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writes:i have an eye for my cousin who i have been attracted to for 2 years. she is beautiful and i am 1 year older than her. I dont see her often because she lives 4 hours from me. how do i ask her out without making a fool of myself and ruining our relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2011): Hey man I've had the same problem as you! What I've done is just get to know her really well get real close to her get her trust make her feel like your always there for her! Me and my cousin ended up bein' real close I knew I could tell her anythin' and trust her she felt the same bout me... So I built up the courage to tell her how I felt... And suprisingly she felt the same way now were closer than ever! Try this and then its up to you tho to ask her out
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2009): you won;t be able to do so without making it awkward, and she's family for crying out loud.
don't do it.
find someone else to care about.
that would ruin your family.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (16 June 2009):
 hun you're too young and like it's not legal it's like insest because you are family. you guys are related. your family certainly won't approve. and do you know if she feels the same? she may just see you as her cousin nothing more. she probably sees you just as family. i don't mean any of that to sound mean or rude.Hope this helps. x x x x
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reader, jalmetha +, writes (16 June 2009):
 Dude, she is your cousin. There is NO WAY you could ask her out and not make a fool out of yourself or not destroy your relationship.
Beleive me, she will tell your entire family and everyone will start to look at you like you some kind of perv and will keep their small children away from you.
You need to put her out of your mind. There is no way this will every be acceptable. Try to move on.
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