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writes: Hi,I had met a wonderful guy from internet, we date once, on the whole it was nice, he's a gentle and caring guy, I shall say he is a potential guy that I'm longing for...as I'm a abit shy towards new friend, most of the time he talked and I just listen, he shared with me about his career, family, friends and hobbies etc..and he told me he is planning to get a new house of his own, sounds like he wish to settle down asap!After the dinner he sent me home and dropped me a msg thanks me for meeting him for the dinner.The next day he called me and we chat for a while, as usual, he talked most, after that night, no call/msg from him for 3 days so I called him, he sounds happy to receive my call, I can sense that he sounds lazy or tired whilst I talked to him ofcourse he was polite as usual, he called me again one week later, this time I tried to be relax and talked more, we had a good time sharing IT knowledge, before he ended the call, he asked me whether am I available to meet up the following week for dinner, he promised to call again to fix the date but 3 days passed, no call from him at all, probably he was too busy, he told me this week it would a crazy week...Could anyone please "enlighten" me, I'm confuse am I being to "cold" towards him that make him hestiate, to be frank, I'm poor in handling guy, I have no confident to hold a man heart due to my unlucky encountered with guys somehow I'm trying to protect myself from being get hurt, bascially I don't easily trust guys anymore, thus, I would hide my feeling even I'm interested...sad!!Lousy girl,Thank you
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reader, shania  +, writes (16 June 2009):
 Im taking a wild guess here because i dont know what this guy is thinking but i really dont think he's that into you.The reason i think that is he's not consistent enough. He says one thing then does another. If i was you i would stop all contact with this chap and start meeting new people...get out and see the real world instead of relying on the internet for blokes, because if he was really keen on you then he would of being rushing for another date...not making excuses.
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