is loose, now i am getting married soon will my husband notice it, what if i am not gonna bleed on ... (98 words)

Every time we spend time together we have sex

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17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, i guess my question is simple one.... Sometimes he will just ignore me with out giving an indicataion of What i done wrong. He will break my down so badly, and later on I'll tell him about it, and then he will say i never meant it like that or you have taken it up the ... (309 words)

I have a girlfriend but like another girl too

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17 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm young only 16, but I feel that I'm more mature with relationships than people my age. I'm not looking for someone to get married to like all the other dumbasses my age act like. But it seems like whenever I'm in a relationship girls start talking to me that I had or wanted ... (109 words)

How long do I wait to come clean about my feelings for him?

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17 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am a 22 year old closeted young male who has a crush on a 37 year old gay co-worker. He is nothing more than a friend. I've come out to him a couple months ago and I'm so crazy for him. He's masculine and very fun to be around. I been with other guys and they ne... (126 words)

Does my neighbour fancy my husband?

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17 June 2009 (F)

age - i have trouble with my next door neighbour,all of this may sound stupid.i have been with my husband 18 years,we did split but we have been back together 2 years and things are going well apart from one thing,my neighbour. Her husband left her over a year ago,but they have bee... (243 words)

Why cant I get over him?

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17 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i broke up with him around december and to this day i still think of him all the time. i can't get over him. i cry all the time thinking about what we used to be and what i am now. why cant i get over him. he has a new girlfriend and he's happy. so why am i losing myself in ... (113 words)

How do I tell her I have feelings for her without chickening out?

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17 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i have never been bad with girls...but everytime i want to tell the girl i have feelings for that i want to be with her, i chicken out. half the time she is already in a relationship, so i feel even more akward. we constantly flirt, yet i still can't build up enough courage to ... (103 words)

Will she ever trust me again?

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17 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i dumped my gf cuz i didnt love her ...but deeply cared for her ...it took us 2 months to ease the addiction and we struggled a lot staying away from each other and broke all contacts for 2 months...so after 2 months of going back and forth when we both learnt to live without ... (220 words)

How do I get rid of the douche bag?

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17 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I broke up a little over a month ago. She cheated on me with some guy on spring break and a week after we broke up she hooked up with this same guy. I found out that she cheated with him after we broke up and after I heard that they made out a week after we ... (470 words)

Sex & older men

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17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 an i am attracted to a 32 year old man with cerebral palsy. And I want to have sexual relations with him when i turn 18. is that bad?... (32 words)

How can I get her to fall in love with me?

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17 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - im in love with my cousin. im dont care what people think. she doesnt know about it. i wish to tell her. she is beutiful. i dont know if she has feelings for me and that is something i want to know. how can i get her to fall in love with me because she is beutiful.... (57 words)

He abused me physically and emotionally, yet I stood up for him!

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17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my ex boyfriend and I dated for a good seven months, (i just ended it yesterday) During our relationship I put up with ALOT of BS and I mean alot!! I need to know if what I put up was abuse at all physical or verbal. *sigh* where the heck do I even begin? When w... (484 words)

I have a major crush on someone I met only once

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17 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i met this guy at my job who i started seeing on a more personaly level. after communicating with him over the phone we hooked up and we became intamate once. he made me feel brand new. when im with other ppl i think about him. now that he has moved to another state with his ... (118 words)

What do you do to shave yourself down there?

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17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im a 14 year old girl. ive been shaving my vagina for about 2 years now. first i use this trimmer thing thats originally made for the moustache but whatever and then i shave in the shower. the thing is i only shave up to were the lip is about to start i dont shave the lips only ... (102 words)

How do you know if your boyfriend slept with your roomate?

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17 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have lived with my boyfriend for almost 5 mouths now, and i have been getting this werid feeling that they have slept together. i asked my boyfriend if anything had happen with the two of them but he seid no, "why would i want to sleep with her." the roomate has been known to ... (69 words)

Does he like me? Does he like me not? Does he...

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17 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - so i like this guy, and i told him and then he asked if i thought he was hot and i said ya and he said i was too but i dont know if he likes me. what are some things i could say or do to have him start to like me or to ask me out?... (58 words)

How can I make Ensure taste better?

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17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have ensure plus the strawberry flavor because i dont like the others and i was wondering how can i make it taste better? i want to gain 15 lbs this summer so how many should i drink a day and how many meals should i eat a day? also after i have reached my weight goal what do ... (75 words)

How would you approach this?

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17 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - For the past month, I've been seeing this much older guy. He texts me everyday, takes me out on dates, we get along, tells his friends about me, told his family he met a lovely lady.. etc.. etc. He tells me he thinks I'm beautiful, smart and one of the funniest girls ... (208 words)

I might have an eating disorder

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17 June 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I think I might have an eating disorder because lately I have been only thinking about my weight. I'm almost 16 (my weight is 100 ponds and I'm 5`9) and and I make myself not eat cause I want gain any weight. Also I have made myself throw up once or twice. My boyfriend caught ... (70 words)

I'm in love with her sister!

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17 June 2009 (M)

age - I'm 58 years old, divorced and living for the past 5 years with a 49 year old lady from Mexico. She is kind and generious to her family and friends and everyone loves her alot. The problem is; for the first time in my life I fell in love, with her sister and she with me.... (56 words)

Is it all about the sex no matter what the circumstances?

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17 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I really should know better but I need impartial advice. I met a 31 year old guy May 30th in a bar, through mutual friends. We chatted and he asked me out on a date, later during that night we kissed and returned to his house for more kissing. After that he dropped me home ... (252 words)

Dumped after 4 years, no reason why, and now he's sort of leaving the door open?

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17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was dumped by my boyfriend after almost 4 years together, and never given a real reason as to why and when I have tried to talk to him he is very cold and distant almost irritated. We met a couple of weeks ago and I said what I needed to say and he was very receptive and said ... (179 words)

He is paranoid that I might cheat, due to his past experiences

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17 June 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I'm afraid that my boyfriend will get upset with me. You see, I'm Head of the Student's Council of our faculty, and this week we've been celebrating the faculty's anniversary. I had to organize a party for this Friday night, at some local club. I don't like clubs or parties, ... (353 words)

He is immature and I feel he is not worth my energy

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17 June 2009 (F)

age - I met a what appeared to be nice guy on line. He lived in a different city about 300 miles away. We connected very well and talked every night and sometimes during the day. He had been to visit me on a weekend and a holiday. We shared so much. Very well connected. Then one day ... (242 words)

What does he really think about me?

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17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years now. He works independently and I have a regular 9 to 5 job as an office assistant. I talk to him throughout the day but sometimes he doesn't answer the phone or simple tasks seem to take too long. For example, it doesn't take 2 ... (139 words)

Sometimes I feel stuck with him like I'm missing out on things

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17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So im 16 and ive had a boyfriend for a year and 3 months and we're both each others first relationship and hook up, neither of us have been with anyone else. hes always been pretty protective and would get a little mad when i talked to guys around school. when we met we were ... (331 words)

Anal sex getting me pregnant!

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17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so here is the thing, i had anal sex with my boyfriend, without a condom, he came, and everything w.e nothing happen. but then like i went to the bathroom to clean myself and instead of wiping normally (like when u go to pee) she wiped from her butt to her V zone, is it ... (70 words)

Are we incompatible sexually?

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17 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Are we incompatible? My boyfriend and I have different tastes sex wise, he loves the porno raw/release type sex all of the time and whilst I can get into this most of the time I also crave the sensual foreplay/after-play type sex that we had at the beginning of our ... (179 words)

What can we do to spice things up; and how can I convince my mom to let him stay over?

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17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months, we have not had sex and we aren't going to until we are both ready but i want him to be able to stay over night at my house with my mum being okay with it. How can i convince her to let him stay over and how can i make her ... (64 words)

She says she won't wait for me -- should I change my plans to keep her?

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17 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Aunties, My girlfriend and I of 7 long and horrible months have been talking about our futures outside of high school. Now, I want to join the military and she wont tell me what she wants to do... She has ideas... The main thing here is that she said she WILL NOT wait f... (105 words)

I want a girl to be a best friend before I fall in love

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17 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, well I'm a 17 year old male, going into my senior year next year. I've completely fallen for my best friend, who's an 18 year old girl who will be going off to college next fall. I've come to terms with the fact she doesn't love me the same way I love her. That's oka... (215 words)

I want to be taken seriously, not just for sex

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17 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok this is a weird situation and queston. well I was at work today and one of my co workers asked me if anyone has ever told me that I had seductive eyes?! well I said no not in that way. well anyway she kept on and on with it and told me I had very seductive and erotic ... (146 words)

Should I be mad that he hasn't texted me in almost 2 days? And should I go out with him?

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17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all. Ok so i met up wit a old friend from high skool and we were both in relationships but me and my bf broke up not bcuz of my old friend so abt two weeks later he broke up with his gf (claims they fought over something petty) so were supposed to go out this weekend. he ... (150 words)

Should I leave my boyfriend even though I'm scared?

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17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'd really like people's advice on this..... i have a boyfriend and we've been together for 2 years. both of us just went through our first year of college, each at different schools. our first year was heaven but college changed me, i tried new things and did cheat on him, i ... (371 words)

My husband says if I engage in a threesome just once, he'll stop the flirting and porn...

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17 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Please Help if you can! My hubby is overseas til September..since he has been gone he has been signing up on singles sites as single, going to porn sites and even sent a sex letter to a gal that is supposed to be my friend..now, I know he has needs.. well so do I but I aint ... (112 words)

Is there a good chance she will turn around and want me back?

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17 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so I was dating this girl for like 2 weeks, she had a bad relationship in the past I mean the guy hit her and cheated on her all the time. But anyways we really did fall in love with each other in that short time frame and get along so good as if we known each other for ... (153 words)

Really bizarre coincidences! What is going on here?

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17 June 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Do you have really freaky coincidences? I don't know what to think of them. It is the third time ,that I got into a relationship, and all guys were called Ronan. And they all had the same car and all had some real weird about their past. So now, I wonder if I should ... (102 words)

He flirts and plays in a 'mean' way. What should I do?

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17 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - What can a girl do when she really likes someone and can flirt away like crazy, but when the guy flirts she gets offended? Like it is easy for me to tell him personal things and he makes fun of me. He acts like he likes me, but he doesn't know how to be kind in dealing with a ... (68 words)

I DON'T want to make the wrong decision here...Who do I choose?

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17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 18 years old and i have a boyfreind who ive been with for almost 3 years on and off. i have a frend from a diffrent country who ive known just under a year, and im fallen for him and he feels the same way about me. Coz my boyfrend and i have been on and off so long, i d... (146 words)

So confused by ex boyfriend's signals.

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17 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Help! I have an exbf who keeps texting me to have sex. He is seeing someone else for the past month. I think he was cheating on me before. Anyway, he says he and this woman have just been kissing the whole month. It disgusts me that he is with her at all cause he says he... (402 words)

I'm pregnant but my ex says I must have an abortion!

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17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am pregnant and my ex boyfriend wants me to get an abortion. He is very stern about the idea and says that i am ruining his life and i am ruining his family goals. i am 19, he is 25. We split up about 5 months ago and then tried working things out and then this happens. ... (139 words)

Flirting with the manager but now I'm developing feelings for him.

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17 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for two years now, and like all relationships we've had our ups and downs, and he cheated on me in the first year. It's been a couple of months, which i have started talking to my manager at work, basic flirting, of which he has a girlfriend too. But ... (127 words)