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writes:I am his first girlfriend, his first kiss ect. Im 16 he is 21. We've know each other since I was born but I cant help but be jelous of the girls he used to like. He's only like two other girls, They both have boyfriends and he rarely sees them but they are still friends. I know he would never actually do anything but I feel horrible when ever I think about him liking them. Its stupid an immature but does anyone know how I can get over this stupidity
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reader, Ms.Helper  +, writes (16 June 2009):
 I'm exactly the same, it makes me feel sick! I spose it is immature and silly, but he's with you now, be grateful :)
I'm sure you've liked other people too, it'd surely be weird if he's 21 and has never been interested in another girl, afterall, you weren't together then.
Just look on the positive side, he's with you, he's happy with you, by moaning and annoying him is just pushing him away and eventually he'll get sick of it because it's something he cannot change. It happened, back then it had nothing to do with you.
I understand how you feel, but seriously it's worth coming to terms with if this lad's worth it.
Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2009): what are you worried about. you should be smiling!!! :D check this out!! you said he liked these two girls and they both had boyfriends and that you are his FIRST girlfriend, first kiss and e.t.c. well girlie, does this clarify everything for you!! YOU HAVE HIM HONEY! they dont!! they should be jealous of you! they are friends to him, and you are his GIRLFRIEND! Come on now, thats not even anything to be worried about now is it!! smile and be happy!!!! :D
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